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Or maybe not making it either and being adults making the world a better place for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:36 PM
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So we’re not supposed to make things better all of a sudden for everyone or do you mean something else if so what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:51 PM
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Yeah I’m gonna be starting soon but it still doesn’t change the fact they aren’t fixing themselves this is problem with the world now a bunch of people telling victims to work through it but not the perpetrators they don’t need to do better nor have expectations to do better and I’m not the only guy there are billions of us and also the inverse women go through the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:14 PM
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Lol I’ve met them all platonically they are family, friends, coworkers, and etc it’s very easy to say but hard to actually do. If I could leave my mom and aunt the two women that raised me and I love deeply despite everything they’ve done I would but it’s not that easy man this is real life it’s always seems easiest when you it’s not your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:47 PM
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Ok great I’ve experienced the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:23 PM
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How you can make sweeping generalizations about the opposite sex but find it hard to give advice about/to them because you need to account for nuance but you don’t do that when talking about said observations of the opposite sex as if there isn’t more that plays into how things are presented especially since you aren’t a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:21 AM
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I never said you could it was just a clarifying question before I made a snap judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:42 AM
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So you want men to keep making the mistake by placing women on a pedestal and the effects of it happening over and over forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:28 AM
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We’re humans we can’t let anything end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:21 AM
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Because you still interact with them in all other facets of society wdym? This is the same brain dead answer that women give about why should they even care about men at all because that’s not who they surround themselves with nor are they involved with them in any way. As if you live in a bubble with regards to voting, schools, safety, workplace, local community, and etc when in reality you don’t and are affected by the opposite sex in all ways so yes you should want the opposite sex(both sides…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:19 AM
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Are you gonna give your advice on what you think should be done to change things for the better on both sides? [u/Lemon_gecko](u/Lemon_gecko)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:56 AM
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Just because they say it doesn’t mean it’s true I’ve had women call me a misogynist and accuse of sexism but have no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:52 AM
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Lol you do know the other side of that is female loneliness epidemic there are 8 billion people(mostly women by population) in the world and not all women want to be a lesbian or stay single for the rest of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:49 AM
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Very much so!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:48 AM
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Couldn’t have been said any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:43 AM
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You only mentioned men in social skills as if women’s social skills have improved everyone’s social skills have decreased in quality and frequency pretty ignorant to just say it’s only men as if dating, marriage, and raising children doesn’t take two people both have to be invested and try. A lot of straight women cannot flirt nor socialize with the opposite sex too majority of social media is consumed by women the incel behavior doesn’t just affect men stop with the misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:10 PM
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But what do you determine as success because money isn’t the only or main metric nor is everyone who is rich a piece of shit there are A LOT of ways to make money and not even be born or win it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:05 AM
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I would say the “All assholes aren’t successful men but all successful men are assholes isn’t that bad of a rule of thumb” isn’t true because what do you determine as success and how much of said thing? If you narrowed it down to rich people, elites, right wing, or whoever you may have meant that could be a true statement and everything else you said I 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:03 AM
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You said they would dump responsibilities on to other people if they ever got full custody and the other side of that convo is only going to be mothers are so much better these fathers are so shitty. How am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:45 PM
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Yeah because all mothers are good so they should primary custody right away.(Sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:39 PM
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It may to you but people are allowed to make their own decisions she’s an adult and clearly very happy so why should anyone care and if she wasn’t she made her own life no one forced her. But this wasn’t the main argument we were talking about though I get what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:48 AM
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We discussed the same thing I misremembered once I’m human not gonna make me feel a way I’m still very much right about everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:40 AM
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It’s not that much of a difference when we’ve been having a conversation about the SAME exact thing I stayed on topic but merely remembered incorrectly sue me I’m human boo hoo. REMINDER I pulled TWO(1 and 2) sources to show you based on your quote “Most men get laid” which showed that most men aren’t having sex and then you said “They’re Still Fucking” aka moving the goals post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:33 AM
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I never said men did nor was I ever defending women getting the same validation as women you keep saying I did I never did! You are batshit crazy seriously, STOP IT! You literally said “No they don’t. Most Men Get Laid” that is literally my translation: “Men are having lots of sex” which is what YOU said! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:00 AM
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Yes change the goal post from men are having lots of sex this is why I’m right to well their having sex so my argument still stands just not as much which allows me to not admit I’m wrong because again I never said THEY WERN’T having sex I said they WERN’T having as much sex as you said. Lady you have issues seriously I don’t think you’re doing well I think you are going through some personal issues(or whatever they may be) and taking it out on me because you keep using words with the wrong defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:35 PM
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Lol how did my stats say most men are having sex when the headlines for both read:”Sexless America: Young Adults Are Having Less Sex” and “New study finds an increase in sexlessness among young American adults”. No one said you need to understand men but if you want to make it through life and have an easier time it makes sense to understand the opposite sex because you will be interacting with them on a daily basis and they simple fact you SHARE EARTH WITH THEM. Same old Grindr plug are you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:28 PM
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Lol so you don’t even wanna admit when I’m right now you’ve reduced your answer from “Men are having lots of sex” to “They’re still fucking” as if the percentages aren’t a VERY BIG difference 😂 Lol you keep harping on validation and attention guess that’s why you keep responding cause you need some. No I never said men need/want the same validation and attention women get but it seems like you can never be shown the contrary cause it’s you’re way or no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:26 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:46 PM
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You’re brain dead seriously, I just gave you two links showing the contrary that most men and women are having LESS SEX. How do men act like victims? Because when we get treated like shit then want said woman or women to be held accountable is somehow “Playing Victim”? Lol what bluff did you call you’re deranged LADY! I haven’t once defended men and their disgusting behavior I think both men and women are all around disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:16 PM
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So why are you saying most men get sex if you know all of this? How is the solution Grindr when most men aren’t gay or bi? I truly do think your one of those secretly gay homophobes because your the only one bringing this up constantly. You don’t even pay attention you’re just unhappy and trying to argue.😂 Thankfully I love to argue too and I live in REALITY cause if I didn’t this would actually hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:09 PM
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Yeah I said men don’t get much sex and here that makes most of your arguments null and void. I don’t understand your last sentence you make no sense. Wdym lower my standards my standards aren’t low but my expectations are there is a big difference and I am focusing on better/more friends since i actually have the ability to make a lot of money at 23 and travel the world. I’m either gonna live in Mexico City or perpetual traveler for the next two years I’m leaving next February. You’re the only o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:59 PM
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Why didn’t you find a way to mention Grindr in more answers that’s your go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:56 PM
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The fact I agreed with you and now your still trying to act as if I’m the bad person just shows how disgusting of a person you are because even when someone shares the same viewpoint and agrees with you somehow you still find a way to argue. No I don’t associate men in that manner you do realize humans speak in multiple ways speech, verbage used, facial expressions, tone, and actions. Me making assumptions about how you meant it is not my fault nor show I have some internalized homophobia you kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:43 PM
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Lol how is that a homophobic rage and how have I not addressed it directly I haven’t been mad at all during our convo? I just don’t see how Grindr which is an app for Bi and Gay men is a solution when a small percentage of men are actually Bi and Gay so what would be the solution for the men who aren’t cause Grindr isn’t the answer for everyone but you just keep saying I don’t agree when it’s not realistic for me to fully agree because that’s NOT all men. That’s like saying for the women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:05 PM
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lol I didn’t think you’d respond 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:53 PM
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All you keep doing is focusing on half of the point I make instead of acknowledging everything I said then going on and on about Grindr again like I know already you suggested 50 times I’m already on it 😂. Idk why you don’t just download it too if you wanna keep talking about it because I rarely go on dating apps I like IRL more so because it feels more comfortable and real. Have you ever gotten a serious relationship from dating apps and how often do you use them because I just downloaded Grind…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:12 PM
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No I called you a man hating bigot because you keep making presumptions about me and NOT attacking the points I make with actual responses instead you decide to troll by just suggesting Grindr in some unfunny backhanded way NOT because you simply just suggested Grindr(great app btw thank you) but nice try trying to change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:05 PM
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I’m not insulting you when every single point I make you just go back to Grindr because you think it bothers me(even after I said I was Bi) instead of explaining why my point is wrong and/or right then adding any other context you may want to. If you were a serious person then you’d respond to my actual points or just stop responding instead of running from them by just mentioning Grindr. Now please stop bothering me I’m getting a lot of matches right now on Grindr and I want to give them my ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:59 PM
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Lol I’m good you’re just trolling I thought you were a serious person. I’m signing up for Grindr right now as you’re reading this.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:54 PM
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I think talking like them to you is just words coming out of man’s mouth you are acting like a misandrist right now if you wanna keep making assumptions. This is the problem I have with women you can’t treat random men like shit because of what men have done in your life and expect them to be thankful or act in whatever way you want them to when in reality your doing the exact same shit men do to women that fixes ZERO! I’ve been treat like shit my entire life by women platonically yet I don’t go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:48 PM
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You are just lumping me in with most guys we’re not even having an actual conversation you’re just trying to shove your beliefs on me and say I fit in this without actually acknowledging what I’m saying you seem insufferable. NO I DO NOT think being gay is wrong I’m a masculine bi man I don’t think it’s right on either side people should live their lives how they want to since no one’s sexuality affects anyone except them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:38 PM
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Yeah if we’re gonna be equal let’s be equal across most of the board I agree there are double standards that shouldn’t be challenged ever but I don’t think this is one of them. We’re both human adults with ranging libidos would they rather he sleep around, he be a virgin, he use a toy + his imagination, or what exactly because if it’s a dealbreaker I understand so what would you rather he do instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:36 PM
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You can’t just single out guys when you say this though it’s not realistic I’ve met more asshole women(platonic only) in my life than men it’s like asking why do liars lie idk but they need to do better I’m doing my part as a guy but I can’t force another man to be an adult same way you can’t another women. Most men do NOT get laid you can look up how much less sex guys are having across the board and how much more women + men are lonely. Why do you have to be disrespectful as if being gay is ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:31 PM
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Is using a vibrator and fantasy a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:24 PM
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You’ll catch more with honey than vinegar this just makes you sound bitter and hateful more than the honest even if what you say is correct and I believe it is true. You also have to understand most women go after a small percentage of men most guys aren’t chosen the same as most women the problem isn’t just what your saying but also the fact most people refuse to date on their level whether that may be looks or/and socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:23 PM
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That’s a lot of people nowadays most of social media is women not men and I think social media/internet is the main cause + lack of good parenting most parents don’t try due to a number of reasons. “Instagram got you bitch.” ~ Kanye West
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:11 PM
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lol I wasn’t pretending because that’s not how I read it but I’m fine admitting I’m wrong about this. I’m not still right in the other/second conversation we’re having.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:10 PM
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Lol stop acting your all the sudden offended you’ve been responding back n forth with me for two days now and I was not arguing with your personal statements because I never attacked them stop it. This sub isn’t just for women and I can scroll through any Reddit channel then respond if I so choose it’s a free app.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:59 PM
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He didn’t say that like I’ve said multiple times already it doesn’t mean whatever you say it is and I’ve given example after example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:53 PM
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Yes but last time I checked I never said you did I’ve been saying these are choices people need to make on their own and whomever/whatever they need for motivation(e.g.: romantic relationship) is perfectly fine but it doesn’t mean that nothing needs to change about them or that they can’t do better in their life no one’s perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:52 PM
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Again that’s not what it means at all you’re looking at it one dimensional as if when someone says something you can’t use discernment and critical thinking to see if you actually need to change or not by being self aware and not above reproach NOT changing who you are at your core and what you believe(assuming nothing crazy).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:49 PM
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Ok and that’s fine good for you. But that doesn’t mean anything there are people who NEED to change and a potential or current significant other helps push them. There’s a woman who was a former Flyers cheerleader and her current husband whom she has 1-2 kids with and seem pretty happy was a former drug addict that was addicted for years and tried many times to get clean with his wife(girlfriend at the time) helped him get clean not only for himself but her and them as a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:47 PM
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No I’m sure the stuff your saying is true I have no reason to think otherwise it just baffles me because I’ve only experienced and seen the opposite with platonic only women in my life never have I gotten this romantically though I’ve heard a bunch about women acting the same romantically or men doing exactly what your saying just never directly which is why I think their childish adult assholes if they act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:10 PM
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But that’s not what their asking their is a very big difference between changing who you are at your core VS changing aspects of yourself that need improvement for whatever whether that’s what you eat, how much you eat, do you workout, how much you drink, being more pleasant to be around, or etc there are so many more things. Nothing is wrong with changing aspects of yourself for whatever reason/motivation you need if it is truly detrimental to you in some way but it’s NOT ok to change and sacri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:05 PM
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I think changing simply because of potential can be and is a reason people change there are 8 billion people so i definitely believe people do. I’m planning on working through some of the problems i got from my childhood in a few months and my reason is simply to be a better leader for my business and my employees which may sound simple and small to you but I don’t think it is I don’t want to get in peoples way, become jaded/egotistical/asshole, think I know everything, or/and etc but wouldn’t c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:43 AM
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Lol I’m perfectly fine and no this isn’t personal at all it’s Reddit everyone is in charge of their own life that’s why I believe people’s reason/motivation doesn’t matter nor should be judge as long as it is within reason(not sure what wouldn’t be off the top of my head). I’m just trying to emphasize some words but it seems like it’s coming off as if I’m yelling 😂 sorry if you read it that way didn’t mean it. No one has refused to change or did change for me because like I said I DON’T want any…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:19 AM
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Are you saying it’s hard for people to reciprocate vulnerability cause they just view it as weakness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:13 AM
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They sound like asshole adult children still to me you don’t have to agree. Why did you say your husband didn’t listen well as if he was like the other men but then said he listened and didn’t bicker he just did what needed to be done and followed up with you? That doesn’t sound like he’s the same just sounds like if he did both it wasn’t explained well at one point(usually communication for most people including me) because if he did the right thing in other situations but not a few or whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:12 AM
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Yes and SO WHAT? Some people don’t mind changing aspects of themselves to meet the right person YOU don’t have to do that YOU are your own person. People can change or not change for whatever reason they want that’s like asking someone why would you turn down a job that pays you well to keep one where you struggle because they want to NOT you. I’ve said the entire conversation people should NOT change who they are deep down but ONLY change aspects of themselves they believe needs to change to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:54 AM
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You’re saying it as if that better life doesn’t factor in said other person or people and that somehow it cannot be both things that we’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:45 AM
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No not at all but feel free to keep projecting I prefer a women who is herself while also being willing to change aspects to be the best version of herself but either way I’m not involved in the decision it’s all on her. I’m just trying to explain the difference to everyone changing your actual personality and what you believe vs changing aspects of yourself so that you can be the best version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:32 AM
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The parting your hair wasn’t actually serious advice it’s just an example to show how wide the spectrum of changing yourself can be NOT who you are deep down. Why are you criticizing the motivations/reasons people have to do better? I don’t think it’s wrong to change for a potential partner, future children, current children, or etc. There’s a couple from Philly who’s wife was a former flyers cheerleader her husband was a deep addict yet he changed for her now there very happy and have two child…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:29 AM
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No I think it’s 100% possible it’s just what you said about men can’t hear advice and need joyful passive aggression especially from women, don’t want to be around smart/capable women, women who are better than them at things, and don’t like directness. Because I am the exact opposite of everything you’ve said and I can never get 100% honesty from the women in my life they seem to always lie both mostly small lies with some big ones nor am I ever threatened by how capable/smart/etc a women is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:07 AM
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Again no one is saying not to be yourself but there are things some people have to change in order to meet a worthy suitor and also being worthy for them. E.g: Losing weight, stop smoking cigarettes or weed, stop drinking so much, address your addiction issues, be a more pleasant person(very general I understand many things that go into it), and etc. Just because you have to change in order to meet the right person doesn’t mean you need to somehow sacrifice who you are deep down change can be as…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:03 AM
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I’m gonna be honest that’s not a man thing that’s a human thing. We can exchange countless stories of both sexes doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:51 AM
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So reading between the lines I assume you don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 AM
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Yes very much so, I don’t think the problem is are either of the opposite sexes learning about eachother it’s are they learning what is actually true. I’ve looked all through this channel some are true some aren’t i can’t give a definitive majority because I’d have to look at everything but in general across the internet there is definitely more misinformation for both sexes than actual true information to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 AM
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There’s a difference between faking being yourself and trying to appeal to a potential sutor. No one said you need go to whatever extreme first pops into your head but it makes sense same as men trying to appeal more to women and understand them better so they can navigate relationships with women better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:47 AM
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I 100% disagree I don’t think I’m the exception either I’ve never heard or seen men doing any of the things you say this just sounds like your friends(or whatever relationship you may have with these men) are a bunch of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:44 AM
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Your saying this as if the inverse isn’t true intimate partner violence from rape, stalking, or domestic abuse is done more by women than men. Again I don’t think OP was saying it it’s a way that is like this is the hack or you’ll live a better life this way I took it as this is sad fact of life that can happen but it doesn’t mean it should nor should it be promoted because you just put both men and women in a position where there isn’t respect, love, admiration, and many other things needed for…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:07 PM
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Marry someone with a similar libido to yours and plan for sex to stay the same in pre + post marriage and actually get someone beforehand which involves questions, common sense, discernment, personal agency, critical thinking, communication, honesty, watching vocab/tone/facial expressions/actions/what they say, and more. Marriage Counseling + Communication especially if things change and expect them to change then plan for both with or without children included. That’s a really simple and easy p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:30 PM
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Lol that’s not what I’m saying at all. I’m saying you are responsible 100% of the time regardless but you should not beat yourself up if you tried hard vs if you didn’t try at all. But the whole point of doing everything in your power to make sure you succeed and hit the goal(s) you want is to be ok with the fact that you can STILL FAIL even if you do everything right. This isn’t fantasy land we live in the real world everyone has the same amount of time I do and everyone can bend their world in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:23 PM
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You still skipped over the fact I said that these people can have family and friends that care for them as if they won’t ever protect them or that somehow you aren’t smart enjoin to determine who is best and who isn’t. There is such thing as vetting people asking them a bunch of questions or getting a family/friend to do so for you and help along the way if things are that severe but that still doesn’t leave you in a position to where you can’t determine anything on your own just that you need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:02 PM
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I am kind of one of those men I definitely want attractive women(to me) and bubbly personality is cool I guess idk but I don’t care about the rest of that even if she has a little bit of ambition great I can hire someone for the rest of what you mentioned since I would rather her just work a part time job at least to stay busy while we spend the rest of our time together since I don’t want kids. I know older guys(Above 60 I believe and I’m in my early 20’s) who have money also that are single an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:11 PM
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I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:36 AM
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That’s good I’m glad to hear you’re getting better I truly think if you keep working you’ll meet him one day just have to keep pushing in the right direction and being ok with yourself because you love yourself and that you don’t need love but want it then I believe you’ll get it I wish you the absolute best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:46 AM
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How do I diminish men when I’m the one calling you out for only focusing on women when I’ve been trying to talk about men and women together stop trying to flip the argument as if I’m NOT trying to say that men and women are sexually and need to be acknowledged in the same this is like trying to say slavery was worse than the holocaust as if you can’t just acknowledge both while focusing on the affects and how to fix it. This is not true you said it is done exclusively by women so like saying me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:42 AM
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All of this sounds sad and beautiful. If I may offer a little bit of pushback it doesn’t sound like you were super intentional when dating on who you want like a list of at max 10 non negotiables which don’t have to include preferences or that you were going on a bunch of dates to find out what you would like if still unsure and including who your right for. I understand you have a lot of difficulty but you can still get better as single women understand yourself better, be more diligent and int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:32 AM
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Dummy there are women rapists they rape both men and women WTF are you talking about? You keep diminishing male sexual assault victims by only focusing on women to create a straw man argument as if male sexual assault victims are lesser than compared to female sexual assault victims. You are fucking crazy I’m arguing with you like this because you’re fucking wrong and you’re shitting on men to big up women! I don’t any of this shit personal at all cause I don’t do any of the shit the men you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:23 AM
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Yes and No there are definitely men who want to do that and take care of a women + can afford it I don’t think there is anything wrong with them that’s pretty insulting. Everyone wants a different relationship dynamic in terms of how they split chores or gender roles or non traditional it’s lots of different ways people work out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:20 AM
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Again you’re diminishing male sexual assault victims as if they aren’t less believed than women or real problems men face too by saying focus on this percentage of women to create a skewed argument and you literally say men are the problem then insult me and my life experience while also evading my questions you’re a hypocrite. Keep talking don’t run now!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:11 AM
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Lol how can you say men have low standards and now say why don’t men drop their standards I’m very confused you don’t make sense? Please fix the grammatical errors and spell checks because I am guessing at what you’re saying. I agree that this isn’t something good but it doesn’t seem he was saying/framing it like this is a cheat code or double standard of some sorts just a reality and I’m only talking about what I get from this. Lol read through other posts on here that I comment on bud I’m not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:49 AM
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The skew is definitely 100% NOT one sided!I’m not saying men don’t get into relationships for consistent pussy but women also get into relationships for a consistent lifestyle/image or children or benefits being a blank or whatever. So I don’t get what’s your point in bringing that up against men if you wanna pedestalize women just do it don’t hide it in a roundabout way?There is a female version of a lot of male problems we are both literally the problem I don’t see men as better or women as be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:29 AM
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There are men who don’t take advantage of ugly women because they are desperate enough or broke enough or whatever enough to stick it out rather than leave plus beauty is subjective there are plenty of “ugly” couples who work. Yeah definitely all on men we always take advantage of women never ever could a women not do the same or worse to a man “if he can see you then he’s probably plotting something so steer clear!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:21 AM
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Yeah I agree but desperation isn’t one sided there are also a lot of women that date these women knowing exactly who they are and think marriage &/or kids will help. I’ve have literally seen women say “Maybe if I marry him he’ll stop drinking so much” or men say “Maybe if I marry her she’ll take me seriously and stop sleeping around”. Desperation comes in many stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:19 AM
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Very very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:18 AM
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What are the bigger problems that you encounter when dating men or was it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:15 AM
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A lot of people aren’t comfortable dying alone or are too prideful to change their expectations, bar set, type of person, & etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:15 AM
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How hard have you tried to date and vet them? If they all left quickly what did you, how are you mentally, how do you treat the men in your life, what is the verbage/tone/words you say to men, have you worked on yourself and actually looked outward, have you seeked out people that would be ok, and many many more questions. I’ll help you in honesty if you want not even joking or being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:13 AM
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That’s a human thing dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:07 AM
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Would you want to be a man and why? No I would not want to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:06 AM
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I don’t think he ever said that seems like your putting words in his mouth instead of asking a clarifying question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:05 AM
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I would say for women that are attractive some or a lot(not really sure) of the “undesirable” women don’t get chosen and are as lonely/miserable/depressed as lonely men. I will say I think ugly women can always find a man doesn’t mean he’s gonna meet your expectations or that your expectations are real or that there won’t be any other problems but it’s much higher in my opinion than lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:03 AM
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And narcissistic, lazy, egotistical, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:00 AM
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Wdym it already is in life you just don’t know when I’ll turn south unless you can see that you are in immediate danger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:00 AM
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What are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:57 AM
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I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:55 PM
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I agree I’m just saying if you don’t want to adjust then you should find someone much closer to you because that would make dating a lot easier across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:07 PM
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Yes that is evident to what she responded with already thank you for re stating the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:31 PM
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No your 100% wrong and I would’ve never thought this if I didn’t hear + see this with my own eyes. I have a family friend(her children) is a really established woman in the medical field she became a dean of nursing at a very prestigious university. She was married young had kids in late 20’s or early 30’s and I asked her how did you juggle everything since neither of you were able to be there as much as you wanted? She told me it wasn’t about how much time you spend but what you do in said time…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:22 PM
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Just because a majority of women initiate divorce doesn’t mean they’re in the right nor that they weren’t contributing to the downfall of the marriage and also you do know most of the divorces happening are due to money problems which could be so many different things whether it’s financial illiteracy, gambling problems, lack of ambition, lying about finances, secret debt, not taking debt seriously, or etc. Just look at Caleb Hammer Chanel on YouTube and you’ll see couples(gay and straight) it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:03 PM
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It’s referring to the bottom paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:53 PM
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So you think because you did all the work that somehow you’re not supposed to be blamed and that life is supposed to automatically work out for you? There are Olympic athletes that worked their whole lives trained day in day out yet they failed who are they to blame not the coach not God not anyone except themselves. What about aspiring cops, doctor, accountant, lawyers, judges, entrepreneurs, and etc when they fail even after they worked so hard for a long time guess who….themselves. Lol it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:08 AM
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Why is that we need to agree on that I never said you can predict nor was I ever trying to imply that? I said you do everything in your power to swing the pendulum in your favor that is what my advice shows and in all honesty that is the entirety of life nothing is guranteed. If your man didn’t step up blame yourself same thing I’d tell a man if his wife was doing this shit I would’ve said how’d you not know ahead of time especially since most people live with eachother before marriage. The SO c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:37 AM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:33 AM
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I’ve been thinking about that a lot more but it also makes me feel like why do I need a relationship if I’m pretty good financially for my age being early 20’s and I’ll be even better later on I don’t see why I’d have a relationship if I can outsource almost everything including child rearing by hiring a nanny at birth and shipping them off to boarding school(I’m not having kids just showing how far it can go).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:27 AM
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Lol no there are people whose family will tell the truth I’ve seen that in real life both personally and not. Lol how is it childish to say yeah if you vet hard enough you’ll hopefully find someone who is best for you. None of this is guaranteed lol that’s like if you said studying hard enough doesn’t guarantee you’ll pass well of course not but it puts be in the best possible position to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:23 AM
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Putting your relationship before your children doesn’t mean you need to neglect them, fuck them over, let them suffer, or etc if you are confused please read and listen to people who do this because they will be able to give actual real life examples so you understand. I didn’t discuss sex not sure why your mentioning it because I’m discussing both men and women as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:16 AM
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Yes you can predict it. The same you can predict whether someone will be a great employee, teammate, business partner, friend, and etc by asking someone about their history, getting to know their friends + family, paying attention, listen to the words/actions/verbage/tone/facial expressions, and etc. That’s why you supposed to ask the best questions regarding who you are and what you want for a first date to sift through then as you progress you add more and more heavier questions + context. Aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:40 AM
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Ok, I still trust my gut I think you’re hiding something cause none of what you’ve said makes sense but either way not my business and I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:09 AM
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Idk whether your cheating or whatever I just believe your hiding something cause it’s weird to be in a relationship that I assume is loving and long term yet you find it difficult to be honest about something as simple as Mario Kart like somehow you can’t find another video game, game, or shared activity outside of sex that you both can enjoy not just him. Lol that’d be funny and sad to see a divorce over Mario kart and I think your reaching I’ve only ever said I believe your hiding something no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:23 AM
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You can just find another video game, game, or hobby to play that you both enjoy what are you talking about? Your acting like being honest about not enjoying Mario Kart is gonna be go badly. There is definitely more your hiding without a doubt in my mind. You’re trying to conflate what I said to a different convo I never said you had more to spill or needed to say your truth. The only thing I think you need to say is you don’t like Mario Kart but what I do believe personally is that you’re hidin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:14 AM
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If it’s not that deep then why not just tell the truth? There are things that you think doesn’t matter but he thinks does and vice versa this is why romantic relationships suck because everyone always acts like their partner is obligated to stay and takes them for granted instead of just saying the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:09 AM
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If it’s not that deep why not just tell the truth? When it becomes difficult to tell the truth about the most simplistic things and people say it’s not that deep they are almost always hiding some bigger shit if not will be soon enough because if you can’t be honest about shit that doesn’t matter why would someone expect you to be honest about things that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:04 AM
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I wouldn’t think so if you set expectations ahead of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:02 AM
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Lol no it isn’t, just because a bunch of women say men are bad or the problem doesn’t mean it’s true. Hitler said Jews are bad and need to be exterminated doesn’t mean it’s true. You can even replace Jews and say blacks, women, or etc. YES there are a small amount of men dating a large pool of women. Most women only go for a small percentage of men and tend to date up so that lowers the pool. Yes slippage/laziness due to comfortability very much happens I know everyones human I expect that but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:00 AM
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To invest in your relationship in whatever way that may be for you exactly. Sticking to a joint routine, date nights, shared hobbies/activities, and etc it depends on the relationship but those are some. If you are really curious read more on Reddit and Google to hear from people who’ve lived it much more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:52 AM
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I wasn’t talking about you I didn’t think you were referring to yourself in the first place. I find that hard to believe that a competent man or women just switches up like that so i believe they were never competent to begin with. No one just switches up like that how did you not have very hard long extensive conversations about marriage, your future, finances, debt, vices, health, genetics, mental health, addiction, and etc before even talking about kids there’s a whole bunch of shit to discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:46 AM
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I’m not saying neglect nor did I suggest that. I said put your relationship before the kids because if you don’t you’ll end up in a resentful and miserable marriage which will then fuck up the kids. Plus you’re both grown adults even if there is limited time to spend together doing whatever you’ll enjoy the fact you continue doing that instead of totally neglecting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:37 AM
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If your husband acts like a child I blame you for your situation cause there’s no way you didn’t know. Humans communicate in four ways verbally/speech, tone, vocabulary used, and facial expressions. How did you not know your husband doesn’t wipe his own ass, how’d you not know he treats women like shit, how’d you not know he was a racist, how’d you not know he was sexist, and etc. I just don’t believe that anyone is that good of a liar that they can go on for years and trick you everyone knows m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:17 AM
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That’s why you need to set expectations early before the marriage and before the kids. You also should be putting your relationship before the children otherwise sex I’ll just be a long list of shit your both neglected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:11 AM
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Great Advice, Thank You!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:06 AM
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Kids, finances, religion, or etc there are a number of reasons why men stay men and women aren’t that different in terms of why they stay in a marriage. Do you not set these expectations at the very beginning of the relationship and set your expectations? Because me reading that assuming this was after you’ve been in the relationship that would break my heart I’d feel like shit but if you said that pre relationship/post first sexual experience with each other I’d be ok with it and figure out how…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:04 AM
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Why are you acting like these women aren’t grown adults that make their own decisions? You can have a conversation about women doing better and not talk about how shitty men are or how they can do better just focus on the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:58 AM
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The same can be said for women who want children and/or marriage. What’s the overall point you’re trying to make including the comments you’ve made?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:56 AM
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No people do there’s 8 billion people and 350-400 million(including illegals) of them are in America. Just read through Reddit and you’ll see they exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:50 AM
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What do you think the solution would be? Why not put your relationship before the children since the kid benefits from the better your relationship is and the better you communicate + express your emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:47 AM
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But why would you have children and then neglect the two people who made them and that have the biggest impact on them? Your relationship affects the kids in a big way so why not figure out a way to care for your kids and focus on each other. I think the relationship should become before the children otherwise you’ll end up resentful, hateful, and etc then either divorce or a very unhappy marriage for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:43 AM
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Did you make a mistake in the last sentence I don’t understand? Because everyone is bad at everything at one point and so they get better slowly you shouldn’t be expected to know what to do or how to treat your SO in a marriage especially if your last one failed everyone is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:42 AM
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I think that’s something more medical going on I’m gonna be honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:38 AM
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I don’t think they do I don’t think women realize that men do. It’s just if you can’t get it out on the street single and now you’re in a relationship you have different expectations since you have access very easily. Which is why everyone should find someone compatible sex wise instead of causing problems in relationships and wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:37 AM
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I agree no reason to breakup simply cause you can’t have sex due to medical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:34 AM
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You do realize you can raise your EIQ just like your IQ? This just sounds like you gave up man it’s really fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:14 AM
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None of this made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:12 AM
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No, if you’re a virgin just be honest and don’t think that means rush to have sex there is no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:05 AM
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Just don’t lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:01 AM
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Why pretend though you could just tell him you don’t enjoy it then do something you both enjoy so then you’re not lying to him? This just seems like you justify lying in any way because it makes him happy or it protects him when in all reality you’re just adverse to telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:58 AM
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What’s wrong with being intrusive? I would think you’d want everything out in the open so you know if this person truly loves you for you and not just your representative your carefully crafted over the years because of your shame, immaturity, and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:53 AM
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Just because someone does it doesn’t mean it’s right and if your excuse is just well men do it so why can’t I shows your immaturity and shame around it. It’s fine if you don’t want to answer but don’t expect someone not to have the right to want to date you or divorce you if they find out years later you lied. There are A LOT of men who would date women that were escort, prostitutes, whores, and etc because they don’t care yet a lot of women refuse to tell the truth so they end up dating men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:51 AM
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If you’re ok with lying in a romantic relationship you shouldn’t be in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:47 AM
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Sexual Abuse, Emotional Immaturity, Substance Abuse, Sex Addiction/Vice, and/or etc it really is a case by case basis because it depends on where and how the person grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:46 AM
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Why not just answer it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:45 AM
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Can you make that post about male and female responses plus male vs female nature?
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/26 08:35 PM
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You do realize everything shitty men have done women have aided them and have been complicit in every crime made throughout history.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/26 08:22 PM
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That’s how a lot of men feel welcome to the club.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/26 04:09 PM
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