CrystalW187 Archive

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1	Stay at home moms - what do you do during the day? I have tried cooking a number of times before, and the only times I ever experienced any enjoyment was when I was just a helper for someone else cooking. When it comes to cooking solo, I only remember one time I made something that turned out pretty delicious. I was a vegan for a year, so I had no choice but to cook almost all my own meals (this was over a decade ago, before it became much more common for restaurants to include at least one vegan item on their menus). More recently, I tried my h…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/22 09:23 PM
1	Stay at home moms - what do you do during the day? I am in a similar situation! We live on 100 acres out in the country that we share with family and a few friends. We have a groundskeeper who us helps maintain all of this. No kids, and my husband doesn’t want them anytime soon—he’s almost 4 years younger than me and is the founder/CEO of three small online businesses. But we do have 3 dogs and 3 cats together that we treat as if they’re our children, and since I do 100% of the pet care and housework, I somehow manage to always feel rather busy,…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/22 11:27 PM
2	Should you tell your partner about your past? Absolutely you should, when the timing is right. Any man who would see you as less desirable because of past trauma isn’t worth your time or energy. After several dates, I disclosed to my now-husband that I was battling anorexia, and had been for 8 years. I had always tried to keep that a secret from most guys I dated, but something about this guy made me want to open up to him completely. He didn’t flinch even the tiniest bit. What he did do was devote himself to helping me get better. I had no…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/20 07:21 PM
2	Did any of you become a housewife or SAHM because of the pandemic? Hi there, I so appreciate the thoughtful and thorough response! I didn’t mean to sound like I’m upset with my husband for working so much. In fact, I mostly just feel guilty all the time that he’s always so overwhelmed, and I feel helpless to ease that struggle for him. I do try to help in the only ways I know how at the moment. For some examples: I make him healthy smoothies every morning, I give him deep tissue massages almost every day to relieve his tension, I regularly clean and organize hi…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/20 02:08 AM
3	Did any of you become a housewife or SAHM because of the pandemic? I worked from home even before the pandemic, because I co-own an online business with my husband. However, the amount of tasks I’ve been given for work this year have slowed down to a trickle until it gradually became nothing. I am pretty much just on standby until more work comes up for me. In the meantime, I’ve become a full-time housewife. We don’t have any kids (I’d like to have them someday, but my husband is 4 years younger than me and definitely doesn’t want them for a while), but we do h…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/11/20 07:26 PM
2	How to cheer up fiancé when he’s overwhelmed? My husband LOVES candlelit baths, especially after a stressful day. I usually just hop in the shower because I don’t feel like messing with all of it, but he will take the time to light the candles, pour in some bubbles, turn on some music, set up the bath exactly to his liking, etc. It’s funny because in general, he typically doesn’t notice or care about aesthetics or the details of his surroundings, while I care too much about that stuff. I’m sure plenty of men feel the way you described, but …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/20 11:15 PM
9	Post-College Options Seconding this! Honestly, in my experience, almost no college degree is worthless unless you let it become that. Once you’ve put in the work and graduated, your success mostly comes down to the experiences you build and the connections you make. Luck plays a huge role, for better or worse. Take it from someone who graduated with two of the MOST “worthless” degrees out there (Creative Writing/English Literature for undergrad, Library Science for grad school). Like you, I never wanted to be a care…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/20 04:41 PM
1	Does anyone here use powder foundation? I have sensitive skin, so I use makeup very sparingly (only when I go out in public). I used to use liquid foundation, but I realized recently that I don’t really need it, so now I only wear powder. I only started using liquid foundation because I thought I should due to my age, not because I needed to hide spots or wrinkles or anything. I’m 33, but I’ve always been extremely adamant about protecting my skin from the sun - especially my face. I never use any kind of soap or cleanser on my face (…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/20 06:27 PM
14	Being naked around your man? Yey or Ney? Oh wow, interesting... I sleep nude every night and walk around the house naked quite often (not every day and never for more than a few minutes, but with some regularity for sure) and always assumed my husband likes it. Maybe I should rethink this? He probably wouldn’t tell me even if he preferred I stop because he’s very focused on helping me build my self-esteem up. I’m very sensitive and have always suffered from depression and anxiety caused by chronic self-esteem issues, and I know the las…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/20 05:50 PM
6	Married women, what has surprised you the most about your husband since you married? I’ve had the same experience with my husband. I love and respect him so much for enduring what he has and becoming happy and successful in spite of it. I’m the only person in the world to whom he confides his weaknesses and anxieties. I honestly don’t know how I ended up with someone like him. I’m incredibly lucky.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/19 07:51 AM