Cthululyn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
343	Cautionary Tale	LESSON LEARNED	Cthululyn	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 03:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	I think he told on himself You owe him zero explanation, but I understand that might not be your reality. I simply sent a message saying that I would be over on a certain date at a certain time, to return his things and pick up my own. I brought my adult daughter with me for safety and a witness, although my guy was a wimp extraordinaire. He never dreamed I would actually stay gone, hopefully your guy will think the same and not make a fuss, thinking he'll have you back to torture soon enough. Then, I literally blocked an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 09:58 PM
83	I think he told on himself ALL my love to you, girl. Dont give this man some sit down discussion, for 'closure' and to explain 'his side'. Arrange to drop off his things, and pick up your own. That's it. I walked away from a man very recently, after two years, and I'm an older woman with fewer opportunities. I have never felt this good about myself, so whole and healthy. Dont be ashamed that he reduced you to begging, you were a hurting, devastated person. But dont you do that again, for any man, for any reason.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 06:15 PM
8	Cautionary Tale I'll be happy to give you his number. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 06:21 PM
39	Cautionary Tale Thank you so much. You reinforced my feelings about that red flag. My daughters were suspicious about that from the start. I should have been open to THEIR wisdom!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 05:17 AM
20	Cautionary Tale Thank you! So kind. And you're right about the heartbreak. But life is short! I cant waste it with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 05:15 AM
26	Cautionary Tale Thank you! I am shaky and upset still, but I have enough clarity to see that he's useless and will remain so.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 05:14 AM
1	I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete Davidson I feel ya. The stigma is real. I have bipolar, so I'm in mental health circles, too. I've heard comments about people with borderline, implying that the disorder is 'their own fault'. Even my psychiatrist made a remark once!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/21 02:07 PM