So the only reason to marry somebody and to stay in a marriage is to reward somebody for earning your trust? I have no idea how you reached this conclusion. All I'm saying is trust is a major component of any relationship with anybody. Why would you put yourself in the extremely vulnerable position of marriage with someone you don't trust? T
You said my opinion was racist but my opinions are based on data. The data I'm referring to is black performance in our society. I have no problem dating someone of another race and never once said I did.
The only way I can avoid being labeled a racist or having racist opinions is if I ignore trends and data. Fuck that. Defend the data or back off. Don't attack my character with your loaded buzzword.
I wish I had the time or patience to dissect those issues one by one but basically, you're right, my overall argument is "tough shit, deal with it." You can be a little bitch about it or you can stop making excuses and change the perception. Which approach do you think will work out better for you in the long run?
People do this already. But not enough people are doing this. Change the numbers and the perception will change. Or you could ignore my advice and blame evil racist whitey for all your problems. It's up to you.
Get an education or a skill and from there a good career. Find a good mate, have children and raise them. Be a decent human being. Encourage other black men to do the same and reject being labeled an "Uncle Tom" for having your shit together. Maybe you personally are already doing these things but you are being held back by those who aren't.
But what if my opinion is based on something? For example, what if 100% of blue people are rapists, am I not allowed to show or feel discrimination towards blue people?
Dating another race means you have low self esteem. Not what I said. So me dating a white girl means I have low self esteem as well? Doesn't work like that.
