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DiscussionCultural-Emotion4232/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:02 PM
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Wanting someone similar, fear of not fulfilling such person's desires, lack of attraction to unfamiliar and something that I don't understand or relate to. Why would I choose something complicated when I can choose something familiar
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:19 AM
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bro really tries to argue with something when the pornstar he shows as example literary has school girl outfit photo as one of the first if you google
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:03 PM
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89% of men who pay for OF are married. 80% + watch porn. Out of them, most married as most men are married by certain age. Which percentage of them are realistically have dead beadrooms? Like 10 at max
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:58 PM
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I always wondered, you people say 19 instead of 20 because if you type 20 it suddenly doesn't look too young for your narrative or what? Genuinely interested as a 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:25 AM
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I get it but don't see what is your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:16 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:11 PM
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You are low iq woman, that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:09 PM
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Good sex is known to lower IQ points. You had A LOT of good sex as I see
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:03 PM
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Idk about other women just I am right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:01 PM
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Yes. You assume it bothers me as a "double standard" but it's not because I am right deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:18 PM
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Enjoy your meth induced hallucination gf. I support tho🍄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:03 PM
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Dumb women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:02 PM
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I answered in last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:00 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:59 PM
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Damn if she even exist she will have a drug addict as a baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:55 PM
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Men cope by thinking only older women have problems with this 🤪 I was having problems with this since like 10 when seeing that in movies. And the reason is not being pissed but a simple fear of being abandoned by such a man after 20 years of "happy" marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:50 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHHA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:41 PM
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No it wasn't brosky
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:38 PM
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I aggressively judge both men and women who do p*rn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:37 AM
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80+% of men at least watch porn. Not goomba fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:28 AM
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Thats why all their popular smut is at least borderline SA Source with statistics. When I was reading fanfiction (now anti-porn) I rarely saw that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:23 AM
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Eww 😷 🧯🧯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:20 AM
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Also attraction is to gender, not to sexuality. You feel attraction to men and discount bi men in particular for a reason. That reason merits questioning. Attraction includes compatibility, personality preferences and a lot of other things. For me, I want a man similar to me in personality and life he lived. I want heterosexual man and a virgin because I am heterosexual and a virgin. I want a man my age group because we are closer in life experience. The list goes on. Not wanting bi men isn't au…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:54 PM
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The way op framed it is that it is toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:50 PM
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Yeah but it's debatable that it is homophobia and not something else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:48 PM
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Very little women who don't want to date bi men consciously think like that. I, for example, just don't feel attraction towards bi men without any conscious thoughts or judgements about those individual people. I may treat bi man very positive, be best friends with him, but I don't feel romantic attraction. Same with men who aren't attracted to trans women sexually. "Homophobia" that you don't actualize in real world by judging lgbt people or spreading negative can not be called actual homophobi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:41 PM
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Not wanting to date bi men =/= homophobic. Not wanting to date bi women =/= homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:57 AM
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I have seen a lot of gay guys discussing how they hate bi guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:56 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:58 AM
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Because I am right and you wrong. Also I am the goddess and you are porn addict
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:45 AM
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Things you say to yourself to sleep better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:45 AM
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I am very open that it makes me jealous and I consider it cheating and it's a number 1 boundary for me in relationships, if I ever catch my man watching porn, immediate skip. Men are scared of women like me and you can feel almost mental breakdown in their words when they meet women like me. Why are they so insecure with anti porn women? They act like children being denied a candy even tho we are strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:25 AM
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It's fighting a losing battle Or you are too weak to fight and brainwashed yourself to accept the defeat. Me and a lot of other women aren't. And men are scared af of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:11 AM
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I remember how my own parents treated me worse when I weighed 10 kg more (but not overweight), had acne and worse posture. I always thought it's just a phase that they suddenly started to treat me better, but only now I am figuring out the most probable truth and it's horrible. And I have good parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:04 PM
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Cause those are who they are most attracted to and get off to. They aren't as attracted to average girl who don't do that and don't get off to her but settle with her later while hiding their OF bills and porn usage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:50 PM
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Idk just asking cause haven't elaborated in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:07 AM
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Then league thing is kinda bs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:42 PM
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So no objective measurements
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:32 PM
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How to understand what you can get if you never dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:51 AM
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How to understand that if you don't have experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:51 AM
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What if a person have no experience yet? How can he measure?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:42 AM
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How you can measure without experience then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:42 AM
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Thank you all for your replies, I kinda meant how a person with 0 experience can measure his league, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:41 AM
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You can asses your face and body comparatively to the average How? It's not that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:39 AM
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This is the easiest of all: If you like a man then he is most likely above your league. What if my boyfriend is poorer than me, short and says I am out of his league? (Just "what if")
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:35 AM
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Yes cause momoa not my type I find such men ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:31 AM
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I loved her No you didn't but she cheated Yas queen in this situation 😁 the only problem Is you dating women you don't find physically attractive which you finally understood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:44 PM
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Cause you are an awful person tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:40 PM
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She was valid cheating on him because he is as awful as this cheating act 😊Serial killer's wife also "doesn't know". hope it helps 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:39 PM
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Why do you assume she was the victim? It would be incredibly painful for any woman to be with someone who thinks they are ugly. Your "love" doesn't make any difference here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:35 PM
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The point is your relationship ended is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:08 PM
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Ewww poor girl. Can't condemn her cheating lol even happy for her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:07 PM
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I actually don't understand why a lot of people find modesty oppressive. I always was too shy to dress revealing and I don't like men looking at me. I agree with your point that it can reduce sexualization to some degree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:44 PM
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Thanks for coming out 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:32 PM
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Women with clear point regarding this are a minority, most aren't super comfortable but prefer to just not discuss this topic and hoping that their partners don't watch anything problematic, as I remember in some studies 40% of women aren't positive about porn. A lot of women also hypocritical, they don't want a pro porn partner but read some kind of smut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:45 PM
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Sorry I was trolling lol. I personally consider it cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:34 PM
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I love how you guys scared of the realization that some women won't put up with your thing. It's like an addict with shaking hands having a panic attack because he will be denied the dose. An infinite pleasure for my radical feminist and proudly misandrist nature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:29 PM
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I found mine on reddit (lol) yes there are some chances that he lied and I will be heartbroken if thats the case but then it's just brokeup and try again. Life is life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:33 PM
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Thats still a massive gap between men and women. I am anti porn woman and I am basically doomed to live in paranoia that my partner lied to me about porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:22 PM
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Nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:54 PM
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And women they are getting laid with are exactly those promiscuous superficial gold digger 100000 body count yacht girl insta face types you all hate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:44 PM
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I relate alot. I am also your age. Men like to claim only "old and bitter" women think like that, when in reality it's the opposite, young women our age opting out because men only value extreme youth and we simply don't want to be abandoned in the future, older women already found their place or quit so they don't participate in this conversation that much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:23 PM
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only if you have the same definition of hypergamy for men and women (I don't), which is obviously not realistic and manipulative cause men and women value different things in each other. I have the right to advance a different definition for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:25 PM
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No problem, we will check them for 6 months
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:22 AM
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There's a solution to this: we casually sleep with attractive men and don't sleep with ugly ones for the first six months of a relationship to test their intentions, since based on your post there's a high probability that ugly ones will lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:39 AM
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🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:15 PM
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Okay, I have to go. We had a fun talk, bye, have a good day/evening 🌸 (no sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:07 PM
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🥸🥸🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:54 PM
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🤓🤓🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:51 PM
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🎪🤹‍♂️🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:33 PM
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😂🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:19 PM
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🍆🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:14 PM
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🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:06 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:54 PM
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♿️♿️♿️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:41 PM
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🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:35 PM
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Thank you, internalized, now go and do something useful already
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:27 PM
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🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:16 PM
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internalize that every person has the right to date or not to date whoever they want 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:09 PM
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I'm just telling not to trust anyone who puts themselves in a good light, including me. Everyone here does it and thinks their opinion is the most correct. Yeah I was baiting him by replying to you cause his funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:02 PM
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go on, I'll read it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:55 PM
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read other people's opinions and draw conclusions, I don't write much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:50 PM
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Cry harder, I'll read it later 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:38 PM
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you are so easy to bait damn 🤣 the singularity exploded 💥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:24 PM
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You're about to explode lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:02 PM
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I can see how it affected you lol. Chill. You can continue writing me that crap where you try to force your opinion on me if you have nothing better to do today
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:56 PM
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You play a a bit mentally retarded devil's advocate, honestly. No offense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:02 AM
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Just break up and don't torture the woman like a psycho with your SMV, she deserves better 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:53 AM
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Men like him are the reason I'll probably never get married and have kids. I'm getting sadder and sadder on this sub every day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:47 AM
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Yes it can be disrespectful for your partner if they doesn't accept it, but then you'll just have to break up and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:45 AM
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Don't flatter yourself, he's just another person who manipulates and imposes his point of view on others, like most people here. The most insidious types are those who pretend to be neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:27 AM
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Talk about it and if your partner is not ready to accept it, break up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 11:56 PM
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You need to initially find a partner who accepts this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:31 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:03 PM
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This means that he wants someone else to such an extent that he is ready to directly ask you about it. Instant ick and turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:59 PM
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I choosed a wrong one if he is asking. I don't need non monogamous person (by his primal nature). Yes I don't care that most of you like that, I need only one compatible person not all of you Btw I got 4 upvotes so not only me, not only my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:54 PM
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Who is genius enough to downvote comment with me laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:19 AM
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Antinatalism? I just won't have kids. Sooner or later humanity will disappear anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:11 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 good bait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:27 AM
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🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:18 AM
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Even that is manipulation. I can't with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:13 AM
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You continue to manipulate, compare incomparable things and call your opinion a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:08 AM
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Your logic and semantic games are textbook manipulation. I am NOT going to accept your opinion that all men are like that as a fact, and I NEVER told you to drop your own views. Even your last sentence is caricature classic manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:59 PM
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That's enough: I've told you everything and I don't owe you any more explanations. Your logic only works for you, and most of your writing is classic manipulation. You're comparing fundamentally incomparable things and calling what is essentially your personal opinion fact. Your "harsh truth" is a classic devaluation of my feelings and intimidation. I already answered you on this a long time ago: I don't care that most men are like this. You don't like my personal opinion and that's why you cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:40 PM
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Ahahahhahahahg threesome I mean. Sorry I'm not native. But you really made me laugh 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:21 PM
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the other person's desire to cheat is already enough, and I don't even need them to actually do it. If he want to cheat but logically reasoning himself why he shouldn't cheat- we aren't meant for each other I was talking about your parallel reality where everyone suddenly becomes non-monogamous. It's simply not a fact, and you can't say with 100% certainty that it is. It's a completely hypothetical scenario "If you can identify they are not the final reason then you can surely tell me an ever de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:13 PM
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Too many unnecessary words. I have every right to break up with someone if I don't like them, and it's even better not to get into a relationship with them so as not to hurt anyone. Not all irrationality creating problems. You stated that all people will behave this way, so the burden of argumentation, preferably with research on how everyone will behave in a parallel reality, lies with you. No, I don't agree because it's not the final reason and I can't tell you 100% why I feel the way I do, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:55 PM
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Not all irrationality creating problems Even if there were unlimited resources, it's not a fact that people would be happier with non-monogamy or even most would be non monogamous You are simply emotionally manipulating. Did you even read what I wrote? Mistrust and belief in fantasies are not the final reason. Just accept it. Emotions are not as simple as you might want them to be. and yes, I only need to believe in two realities for my fantasies to be real, lol, so here you're also a little scr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:39 PM
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I'm speaking about myself personally. And if my partner asked for a treesome I would pack my things and leave that same day. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:57 PM
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I wouldn't enjoy treesome and have 0 interest in it is what I would say personally. I don't want a second man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:52 PM
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But what if the op is right. theoretically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:51 PM
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I don't care about incels, I don't hate anyone based on my preferences, I don't invent ideologies, I don't create groups, that's how people who simply have preferences, even if they are irrational, will end up. monogamy is what most people prefer. If you don't like it, you don't have to follow it. Just don't hurt other people is the general rule Ending a relationship because you're hurt and uncomfortable is completely normal. For you it is simple for some people it is not "Distrust" of men and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:39 PM
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Dude, again, this isn't something that needs to have rational reasons. It's just human nature to feel this way. The same nature as your desire for "variety" probably is "non an objective moral that applies to every reality " - all morals are kind of subjective and dependent on culture and context The harm caused by incel irrationality is incomparable to the harm caused by someones personal preferences of they don't force them on anyone Again I can't rationalize this. Maybe I don't trust, maybe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:21 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:05 PM
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Even in a world with unlimited resources, people will suffer from betrayal because our nature will not change. And if nature changes, then they will no longer be truly human. Irrationality in the case of incels is harmful (not always btw. Only in the case of the most aggressive of them who support grape or something; I don't judge those who are simply sad I always sympathized with them). Someone rejecting someone for some reason doesn't cause that harm I can't rationalize for you why it hurts me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:57 PM
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I didn't read past "you all." I'm not responsible for other women. Sorry, but I've had enough blame-shifting for today. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:48 PM
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This is your personal opinion and not the reality that people are monogamous out of necessity. even if so, whether something is normal or not is determined by culture, society and the individual himself You manipulating, comparing incomparable things and trying to make me guilty of something. The harm and toxicity incels cause is nothing compared to being rejected by a woman for having a different worldview. Rejection for various, often irrational, reasons is a normal part of life. you also thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:38 PM
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If humans were a different species they wouldn't be monogamous. Why does it matter to you why fantasies hurt me? Just find a woman who's okay with it. Why are you picking on me? No one cares about my feelings anyway, just like you do now. That's life. I told you from the very beginning that you should find a partner who accepts your seeking of vAriEtY, I didn't try to change your point of view because it is impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:20 PM
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It's difficult without a specific example. Sometimes women do it fairly, sometimes men do it fairly. I think body count can be compared to a salary. If a woman has an ick because a man's salary is low then she's an asshole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:13 PM
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Yes, I'm talking about primitive tribes. Even among them, the relationship model isn't that different from ours. Our current model is not that monogamous either How am I hurt by fantasies? Firstly, our argument didn't start with this at all, but with some fantasy of yours about another universe, and then your logic changed evasively, but okay. Secondly, I was speaking about myself personally and I personally do not accept the obsession of some men with variety. I don't need this in my life. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:04 PM
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Ick and gross/slurs are a bit different you know also difficult for me to evaluate this in general if I don’t see a specific example where a woman expresses herself this way. Hard to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:55 PM
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You should read about human sexual behavior again. The most popular relationship model everywhere and always is temporary monogamy Once again, I don't give a shit about the nature of men like you, absolutely, titanically, cosmically. This won't make me accept something that hurts me. Find another cheater and leave normal people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:48 PM
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How does this relate to me not wanting used meat sticks?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:41 PM
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Serial monogamy prevails in most societies, regardless of religion. If me eating different foods caused someone pain, yes, I would agree to eat this magic pill with all the nutrients. No, I don't need to rationalize. You are manipulating and substitute concepts. I have a right to feel bad and date whoever I want and decide what is bad and what is good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:33 PM
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in primitive societies, human relationships were pretty much the same as they are today. Monogamy or serial monogamy is prevalent among primitive tribes today. This is a question about whether desire for variety exists in humans. Not all desire for variety is comparable and equal. You can't compare food, clothes, and people. A person will ruin their health if they eat only food and their clothes will be ruined. Being with one person won't harm you. Your comparison is incorrect All I am saying is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:14 PM
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You clearly haven't read the research or interpreted ot in your own way. People separated and looked for new partners, that's not cheating and doesn't justify cheating. this has always been condemned in all societies Really? Then do you deny the desire for variety then? Can you go for long periods doing the same thing and being in the same environment without going mad? Same food, same clothing, same routine, for a decade This is an artificial comparison that you made to justify yourself The que…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:58 PM
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No study has confirmed that the desire for multiple partners is 100% the nature of all people. And why is that? Isn't that called selfishness? No, it's banal human nature, and more powerful and universal than the potential desire for multiple partners. We are just trying to rationalize the idea of variety without causing pain on others. You won't be able to avoid causing pain unless you find a cheater like you. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:45 PM
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Why? Explain. We can explain why child marriage is bad and should never happen. Surely you can explain why cheating is bad, right? Cheating is bad because people want to be the one and only. You can't buy that off with anything and you don't need to rationalize it for your feelings being valid. Find another cheater and leave normal people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:33 PM
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And you said it is more difficult for a man to have a higher bc. I said you it is not and in fact men have a bit higher bc on average
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:28 PM
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You won't be able to do this without hurting other people unless you find a partner who's okay with it. That's it Because if not, then we can agree it is irrational and it isn't helping anyone. No, we don't agree. This is the fucking bare minimum. Stop twisting logic. Nobody gives a shit about your rationality. Cheating is bad because it makes people feel bad. Period. No one owes you an excuse. Just a reminder that incels hate women out of irrationality and not because of reason. Twisted logic. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:21 PM
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Even if 300 bc chad was 5 minutes from me and offered a commitment I wouldn't agree because I feel disgust towards high bc people. I want a schizoid basement dweller virgin as myself I understand that it's not comfortable for your promiscuous ass but not 100% of women are okay with your past
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:15 PM
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I would have slept with a chad a long time ago if I wanted to, he's literally a couple of clicks and a couple of hours drive away from me. I am not asexual, just have ideals and values
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:08 PM
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Okay, most of the women they sleep with are those 20% of women who are open to hookups. the rest are those whom they lied and promised commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:06 PM
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There's no point in insulting these women. You don't like it when women insult poor men right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:04 PM
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It's ok for a man to occasionally do so especially during those times when the woman is not in the mood to do anything intimate with the man. No dude, stop imposing your morals on other people. Would they feel that way if they are showered with attention and all the man wanted is occasionally have time for himself and seek variety? Yes 99% still would feel this way. You can't buy off your disloyal cheater nature with anything. Stop it. Stop justifying yourself. 99% of women are not ok with your …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:58 PM
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My point is that on average it's no more difficult for men to get sex than it is for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:55 PM
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Other wh*res, no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:53 PM
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It's a problem as you age unfortunately You should have looked for a partner earlier. My parents and grandparents were all each other's first partners and got married at 21- 25
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:49 PM
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It's a logic game, you can say that anything is possible in another universe. This in NO WAY justifies the desire for variety as morally ok in our universe If the man is able to fulfill his duty as a partner, why is it bad if he seeks variety by fantasizing other women on some occasion? Because in our reality women have feelings and feel pain, and duties are not the reason. Stop playing logic games
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:41 PM
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Yes mac cashier wanting a ceo is definitely hypocritical and delusional no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:33 PM
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No, it's not more difficult for men. Statistics show that men have a higher median number of partners than women in their lifetime (5 for women and 6 for men). Only a minority of men have trouble finding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:30 PM
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You are not describing an ideal world, but a world in which people are already a different species and some entirely imaginary hypothetical world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:27 PM
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Ok, statistically you are an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:26 PM
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Only 20% of women participate in hookup culture and median number of partners for women is 5 thru out their lives, so if you've had a lot of partners, you're likely to encounter women like that. Others are in long-term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:22 PM
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Having a low n count is generally beneficial as it lowers the risk of cheating. For men too dude, so still less justified than woman wanting a man richer than her I would say wanting much richer man would be hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:13 PM
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Yet i have a feeling you wouldn't think it makes perfect sense for a man to get upset if he didn't meet those standards. No why as an ugly girl I understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:09 PM
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I would say we found each other 👰🏻‍♀️♥️🤵🏻‍♂️ If his not high bc himself of course cause then I would say go smash your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:57 PM
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Incel has a different meaning now and simply mean misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:49 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12313963/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/men-and-women-with-multiple-sex-partners-are-less-desirable-as-long-term-mates Both genders don't like high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:42 PM
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Men value purity in women in a way women broadly don't value it in men not to the extent you are trying to paint https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12313963/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/men-and-women-with-multiple-sex-partners-are-less-desirable-as-long-term-mates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:38 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:35 PM
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I reject those over 0 body count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:24 PM
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I changed my previous reply, I thought you saw it. If you don't like it, I can search for more. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12313963/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/men-and-women-with-multiple-sex-partners-are-less-desirable-as-long-term-mates
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:20 PM
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I sent you two articles and you can't just say it's not true, that would be pathetic denial. I can also say your studies are false
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:14 PM
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No you aren't hypocrite because it is harder to be thin than to be fat. But that's definitely weird tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:06 PM
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On average, yes, women are less concerned about it, but you're overestimating the extent to which women don't care. Read the research and stop denying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:04 PM
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Read what I sent you. Women care when the body count is very high. You are in denial Women liking tall rich men or whatever doesn't contradict that they still prefer them with lower b count, they just more willing to tolerate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:59 PM
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Are you serious? No, man I'm not lying. I just have my romantic ideal where my partner and I are each other's first. When I'm not a virgin, I will worry if a guy had more partners than me. Relax, not all women have to fit your narrow worldview Your theories are also unsubstantiated. Research shows that both men and women dislike partners with a lot of past experience; women are simply more tolerant of this on average https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12313963/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:45 PM
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A very abstract statement that doesn't take into account a ton of detail and context. I agree that some women choose the wrong men but everyone makes mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:37 PM
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I am that 1% apparently. I don't care how rich or good looking a man is if he is not a virgin. Not at the slightest religious, just romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:33 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:32 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:31 PM
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A virgin who watches porn is still >> not a virgin who watches porn (78% of men). You won't scare me to like a used up man, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:28 PM
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We didn't talk about any women at all initially, you mentioned it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:24 PM
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Still don't make low body count women want a high body count man if she doesn't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:19 PM
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For me high body count for a man means he is a whore and it's an instant turn off. Sorry just my primal visceral feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:17 PM
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I also have a visceral ick to dating a high n count man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:16 PM
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Again it won't make women with low body count wanting a man with high body count if that's her personal view
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:14 PM
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You can talk all you want about your biology but as a virgin I still won't agree to sleep with a non virgin man and a lot of other women too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:12 PM
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Fat woman only liking fit man definitely hypocritical. Regarding height, no, men are naturally taller than women, but if short woman only like extremely tall men, yes, hypocritical. Regarding wealth, yes, that may be, but woman may have logical justification if she will have to take care of a child. Regarding body count, this is hypocritical because men and women are born with the same body count, and we no longer live in a time where every sexual act can lead to pregnancy, so this cannot justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:04 PM
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Dude, it was YOU who said that. I'm talking to YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:48 PM
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read my edited reply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:45 PM
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I am sex negative and kink shaming as fuck. I condemn bdsm and similar shit. You are arguing with some projection of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:39 PM
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Married with kids from men like in the post? Lol, a dream!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:37 AM
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It's better not to get involved with a person you don't trust. Besides, if he finds someone else, there's a very high chance you'll never know about it, he'll just lie to you for the rest of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:32 AM
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Have you even heard of such a thing as jealousy and that it's biologically based? You're exactly the example of the man in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:14 AM
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Eewww I hope your ex will rot in misery
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:51 AM
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That's not an answer to her question tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:46 AM
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How would you know your husband is not cheating at this exact moment or watching some disgusting thing. Is it even worth it. I think no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:33 AM
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You are still not monogamous if you want it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:01 AM
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The worst she can do is divorce and that's what I would do immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:57 AM
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That's still don't sound monogamous. I as a woman would never enjoy a treesome with another man. If my man would offer a treesome with another man I will think his whole love is entirely fake. Op is based as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:50 AM
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because this expression itself is already disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 09:36 AM
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I understand you, but I'm talking about men who are generally not interested in serious long-term relationships and lie to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:25 PM
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This is very romantic and I also dream of this for myself. I hope more people can experience this in their lives. But I'm talking about single people, and I'm talking only about those men who express hatred towards women. My original comment was about older single women not wanting men to date them only because of a lack of other options and using them for sex, housework and whatever while secretly hating them and being more sexually attracted to other women than their spouse. I'm sure no one wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:56 PM
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I would really like it to be exactly as you say. I would do everything I could to be worthy of someone then. However, unfortunately you can't speak for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:41 AM
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The logic in your replies is weird. As if you're using something. Sorry I'm being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:18 PM
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I want sex with someone who won't even think about using me. What else don't you understand? I don't give a damn how he treats me if he has something completely different in mind. I'm disgusted by someone who wants to use me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:10 PM
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If someone only wants sex from me, I'm automatically not attracted to them. Don't get it? For me, that's dehumanizing because it doesn't align with my values
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:00 PM
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You could have just said you aren't interested without calling everyone old and ugly, dude. That makes it sound like a cope. Be more neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:57 PM
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I get the feeling you're trying to get moral validation for your behavior here on ppd. I have a meta answer for you: no, many people don't support your view of the world and people, and that's okay. People have different world views. I have no arguments against sex, lol. What a weird formulation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:01 PM
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Your thoughts and intentions are disgusting. If "using her" is what you think in your head, the only thing that separates whether you treat her good or bad is whether you voice your thoughts or not. Notice, ideas of ​​"having sex with her" and "using her holes" are criticaly different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:58 PM
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I love sex with men who attract me physically, emotionally, and personally. What don't you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:52 PM
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Literally only a few people show their appearance here, so still a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:49 PM
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I gave you an example of what dehumanizing sex is. A lot of men like it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:45 PM
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For those who engage in short-term relationships and hookups, it's possible, but not for most women. Only about 20% of women participate in hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:42 PM
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Again with men who have mentality like you, yes. It depends on a person. I want to be desired by a cute romantic man who has the same values as me and wants serious ltr. Then it's not dehumanizing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:40 PM
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This is such a cope, you have no idea how old the women here are or what they look like. There's too much text for a cope. My reply wasn't specifically about you btw. It's about the huge number of trashy men who are like you. if only this lack of attraction was truly mutual🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:35 PM
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I still don't want sex with you buddy! and not only me Btw I saw your other comments so you can't fool me into thinking that a woman's opinion is important to you in order to have sex with her. You're obsessed with looks. Majority of women don't want to have sex with people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:15 PM
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If you call that "using holes" you don't respect her, moron
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:14 PM
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THIS!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:13 PM
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Yes that's also dehumanizing for majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:12 PM
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No dude you can't use someone for sex and care about that person at the same time. Even if you really want to cope and prove that this is so, for women it is not so, and by continuing you will simply deny women's feelings and gaslight them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:09 PM
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I don't like it when someone covers my mouth, puts a foot on me, chokes me, or calls me an object in a sexual context. It makes me really sick and I don't want to have sex anymore after that, even if I see it in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:05 PM
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I believe that expressing oneself in this way should be equated with the promotion of violence and hatred based on gender. It should be deleted and censored because it can cause real pain to victims of sexual violence and negatively affect the developing psyche of minors who see it, normalizing it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:01 PM
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Sex with you, definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:57 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:41 PM
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Than have sex with men. It's very easy to please men 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:40 PM
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Nah I rather say that men who only want sex are not normal or I should say compatible for women who want serious relationships, and when they pretend they bring pain to these women. I just personally consider men and women who only want sex as people without principles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:11 PM
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Yes, let men without principles switch to sex workers and not torment normal women please 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:21 AM
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Damn you are so cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:12 AM
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Their sours in the comments below: their ass I also have evidence form my ass lol "Those are not the same men" lmao literally always hear that they LOVE to consume content with porn stars but would never date one because she's a slut. They literally jerk off on women who they deeply condemn and feel disgusted about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:52 AM
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You have so interesting perspective, I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:13 PM
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Funny, and I put a lot of effort in my appearance and have never been approached in my life. You and your gf must be really naturally pretty :p
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:05 PM
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We have different definition then. come to terms with it idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:00 AM
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You have nothing more to reply apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:24 AM
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It's not a given that the amount of effort invested to get a certain job will be comparable to the losses when you pay a certain amount
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:51 PM
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So your "not math" is questionable then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:14 PM
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Well, you know, getting a job isn't the same as paying money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:05 PM
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Your personal opinion is not awareness. I also spread my opinion about men finding average women ugly. No girl will fall for your lie about being approached more without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:47 PM
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Not yours tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:45 PM
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What's the point of your entire text? It doesn't prove that girls get hit on more when they're without makeup or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:36 PM
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and if you take into account the mental suffering after surgery, lol. Btw your math is not that objective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:34 PM
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but that's just one thing I did and no one is forcing you to earn literally 7 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:56 PM
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20% is one in five women, btw. Everything else is just what you heard somewhere; we can't discuss it as facts. From my personal experience, neither my friends nor I go to bars, and most of us have never even once been approached irl. Groceries, lol really? Only boomers met like that. Those who were approached irl were well-groomed that day, full makeup, styled hair, and above average on top of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:49 PM
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So Sidney Sweeney? LMAO. Btw it's very cunningly of you to simply assume that I'm in the bottom 20% to support your argument. My friends and I are average or cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:57 PM
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I am talking about mid aka average, not bottom 20% Btw there's no real evidence for this 80/20 idea. In the same 1000 years old "study" where they got these numbers, 2/3 of men's messages were sent to the top 1/3 of women they rated above average. The most beautiful women received 28 times more messages than average women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:52 PM
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This doesn't follow logically from what you sent me, man. If you want to say that, all other things being equal, a woman will choose a richer man, that's true, but in reality, "all other things being equal" doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:44 PM
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Everyone knows this, nothing new. This doesn't mean that money is the MOST important thing for ALL women and women date men only for money, as you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:40 PM
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You are a living proof for both the incel point and the fact that men don't settle for average women. You are literally a Mr. Pump- and -Dump-mid- hoes chad the unicorn, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:28 PM
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send the sources
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:25 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:25 PM
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Yep. I feed meth to the boys and we have fun with them 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:22 PM
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Most older women*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:20 PM
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Exactly! This couple should break up, this is not a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:18 PM
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Your personal opinion btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:17 PM
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So, essentially you just said that men don't like mid women? That's exactly what I'm talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:16 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:34 PM
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This happens quite rarely. We see men crying much more often because women are not willing to ignore their ugly appearance. and again, women don't have an equivalent of porn and onlyfans that they use as often
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:05 PM
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If he does this because I attract him less, let him get out of my sight 🤥 I don't need this thing around me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:59 AM
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If you don't believe me, what can I do. Maybe they were conventionally attractive when they were younger, but I personally like a bit different type of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:58 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:56 AM
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Most average men don't have a chance in hell even with an average girl Not this unfounded bullshit again 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ If anything, they don't want an average woman in many cases But you will bend over backwards to lure a man like me. Not after they see your comments online, buddy. lmAao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:45 AM
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Ever noticed how paradoxically men also seem to hit on you and be more romantic when you don't look your best? In your imaginary world? Personally for me and all my friends it's exactly the opposite Men are simpler than women realize. No, it's even simpler than that. Men are just different. There are normal ones, and then there are PPD followers, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:38 AM
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A hoe will be a hoe. A gf will bw a gf Literally madonna-whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:35 AM
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Everything about you screams it, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:15 AM
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Who? Cavill and Momoa? Just too old and not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:14 AM
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If he's literally addicted to porn and pays for an of subscription, then for me personally, yes. It would be better if he physically cheated on me and we broke up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:13 AM
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I don't support this personally. That's as disgusting as the situation you're describing where a woman ends up cuked while man pays of girls. As someone put it in previous posts, the betabecky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:11 AM
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My 5500$ nosejob doesn't think so. And I am not even hot after this. Yet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:05 AM
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He's coping hard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:54 AM
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So you'll be a classic 60 yo creep very soon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:46 AM
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If only they were all honest and didn't portray themselves as morally superior to women and having lower standards or being less shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:32 AM
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He's just insane. That's worse than cheating even
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:25 AM
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He's probably a classic 60 yo creep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:18 AM
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lie. Women simply don't date people they don't like physically and they don't torture people they're not attracted to with soft cheating like onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:18 AM
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PLEASE DON'T SAVE THIS MARRIAGE IF THAT'S HOW YOU FEEL. 🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️ Stop torturing this poor woman. PLEASE 🙏🏻 10000% of women don't need this kind of "love" and "marriage"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:17 AM
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EWWWWW🤢🤢THATS FUCKIN DISGUSTING downvote him please. Dude men like that should stay single for the sake of god, it's WORSE than physical cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:11 AM
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I prefer Timothée Chalamet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:10 AM
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He's virtue signaling. "At least attractive face" isn't really "bare minimum." Most women are not attractive. And yes, referring only to young women and saying that most of them are attractive doesn't change anything. Most women aren't young either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:00 AM
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First, it's wrong to seek sex outside a committed relationship. For both men and women. You won't find a single single man that's looking for a relationship that will say no to a ONS with an attractive woman. Make up your mind already. Demisexuals exist btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:46 AM
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quiet about a small d
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:14 AM
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He is kinda mid for me idk. Not even that handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:10 AM
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I'm 19 and I puked at another post on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:05 AM
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Hahaha, is this a reference to what women usually say to men who want a virgin, or what? Besides, it's not that hard to spot a virgin man. Btw I won't become more attracted to bi men because of your gay whining, sorry. Can't control that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:54 PM
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Offer an alternative where women and other people don't have to sacrifice what they value and then people will be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:02 PM
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You call it that to make yourself a priori right. In fact, it's your subjective perception, not objective reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:21 PM
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It's better to be depressed than in slavery, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:57 PM
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Again, If your system works without taking away women's rights, then go ahead, everyone will be happy. and again: even if there is a dystopia now, women would rather choose what it is than what it was
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:49 PM
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I don't think such a relationship would be popular under any circumstances. It would be either both work or a husband works, like now. Also every revolutionary thought they could do everything perfectly. What makes you think your made up system will work better than what already exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:25 PM
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Many women are unhappy now, but they would have been even more unhappy before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:14 PM
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No, it's just that I, as a woman, perceive it differently than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:08 PM
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I, like millions of women, don't want domestic slavery, so I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:04 PM
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Women couldn't NOT do this before. What's next?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:59 PM
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I disagree and I'm not going to argue with you. I'd rather commit suicide than live "like my grandmothers." You should change your flair so as not to confuse people. Your views are typical Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:55 PM
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and what do you propose instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:33 PM
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I think it's rather a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:00 PM
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🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:48 PM
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"Poor people have been having the most kids since humans invented money"- yep, and half of them died
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:47 PM
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Read a recent post about how men "settle" for their women, you want this in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:20 PM
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Nah older women don't want to be settled for either. Let those men smash their hand instead
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:36 AM
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"Younger women" is 3-5 years younger. This is the "age gap" women want. Not 15 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:11 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:43 AM
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I'm talking about conscious actions, not just attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:42 AM
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this is not the topic that was discussed at all bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:41 AM
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There are enough studies that show the harm of pornography even without taking addiction into account; if only they had the desire to find them themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:15 AM
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Corn addicts downwoted you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:50 AM
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Yeah I am just not attracted to bi men. Can't do anything with myself. Same with men who had previous partners (I am a virgin). Maybe I just want a guy who is straight and virgin because it feels familiar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:51 PM
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Don't settle and don't torture those women please. Smash your hand and be happy. A woman will leave you anyway when she finds out that you "settled" for her. Divorce rates don't lie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:27 AM
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Don't date men who make you insecure by their goon habbits. Even better to date porn-free man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:23 AM
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What makes you think that a "slightly less attractive" man would want a woman who is his equal and not a 10/10 who is "his type"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:08 AM
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op was about specifically following women on Instagram and the like, while understanding what you're doing and why, not glancing at someone's ass. Don't pretend to be a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:55 AM
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Men are again shifting responsibility onto external factors and pretending they can't control themselves. I repeat, watch porn, follow women on ig and pay for onlyfans is your conscious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:44 AM
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Lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:06 PM
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You really didn't get a joke 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:02 PM
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You too 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:28 PM
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If 85% of adults watch porn, it's clear that about the same number of men watch porn. Half of adults are men you know https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/how-many-men-watch-porn/ Here 78% watch porn. Not 90% (that's actually a good thing) Those who don't watch it are mostly old people, as I understand it 10% is every tenth person who watches corn.I think that's quite a lot Why did you decide that I "don't want to talk to my partner"? Normal people speak up if they don't like something. If they've …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:22 PM
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"You problem" sounds like an accusation. Be more precise. And porn don't give birth btw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:48 PM
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I told you. Now you have a Trojan virus, congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:46 PM
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I'm just saying that it's not the woman's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:34 PM
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This is pure blame-shifting. If "you problem" means he's simply not attracted to the woman, they should break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:20 PM
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Pornography use was highly prevalent (> 85%) in all age groups. Prevalence of problematic pornography use among participants was 12.5%. There was statistically high prevalence of problematic pornography use among male participants (P < .001), nearly daily consumption of pornography per week (P < .001) and more than 20 min of consumption per day (P <.001). A statistical significant negative correlation was shown (r = −0.483, P < .001) between age of first exposure to pornography and problematic p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:13 PM
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Following women on Ig, paying for onlyfans, and watching corn and thirst traps is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:49 PM
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it's quite difficult to determine what behavior is a "replacement" of the real thing, and what is simply the usual corn consumption, which is what 90% of men do. Of course, you need to talk about why you were "replaced". But if everything is fine in words and you are loved, but in reality he is addicted and don't want you, there's nothing you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:46 PM
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So I'll look for the few percent who aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:39 PM
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What? If he doesn't watch it's the best relationship imo. If they are not attracted to each other? Break up, why do they even continue to be together
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:35 PM
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Well, my original comment was about men being partly to blame for the male singleness epidemic in a joke form
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:32 PM
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What if she doesn't watch corn? What we are talking about right now is your "personally I think the woman is to blame for her man's addiction/behavior." Lol. Okay, think whatever you want but please speak about this as your opinion, and not as the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:22 PM
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Love without corn addiction, thirst traps and ig models
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:14 PM
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Then call it male singleness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:01 PM
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I am personally anti corn. I don't speak for others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:59 PM
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Your opinion "it's woman's fault" is not an argument "Most likely those women are as low quality as men as the men they attract"- and what? They ate equals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:57 PM
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Women are open about lusting after attractive men, even when in relationships. Those are shitty women They will follow attractive men on social media In much smaller quantities than men, however. I don't see many half-naked Instagram male models
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:40 AM
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strawman. That's not what they were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:38 AM
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If this "settled for" is like in the op, such "love" is no more valuable than toilet paper
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:30 AM
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For me it's not love by definition. Everyone decides for themselves. It’s just not ethical/moral So doesn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:24 AM
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Hahaha, you compared sex toys and porn. Personally, I wouldn't mind my boyfriend using flashlight (just not a dildo please 🤣) , but I would be against porn because I don't watch it myself and I'm generally against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:04 AM
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Personally I don't watch porn for years and highly prefer to date a guy who doesn't watch porn. (That's why I am single lmao) generally I am anti- porn I'm tired of this crap. I was addicted to shitty gay porn fanfiction in past and I know what it's like. It ruins your mind and makes you depressed.I imagine graphic porn is much worse. You know, when I go to a 50yo man's page and see something like r/jailbait and r/latinab00typetitefeet with comments like these: 🥵🍆 I feel that this is too much fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:40 AM
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The loneliness epidemic isn't gendered Exactly. But when you mention it, men will say something about easy mod and that it affects them differently and harder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:32 AM
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Lol, we were talking about just watching porn/thirst traps/follow women on ig, not pure addiction then it's very likely it's a you problem and it's replacing porn to compensate for the lack of sex. "Then it's very likely" isn't a fact. I've read many stories where couples had lots of sex, but the man was still addicted to porn. Men don't stop watching porn even when they have a a lot of sex and see a lot of beautiful women several times a month. There are also study linking porn consumption to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:16 AM
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Personally I don't watch porn at all. I think the amount of sexualy explicit things in our society should decrease because it has negative consequences for people's mental health and there is a lot of research about this. I've seen too much low-quality and downright disgusting content that's painful to watch. I used to think people should freely express their sexuality, but now I see that homo sapiens simply knows no bounds in this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:09 AM
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I know a few 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:57 AM
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Are you stupid? If a man prefers porn to me, that's not me problem or my problem at all, that's him. And you ignore that statistically this "problem" will occur in 90% of couples if we follow your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:51 AM
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Being single >>>>>> be with something like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:29 AM
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They want to torture this poor girl they have settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:10 AM
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You could be very loving in a relationship and be settling for someone at the same time Lmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:07 AM
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We need to stop dating gooners. We need an anti-gooner pill movement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:05 AM
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Why don't I see them in my surroundings?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:02 AM
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"Men want variety". They say so all the time. Woman's appearance doesn't matter, men will still watch porn and possibly cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:59 PM
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A man who dreams about someone else every day and settled for you for sex is not "love"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:55 PM
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Why don't you date someone who isn't a desperate porn addict? endangered species
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:52 PM
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No wonder 20something women are trending towards dating guys who grew up before everyone had a phone in their pocket I don't see such a trend. And men of all ages watch porn. Even 70yo. Creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:52 PM
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What makes you think a man's "type" is a girl who is equal to him in appearance or "smw" and not higher? Most men dream of a 10/10 What makes you think that if I date a guy on my level, he won't watch porn, follow whores on Instagram, onlyfans, and so on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:28 PM
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I'm sure most normal feminists would condemn the shaming of virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:22 PM
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Most women even 10/10 won't be able to get their partners to stop watching porn and the like. Your argument is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:20 PM
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so that maybe guys who aren’t chads can have a decent shot at finding a good relationship with a woman who is on their level. By your own logic men don't want someone who is "on their level". They want the best and even if they get someone on their level and not below, they still choose porn, thirst traps and follow half naked women on ig, because their type is more attractive than them, not on their level, especially if they are below average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:17 PM
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MaLe LoNeLiNeSs EpIdEmIc btw 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:07 PM
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That's physically impossible. 90%+ of men watch porn regularly. addiction levels are rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:04 PM
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There is no such thing as female solidarity, you just made it up. This is the first time I've seen such a term
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:38 PM
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I've never seen this irl. These are dumb women with low intelligence. Don't listen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:46 PM
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Even if this isn't true, more single women aren't looking for partners than single men. Women feel more comfortable being single, and there must be reasons for that. They know men can make them more miserable than they already are https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ We can see from this that after 40 women give up. I'm wondering how much negative experiences with men in the past influence this This corresponds to my point - older women know that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:41 PM
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If you don't call women you sleep with promiscuous and don't judge women based on their body count, then my criticism wasn't directed at you My criticism is about those men who think men can sleep with anyone and everyone, but women should be "pure." I've met quite a few of these people here. The guy I replied to is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:18 PM
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Of course, what you described is also a wild and stupid double standard. I don't know where or who is shaming these men, but it's definitely not majority of women doing it. Mostly guys do it themselves.I want my first bf to be a virgin btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:43 AM
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I am a virgin too and don't want to have sex with more than one person in my life. What you say is how men think. Many women simply don't care. Statistically most women have about five sexual partners in their lifetime. Those who have more is a minority The good news is that I can choose, and I skip men whores
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:38 AM
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Insane double standards. Just stfu dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:21 AM
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And they say women are promiscuous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:10 AM
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what's your source for single older women being the most happy demographic? might it be a flawed study that has since been retracted? Just search man 4b is a fringe minority movement. most normal women don't want to live like that There are a lot of single women who want to be single. They can be called 4b Again: would an older woman want a hypergamous man who is not attracted to her and settle for her? They don't, and prefer to stay single. This is why divorce rate has skyrocketed. Infidelity i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 09:44 AM
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a budget Billie Eilish. Lmao if a girl said something like that about her boyfriend local men would go black pill mode
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:52 AM
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So yeah all porn actresses are pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:36 AM
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Lmfao I shame disgusting pervs, cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:03 PM
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Yes,they are not that interested in you in apps if you are average looks. The whole op discourse refers exclusively to attractive young women. Their favourite studies showed that 2/3 of men's messages are sent to 1/3 of women. Pretty women get 28x times more messages than average women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:06 AM
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He is a 60yo who slept with 18yo, this topic is personal for him lmao 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:53 AM
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A lot of words to justify an evolutionarily disadvantageous fetish. Good luck with your Habsburg children
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:21 AM
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Stfu with that incoherent dementia noises, predator
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:11 AM
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Now therefore kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman that hath known man by lying with him. But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.” LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:42 PM
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That's exactly it. Cougars are simply used for sex in most cases, just like young girls use old farts for resources
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:18 PM
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Men made this thing called a "female delusion calculator", the troll version of what you sent. I think we should do the same for men. https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:01 PM
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The op also expressed it weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:00 PM
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No it is not an age gap at all. 20 yo woman and 25 yo man. Nearly perfect imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:58 PM
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6 and 7 is above average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:18 PM
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His "They are not on a diet. More like the tasty meal only lets you eat once in a very blue moon. But you'd readily eat it when you can."- Is fickin disgusting. Comparing women to objects again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:36 PM
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But they still ended. Because she became too old for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:29 PM
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Most women do not prefer a man their age. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/08/15/a-growing-share-of-us-husbands-and-wives-are-roughly-the-same-age/#:~:text=The%20typical%20age%20gap%20between,continued%20into%20the%2021st%20century https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513801000654 "Consistent with previous findings, women preferred partners of their own age, regardless of their own age and regardless of the level of relationship involvement. " This study is payw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:42 PM
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I tried to count and in fact women they want, that is, young, thin and single, is something like 10% in US. If you remove from this girls with not very pretty faces and non-virgins, the percentage will be tiny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:24 PM
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these men go for younger women because women their age won't have them. This is also a reason. Why would an older woman want a hypergamous man who is not attracted to her and settle for her? Here's why single older women are the most happy demographic. Young girls need a few more years of experience to understand the true nature of men and go 4B.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:20 PM
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Male hypergamy is 1000 times wilder than the female. Of course they try to deny it with all their might in order to portray themselves as victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:17 PM
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Dear men, if you're wondering why women treat you badly, here's one of your fellas demonstrating the reason:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:13 PM
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I don't support a relationship model in which people constantly get together and break up. In my opinion, people should get married earlier and live together their entire lives without divorce, like my parents and all my grandparents. I speak from this perspective when I talk about long-term relationships. In my understanding, "long-term" means at least 10 years. When men and women get together young, ideally they shouldn't suddenly stop being attracted to each other just because they've gotten …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:06 AM
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I can even say with confidence that many of these stories are made up. Men often confuse simply being nice and a simple conversation as an approach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:38 AM
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Women prefer men 3-5 years older than them at any age and attachment in long-term relationships exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:37 AM
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Wtf you are a fuckin creep. Thank God you don't have long left, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:32 AM
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And much harder to offer value in terms of sexiness,lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:23 AM
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5 years is not even an age gap. That's not what op is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:20 AM
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It depends on who's rating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:12 AM
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35 and 24 is not even weird. 50 and 20 is fuckin weird. And btw the average age gap is 1-5 years because women are consistently prefer this range in all studies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:54 AM
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Yes. My 20 yo classmate kissed a 32yo woman, and all the girls in our group agreed that it was at least unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:48 AM
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This "study" from 10 years ago again, with an unknown methodology,sample size and a strange result that looks like a technical errors
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:40 AM
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And 99,9999% of middle aged men are ugly af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:31 AM
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Brad Pitt and Jason Momoa are popular with women in their 30s and 40s. Gen Z girls want someone like Timothée Chalamet who is now 30
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:29 AM
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Based. I'd rather fantasize about a girl, even if I'm completely straight, than about a 50yo old fart. My father is 51, and it's painful to look at him. There are NO fit phisically attractive 50yo. They are ALL ugly and wrinkly, including Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Chris Hemsworth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:21 AM
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Her stupidity doesn't make him any less of a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:08 AM
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Lmao sometimes I look at those old farts and think, "damn he's so ugly," but what if they think I'm eye-fucking them☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:53 AM
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when you know damn well a man in your league wouldn't Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:00 AM
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>I mean the closest male equivalent is probably a guy who is into hentai/anime characters there are millions of them It is very normalised I think it’s rather cute until he is a loli enjoyer of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:39 PM
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Yesterday I was browsing through anonymous messages from people at my uni. All the jokes were about crap, "who pooped in the toilet," video games, how they don't want to wake up to their first class in the morning, and high school slang from freshmen like Italian brainrot. I tasted the atmosphere of a fully formed adults 🤌🤌 A bitter envious 19yo hag btw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:21 PM
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Or maybe it's a fantasy that satisfies existing desires? I'm not saying these desires are morally justified
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:00 PM
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Rather sexually dominant guy, but not abusive lol. Abuse is not dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:45 PM
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>The guy in his 20s would sleep with trans women but then post the most hateful LGBT propaganda on his social media account LMAO “I thought they were regular girls, but when I realized…..it was too late🍆”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:26 PM
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From my personal experience, I can say you're right, but gay stories portray a different side of what women dream about. It's just easier for them to imagine themselves as equal partners by identifying with a gay male character than by making him a girl. It's rather sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:01 PM
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Hi mom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:58 PM
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>13 percent of men are virgin meanwhile it is 10 for women LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:54 PM
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Comment to look at my new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:47 PM
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How is incest evolutionary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:41 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:38 PM
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>Otherwise they would simply write stories with a self insert and an emotional guy. That’s how men’s fantasy work, not women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:36 PM
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>and the women that try to bully men into doing these stuff Are those women in the same planet with us? Example please? where are all those women bulling men into being vampires?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:31 PM
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This. He can have any preferences in his head, but when he starts pouring it out on other people, it becomes a problem. I also do not support women who say trash about short or poor men. They are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:28 PM
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I agree that there are predatory adults who prey on youth. This is a real issue That's what I am talking about. Everything else is irrelevant. Don't try to justify yourself with your stupid terms when you understand perfectly well what I mean by pedo. "Barely legal" is disgusting. Men who watch it are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:57 PM
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Adults' attraction to minors is not normal. Cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:48 PM
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Yes, a 30yo man with a 16yo girl is a pedo. A 30yo woman teacher with 16yo boy is a pedo. Not everything that's legal is morally okay. In my country, the age of consent is also 16, but everyone understands that dating a girl under 18 can easily lead to problems with law.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:42 PM
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The classic pdf response. Ephebophilia is not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:36 PM
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No one assaulted me 🤣 I just hate disgusting men like you who justify their pedo tendencies. Lmao you can't even comprehent that a woman won't support your disgusting overton window fetishes simply because she has her own opinion, and not because she's old/was assaulted/something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:30 PM
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Your argument might apply to some people into "ageplay," but "barely legal" is not that. Having a thing for young women, particularly in an environment where the exact age of consent changes from jurisdiction to jurisdiction and "young love" in one jurisdiction becomes "jailbait" in another, is absolutely NOT the same thing as "everyone wants to fuck little girls" (to quote Roman Polanski). A lot of mental gymnastics for a pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:23 PM
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"Barely Legal" is mostly attacked by women who resent how men-like-young-women. I am 19yo woman and attack it since I was illegal lol. Cry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:17 PM
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Amateurs is also popular category... Last time I checked this category they are all 7+/10 anyway with filters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:25 AM
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That's why it is a fantasy bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:08 AM
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“Despite the less than 12% of males who reported being homosexual or bisexual: 26.8% of all male participants fantasized about giving oral sex to a man 20.6% of all male participants fantasized about having sex with another man” Damn, I'll have to keep that in mind when looking for a boyfriend in the future. Every 3rd one is a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:02 AM
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Damn I am 19 and turn 20 in 2 months, I honestly want to disappear. I'm really wondering if it's worth to continue living with all of that. And I'm not the only girl my age who thinks so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:50 AM
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hah how does your reply relate to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:38 AM
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I want a virgin man. Deal with it. Don't want a used up cheater. Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:13 PM
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No, the words “normal, natural, and moral” are based on the actual definition each person has their own definition of words. this is where all disagreements begin. definitions of words depend on the context and personal experience of the person Yes, just like how gravity is a theory. Doesn’t mean gravity doesn’t exist these are completely different types of theories, the set of disparate theories of evolutionary psychology is not even close in accuracy and reliability Totally wrong. You can reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:57 AM
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But regardless men still usually cheat. It’s normal, natural, but not necessarily moral. everything is based again on how you personally defined the words. According to your definitions it is normal, according to the definitions of others it is not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:13 PM
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So you seriously think most male celebrities are not promiscuous and don’t cheat they are, I'm just talking about normality in a different sense I’m sure most would not leave if he cheats. Well celebrity men usually date celebrity women. They often cheat themselves and for them high value man is not as high value as for an average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:17 PM
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It already is normal, lol finally you admitted that you think this is normal. I don't think this is normal. again, what else is there to talk about? You just proved my earlier point of how women will choose a high mate value men in spite of his promiscuity because he has higher mate value yes, women can choose a man with a high body count but i am sure that 99% of women will not tolerate constant cheating. They will leave sooner or later. And most likely will take the children away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:53 PM
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wow, thanks for such a text. But I tend to think that decent men do not exist and the risks are not worth it so idk what to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:48 PM
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I just said they usually do it because of biology. By justifying cheating with biology we are taking a step towards normalizing it. That's how human thinking works. By not judging these people you have already normalized it in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:26 PM
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didn’t say what I was doing is morally right, I just explained my actions through science it still sounds to me like you're abdicating agency and responsibility for your actions but okay then we have nothing more to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:16 PM
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I am wholeheartedly ready to treat my potential one and only man well but redpills keep telling me that it is the nature of men to cheat, watch porn and fantasize about harems so I am desensitized to normal opinion sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:24 PM
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really they probably just have an agreement or understanding the man will do what he’s evolved to do this is your personal opinion, you didn't ask these women so you don't know what they think.Most of the partners of those celebrities you named may not even know about cheating in the heads of red pills there seems to be an ideal picture where high value men are allowed to do whatever they want (and they of course dream of being in their place) but something tells me that reality and specific cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:11 PM
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Ok if you think men are bad for having their innate mating strategy, I think women are bad for theirs too. overall yes I would say that male promiscuity in action and female hypergamy are not really comparable. They are morally bad in their own way and have nothing in common Female hypergamy deprives large swaths of men from romantic opportunities and reproduction. as well as promiscuous men with a large number of partners btw if one guy has 5 women at the same time 5 guys have none I didn’t mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:56 PM
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yes, men are bad because they have such instincts imo I also think that having a harem is more disgusting than wanting a 6'5 guy. My personal opinion, what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:27 AM
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Again, if the man is not high mate value. Because you would have to explain Beyonce, Hillary Clinton, melania trump, bill cosbys wife, and countless other women married to male celebrities Are you sure they all cheat? Celebrities also constantly get divorced because of cheating, which shows that women are not ready to tolerate it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:23 AM
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if 20% cheat, and another 30% want to, we can safely say that half of men are assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:21 AM
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you said that it's the nature of men. If so, then it doesn't matter whether they act according to it or not, they are already bad in my very personal opinion so idk what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:19 AM
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I would rather fuck a 5'0 incel than a man with a high body count, I swear to you on all the gods. You asked if I would date a man shorter than me, damn if it was between him and a whore, 10 times yes Almost no woman is okay with cheating, that's what i'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:14 AM
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Most women end up marrying ordinary men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:07 AM
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If this is true most women would not want to marry Chris brown or Drake or any male celebrity. they want to, but they want these men to be monogamous with them, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:59 AM
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That’s not a moral judgement. I think that’s what’s pragmatically best for men, women, children and society overall. I agree with this too, but it is impossible if men behave promiscuously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:49 AM
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the percentage of people who commit crimes is tens of times lower than the percentage of people who cheat. 20%+ of men cheat in their lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:17 AM
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a man who leaves a woman with a child because he needs variety does a lot of harm. A particular woman who dates guys taller than her does not denies anyone reproduction, they can still find another woman. Do you have no empathy for the “invisible” men? those who think their true nature is to sleep with 100 women half their age rather than be with one? Being brutally honest I hope they never reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:08 AM
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A lot of men don’t want to wife up high body count women and about 99% of women do not want to marry promiscuous men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:52 AM
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everyone has every right to live as they want, but just as women are hypocrites, so are men like you. I said I am a hypocrite a few replies ago also, who do you think does more harm to others, a woman who dates a man taller than her or a man who fucks with a lot of women? I think the impact of the second is greater in many cases. also, i'm curious how your theory works if women are supposed to be monogamous and men are promiscuous. if all women are monogamous then who will promiscuous men fuck a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:40 AM
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I would date a man poorer than me, but not a man shorter than me because I'm fucking 5'2. A man shorter than me is a dwarf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:21 AM
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You said that a woman should be with one man, that's why I answered you. I found it funny that you think that women should be monogamous but you yourself are not. But if you do not morally judge women who sleep with many men and do not tell them how to live, then you and I have nothing to argue about If a woman has sex with 100 men in a decade vs one, she will not have any more offspring. The children of a woman who was able to secretly cheat on her partner with a HiGh VaLuE male could have a ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:07 AM
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You pointed out extreme examples of hypergamy, rich men and 6’5 men are like 2% of the population you yourself is also a pretty extreme example of male equivalent of hypergamy (or call it mating preferences) since you had many partners of the young age group, which most men don't have I understand that my desires are wrong from a moral point of view, and I reflect on them and do not deny my hypocrisy. I don't even act on my desires but you act and trying to make your actions seem morally normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:45 AM
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Cuz you know I’m right. from the point of view of biological determinism, and in the scenario where your version of evolutionary psychology is the most correct? of course. I wrote to you to tell you that you are an asshole and a hypocrite, not to argue with your theory
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:00 AM
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My only issue with you is that you are making what is essentially a moral judgment about women - that they should sleep with one man. I tell you that on that level of moral judgment, you are a hypocrite, so you should not tell women what to do. From the standpoint of biological determinism, neither your actions nor the actions of women are right or wrong. You cannot accurately predict which strategy will ultimately be most sexually successful for specific individuals, and perhaps for some women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:57 AM
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I'm not arguing with you about this, but about the fact that you continue to hide behind biology, pretending that you are not capable of conscious decisions, and your decisions are a magical call of nature and not the actions of a person who understands what he is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:31 AM
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Answer this, 1/do you want a military for defense? 2/do you want your son (or future son) to be conscripted into a brutally violent war? If your answers are different, is it hypocritical? an unrealistic example, in normal countries they serve in the army under a contract, and I don’t expect my son to get there if he doesn’t serve under a contract. I would say that not wanting your son to go to war is not hypocrisy, but normal emotions, but keeping him from going to war would be considered hypocr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:26 AM
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by using I mean that you think the best solution for all women is to be monogamous with one man, but you don't contribute to this, but rather hinder it with your behavior. It's like a priest who preaches that homosexuality is a sin, but rapes boys himself because he is a gay pedophile and it is his "nature"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:01 AM
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yes it's hypocrisy because you think it's the wrong strategy for these girls but you happily use them you realize what you're doing and that makes you a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:58 PM
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oh I see, you're saying straight out that you used them. thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:50 PM
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you're just a disgusting hypocrite, man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:46 PM
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So you're promiscuous and at the same time you advise women to get married early and be with one man? rp's logic is incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:39 PM
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if he is right about what men want i think ceasing reproduction and going extinct is the best moral choice for humanity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:26 PM
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he says that and then he says something about women being with one man. 🤡 They are genuinely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:19 PM
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I agree! Your birth is also your mother's fault, she should have thought better 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:11 PM
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a woman can be anything, but her appearance always matters much more for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:41 PM
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Men value looks way more than anything else in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:41 PM
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there are a lot of men in the answers here who only confirm the op's position
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:01 PM
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ok why do I need this information? Personally I don't watch porn and I am against my partner watching it because I consider it a form of cheating. Besides, at the moment porn really causes a lot of problems for people who learned about it too early, the amount of addiction has grown very much. the porn that is now is not quite what it used to be. To deny that porn addiction is a serious problem for many people that negatively affects relationships is to ignore the problem. Do you know the sub de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:19 AM
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Op already said everything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:39 AM
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ok and most monogamous women don't want men who want multiple women. what else can we talk about ? I'm not into VaRiEtY and don't care about men's nature. If there are 5% normal men in the world, well ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:08 PM
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In my country the divorce statistics are 60% women 40% men Even do men might be more sexual driven then women in average. Men are a whole lot more likely to actually take the vows much more seriously then women do. And if one side has a higher sex drive the the other there always gonna be a outlet. Like before the internet there was playboy. Before that strip clubs and gentlemen clubs. and? i'm just telling you that even men who have regular sex watch porn and pay for of and often choose it over…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:35 PM
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You said in your very first comment that men often wanted to find "younger women" so men are quite aware of the difference in attractiveness. I'm tired of your bs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:58 PM
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Of and porn is less fantasy and closer to reality than romance fiction. Understand now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:23 PM
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that is, men are not suitable for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:20 PM
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🤣😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:41 PM
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I don't read such crap they are so poorly written that you can laugh at it day and night so I don't know. I think boundaries in a relationship should be discussed in advance whether both are comfortable watching porn or reading such crap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:40 PM
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https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/how-many-men-watch-porn/ first link on request
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:15 PM
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If porn is cheating, then reading about tall badboy billionaires is cheating Okay I won't read it if my partner doesn't like it. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:14 PM
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you are right, but we are talking about majority/minority. If a man, for example, in 20% of cases lost his sexual desire because his wife became fat, but in 40% of cases because of porn addiction, then the 2nd option is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:12 PM
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If the absolute minority of men are normal and not "polygynous" - then the minority of men are suitable for relationships, It's that simple. Men who are not considered normal will of course loudly justify that they are normal and all men are like that, but I think most women will still look for those who are truly faithful both in body and soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:09 PM
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I'm saying that in a lot of cases where dudes don't want to sleep with their wives, it's because those women have completely let themselves go. as was found in a study by the university of trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:19 PM
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men who don't want sex with their partners because they prefer porn is a VERY common problem. I see such posts everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:17 PM
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in dead bedroom marriages Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:13 PM
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Why does there have to be some reality in which a man finds one woman more attractive than any other woman and rejects all others? Because there are objectively more and less attractive women? just don't fantasize about cheating and you're a good man. Is it that hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:06 PM
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90% of OF users married 90% of men watch porn, a lot of them married loss of sexual desire for girlfriend/wife due to male porn consumption is a common problem in modern relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:00 PM
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But still jerk off to her. Madonna- whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:54 PM
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She is 100% right cry harder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:51 PM
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far fewer women who cheat than men who watch porn. as I remember on average 10-15 percent of women cheat, while 90% of men watch porn I just said your argument "I know that a man with regularly drained balls won't even think about watching porn." Isn't true obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:49 PM
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Okay, 50% addicted to it there is nothing worse than women coping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:41 PM
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I think I can make such generalizations considering that more than 80% of them watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:49 AM
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Well my parents are not fat. I remember in childhood I thought people don't have sex after 30. I only found out a few years ago that people over 40-50 have sex... just hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:46 AM
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1% is not statistically significant I think and then old farts just being assholes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:32 AM
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if depressionmaxed is not a joke then of course it's not funny I hope you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:30 AM
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maybe but there are also subs posts and stats indicating the opposite even if indirectly. For me an example is my own family. My parents completely lost sexual attraction to each other very early
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:26 AM
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are you blind? on your graph at 18-29 women cheat more BY 1 PERCENT and after it men cheat MUCH more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:16 AM
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you also have to accept reality - 99% of women will not put up with your nature Women should look for normal men even if they are an absolute minority then and by the way if your girlfriend cheated on you then she was essentially just looking for better genes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:59 AM
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I thought so too until I saw WHAT exactly men watch, how much time, energy, money they spend on it and how addicted they are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:50 AM
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Cause depressionmaxxed man looks so incelish to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:48 AM
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Look I know that a man with regularly drained balls won't even think about watching porn. and i know there are plenty of porn addicted men or cheaters who have sex regularly. i see posts from women about it everywhere also men who don't want sex with their girlfriends/wives because they like porn more is a VERY common problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:45 AM
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depends on what you mean by "usually attracted to other women besides their long-term partner" if it's just finding other women attractive, ok. if it's finding a lot of other women more attractive than your wife/wanting to find a mistress, sorry but your nature is shit and the human species should die out in short you completely confirm the op
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:34 AM
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I wouldn't care if my husband "comes home" if he fell in love with someone else or he likes someone else more than me now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:31 AM
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you hold on to the word as if it were something sacred. we can just come up with a new word and that's it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:29 AM
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I mean you complained in other comments that women don't like ugly guys but at least you're honest and admit that men are basically the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:28 AM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ You just confirmed my point. If they are constantly fantasizing about FUCKING CHEATING they are nor dating nor husband material. You can try to justify it however you want but the vast majority of women will be really uncomfortable with it If it is "nature" then sorry your nature is fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:26 AM
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Porn is mild cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:22 AM
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In studies that examined the reasons for men and women cheating, the main reason for a man cheating was something like "there was an opportunity to cheat". Therefore, it is quite safe to say that there is a large percentage of men who do not cheat only because they do not have the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:21 AM
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no it doesn't change their real desires and intentions. a man who fantasizes of cheating and actually cheating is almost the same thing for his women this means that the ONLY reason he is "loyal" is because he is unable to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:11 AM
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Yes probably it is the best option
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:10 AM
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you don't care so much that for some reason you found my answer to another person and wrote this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:08 AM
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Imo it is. Some people think so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:06 AM
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Well I see incest shit everywhere on those sites
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:05 AM
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Yes it's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:35 PM
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at least you're an honest incel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:26 PM
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Cheating is usually the result of losing attraction for your partner over many, many months and maybe even years. So proves OP point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:15 PM
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Brutal but true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:11 PM
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prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:10 PM
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So the only reason men don't behave like this is that they don't have an opportunity? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:07 PM
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He’s some men are like this but not all men. Just a reminder more than 80% of men watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:03 PM
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The men who u are attracted to not us. Plenty of unattractive guys are cheaters and porn addicts. Married ones also
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:01 PM
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The majority of men also wouldn’t cheat on their partner. Only because they don't have an opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:58 PM
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Yes most women prefer monogamy and most men are incapable of monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:48 PM
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Good men also don’t want to completely abandon their primary partner who helps them with the offspring whom are their heirs, even if these men are also attracted to younger women. Unlike a lot of women, men can be attracted to multiple women simultaneously. you say it unironically as if it refutes and doesn't actually confirm OP I can't even decide if this is scary or hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:46 PM
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Men often wanted to find mistresses or younger women, of course. But good ones usually still stuck around with their primary partners in order to ensure that their offspring were provided for. If they wanted it in the first place they are not "good men" IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:42 PM
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If only reason men don't behave like this is their "low value" it doesn't change ANYTHING actually it's even worse 🤦‍♀️ It still makes wast majority of men fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationships if not all of men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:34 PM
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"Some men" is 10% AT BEST
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:31 PM
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Women watch much less porn. As you can see porn addiction is on rise now and somehow it's almost exclusively male problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:30 PM
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It is cheating in its essence. And yes for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:28 PM
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It's cute how they attacked you with "violence " thing but completely ignored pedo shit because most men here are probably that sixth dude lol I think this fact alone is enough to promote celibacy among women Or being with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:18 PM
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Or maybe you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:11 PM
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Again that is not true and does not fit the definition of either word. Doesn't matter what word I would use don't pretend you don't understand what i mean Such a small minority of people that we can dismiss their weird view out of hand. Quite a few women including me think that what is described is cheating. Search the posts asking "do you think it's ok if your partner watch porn" and you'll be surprised how many women are against it I personally think that a men who watch porn several times a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:10 PM
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ONE in SIX ☠️☠️☠️☠️ I feel like I'm becoming more and more of a lesbian every day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:55 PM
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You ignored everything else because you just have nothing to say, right?🤥 If it's not violence, it's incest or something else. Most porn still contains violence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:53 PM
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it is very hard to design a study that could confirm the existence of "wife goggles" and make it UNBIASED. So women should not believe this crap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:47 PM
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Yes and the point is when they got a girlfriend or wife it's not enough. It will continue with porn and cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:34 PM
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The invincible Madonna-whore complex 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:26 PM
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Yes, absolutely. You can try to minimize it but there has been an insane growth in sex work in just a couple of years. In fact, we are at a point where it's an oversaturated market becouse the demand can't keep up with the overabundance of supply. Sorry I will minimize it because there are 1% of women who do porn and 90% of men who watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:24 PM
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0 self awareness men are all the same 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:22 PM
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Because I am thinking about something abstract while masturbating. I think men usually think about something more specific especially if porn is included
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:20 PM
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It's all the same 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:17 PM
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when redpils talk about women, they always talk about high quality women and "quality" for some reason is always determined by appearance and age much more than "body count" or "wife material"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:14 PM
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Men simp for strippers and OF hoes because they (these men) are losers who will never experience anything resembling love of a desirable woman ever in any other way. So men want hot women and women want hot men lmao Btw you know that MOST men in relationships watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:10 PM
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No they basically aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:07 PM
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Madonna-whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:06 PM
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all of you just latched on to the definition. We can just come up with another word, it won't change what op tried to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:04 PM
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it's that a lot more women are open to prostituting themselves than what's comfortable to admit. Are you talking about less than 1% of women who have of? Lmao no demand - no supply
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:01 PM
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this is unironically hillarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:55 PM
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95% of the men who sub to an only fans woman would never date or marry them. you added marriage and relationships to the equation, but if we look only in the sexual context, your position rather confirms what op said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:53 PM
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ahahaha I hope so 👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:48 PM
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am sad to say that a majority of women who i know in real life and have met online are in some sort of poly, ENM, or open relationship. unlikely, your sample was probably biased. Research doesn't point to it, most women want long-term monogamous relationships. Men do too, but that could be because men don't have the opportunity to be polygamous or because of social norms. Women may also say they want monogamy because of social norms, but women still cheat less often than men and less often for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:47 PM
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I think even feminism won't really help with this because that's their nature. Especially with cheating and porn. And nature in this context means the exact opposite of right and normal unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:38 PM
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I would say men are polygamous. my belief is that if they had the opportunity, the majority of men would live a lifestyle close to polygamy-hypergamy, like DiCaprio (hypergamy here because he chooses only the most beautiful women and not all of them like in real animal polygamy), and watching porn simply reflects this nature of men. Meanwhile, women are in a delusion of romantic love and believe that their man will love them completely and only them, which most likely men are physiologically inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:50 PM
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The OP equating looking at online prostitutes with dating and marriage is quite frankly ridiculous. It is not ridiculous you are a men so probably you are incapable of understanding why op feels like that. When you "look" (jerk off) at those prostitutes you are imagining sex with them. Sex with women 3 times more attractive than you or your partner. It is 1) male equivalent of hypergamy or more precisely it is a reflection of male polygamy 2) essentially cheating (for some people)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:39 PM
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Sure men have a greater attraction to hotter women but they happily date and marry looks-matched partners constantly jerking off to ig models and porn and looking at every pretty girl passing by lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:33 PM
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ewww thank god there are women like you who opened my eyes before I got into this. Idk what kind of crap is in these men's heads
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:31 PM
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according to statistics more than 80% of men watch porn including married and in relationships. I can say with some confidence that most of them exhibit the pattern I am talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:25 PM
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you want to prove to yourself that women's infidelity is worse than men's infidelity to maintain in your head the paradigm that women behave worse than men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:22 PM
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Majority of men or half of them at least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:20 PM
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If you are a girl that's impossible just go for girls or be alone. It is highly unlikely that you will find a man who does not fantasize about cheating on a daily basis or is not a secret pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:59 PM
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90% of women in porn are young and attractive so yes 🤥 they are go for what they can get but always lust for hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:58 PM
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For a lot of women porn is a deal breaker from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:54 PM
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No. Physical attraction is not the same thing as being attracted to status and resources no matter how hard you try to twist the definition to make it so. yes, it is much worse. status and resources are what is under a person's control, but appearance and age are not. we can come up with another word for male hypergamy but the essence will not change
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:48 PM
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If a man "settles" and then constantly consumes porn and OF and lusts after 18-21 year old women that still proves the point that the majority of men lust after a minority of women He is 100% right with this you are simply denying the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:14 PM
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If they wouldn't constantly fantasize about other women and watch porn, it wouldn't be settling. They claim they are animals and physically can't, so it's not just settling but literally humiliating the woman they are in a relationship with. Hypergamy x10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:54 PM
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A man can love a woman and still cheat on her. Everyone has their own definition of love, and according to my own definition, no way. in my personal definition, if one of the partners has cheated, everything that was between them before is automatically devalued and discredited and is not love and never was. Cry about it idk what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:50 PM
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Would you want to be in a relationship where every time you masturbated you had your partner over your shoulder grilling you to make sure you're only thinking about him every time you do it? That doesn't sound controlling at all to you? It would be annoying but reasonable. I wouldn't protest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:17 PM
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Policing arousal and thoughts is...a choice. I don't think it's a reasonable expectation but it's your life to live. replacing porn consumption with euphemisms to reduce its significance is manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:15 PM
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Face the reality. Most of these 89% of married people on of cheating on their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:06 PM
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So they basically settling and coping with porn addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:03 PM
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The post also discusses married men who watch and pay for it. This is an important clarification. "men's desire" is not an excuse for cheating and porn if such a boundary was in the relationship from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:58 PM
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So a men who cheated on a woman in your opinion "care about their partner " while the woman "don't and never cared about their partner"? You are so pathetic honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:54 PM
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Haha okay it would be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:45 PM
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firstly everyone knows this old chart from dataclysm but no one seems to know its methodology secondly early 20's is 20-24 (title of article) It would be great if they conducted a new study. Even the article you sent is from 2014 and paywalled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:44 PM
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That's your personal opinion it shouldn't be interpreted as settling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:29 PM
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A woman's appearance may not affect the likelihood of marriage, but I'm very interested in how it affects the likelihood of her husband cheating 🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:24 PM
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this range is getting narrower and narrower before it was 20-30 now 18-21 I feel soon it will be 12-13 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:22 PM
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beautiful thin single girls of this age group are an absolute MINORITY. this is the same as hypergamy. It's that virtually all men lust for the 18-24 fertile women THE MOST, and then also lust for other women outside that narrow range but not as much. the same applies to the top 20% of men and other men women may want the top 20% but in the end they are with regular men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:10 PM
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the point is you have to be at least 8/10 (10/10 most of the time) for this if you didn't get it 🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:03 PM
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Do you realize that most women who act in porn got there because of hopelessness and lack of money? Even of creators
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:52 PM
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all this defense of porn looks so pathetic. Millions of studies prove the harm of porn for both consumers and for women who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:50 PM
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18 year olds may not be stupid (although most of the times they are) but that doesn't make creeps any less creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:43 PM
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When he is in relationship and actively seeking for those naked women yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:37 PM
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And yet porn addiction is mostly men's problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:33 PM
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Okay if you don't like the word hypergamy used in the context of men we can just make up a new word for men's obsession with the top 1 percent of women no problem lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:11 PM
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yeah although statistics show that men cheat more often and precisely because of lust 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:03 PM
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In this context, we're calling men's desire men in relationships, corrected you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:01 PM
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No, that's not quite it. I see a reflection of a concrete person in them. It's hard to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:59 PM
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Notice none of them even try to pretend to be a decent person. RPs are ordinary men, but who say what they really think. 101% of men will cheat the second they get the chance - fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:53 PM
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If It is not hypergamy, it is WORSE than hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:51 PM
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Do women suddenly lose all sexual attraction to other men when they get into a relationship? For me kind of yes. I start to like only those characters in TV series that are similar to my crush for example
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:30 PM
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It has nothing to do with political correctness or woke
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:11 PM
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maybe you confused me with someone else? i only answered a couple of your massages or I didn't see some of your answers Anyway I'm too lazy now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:04 AM
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I still don't get it. Are you trying to say that ugly people exist? I didn't try to argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:38 AM
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what "did"? I didn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:27 AM
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i just meant that sometimes very beautiful girls of model level appearance work at starbucks lol. model looks don't automatically get them some special job
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:18 AM
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it's not about some people being more attractive than others. that doesn't make the concept any less dehumanizing. the fact that "value" in the "sexual market" is attributed solely to appearance is already debatable to begin with. the contexts in which "smv" concept is used creates a picture that the superficial things in people are the only things that matter, and people have no intrinsic value and it is completely irrelevant for romantic relationships. concepts like love, respect, affection lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:15 AM
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BRUH...being attracted to looks which are fades over time is absolutely conditional. I would say more conditional than being attracted to status money or what else Just search the internet a bit and you will see a bunch of girls who are tired of men only valuing them for their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:28 PM
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Doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:27 PM
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YES. This concept is absolutely humiliating and dehumanizing, for both men and women. No one really can prove that in reality there is any "smv" exists
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:27 PM
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finally a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:17 PM
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this bro is seriously defending sexualization of incest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:35 PM
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but BBW and mature have been default porn categories Well, there were also...other categories ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:25 PM
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Isn't she forgetten now? I heard about her in like 2020
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:18 PM
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These men technically exist in the same way that male asexuals exist Nah they are way more common. there's a big difference between a guy just wanting to sleep with me on the first date in his imagination and actually having done it in the past and being into hook ups Personality, looks, age, and sexual security indicators are all about 25% for getting with her initially. What is sexual security? Don't worry. When your looks have faded, he'll be an old man and his options will have faded too. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:28 PM
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Women deemed 80% of men are below average in terms of sexual attraction, while men deemed 95% of women as either close to, or above average in terms of sexual attractiveness there was a study that no one talks about where women rate most men as "average" when they know them, like they are friends, and the distribution looks normal. I also read that this 80/20 is exaggerated, and looks more like 60/40 but can't find the links right now Explain why 80yo grandmas get half a thousand of average men …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:25 AM
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The reason men are dating is primarily sex Okay,the reason YOU are dating is sex. If you swap the woman out for a different one, you'll find that suddenly a serious man is just looking for a hookup and vice versa. i think you're right, but speaking for myself, i'm not attracted to guys who are interested in hooking up with someone without a relationship, even if they can be interested in both with different women. i've met enough guys who don't want sex with someone they don't love and who they …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:51 AM
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Dating apps proved beyond any doubt that women are sexually repulsed by the vast majority of men Which by definition means that women in majority of relationships aren't sexually attracted to their partners, and simply settled for them According to your logic: stat shows that most messages from men on dating apps are actually sent to the top most attractive girls and the top percent girls have tens of times more likes than average girls. Men in relationships regularly watch porn in which the top…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:22 PM
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or are most women old and/or single mothers? Actually most are over 30, given the life expectancy of 70-80 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:02 PM
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stats show that the overwhelming majority of men's messages are addressed to the top most attractive girls, in contrast to the likes and swipes they give to everyone without distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:14 PM
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In your worldview where men think like women and prioritize an emotional connection before sex, what exactly are guys meant to be getting out of it? Do you think that a guy should need to feel emotionally safe with a woman before he feels okay sleeping with her? Safe from what? His feelings getting hurt if she dumps him afterwards? you can't even reorient your thinking so that the central goal is a long-term relationship, and not just sleeping together. I think that's why we don't understand eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:19 PM
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Do you have any idea what I'd give for attractive women to treat me like a piece of meat ok you basically told me that men are obsessed with sex like that's something new and then discard me and not interested in a normal real relationship. Average constitution of a man who is not dating material lol i don't know about other girls but i can't have sex and feel aroused by a guy i don't have an emotional connection and feel safe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:29 PM
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If the sex is good enough, you could be that piece of meat to him. The one he always remembers. 🤢🤢Do you even hear what you're talking about? This attitude is the reason why we have "mAle loNelINes EpEdemic" It doesn't change anything bro. I don't want sex, I want relationships. I can live without sex for a very long time, it is not important to me, and there are many people like me. A long-term emotional connection is important to me, and if it cannot exist, I do not need sex even with the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:38 PM
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Imagine getting 30 minutes with a millionaire famous rock star whose albums you've been buying since you were 15. How is that not the most amazing superpower?? I have 0 desire to just sleep with them. I fantasize about relationships with such men, but I am not interested in being a peace of meat for them for 30 minutes. I think many girls will agree with me. But the minority of horny ones would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:49 AM
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meet up and fuck Women in general much more interested in relationships than that. I am myself this ugly girl who sit at home reading fanfics...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:19 PM
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I can feel lust if a guy initiates first and feels lust towards me, touches me and so on. I don't experience this feeling first and it can't push me to initiate the act, because it only turns on when a guy starts it first.. something like that. and of course this only applies to a specific guy that I like, never someone random. as for super handsome strangers, I can at most be aware of their physical attractiveness and want to get to know them better, but their appearance alone never makes me wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:53 PM
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A lot of above average woman aren't going to talk to them. Why are guys like you are mostly interested in above average and not girls in your league
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:38 PM
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women read erotic stories/novels/fanfiction much more often than they watch corn. this is a known fact. as a rule, these stories have a plot in which the characters come together. or if it is regular corn, girls fantasize about this closeness. at least this is how it is for me and based on stat. girls do not really like graphic corn, or only if there is a plot with an emotional connection. i myself used to really like korean manhwas about boys' love 👬and wrote erotic fanfics myself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:02 PM
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You're probably talking about men who are young and have never been in a relationship. No it was 40yo men with girlfriends here.... but the women you're in love with is more attractive to you than anyone. Than I don't really believe in such love. I think people don't change. A lot of men are always attracted to young women and abandon their girlfriends over and over. and it's better to avoid such people from the very beginning. They can be recognized by how obsessed they are with youth and age I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:12 PM
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So in your mind if a 20 year old man who isn't attracted to 40 year old women, marries a 20 year old women then he won't be attracted to his wife when she's 40? No, more like if 40 yo man attracted to 20 yo 100 times more than women his age like some people here in the comments it is not a good choice for any women Oh please. You think women who had pictures of prince William on their wall find him just as attractive now he's bald and kinda looks like shit? Young women no, a lot of older women y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:16 PM
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the point is you develop a deeper more meaningful relationship after the initial attraction. I simply don't believe it. I don't believe that a person who was initially repulsed by some minimal age-related changes, because of which he didn't want to get to know you, is capable of looking at it in a radically different way in the future. This person will always be sexually repulsed by age-related changes, whether it's you or someone else.and I emphasize the word "sexually". That doesn't mean that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:39 AM
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if a man is attracted to a woman by her appearance regardless of age, then fine. mainly because i think that genetics and facial structure determine beauty much more than age. For example, i am very young but i am ugly, and no glow up will help me. Any pretty 30 year old girl will be more pretty than me simply because she was born that way. if a men is initially repulsed by some signs related to women over 30, there is no point in starting a relationship with such a person. maybe he will have ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:02 AM
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Well, I think if they really weren't attracted, half of the people on earth wouldn't exist, because women give birth well after 25, and nowadays the first child is later than that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:40 PM
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the more attractive you are the more likey they will want to know more about you. and leave you when you start getting old because these are the type of men who attach enough importance to appearance and superficial things that the age figure can become a deal breaker in the beginning I don't want those people to want to know more about me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:51 PM
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On average yes, but the question is to what degree. we can't calculate it's not mathematics. Well, and personally I think that men for whom age and appearance are so important, and not because they want 10 children but because they just like the most beautiful models are not "high value men", so if you exclude them from your dating pool from the beginning then "smv" will not really fall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:16 PM
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No, OP was asking why some men act or seem like women over 25 are disgusting. That's what I meant, but op wasn't talking about "value" she was talking about the ton of men who call women of a certain age disgusting. Your answer is "if you groom yourself you will be attractive" but what op is saying contradicts that because there are a ton of men who will verbally abuse you and ignore you based on age alone. Having "less value" in someone's eyes is not equal to be ignored immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:41 PM
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It’s like a billionaire losing 90% of his wealth and still being “rich”. Most women are not billionaires in terms of looks, they are average. So if they so if they become, say, 30% less attractive, we can classify them as unattractive.and if they became unattractive for, say, 40% of men, we can say that they are unattractive in general. If "value of women is much more lover" as lots of guys say it means unattractive. "Much more" is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:30 PM
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You don't see the men who are older than their young girlfriends ask about: but when 50% of women at 18yo want an older partner, why should i date an 18yo as an older man, when only 3% want an older partner at 45yo? Won't she leave me at that point? "50% of women want older partners"- yes, 3-4 years older than them on average, not 15
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:09 AM
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Do you think if you had your glow up at 21 rather than 30 you would have had a higher Smv than you did at 30? If "smv" is sexual market value, than we can't 100% objectively answer because different people understand this "smv" different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:08 AM
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Yes it means not attractive. Don't pretend please
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:05 AM
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yeah, men can have multiple relationships, but women can't. I understand what your traditions are. Thank god real traditional men are not like you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:01 AM
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ah, a man pretending to be traditional and choosing only those parts of "tradition" that he likes and enjoys. it's clear, we have nothing to talk about. i hate men who call women 304 but are themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:44 PM
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I would say most men that ddon’t fall for the feminist propaganda that they should only entertain women their age are traditional leaning. Traditional mem should "entertain" their only wife not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:17 PM
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Often they mean phisically. Or they say something like 50 yo man in equal to 30yo women in terms of aging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:33 PM
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wife goggles Doesn't really work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:00 PM
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"Smv" is not the best concept for finding love I doubt what kind of relationship you have with your wife. Sorry, but I bet you'll cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:38 PM
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The guy in the comment above literally say "your value is much more lover", it is the same as "not attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:31 PM
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There are much more of this. Don't pretend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:24 PM
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Men think they become more attractive with age)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:20 PM
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no, you can't change your facial bone structure. 4-5/10 will never become a 7. 7 is literally noticeably above average, i.e. more attractive than most. What you wrote in your original comment : "Girl who’s 21 ould go to a club and have some guy inviting her into his booth he paying for and dropping 1000s to impress her, or she could walk into a job interview and coast off her looks if the interviewer is a guy"- clearly does not apply to an average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:04 PM
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How many of these traditional men are there now? "Experience is by far the most valuable trait in that position." - well, your opinion. "In women experience tends to just mean baggage, so there’s that to." - also your personal opinion and double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:56 PM
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Oh of course all girls are 7/10. You just proved my point, you judge women based on the small percentage, not average. 70% are below 7 and "shit happens" does not justify your behavior. it is solely your responsibility that you simp for someone, the girl has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:53 PM
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How many of these traditional men are there now? "Experience is by far the most valuable trait in that position." - Well, your opinion. "In women experience tends to just mean baggage, so there’s that to." - also your opinion Double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:50 PM
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How many of these traditional men are there now? "Experience is by far the most valuable trait in that position." - Well, your opinion. "In women experience tends to just mean baggage, so there’s that to." - Also your opinion and double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:49 PM
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18 yo women generally want 20-25 yo guys. Not 30+ yo. Also stats. Just remind you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:04 PM
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yes if it is a ltr then it is. but most of these 40 year old men who are chasing 20 year old girls don't even think about a ltr with them. and if so then where were they all these years? why did they wait until their sperm quality got worse to start a family? why did they wait until they got to the point where their child would be like 10 when they are 50 and they don't have the energy to even play with them? these men did not choose monogamy, family and their "natural attraction to young girls"…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:54 PM
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op talked about aggression towards women, calling them disgusting, promoting the idea that everyone should choose 20 year old girls, and not about the personal choice of some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:44 PM
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Most girls have never had a guy who "simp" them. Only very attractive 5% girls have such a privilege. But you don't notice ordinary and especially ugly girls, that's why you think so. you don't perceive them as women and their experience doesn't matter because they are not your "reference" and the kind of girl you would ideally date (those 5% models) Also you say "women can get men to lose control and simp for them " as if men are brainless animals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:24 PM
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it does not mean men are not capable of loving you or finding you beautiful past it. Lots of them claim they are incapable By the time you are both old and falling apart, you would have ideally built up a history of love and memories and care that makes your partner irreplaceable. You will always be replaceable because of your looks and your husband will find you less attractive than random women or corn There is no point in dating if you have 7 years of "peak". I will only be at the beginning o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:59 PM
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