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I think it’s because men will want to judge women for superficial reasons such as age or sexual behavior but then on the flip side complain about being judged for superficial reasons. Some men, not all, will want to be able to label a woman undesirable because of her age and most men will happily agree. The moment a woman says she doesn’t want a man under 6’3 alarm bells ring off for a lot of men & then they want to say “well the reason you can’t find a suitable partner is because you’re going f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:58 PM
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Well as a student who actually does research on populations, I’d be the first to tell you that in general surveys are not used by sociologists to make large assumptions like what you did about the entire world population. Because it’s really hard to sample the entire population of the world. And how did you expect me to find the exact study you posted with no link to read? But the fact I was able to poke holes in what you said without it speaks volumes. Now that you’ve added the context that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:49 PM
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It’s funny how people interpret studies to mean what they want. Sexlessness in males is hard to define as what men may consider “sexless” is varied—for example, one man may think he’s “sexless” because he hasn’t done anything other than oral. A man might think he’s having lots of sex because he is. Therefore, in a study like that, you can’t just slap that statistic on & say “well that study means that women are just sleeping with the same men”…no, especially if you haven’t even compared that alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:42 PM
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Um, you do know the clubs you worked weren’t the authority on clubs, right? They don’t set the standards for clubs nationwide do they? I said in my culture because it may be relative to specifically where I’m at. And what do you mean some don’t require heels? I can literally go to one tonight in a city over from me and they have no white tee shirts & heels for ladies, otherwise you pay extra or may not be allowed in. Throwing in college clubs is irrelevant to this—those are young girls who go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:36 PM
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Is that a woman thing or a human thing?Because my ex is a perfectly good example of what you just explained and he’s a man. Now what if I assumed that everything is perfect for men and the moment I’m not perfect they devalue me and painted every man as living with that rule in their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:41 PM
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This may be more tied to my culture but the reason women dress akin to men’s attention in my world is mostly due to the fact that if not, you can be denied entry to clubs/bars if you aren’t attractive enough or meet a certain aesthetic. Or, you don’t want to be the friend that ruins group pics by having on jeans and flip flop and everyone is well dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:39 PM
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My friends and I started going to gay clubs because men were less aggressive, and less likely to approach, it had nothing to do with being noticed. It actually had the opposite intention—not being noticed. Not having a drunk guy in my ear telling me shit I don’t want to hear when I just want to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:37 PM
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I’m saying the OP was talking about how women don’t “deserve” certain things and I just don’t think that’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:29 PM
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It’s sitting somewhere between Satan’s ass and Hell allegedly…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:17 PM
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I don’t think they truly want the average woman, I think some men’s idea of “average woman” has been warped by social media to be this level of perfection that just truly doesn’t exist, or is artificial by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:00 PM
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That’s the only part that really got me is the “you don’t deserve this”…I mean who is anyone to quantify or judge what someone deserves?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:57 PM
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Because then we’d recognize it for the half brained scheme it is lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:53 PM
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No, I think the issue is the lens under which you’re choosing to view it. Women are going to the club to dance with friends, get drunk etc. They aren’t necessarily even going to the club to meet a man, so regardless of if their attractive or not, it doesn’t matter to a sizable majority of club-going women. They’re doing it just to get out the house lol, which is vv true in the case of most women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:21 PM
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See I love when people add the context that was intentionally left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:22 AM
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Yeah that’s very true, it’s like the arguments I see go back and forth and I just have to sit back and laugh at how silly they are. I’m always wondering if I’m the only person who thinks a lot of it is a lack of having genuine healthy relationships offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:19 AM
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And you believe that all women think they’re attractive? And that’s why the makeup industry is going broke? And the hair extension companies are going bankrupt. And expensive clothing is on a downward trend. And all of these plastic surgery enhancements are being skipped over because “all women are pretty and they all get to have confidence and egos because society never challenges that!” What studies have you read that show women are satisfied in the current climate? Or that they’re more satisf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:30 AM
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I said ridiculous not massive so that’s where your reading failed you, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:29 AM
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Do you genuinely think men don’t have a delusional sense of themselves? Every man thinks he’s special in his own way for whatever reason valid or not. With the ridiculous amount of men with a podcast who consider themselves “quality men” but some are living in their cars, some don’t have gainful employee or don’t even meet their own qualifications. I think everyone on the planet has some sense of delusion about their abilities and it is reinforced by those around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:15 AM
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This is the real answer. A lot of the responses I see on here make me wonder if people actually interact with people offline. I’m sure I’d hate men if I only based it off what I see in forums or online, but the men I know IRL are so vastly different that it’s a reminder that fools exist in pockets everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:06 AM
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I really do think the way people have these gender debates and paint either gender with such broad and dramatic strokes is so weird. I have just simply not witnessed large droves of women harass a man for saying he’s handsome. I’ve definitely seen it more on the hand for both genders over weight more than anything & it’s usually some fitness trainer telling men and women they’re going to die for being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:04 AM
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It’s such an elementary take and it ignores the fact that men have a get out of jail free card in the fact that they don’t have to carry the life for 9 months, thus they have an option from conception to have a kid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:03 AM
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You must have never seen the comments of a woman who isn’t considered conventionally attractive. A woman who is considered obese posts a picture out eating and check the comments they are definitely being held accountable. This just isn’t true. For everyone we can think whatever we want of ourselves but that doesn’t mean society isn’t going to reinforce concepts about what’s acceptable and not. A man can think he’s a 10 but someone is going to still think he’s too skinny or too fat. A woman can …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:01 AM
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I don’t got nowhere else to go 😂
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:35 AM
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Typically I know them in some capacity…my casual sexual encounters were mostly with other students at university…after college I hooked up with a coworker & it transitioned into a relationship. Other than that, not really into casual sex with strangers
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:34 PM
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And you’re honestly right. At 5’8 I don’t see any difference between 5’8-6’0. I honestly can’t even tell between 5’7 & 5’6 given some body types lol 😂 they always look relatively taller/shorter
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:04 PM
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I have noticed it as a trend on Tinder. When I was a freshmen men didn’t mention height as much on their profiles, now it’s been a thing. I feel bad for shorter guys, because I know they probably feel they are overlooked by the 6’0 guys.
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:02 PM
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That’s so crazy…I used to be one of those “6ft and up!” girls when I was a freshmen in college b/c I was 5’8 & thought that was really tall lol 😂 but now I don’t even think height matters in a man anymore than a woman.
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:50 PM
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Men are allowed to have sagging boobs lmao 😭 and beer pack guts are a lot more workable on a man as far as finding a partner than a woman. Bras are made to literally keep the boobs supported & our nipples from showing…it’s the same reason we still wear bikini tops to the beach & men wear their nipples out…for some reason our nipples are more sexualized lol
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:48 PM
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Yep just that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:59 AM
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You’re going to have to get used to being uncomfortable and push through it if you want to stop being outcasted. If someone doesn’t want to be around you or enjoy you, it is a loss to them and it’s not easy, but you have to reinforce that in yourself everyday. Nobody in this world is going to be everyone’s cup of tea, and you’ll live regardless if they don’t like you or not. You’ll live another day, to meet another person, who will, genuinely, which will be what makes the experience so sweet and…
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:47 PM
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I literally had a whole 5 minute conversation with him about it, asking him further questions and he even showed me an example of one song that was written. Again, I think the fact that men assume that women either A) don’t know about these things (which is an arrogant ass thought) or B) women aren’t interested in those things is just wild. He and I pretty much talk regularly now at work, all because he just took time to share one cool fact he learned with me. He didn’t know for a fact I would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:57 PM
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If that’s what you think I was saying, then okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:59 PM
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LITERALLLLLLLLY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:31 PM
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I apologize, I’m not trying to be an asshole. I’m just saying that intelligent women do exist and do go out places, but you may just not choosing to approach them over your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:19 PM
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They live and work regular lives. Have you ever took the time out of your day to speak to anyone around you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:12 PM
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Well first of all, we’re in a pandemic. It’s not that many places to go to really begin with, especially when you have to be masked up. Secondly, intelligent women exist everywhere and you encounter them everywhere. Intelligent women work jobs. Intelligent women go out to eat. Intelligent women do shop. This whole idea that women with intelligence just sit at home all day is the same as thinking nerdy men who play video games can’t also work out, be successful outside of video gaming or be respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:05 PM
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We have more options only because of the emphasis that is placed on the looks. I see men say all the time that they believe women put on makeup, spend money on clothes, getting their hair and nails done for men, so it goes to show how much our appearance matters. And I agree that it’s not a bad thing to value looks more than intelligence personally it’s a matter of taste to me and everyone’s taste isn’t the same. We all look for what we think is most important. It’s just in the context of the OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:48 PM
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Look I’m just saying if you want an intelligent woman, maybe you may have to shift your own standards & who you’re seeking out instead of just saying “the average woman doesn’t”. Because I feel the same way when women say “the average man doesn’t want commitment” you can’t just lump everyone together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:33 PM
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I’m not arguing that all men are shallow and seeking looks, but we all know it’s a factor and we all know it’s an important one. We’ve been to the club, we’ve seen dudes approach the woman they thought LOOKED the best, not who they thought was the smartest. In high school and college boys aren’t fawning over the girl with a 4.0, they’re drooling over the girl with the nice body. We know men at the jobs aren’t sitting around taking notice of the woman who does excellent work on every project over…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:09 PM
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I would say both because it differs from man to man, which is the crux of what I’m trying to get at. The OP roped all women into the same boat with “the average woman isn’t into intelligence”…well, if he’s basing his average woman off of a woman who isn’t average, wouldn’t that make his bias a little skewed? And I feel like men don’t want to be truthful and just say “yes, if I had to pick my wife I’m probably going to factor her looks in the most” but let’s be honest—a lot of men are marrying wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:06 PM
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You must mean typing because I’m not writing anything at the moment on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:58 PM
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I’m going to stop responding to you because you aren’t reading what I’m typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:57 PM
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It’s not important to THE MEN - which was not OP’s point, which implied that women don’t value intelligence in men. Which we all know men are attracted to the physical more often than not, so…these women are not being sought after because they don’t appeal sexually to men outright the way IG women do. Meaning pushed to the wayside. Women do value intelligence, the OP is basing off their few experiences that intelligence isn’t valued or respected by women when in reality…it is, when that is impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:46 PM
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I have to disagree with you. I know several women who aren’t fitting close at all to the IG baddie aesthetic, however they are pushed to the wayside by men because men don’t want to acknowledge how shallow their own dating choices are. Theirs no way all these women in the world are just hiding out from men, and all that men seem to encounter the most is IG baddies, because their a small selective group of themselves anyways. Edit: I really do think men have a warped idea that somehow their going…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:15 PM
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I think red pill forgets that men will do the exact same thing: sleep with hosts of women in their 20s who they do not want to build families with & then in turn build one with someone who can take care of their responsibilities. Single mothers also means their are men out there who are single with children, single fathers. And guess what? When they get married, are these women allowed to view his children as “mistakes he made in his 20s that he now wants to take advantage of her for?” No. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:58 PM
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I have a male coworker who just informed me before Christmas that presidents used to have specific propaganda songs made during election times starting way way back to even Coolridge. I thought it was interesting and he’s not my type, but it was attractive that he’s into history, but the key here is I am too. One thing about the back and forth between the genders that seems frivolous to me is how both sides generalize the other when maybe things could be chalked up to “talking to beach babe with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:11 PM
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Yes I categorize men into really 2 categories: theirs those who are true men in the sense that they’d make great providers for a family (meaning pull their weight, not be a slave or simp or anything crazy) & I know that I could safely trust that I’m entering that responsibility with an equally responsible person. Some men, I can tell readily away do not fall into that category & I see them as “men who will never really grow up to a certain level” where having a child with them presents more of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:01 PM
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And women are getting good men in their 20s? Have you seen divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:48 PM
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I really think a lot of people have to remember that just because they view something as immoral, which is your absolute right, you can’t just go & then say “good luck finding someone no one will want you” when that’s simply not true. A lot of these women end up being the reason why those “good conservative women” are crying to their girlfriends about their husband. And there are men who are open minded to it. Hell, some are even couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:55 AM
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This is really reminding me of how the guys at my high school really thought that all the “good girls” get married at 25-27, and most of the women at my job who are married got engaged at 30 and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:07 AM
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I think you need to have a serious conversation around those videos. I would try explaining that you do understand that he gets valuable material from that podcast, some of the ideas posed in the podcast doesn’t fit your personal situation as a couple. Furthermore, you should explain how you do try to be feminine in several ways, and try to be a supportive woman who also gives her partner space to have their own sense of autonomy. And open up about things you want to do but don’t feel you have t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 10:23 PM
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The crazy part is a lot of them don’t want to pull their own weight in the scenario—they don’t want “gold diggers” or women that only want them because their equally financially beneficial, they want women who will be willing to work a job and still live up to the traditions while they completely go rogue from the men’s obligation in that setup. It’s really they want women to shut the fuck up and accept the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:00 PM
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Okay. Everyone can have standards. This post was critiquing a woman’s standards towards having sex too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:04 PM
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This really is it! A lot of blame gets tossed on women for “choosing” bad guys but when we actually set up boundaries that weed out the ones who mean us no good, suddenly we’re vilified as being “prude” and “stuck up” and trying to “train men” like their dogs or something. Like it’s not even really about you when you think about it. It’s about me not wanting to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:51 AM
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Here’s the thing: not everyone is worth investing and growing in. I’m sure your dad had a set of values, morals, personality and other things that made him worth sticking out his humble beginnings and journey into manhood. Some men have the impression that infidelity, laziness, lack of morals/drive/intention or other valuable things in any partner, should be accepted while the other person tries to obtain the opposite. This is not to say women don’t exist who also aren’t worth investing in, I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:00 AM
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You can maybe try asking questions, and follow up questions. Jokes are nice and a sure fire way to reel women in, but to get them to open up you have to ask deeper questions and get a little more serious and honest.
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:03 AM
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The best way is to subtly strike up a friendship based on similar interests. I once dated a guy I liked by adding him on snap & when he’d post dumb random stuff on his snap I’d laugh and talk about whatever was in it. It eventually led to us talking without needing something to spark it. And the rest was history.
/r/seduction13/04/21 11:14 AM
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I mean you could offer to go on friend dates—go out to lunch, grab a coffee, maybe a walk in the park. But honestly, if someone only wants to your friend and you’re lingering around under the guise of a friend with hopes for something more...it’s better to move on. More than likely things can’t be changed and you will cause yourself more harm than what’s it worth. You’ll put forth effort and become jaded when it doesn’t get reciprocated.
/r/seduction13/04/21 08:55 AM
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