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| 4 | We are the same, but different (objectifying). | Debate | Cumbucha_GreenTea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:31 PM |
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| 1 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).And I think you kinda hit it right on the money. It may be that you don't imagine this as nefarious as the intent really is here. The issue is someone is good at manipulating, and is able to trick someone into believing this is going somewhere, this is real, and intentionally pulls this stuff out of them. This person isn't specifically maybe interested (Luke warm), they intentionally show some interest, and In ways to get things out of their target. But, not enough that the guy thinks they are s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:08 PM |
| 0 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).1) wasn't a stranger 2) listening is a bare minimum, I did not claim that listening is like sex. 3) here's a different example. Let's say someone shares that they had this stuffed animal and it means a lot to them. It got destroyed somehow, and she has expressed grief about it for a month. Secretly, that persons significant other was working on restoring it. Yes, listening is a part of it, yes it costs money. But it's more than any of that, it's action of commitment to her to not just pick up fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).Maybe this works better, would you rather have sex once or fully invest in a serious plan with a wedding. I know that's heavily exaggerated, just like putting something in your hole vs make food. But I think it helps. Assuming the guy is putting his all into making an amazing experience for his girl, it's kinda like many micro weddings. Sure a wedding is money, but it's more about how much of your heart goes into it. I can't tell you how bad it would feel if someone planned a wedding learning th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:38 PM |
| 2 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).I completely understand where the feeling is coming from, and maybe this is a better way to go about it. We are all being as equally off the mark when we(not that either of us is, but imagine how many people reading this would), think of it as just sex or taking money. As you rightfully said, it's not just sex it's something more vulnerable than that, and as for the guy it's not just putting up money. Like a chef really putting together a dish with their heart in it with someone in mind, vs a da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:54 PM |
| 2 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).I do believe it's the betrayal, and the feeling of being used, it's not the action itself. It's not like women are not capable of having a one night stand if they choose. And in this situation, assuming the women is mentally healthy. The sex they had was consensual and a good experience(other wise they should be upset about rape, not the guy ghosting after a week). At least for my friend, she expressed that what hurt was, she saw romance and he saw a fleshlight. It wasn't a sense of being taken … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:22 PM |
| 2 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).From what I understand, is all about the feeling, not about how more damaging the "using" is. A women is hurt bc she wanted to be loved, not a flesh light. A man is hurt because he wanted to be loved, not a resource. If said comments come back, I'll do me best to express that point 😁. However, I do disagree on how easily it is to understand each other. From what I can tell we are all getting a little worse (probs bc of the Internet 😅) but hetros engage with the other gender romantically, they on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:56 PM |
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