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| 0 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Defense industry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"it's most successful dominant married men It's common to seek compensation when you mistake your persona as being who you really are; your unconscious will seek to undermine an inflated persona in order to restore a balanced psyche. I've known and heard stories of men who built up an ultra-masculine persona, characterized by success, dominance, prowess, and a rejection of all-things feminine (since potentially being perceived by others as "girly" is their ultimate fear) only to have homosexual f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Glad it struck a chord! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"You're not far off imo. . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Yeah. A "man" wanting to get dominated and/or pegged by a woman is perhaps an expression of the man's enslavement to the Feminine element of reality/consciousness; his masculinity is undeveloped and weak and can't live up to the demands womankind and the world place on him, so he "surrenders". (This is a half-baked speculation on my end, and I by no means am asserting that this is the correct or only interpretation) In this same sense, really flamboyant (bottom) homosexuals (note not all homosex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Nah, that falls into "preferences" IMO. Nevertheless, there could be some "deeper" reason for his attraction towards them. But it seems more or less a "healthy" attraction; heck - I myself am partial to Amazonian women ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:34 PM |
| -1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Yeah, a fair chunk of words - but doesn't seem like you read any ! A woman desiring characteristics that determine genetic fitness is not a fetish lmao - that's as natural as it gets. A man (or woman for that matter) having a strong sexual desire for anal sex, incest, feet, or scat etc. is a fetish - which is symptomatic of a deeper underlying psychological reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"All these things that turn people on, do so by tickling the part of the brain that's supposed to distinguish reproductively fit partners from unfit ones. Yeah, and what's characteristic about a fetish is that the object of the fetish is not necessarily related to reproductive fitness; for example, scat fetish, fat women fetish, incest fetish, foot fetish, anal fetish etc. All those fetishes I just listed are symptomatic of a deeper underlying psychological reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:26 PM |
| -3 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Fetishes are secondary expressions of psychological complexes. Fetishes are a way for the unconscious to "speak" to the conscious subject via sexually charged symbols; the unconscious beckons an integration (union) between the unconscious contents (Feminine) and the conscious subject (Masculine) - hence why it manifests physically as a strong sexual attraction. The unconscious contents get projected onto the object wherein the object gets "fetishized". Characteristic of fetishes is that they are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:49 PM |
| 26 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyPride cometh before the fall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:43 PM |
| 6 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategy“Nothing can touch me.” - famous last words. Society, culture and the community are facets of You. It’d be like saying you don’t give a shit if you eat fast food or start slacking off in work. You’re inflated and can’t see out your narrow and egotistical vision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingYou’re not supposed to change your personality, rather you want to express it to the fullest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?What about him in particular? Love radiohead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Except it’s inverted. The “smart” kids are most of the time simply obedient. Given most learning in high school is standardized and done via rote memorization, it’s not really significant if you get good grades. Speaking from my own XP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I am thoroughly confused by the current sexual landscape.Many great philosophers have undertook this question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | i think that being a smooth talker is the best ability to pick up womenAmen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?We were never talking about the definition of Feminism. It was gender equality and patriarchy. -_- lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:37 PM |
| -1 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?If the meaning of words was based on one’s mere opinion rather than by consensus definition then all hell would break lose. Besides, I just said those words have lost their original meanings so I’m not sure how your second sentence relates at all. Go project on someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?"Gender equality" is a phrase that has lost all meaning to me. Similar to "patriarchy." They are words which mean something different depending on who you talk to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.I thought we were talking about rejections from cold approaching? Rejection after that investment--especially if you're particularly smitten--will of course sting badly. But rejections from cold-approaches shouldn't hurt for longer than 3 seconds haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:50 AM |
| -1 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Not at all what I implied. If a man is truly humble and knows himself, then rejection will just be a mild bummer, not infinite pain and suffering lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:12 PM |
| -8 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.Quit taking yourself so seriously, then rejection won't sting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.speak for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:19 AM |
| 0 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.get off the internet geeze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | what are the social circles where men and women meet and there are the highest chances of carrying on a relationship whether it be friendship or love?Oh I completely overlooked that work in the original comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | what are the social circles where men and women meet and there are the highest chances of carrying on a relationship whether it be friendship or love?salsa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeKarens are women that are sterile (not necessarily literally, but primarily psychically) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | PPD Meetings.Average women don’t browse Reddit the way men do. Further, average women don’t seek out niche subreddits in the way men do. Given this subreddit is characterized by an awareness and analysis of in-built behaviors, the women here will in turn have an accentuated “masculine” consciousness. I.e. they won’t be representative of the average woman most men would like to woo. And I hope that’s taken as a compliment! To me it means the women participating in the sub are pretty apt and more individual th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:57 PM |
| 24 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?the Don Juan mother-complex | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.Haha that’s one of my all time favs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:36 PM |
| 7 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.I run a book club and it’s fire. Got a milf who constantly would touch my arm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:38 PM |
| 7 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.I’m a man but I don’t face this. Sounds like you’re finding an excuse to justify your inaction and fear of approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Both men and women would be happier if they quit using dating apps.I agree a lot with your first sentence. I’ve been off dating apps for a while and not only has it prompted me to go out and meet women in the real world, but it has also motivated me to seek novel social situations as such—things I’d never do with the crutch of a dating app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women would be happier if they quit using dating apps.You can cold approach as an alternative to social circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexThey’re not ditching men for the toys. They’re using the toys to fill in for the lack of men. (No pun intended) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexThere’s a sort of pride in the thought that sex robots can replace women. It reminds me of the AI argument: can AI become conscious in the way we are? If sex robots will replace anything, it will replace your typical PMO. Femininity roots back to Nature and transcends rationality and logic; it simply can’t get replicated by man. Most men don’t desire women to simply “get off,” men also yearn to unite with his other half. People who think sex robots can replace women are hyper focused on the lite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 05:13 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalEven if someone doesn’t have a literal mother, daughter or sister, these differentiated archetypes of the Feminine as such still play a role in your psychic economy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalInsightful comment ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?You are probably more sufficient than you could imagine. And I don't say that sarcastically. But that's good to hear, much love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?Social awareness is key. Also intent. Am I approaching solely for the puss? If I am then I got to rethink my life. Every individual harbors the capacity for a potential which grazes God's firmament. That is what I'm fundamentally after. Which is why I'm also open to "cold approaching" men (but I'd be lying to myself if I wasn't more allured to cold approach beautiful women). I wouid never in this day and age approach a woman in public. We have as a society regressed to a sort of neo-Puritanism R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 12:25 AM |
| 0 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?The “don’t approach women IRL” is a meme that mostly exists online, imo. It’s gotten attention probably because of viral TikTok’s of extreme cases where a “creeper” approaches a woman. But in reality, or at least in my experience, approaching women IRL has always had at least a friendly air to it, whether or not it pans out to getting a number or anything. I never perceived they felt any hostility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the virginity rate among women rising too?Projection lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Why don’t more women like sports?Because the men who watch sports project those qualities of Masculinity which they lack. Watching sports becomes a medium for them to “realize” their manhood. And women generally aren’t enamored by sports because they don’t experience the same sort of unconscious participation as the men do. Spit ballin’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Will being deaf reduce a man’s value and SMV in the dating marketplace?I feel you. I have bad teeth and have a similar motivation. But it’s my belief you have to draw your motivation from elsewhere, rather from an insecurity. Women will probably get hint of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Will being deaf reduce a man’s value and SMV in the dating marketplace?How much of that goal is motivated by the desire to compensate your genetic deficiency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Will being deaf reduce a man’s value and SMV in the dating marketplace?A woman responds to the whole man, so no reason to get fixated on a particular shortcoming, "deficiency" or insecurity you might have. Nevertheless, don’t take that to mean being deaf doesn’t have a “drawback” for lack of a better word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you ever purposely wipe a smile off your face upon making eye contact with a man?are you autistic? i ask that genuinely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Which degrees make men and women more and less attractive?I agreed with your first statement until I learned what you have a degree in. I find illustration and animation very intriguing so that would be awesome in a potential SO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Why do you keep making posts on this topic? You’re fixated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Have you never redeemed trauma before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Often time bad parents and dysfunctional homes become the most fertile soil for true character. That is if one can redeem their situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | POLYGAMY WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCould also be their immune systems aren’t as robust as they used to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:00 AM |
| 5 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Man that’s badass in my books. That is someone who doesn’t let arbitrary fashion standards prevent the full expression of his personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Haha fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Yeah agreed. Imagine dismissing someone’s entire character because they wear socks and sandals. There definitely will never be a baby thrown out in that bath water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:48 PM |
| 4 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Why is 5 a dealbreaker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:31 PM |
| 4 | How should a higher libido woman behave with a lower libido man?Start preparing him dinners full oysters, beets, and other aphrodisiacs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you do that makes you interesting?Write short stories | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Does this sound like sex addiction?What kind of thoughts do you have immediately following busting a nut with a woman? | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?Similar experience. I find when I leave on just a kiss I rarely get a second date. Whereas if I don’t even kiss them and just end it as a short date I get better luck. But as you said, in my experience you gotta go all the way. Why is that? Just the kiss is a tease? Does it express an inhibition or lack of leadership? | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?Do you feel you intuitively know why? Nevertheless, rinse and repeat my friend | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:31 PM |
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