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Or how about police do something right for once and press charges anyways? You don't need the victim to consent to arrest the abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:42 AM
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Unpopular for men maybe, because they have to accept that coercion is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:35 PM
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I wonder how much of the "80%" of women were truly consenting, and how much of this is just more rape culture in disguise. If alcohol is involved, its not empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:33 PM
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Having a dog that is bonded to me has been huge protection from LVM. No one is ever going to love me as unconditionally as my dog does, so someone has to be really exceptional to be allowed into my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:58 PM
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Never said women in the US don't face inequality or violence, of course they do. We have it bad everywhere, we're on the same team and we don't need to bring Russian women down or make a joke of them to encourage women to want better from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:10 AM
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Aren't we supposed to be feminists? I don't find it funny to pretend to be Russian when Russian women face so much inequality. It's not cool to stereotype disadvantaged people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:33 PM
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So spot on. It's especially bizarre that we're celebrating this cosplaying when Russian women do not have equality and are significantly disadvantaged compared to American women. Women in Russia have fewer protections against domestic violence, do not have LGBT+ protections, and have societal expectations to be homemakers. It's not cute to pretend to be a high maintenance Russian, and there's a reason the mail order bride industry exists there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:31 PM
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Ok fair enough. You absolutely need a way to prevent the sub being brigaded by men who are pro- anything that harms women... there's too many of them out there. And I respect that its not your job to rehabilitate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:36 PM
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Just curious, did she get warnings first, or was it already a rule that she broke? Also, I just feel bad for her and I hope she got help. I get why you have rules that resulted in her getting banned, but if you just shut out women you disagree with, no discussion, just out, its just going to turn them further towards the thing you don't want women to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:08 AM
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Im assuming you mean Bo Burnham. He started on youtube and he actually wrote and directed a movie "Eighth Grade". It does a really good job of representing how uncomfortable being an awkward teenager is, and how especially weird and uncomfortable it is to be a 13 year old girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:50 PM
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I really see what you mean now...100% I can't be sure if women really want what they think they want, because culture is really forceful. Your last point has me realizing I might be in that "Women going their own way" place... Sex is the only thing I don't currently have as a single person, but I have so many lovely friends and family I don't really feel much desire to date or form a long term bond with a man. Aside from covid, hookups have been off the table because I can't bring myself to use …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:32 AM
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I find 1) kind of problematic. You shouldn't blame other women for men being shitty about commitment. I know "pick-mes" can reinforce behavior, but ultimately we need to blame men before we target their enabling dependents. Also, if it was safe, I would absolutely have no issue having casual sex and I suspect that the risk is what turns women away from it. I worry that the message becomes "women need emotional commitment for gratification" when it really should be "men get in their own way by be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:23 AM
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You probably aren't going to easily meet men outside your unit but still within your rank that also don't come with all the issues mentioned here. Being an officer means there's just a lot less peers, so even though there's higher qualifications, there's still fewer choices and restrictions. Honestly, if your goal is a career then you need to prioritize that, and not worry about meeting a partner. I was incredibly lucky and had guys in my shop that protected me from a few incidents that could ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:01 AM
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My only objection is to the advice about low cost being low effort. I'm a frugal person, so I don't really enjoy eating out at restaurants in general, and would prefer talking over coffee before being stuck eating in front of someone. That said, I know I can trust my own judgement when it comes to judging someone's level of effort, compassion for others, generosity, and willingness to commit. I won't stick around when I see red flags for cheapness in character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:12 AM
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I really hope it will be a surprise where he walks in behind her with the ring and it's in person. Otherwise this is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:22 AM
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Most definitely, remember how mad they got at women on twitch and onlyfans not paying taxes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:19 AM
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From what I know of the cruising scene, there are way too many gay men willing to fuck strangers for it to be viable for them to sell themselves as prostitutes as effectively as women can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:17 AM
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She platformed psychics claiming to speak to the dead. Of course racists are the top rung of the scum ladder, but these predatory assholes taking advantage of people in mourning are up there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:42 AM
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Your point is well taken. I was trying to say that the movie gets misinterpreted by LVM and I hear this quoted all the time by them as "women are crazy" but what you said is key. In this scene they're communicating past each other and nothing gets resolved. It's not this movie's job to teach men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:43 PM
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Fat people know they're fat, they don't need you to remind them. You're not a doctor so it's not your job to police their health. Bringing people down and shaming them doesn't promote behavior changes that lead to a healthier lifestyle. Whatever this is, it's awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:08 AM
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Would not have needed my hoe phase if I would have had friends like-minded to FDS. On the flip side I was completely disillusioned to any version of prince charming that I thought I had found once I realized they're all the same at the end of the day. It's absolutely not worth putting your health or sanity at risk to discover this though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:02 AM
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Recently I've been distancing myself from a friend I've known since childhood. Lately I'd been feeling like everything was a competition, and I had to downplay or omit anything good happening in my life to not incite toxicity. If I can't share what makes me happy, what's the point of having them in my life? They also, after 15 years of knowing me, forgot my birthday and when I tried to tell them it bothered me, I got "lol oops". It's been a hard year because of the pandemic, all I wanted was a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:14 AM
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Ari Aster wrote this movie as a break up movie. It can also symbolize finding the community that supports you, and burning her ex alive doesn't have to be literal. People are free to take whatever messages they want from the art they consume, it doesn't mean they're off to go on a murder spree if they liked this movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:14 AM
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I have plenty of friends in shit relationships. Not a single one listens if you tell them they need to get out. In fact, it shuts the conversation down completely and they stop trusting you and filtering out the bad. A good counselor needs to be a safe place for someone to work through their thoughts without judgement. I will add a good counselor will not use platitudes like "all relationships take work" or "it takes two to tango". Those phrases should as red of a flag as the counselor trying to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:55 PM
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Didn't downvote, but from my perspective, I know a many people in healthy relationships and don't know anyone in the situation you're describing. I think it would be really bizarre to demand a paternity test when two people trust each other and are in a loving relationship, so saying it should be the default is probably what people are disagreeing with. If you're in a relationship and you can't trust the other person not to cheat, why are you having sex with them??
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:58 PM
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I was about to be all, wait he seems like an ok dude but then I remembered that throughout knocked up he's literally the worst. And then Paul Rudd, ughhhhhhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:16 AM
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So much this! Reducing sugar made a huge difference for me, too. In case it helps anyone else, I found that whey protein makes me break out like crazy, so I didn't have to cut out cheese but I did need to switch to non-dairy milk for cereal. Soy protein also gives me nasty breakouts, so soy milk made it really hard to be sure milk was the issue until almond milk became more common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:09 AM
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