Cunnilingusobsessed Archive

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2	CMV: Divorce is harder on women Don’t agree. Your point “women have to give up on the dream…” equality pertains to men too. Further, women are much more likely to get preferential treatment in family court with child support. Women overwhelmingly (and deservingly have more post separation support structures), women and children can go to homeless shelters and single men without kids cannot. Men are far more likely to be financially ruined as a result of divorce. Women can bounce back faster. They can initiate relationships pos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 01:57 AM
10	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game I’m going to read this book to try understanding what your on about Edit: a chapter in, and wow you need to touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 09:12 PM
9	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game Yes. I’ve very recently spent a few months in Kyiv. And I don’t hate women at all, it’s a simple observation. I’m happily married. Young Men living near a woman’s college vs living near a military base in the USA would experience the same supply demand phenomenon	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 08:28 PM
14	Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating game It’s a supply and demand problem. Travel to a place where there is a lopsided ratio of women to men and your point is made in the opposite direction. Russia and Ukraine right now have way more available women than men and there is a lot less chasing. That’s why women shame passport bros so hard. They know widening your net removes their power precisely because that power is derived from a perceived scarcity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 05:40 PM
–	Most Men will never outgrow their state of Low Value because they have “No Cards” According to my aunt, if a man just learns how to cook and does the dishes without being asked he would have women falling all over him	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 11:13 AM
2	If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests. I’ve literally seen this happen to three different married men that I know. And I don’t even know that many people. It’s a lot more common than you think. You have to catch ten cheating first? One dude I know that this happened to didn’t catch her cheating the 3 years post birth. Men, you can get paternity tests from your local pharmacy. They are over the counter and cost less than $50. You can do it and your wife doesn’t even need to know. No need to start a fight about it. Trust but verify is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 08:27 PM
–	It is entirely on men to meet women’s expectations. Women should not have to lower their standards That’s the unsaid truth. If a woman has high standards yet can’t find a man, then men who have those high standards are not interested in her. She either needs to work on herself or lower her standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 12:42 PM
–	It is entirely on men to meet women’s expectations. Women should not have to lower their standards Have you ever been to a country that had excess women? Lived near a woman’s college? It’s literally supply and demand. That’s it. In places that have murderers all their men in wars, it’s incredibly easy to meet a woman and get dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 12:40 PM
45	If age gap relationships are wrong because of the power dynamic, so are hypergamous ones Financial abuse doesn’t even have to be with a wealthy person. I personally knew two people who married right out of high school, same age who had a financial power mismatch. The husband became a fireman in city that paid them decently and the wife didn’t work. Neither went to college or had marketable skills beyond his fireman job. He got her pregnant over and over again so she was stuck at home with the kids, unable to leave, gain skills, or improve her position. He controlled her with his mon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 12:29 PM
1	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships It’s absolutely disgusting but it takes two to tango. Both are guilty. Sometimes, but not all the time, the younger person in the relationship is the predator	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 08:41 AM
3	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships Me either. As an older adult i look back on my 21 year old self and san see that i was an inexperienced moron but I was still an adult who was and should have been held to adult standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 08:39 AM
5	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships Then why are they able to buy alcohol, fight and die for their country, get sued for negligence, or invest their own money if they are not adults? They may still be learning to make their own way in the world but they have met the ‘minimum’ standard of being grown	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 08:38 AM
1	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships People never stop maturing. A 60 year old is more mature and experienced than a 40 year old	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 08:34 AM
10	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships Blame both in the 21-35 situation. 21 is a fully grown adult, who can make their own informed decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 02:38 AM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test It happens a lot more often than you think. I know of 3 dudes, just people that I personally know, who this has happened to. 2 of them were in long term committed relationships or marriages. 1 dude didn’t find out for a few years. Also, men, you don’t have to ask. You can buy a paternity test for $30 at any CVS or pharmacy and do it yourself. She doesn’t even need to know	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 09:01 PM
16	The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax. It’s called foreplay, learn it, do it, enjoy the process of preheating the oven and she will be satisfied every time. Read the book: “How to satisfy a woman every time’” by Naura Hayden. It’s eye opening how many dudes just slam it home till they bust without any regard for their partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:15 AM
–	You don't need to go outside! Vit-D pills do exist, but I understand . I also love the sun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/23 04:35 PM
4	Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male). Arnold, Gordon, and Keanu are all verifiable badasses and legit hero’s that deserve to be looked up to. That Tate guy is a piece of shit not worth a second thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 11:54 AM
2	CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guys Dude, a dad bod is more ‘Paul Bart: Mall Cop’ than the superhero from aquaman	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 01:20 PM
2	Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic? Male obgyn’s exist ;-)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/23 11:25 PM
1	Men and Women define casual sex differently, leading to total misunderstanding of each other I contend there is no such thing as ‘casual sex’ if you are meeting up regularly. One person or the other will eventually catch feelings. It always happens. Then it usually ends badly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 04:47 AM
2	The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for. I read somewhere that if you structure men and women in a hierarchy of a, b, c, d, and e men and women. A being the chad millionaire/ or miss baddie or whatever you put at the top, and E men and women are the <5/10 who don’t get dates and are poor. And you take the observed rule that women try to date a level higher and men max their chances by dating below based on looks, Then A men go with B women. B men with C women… Then with that logic, A lvl women, who fails to form the power couple with t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 08:53 PM
1	On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions. I met a lady a target once. The eventual became ‘the ex that stole my cat’	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 05:38 PM
10	CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman. I disagree somewhat. I think a man with less than ideal childhood or teen experience can learn later in life. It’s what ppl call a ‘late bloomer’. They just need to push through that awkward phase as a 20 something as opposed to a teen. I’ve known plenty of dudes who got in ltr in HS and ended up single at 30 having only ever had one girl. Other dudes who lived through their old man beating the shit out of them till 18, then army till 25, and only then do they start dating…. They are fine. We al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 11:46 PM
–	Your position with this whole crowder thing, especially the video, determines if you're actually TRP He’s a duchebag psychopath	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 03:53 AM
8	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. Getting into a long term, serious relationship with someone whom you don’t match up with sexually is a recipe for disaster. How will you know if you don’t start hooking up before you get into those feelings?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 05:29 PM
1	Most people are just children in adult bodies. Agreed, mostly. I’ve literally watched grown ppl stomp they feet like children when they’re mad or arguing. Lose control of all their emotions because they frustrated. That’s probably most of road rage too. Just spoiled children’s Not just in relationships either, watch how people act towards their wants and needs. Most ppl are acting out the same motions they did as children , it just looks different because we are all adults. The term ‘Puer Aeternus’ literally means ‘man-child’ but it applies …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 09:13 PM
6	In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want? I’m happily married after a few failed attempts. Just here to take some shizz, fight back against the bs a little, and enjoy a little drama. Share some info… that kinda thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 02:37 AM
3	CMV: Approaching Tons of Women as a strategy to not be alone will always work Oh gosh, who knows. It was some old story i was told once. Could have been hundreds to one. But then again nyc was a different place. It’s all about putting your self out there and being totally cool with having drinks thrown in your face. 🤷‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 03:36 AM
6	CMV: Approaching Tons of Women as a strategy to not be alone will always work I was told a story once of a man in the 1970s who’d frequent manhattan monthly for a sales meeting.(pre internet, obviously). After his meeting, he would stand on a street corner near his hotel, meet eyes with women he found attractive as they cross the street, and ask one after the other if they wanted to go up stairs and fuck. Almost all of them would cuss him and keep walking. But every single time he went out to the street corner, eventually some women would be like ‘sure’ and follow him up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 04:52 PM
1	Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort? Dude. I’d cut a chic right out of my life at the slightest hint of disrespect or the feeling of being used. Never forget that there are plenty of fish in the sea. If there are not fish in your part of the sea, fucking move.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 04:46 PM
2	Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros Crew You guys never heard of The Beach Boys of Sri Lanka? That’s def an eat pray love destination. Also, looooots of American women of color go to Dubai or Abu Dhabi for work and come home with an African dude. They come over to work also and the magic happens… source: seen it with my own eyes plenty of times	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 02:43 PM
3	The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+ They adding an element of race fetishing which happens to most race to some extent imho	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 01:52 AM
1	Rizz (charisma and game) is the vast majority of what men need to date successfully Rizz = charisma + game. Game = ability to sell yourself to the opposite sex( personality?) Why do we constantly make up words for things that already exist. Just say charisma and personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 10:23 PM
2	Generally speaking, most guys in relationships are not valued for who they are, but for how they make their girlfriends feel and what they can provide for them (attention, money, status and so on). Literally just watch my friends wife of 15 years divorce him because he got hurt and can’t work anymore. Its not every woman, but it definitely happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 04:37 PM
9	Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answers Passive aggressive behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 04:31 PM
1	Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? Narcissism. They really just want the fuel and validation that comes with so many different ppl desiring them. If it’s all from the same dude, person, or if it’s something they can get easily then the appeal is lessz	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 04:11 PM
–	Is having racial dating preferences racist? But couldn’t positive associations also be kinda racist sometimes? Like if someone was really into X race of Y type of person. Fetishizing some types of minority women is usually where I’ve seen it happen, or am I totally clueless. I’m usually totally clueless .	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 12:17 AM
1	Do most single women have a "Steve"? What’s a terp?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:41 PM
3	Do most single women have a "Steve"? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:33 PM
1	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. Isn’t this migtow or whatever philosophy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 01:22 AM
3	CMV: A girl liking your money is a good thing not bad Not a good idea for long term. I’ve watched 5 different friends get divorced because they attracted a women with money who then left them later on when the inevitably lost their jobs or otherwise went broke. Recessions happen, life comes up, it goes down and luck runs out. Even for only a year or so…. If she’s just here for money, it’s never permanent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 06:25 PM
2	Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age? Jesus, at my age. (41) I would hate to have to sit here and listen to a 20yr old woman talk about a whole lot of nothing because she hasn’t done anything in her life yet. Maybe a year or two out of moms house… what would we do after we fucked? Netflix and shoot myself. Plus she has no money. I like women my age, who are professionals like me. Educated and some life experience. Trust me, older the berry sweeter the juice. I used to think 30 - 40 was old. It is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 03:45 AM
3	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? How is having a high paying career a male or masculine trait?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 08:33 PM
–	Hot single moms on dating apps prove that women can stay fit during marriage but they choose not to I feel like is true regardless. If you let yourself go, you’ll get fat, gross, unhealthy, and less attractive to others physically. Conversely, If you work on yourself, exercise, eat right, live a healthy life, and otherwise make responsible decisions, then others will find you attractive. Single, married, young or old, man or woman this works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/23 04:30 PM
3	What is the issue with women having social media? It’s the post content for me. Huge difference between a women posting foodie, vacation, and ‘girls night’ pics to her 5000 randos and a married woman posting straight up thirst traps with dudes filling up the comments with ‘🔥🔥’ emojis	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 06:54 PM
–	Do men find this lady to be attractive ?? I wouldn’t push her out of bed, but I wouldn’t murder a dude over her. Maybe she put them under a narcissistic spell. Love bombing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 03:04 AM
26	Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually. That’s just to create an implication of danger	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 08:15 PM
1	How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids? Egg harvesting also carried some risks. They blast you with enough estrogen to promote egg movement that cancer risks goes up a lot. As an auto mechanic, I wouldn’t advise to proceed superficially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 02:26 PM
2	Do you think that male “pick me’s” (aka simps & white knights) on the Internet have caused dating to be much more difficult than it otherwise would be? Respectfully, I feel it starts sooner that that. Women from 20-39 were born in the ‘80s-‘00s, which means they are most likely to be born as the last child of boomers or one of two or only child to a gen-xer or maybe an old millennial. Either way, they were ‘daddies little angel’ or his ‘special girl’ and was told he’d murder any boyfriend who got out of line from day one. The old cleaning the shotgun troupe…. That lasts until the simps and Wnights get ahold of her. Same narcissism gets pasted o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 01:40 PM