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| 1 | Also useful for short-term seductionBeautiful video. It explains so many of the psychological aspects of PUA. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Didn't build up enough attraction...Workmates are a tough gig. Take the pressure off yourself, next time you're working send a message "Wanna grab some lunch today? im dying for <some_meal>" She won't play hard to get as the pretense isn't a push-pull relationship. You're going as workmates and there's no agenda. When you meet for lunch, go for fun. Keep the convo light but try and find things common outside of work, i.e going out to the same bar. This will really establish in her mind there's potential for more, and start seeding… | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Everything goes well until the time to go in for it...I've actually been in similar situations twice. As simple as this sounds, your hand was in the wrong spot. You should have have slipped it behind her on her waist. You can tease your hand in under her shirt, onto her underwear then butt. You have elements of escalation and comfort building. When you want to go in for the kill, look in her eyes, put your hand up her back and push her close. You could have whispered "your place or mine?" if hooking up in the car wasn't feasible. Or if you didn't w… | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 02:10 AM |
| 5 | "I don't give my number to strangers""hey, what's your number?" is too forward, what you got is ASD. Wrapping it in something like, "Do you come to this place often, i'll message you next time i'm here- what's your number?" It doesn't have to be particularly logical- as long as it seems spontaneous and natural your pretty much guaranteed a positive outcome. Don't let responses like that break your frame, just shoot back a "geez you must have a tough time making friends, everyones a stranger at some pointt!" | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 11:43 PM |
| 10 | Car KinoI like to play games with girl, at lights I'll just stretch and just put my hand on her head and leave it there. let her do the shifting for you, then grab her hand from the top and say "Your doing it wrong, this is how you do it". This is a close, you'll both have a little moment of realization and you're already holding hands :) Girls get wet over hand holding. | /r/seduction | 12/10/10 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Race and seductionMate I'M sorry, that's such groupthink. If you don't have the personality, you ain't getting SHIT, nor will any of the in crowd actually like you. I went from nothing to bagging multiple girls a week. Something has obviously changed for me. I'm sad that I've been downvoted for sharing my experience - all I can say is it worked for me and my only motive was to inspire. | /r/seduction | 09/10/10 10:56 AM |
| 1 | How to go to the clubs alone (meet women, etc.)I got into club promotion so I could do this. Always have people to meet. I've written something up in the past about this: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dlrgj/race_and_seduction/c118hqs . If there isn't that option, make friends in the line for the club. Don't say you've come alone, make up a story about how you're there for an acquaintance's birthday, but looking to bounce as soon as possible (everyone has been there and can relate to it). This is probably terrible advice, but sta… | /r/seduction | 08/10/10 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, what's the funniest way to approach a girl from my class that sits in the other corner of the room?would be awesome if it was just before class. do it like ninja cat haha | /r/seduction | 06/10/10 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Race and seductionI don't resort to deception. I've never had to lie to a girl because I've always been high value. Worked since I was 12 years old, always was a high achiever. Where do you work? A job is one of the most important things you can have. Not only do you learn how to interact with people you have disposable income. Not to mention an increase in confidence. Hobbies: anything that's social, dancing, sports etc. Attractive people are active. You seem like a very sardonic person, and pessimistic about yo… | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 08:55 AM |
| 12 | FR - Is it treason to disclose pick up techniques to HBs I just did and it seems to have workedMy gut feeling is that you've got your work cut out for you. You'll have to transition (it's like you've used a pick up line) or you'll have to keep this cheeky game right up until you k-close. Chicks love these games but as soon as you start being your "normal" self the chemistry dies. You've been pretty direct, so it's hard to disqualify her and make her qualify. Keep the game up I say. "how would you rate my rapport with you? They say anything above an 8 /10 means we should meet for a coffee"… | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Is this creepy?Absolutely- but it just depends on your own style. My gut feeling is that I can do whatever I want, as long as I'm congruent. I'd say it as a joke, but I feel it has a deeper implication- changes the tone, kinda sets her away from normal university mode. I'd not really give her time to think about it. Just quickly change the subject and establish more rapport "the lecturer for that subject is shocking". Personally, I like to be cheeky but fairly direct. "i'd be all over you're friend right now i… | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Is this creepy?"Hey you look awfully familiar, do I know you from somewhere?" See if she can pick it first. When you get there, you can follow it up with "Knew it, I can't forget pretty faces <lol>" | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Race and seduction"Fake it till you make it." Flip some burgers, get some hobbies. Get more education. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Race and seductionI'm 22. undergrad: finance/computer science and doing masters in actuarial studies. I work in project management (acquisitions). Advice: Be a unique character, leave an impression on everyone you meet. It's really easy to get lost in the crowd. Smile, have fun and "up the party vibe". You should be the centre of the party, don't rely on others or a venue to make fun for you. If you're a fun person to be around, people will want to be around you. Talk to your bartender. "do you come here on your … | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 12:38 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Was Set Up On A Blind Date Thursday, Disarmed A Bachelor Party When Necessary. Kiss Close.oh, and don't try to seek validation in your FR's - if you seek validation from people you don't know, whatabout reallife? food for thought! Seddit is all about validation. It's a support channel. | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 10:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Was Set Up On A Blind Date Thursday, Disarmed A Bachelor Party When Necessary. Kiss Close.Sir, you are a douchebag. Congratulations op! Thanks for taking the time to write a field report, there's always plenty to learn from other's experiences. | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 09:46 AM |
| 4 | Race and seductionPersonality and style- but it wasn't always like this. As part of my PUA transformation, my plan of attack was to lord some clubs. I've been djing/producing for a long while so I am known amongst that community. To the plebeians however, I am not- study and work mean presence has been erratic in the past. I became a promoter at a top club to change this. For the job, I crafted a new facebook (just under a thousand hand picked girls) where I send out one weekly event notification. In exchange, I … | /r/seduction | 03/10/10 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Need advice! (themes: club girl, college game and calling back)I've had some luck this way. facebook message (don't add). Was nice to meet you girls on <day>. hope the rest of you're night was a-okay ;) | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Advice on escalation?this | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Race and seductionI'm an Indian living in Australia. I feel I am pre-dispositioned, but as soon as I open my mouth it disappears. I get "you aren't like normal Indian guys" 99% of the time I tell girls my nationality. I wear it with pride though and I've been able to bag some real stunners. It's all your mindset. If you're assertive and confident about who you are, you'll do just fine. In my opinion if you're conscious of race, that inferiority complex is visible from far. | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 08:13 AM |
| 2 | When a girl wants you but you're not interestedIf she's making really strong advances, "You're really cute, but I have my eyes on someone else." with maybe a kiss on the cheek. I try and say it genuinely, it really softens the blow (in my experience). | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 07:19 AM |
| 0 | I have a hot girl friend (just a friend) who is totally down with being my wing woman whenever I go out. How do I best utilize her?I don't really understand this advice. Forcing a girl to IOI is pretty low value and would ruin her view of you. I could maybe see this working in a group of her friends, where the target knows both of you. Maybe, but not likely. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 09:44 AM |
| 19 | I have a hot girl friend (just a friend) who is totally down with being my wing woman whenever I go out. How do I best utilize her?For me, I've been able to utilize a wing woman by having a wingman too (2 guys,1 girl), this way you can kind of use her as you need, but dump her back onto your wm. My opinion- To outsiders you should be blurring the lines of what's going on with her. That awkward body language when someones "just a friend" can be seen from a mile away. Open your sets yourself and then introduce your ww. The way you introduce her is very important, your target will judge what relationship you have with her stra… | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what do you do to your car to make it more attractive to the opposite sex?I keep a sleeping bag, a pillow, food and drinks. I also keep a couple of blue pills in case I've been drinking. If you're going to be doing business in backseat, move the front seats forward before you go in, you look like a pro. If you have a sunroof, open it- it will get really steamy and hot. Tints are also good. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Most guys at a college with 40% men 60% women ratio aren't getting laid. Reason:Girls are competing for the top alpha males and ignoring the rest.60% of women aren't getting laid because they're ugly. | /r/seduction | 23/06/10 07:44 AM |
| 6 | I am finally hitting my stride. Field report from the last week.You're big in Japan. | /r/seduction | 21/06/10 12:29 AM |
| 3 | In the friend zone but a playful friend zone...push it to the limit, walk along the razors edge. | /r/seduction | 20/06/10 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit! share your field tested kino routines here.This was last week, was just having some fun and practicing my game. Opened an HB7 in a toilet line and later saw her on a dancefloor with her friends. Ended up making a circle with them/my friends. My wing took over the rest leaving me the target; I was safe dancing with her, talking but at the same time upping the party vibe with my wing with some -unique- dance moves. I'd grab her elbow/ or her side every time I asked her a question while speaking in her ear (it was pretty loud). She was loos… | /r/seduction | 20/06/10 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Trying to come up with a good DHV story routine. What could I add or takeaway from this Kayaking tale?At the same time I feel it's good to chuck some humor into it.exaggerate and make it funny "it was totally automatic, it was as natural as a fatty enjoying a cupcake". just liven it up to take her on a ride. Kino on the jokes. she will love it. | /r/seduction | 19/06/10 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Trying to come up with a good DHV story routine. What could I add or takeaway from this Kayaking tale?Man I can read that and I can guarantee you won't have her interest for that long unless you've already f-closed. You need make it shorter. Just say you saved your friends life or something and tell the story. Make it light so she's intensely listening to you but you can kino. I think with DHV stories is they have to be relevant to the situation. Really you should be trying to make them up on the spot. With experience you'll find really strong patterns in the conversations you have with the rand… | /r/seduction | 19/06/10 10:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Almost crashed yesterday (Stylelife Day 4)This. Also If you need help with openers. I think the anxiety comes from the fact that you feel you have no reason to talk to her. If you can make a genuine reason, it becomes a hell of alot easier. I really like to ask for directions for places that you can attach a story to. E.g do you where the nearest dry cleaner is? Do you know where this bar is? I've been pretty successful with this, got an f-close on one (turned out she was going to the same place). You can pretty much ask anyone, even wi… | /r/seduction | 19/06/10 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: Almost number closed in clubi think you missed the point :D | /r/seduction | 13/06/10 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Field Report - Female Orgasm without a word or direct kinowait. what? | /r/seduction | 09/06/10 08:15 AM |
| 1 | So I have numbers, what now?First date confirmed. A penthouse party in 3 weeks time. She's a little party slut. | /r/seduction | 09/06/10 05:01 AM |
| 1 | So I have numbers, what now?Thanks for the advice. I totally agree about braggers. I was quite beta before and used show it off. I guess it was just a teenage misconception that you have a nice car you WILL pick up. I wasn't getting nearly as much action as I was expecting. I find it difficult to deal with in general because I get shit tested when the targets are in the car. "Is it yours?" "Where did you get the money to buy it?" How would you respond to these? Usually I tend to dodge and say something like "It's just a ca… | /r/seduction | 08/06/10 02:29 AM |
| 1 | So I have numbers, what now?Ah the legendary intjpua! I like both yours and m0nk3y's replies. I'm not sure if it was a shit test. I think she was trying to be cute, and her friends were first like WTF, had a laugh and agreed with her. The girls did hang on to see how I would respond to it though. I could have definitely mucked it up by having nothing to say e.g "That's nice.". I wanted to ask you, I drive a nice car, is there any way to make use of it? I've sealed the deal in there before, but because I live with parents i… | /r/seduction | 07/06/10 05:46 AM |
| 1 | So I have numbers, what now?The 3 part day date is a really good idea. Although I have one problem; I still live with my parents, what's the best way to seal the deal besides waiting for an opportunity for them to be out? Not meaning to boast but I have nice car, can I take advantage of this somehow? | /r/seduction | 07/06/10 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I'm still taking it personally. How do I get over myself?I agree, it comes across a little bit needy. I would say something like "In an ideal world, yes" | /r/seduction | 06/06/10 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Cold hands and kinoIf she calls you out, just follow with a "cold hands, warm heart!". Works brilliantly the other way too. | /r/seduction | 06/06/10 05:14 AM |
| 1 | So I have numbers, what now?I like the idea of getting a group together to DHV. Thanks for the advice man. If the girls were interested in hooking up there and then, how do I keep that level the next time I speak to them? Do you know what I mean? I don't want to take a backstep. | /r/seduction | 06/06/10 04:20 AM |
| 2 | So I have numbers, what now?Sounds good, thanks for the advice. EDIT: One girl forget me. She's too hectic though. Has a boyfriend. I wasn't really expecting anything from this one anyway. | /r/seduction | 06/06/10 04:18 AM |
| 5 | So I have numbers, what now?The situations were all a bit different, but 4/6 were genuinely interested in hooking up so we exchanged numbers with intention to meet again. All were HB 7-8. Three of them went like this. Groups of girls on train/walking. The method I was using was I would wait for an IOI, shoot a smile back and start talking to all of them (mainly the one who gave me the IOI). I combined general chitchat (trying to up the party vibe) with the opener "in your female opinion, do I look gay in what I'm wearing?"… | /r/seduction | 06/06/10 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, reporting in! Post your state then city and meet up with other sedditors.me too. | /r/seduction | 05/06/10 09:25 AM |
| 3 | How old is too old?Until sex is like playing pool with a rope. | /r/seduction | 21/05/10 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Just Looking at a Girl, What can you tell about her?I once guessed a girl was vegetarian. She was pretty impressed. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 02:52 AM |
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