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| 142 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether | CMV | CuntessadiCunti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 21 | You must pick one | Question For Men | CuntessadiCunti | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:43 PM |
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| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherNo one who is normal and has an ounce of decency thinks it's justifiable to deliberately manipulate and emotionally abuse people just so you can get sex from them. It's sociopathic. Do you like knowing that you're a sociopath? If you're 47 and doing this you've been seriously emotionally and developmentally stunted. This is not an subjective opinion, psychologists have affirmed that it's abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthat's a lot more details than just how many kids you have or what geographic region you live in. I'm assuming this was a RP guy?? ....Considering 90% of the men on this sub are, and many of them are fucking weird to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe live in a consumer society. This fact + its huge litany of consequences is literally one of the reasons why anti-natalists recognize that it's unethical to have children. It's not hard to understand why many people recognize that it's wrong to bring children onto a planet that we're rapidly destroying beyond repair to fuel our consumerism and resource expenditure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost of the time I discipline myself and refrain from dropping truth bombs on people when they talk about their kids/desire to have kids. Unless they indicate some pretty alarming circumstances. When people come out and start unsolicitedly encouraging strangers to have kids especially because of shamelessly selfish reasons like "you'll be happier" then shit's a totally different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI ain't reading all that. I'm happy for u tho. Or sorry that happened. Translation: Cope for someone said something to me that struck a nerve and I don't have the intellectual or moral aptitude to answer to it. And I'm a selfish prick who doesn't give a shit about the future my kids will have to face, I only care about checking off my selfish impulsive needs off my bucket list. Spare the apology for your kids when they become adults and make sure you've thought of a good one because you better p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSeriously. I will not hide my disgust for these people. Not only do they not have any empathy for their own children to force them into a world where things are only going to increasingly keep getting much harder. But they go out encouraging other people to be reckless selfish idiots and create more human suffering. So many people are perfectly content to watch the world crash and burn around them as long as they get to check off their selfish desires off their bucket list. Who cares about the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome of us care enough about human beings that we'd never create them and bring them into a world where things are objectively only going to keep getting much, much, much shittier. No I'm hardly talking about just few select regions of the world either, these are colossal global existential crises threatening many aspects of our daily lives that we've taken for granted - some of the so-called lands of plenty that people love to praise here will actually be worse off than the West. Basic living n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:43 AM |
| 2 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether"all women are whores, as long as you're a 'high value man'" what a novel, groundbreaking theory. truly some brilliant stuff. that's like saying all men are pedophiles, as long as they're given an opportunity. on a serious note you might actually be autistic which would not be an uncommon thing, many people who concede to having been brainwashed by RP also indicate tthey are autistic. if even they can climb their way out of the black hole of depravity somehow then so can you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherIt's not about protecting them you dullard. it's about avoiding focusing on the inceldom because worshipping and copying these people is a serious problem, as we've seen how many have been influenced by the Santa Barbara freak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherMaybe the uprising of a certain movement in the early 2010s after a major economic bubble perhaps funneled all the resources we used to help men into something else. What is that even supposed to be a reference to??? Is it the trans movement? Whatever you're trying to describe is pretty ambiguous, I don't think the vast majority of people would have any clue what you're trying to insinuate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherYou're as subtle as a sledgehammer as are most of the dudes with these zealous views so it's highly doubtful you'll be able to hide them for any length of time. Red pill is hardly some kind of fraternal secret anyways, not anymore at least. So much for "fight club" rules. You might not think what you're doing is obvious, but women have now been dealing with the consequences of this ideology for several years now. Most women nowadays are hyper-aware of these kind of underlining misogynistic behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:42 PM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherNot always through the fault of society though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherThat's of the ones that the FBI/law enforcement agencies have disclosed to the public. There's probably a lot more that haven't been publicly labeled as such for various reasons. One of which I'm sure is that they don't want to necessarily keep highlighting their inceldom because it's led to copycat shootings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?Agreed. I also really did not care for this sentence: Also are any young women that the red pill say are high value and are in there prime have they never went for the bad boy or the super red pilled guy ? It's like he's saying he won't take women's own experiences with this at face value, he needs to be told from men that there's hot women who actually don't date pieces of shit, because it only counts if it's about women who men deem worthy. It's really fucking offensive actually. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether.....Dude literally right here on this sub men openly, proudly acknowledge that they're misogynists who think women should be used for sex and discarded. Including right on this thread. This is hardly an unreasonable or even subjective statement to make. Of course it's not all men, but it's a very considerable portion especially nowadays given the booming mainstream popularity of RP and its emotional abuse tactics. 95% of serious domestic violence perpetrators in the US are also men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherYou're a sociopath. Anyone who is willing to deliberately inflict psychological abuse on someone for the sake of just getting something they want, especially sex, is sociopathic. You're in good company considering there's already a few RP zealots here who proudly affirm that they're ASPD. Nobody in this world owes you anything beyond cordial respect. As adults we all know that. The same way it's wrong to steal, it's wrong to inflict emotional damage on someone to get what you want. In absolutely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherOh girl...my experience has been that the ones who are still single in 30s & 40s tend to be far more toxic than the 20s. You'd think that'd the extra years would add levelheadness and respect but a lot of the times it does not. They definitely haven't been immune to the RP bs either. It's really only the men who are safely old enough to not spend much time on social media who haven't gotten caught up with this mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:56 PM |
| 7 | Is this RP statistic true?Someone who posts this and apparently makes use of 0 critical thinking, I would say is 100% a red flag. Abso-fuckin-lutely. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Is this RP statistic true?I wholeheartedly agree with you, but spare your empathy for the people out there who actually are willing to concede that they have a problem and are willing to try to change - not the ones who look for any random undefined blurb to wholesale devalue an entire gender. These types of malcontents don't really deserve any well wishes, they'll never take them with any gratitude. We know that women aren't even the ones who are committing violence against men, by and large. Only 7% of US men who are k… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Is this RP statistic true?If this is your mindset then you're a dealbreaker for women, so congrats you've already taken yourself out of the running to begin with. Why are you even worrying about women having dealbreakers when you're not even a suitable candidate for them yourself in the first place??? If you can automatically disqualify a whole demographic on the basis of a bunch of random alleged stats that are given ZERO context whatsoever and not even consider that there's more to the story - then you're a feeble-mind… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 02:17 PM |
| 5 | PPD blind spot on "asia"can easily get harems The Rp appropriation of this word is so nasty . The way ya'll don't even care to frame it even in a mildly respectable way like muliple girlfriends/fwbs and instead picked "harem" speaks to your complete degeneracy. You don't even try to hide the fact that you view women as anything more than sexual objects. You think Thai Filipina/Brazilian w/e the fuck would like being referred to as part of a harem?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneI get that it's probably difficult to understand the perspective I was trying point out b/c obv it's hard to conceptualize when you don't have the lived experience of a woman. if you're not working a lot + don't have kids then it shouldn't be a chore but the picture changes a lot when you do. women have to do a lot more things than men do to keep up with beauty standards, there's a big difference between the amount of time and effort involved.. Even SAHM moms with young kids barely get a chance … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 12:00 PM |
| 2 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherThis is such a tired ass strawman argument that RP men always retort with because they can't handle hearing a spade being called a spade. On no widespread scale have women endorsed and called for using abuse against men. There isn't a huge mainstream movement of women promoting and encouraging each other to use manipulation and psychological abuse tactics against men. Unlike with RP. Of course there are women who employ forms of emotional abuse against their partners . The majority of women woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 11:48 AM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherthey’re jealous that they’re not white and can’t compete with white girls for the guys they want. I'm not sure what point you were trying to make here, but this is so, so problematic. Also, black women in particular are highly conscious of white women thinking like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:11 AM |
| 10 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherHe problem with red pill advice is more than half of the time it's true and these dudes are usually successful Lmfao on the basis of what exactly? Self-proclaimed gurus whose own personal history largely doesn't even back up what they're saying? Influencers who use misogyny to bait a gullible audience and then leverage their clout and money to attract women? I have yet to see any evidentiary basis of this shit actually working for any extended length of time. Just as much to indicate the contrar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:00 AM |
| 12 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether1000% on the money. This is just one anecdotal example of probably millions, but not that long ago I came across this guy who was posting about his romance woes. He just could not understand why he was getting beaten romantically by a bunch of prepubscent inferior dudes with hot women, while he at 6" tall and supposedly good-looking had been busting his ass in the gym and at work and got nothing! He shouldn't be an incel, they should be the incels! This stuff isn't even paraphrased btw, it's bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:19 AM |
| 6 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherHas literally nothing to do with feelings. It's not a subjective opinion, all that stuff is categorized as abuse. You deciding to deny that is your feelings. The stuff that you're claiming has no evidentiary basis, it literally came from a bunch of self-proclaimed gurus who largely don't even have their own personal history to back up what they're saying. Who also unsurprisingly built their livelihood on making money off you. Men who are consistently getting laid and staying in relationships are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:17 AM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI hear that, and I've been hearing that sentiment from quite a few older people for a while except that now it's increasingly coming from women. Were I to be in the position where I needed to be in a new serious relationship with someone in the future I would most likely restrict my target audience to men born 1970 or earlier. Older men are indeed a fresh of breath air, I'm so glad I'm with one who helps me maintain my sanity. When I tell him about this stuff he alternates between bemusement and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:23 AM |
| 4 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI personally could give a shit less about the continuation of human reproduction irrespective of the affected nationalities/ethnicities, for all kinds of reasons that have little to do with this topic. However, the vast majority of other people do. If men are wholesale exporting their needs to the developing world that will result in plummeting birthrates in Western countries. Many are already at below replacement fertility, so it would become even more of issue. Eventually these states would si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:10 AM |
| 12 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether"I don''t need no man", " I am a strong and independent woman", "All men are trash". This is because of shit like inequitable division of labor and domestic abuse. Pills & inc3ls conveniently forget that the feminist movement didn't just arise from women wanting to complain for the sake of complaining, there were serious problems that incited its development. Unfortunately though we now have the right to vote and equal opportunity in education and employment, there's been barely any reduction in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherWell actually 45% of 25-44 is more alarming than 45% as a whole because those are normally the prime years of marriage. If it was 45% of women overall the logical deduction would be that it's because of many divorced/elderly women who skewed the numbers higher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:20 AM |
| 14 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether, and any time those stories are posted all of the women condemn the rapist and half the men cheer her on and celebrate with quotes like “wish she was my teacher” and the like Yup. Whenever I see these female teacher sexual abuse stories there's always tons of men in the comments cheering the kid on, wishing they'd had her as a teacher. Especially when it's on right-leaning news sites like the NYPost. Meanwhile the comments from women are only expressing disgust. Though the phenomenon of female … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:34 AM |
| 10 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI empathize for the men who have to go through this, but it doesn't warrant the abusive reaction. Women haven't been trying to deliberately hurt these men by not having sex with them. Society collectively needs to do some deep introspection on what's caused these problems to erupt so violently in the past decade and do something about it because it will only get worse if we keep moving this direction. It's not like there wasn't a significant proportion of men (women too) before who weren't invol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 03:14 AM |
| 11 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI would never deny the fact that men face difficulties. But the solution to this wasn't RP or any of the other manosphere nonsense. Self-improvement and fitness was always an available avenue, men didn't need RP to teach them about the existence of these things. And they certainly didn't need to be instructed and encouraged to manipulate and psychologically abuse people, which makes up the rest of RP's teachings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:49 AM |
| 4 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherSorry, you're not gonna convince women to do what you want by promoting and using manipulation and narcissistic abuse tactics on them. Most people women included don't actually want to be abused, contrary to your warped perception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:34 AM |
| 7 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherNah, you're not gonna lie and manipulate the narrative like you reprobrates always do. RP instructs men to PRETEND being too busy, to INTENTIONALLY ghost/ignore/delay responding. We're not talking about legitimately not being able to respond because you're at work or the gym, and someone's freaking out because you didn't respond within a few minutes. And you damn well know it. Also "push and pull"- deliberately alternating between showing interest and being cold and aloof, breadcrumbing, stringi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:21 AM |
| 12 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherReally? There was an article all over the news recently about how nearly half of US women are projected to be single and childless by 2030. Doesn't what your saying totally contradict RP's mantra about women not being accessible enough and the standard RP rant about "cat ladies"? No, these aren't just the purple haired tattooed pierced fatties you all love to rant about either. Many are attractive women. Always contradiction at every corner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 12:52 AM |
| 4 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherAll of the following manipulation and control tactics that RP teaches and promotes, which are deliberately designed to fuck with someone mentally/emotionally and can amount to abuse. Not just helpful little "tips." This isn't a subjective opinion, psychologists and mainstream news articles have established and discussed how it's abusive. "negging - insulting, undermining and belittling your partner/romantic interest "dread gaming" - purposefully inciting jealousy and trying to make your partner … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 12:24 AM |
| 7 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherYou're not nearly as clever or subtle as you think you are. If you were, ya'll would have had the sense to never allow this stuff to explode all over social media and into mainstream news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:55 PM |
| 6 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherAbuse most certainly is nothing new. RP definitely hasn't coined any groundbreaking theories, no matter how much they credit themselves for. However abuse was not being mainstreamed and shamelessly promoted right out in the open, at least not in post modern times until now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:47 PM |
| 5 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI don't disagree with that mentality at all. Best thing you can do in the world we live in today is look out for yourself, but that should never mean subjecting people to manipulation and psychological abuse tactics in the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:31 PM |
| 17 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherAhh yes Mr. AlternateNews and his warped meme reality where women are crazy-haired tattooed pierced fatties who obsess over pronouns and bulldog men. Never ventures out to talk to real people so he has no idea that the vast majority of Western women are nothing like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:23 PM |
| 22 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherThat's the problem, red pill is hardly some kind of fraternal secret, not anymore at least. So much for "fight club" rules. You might not think what you're doing is obvious, but women have now been dealing with the consequences of this ideology for several years now. Most women nowadays are hyper-aware of these kind of underlining misogynistic behaviors, manipulation and narcissistic abuse tactics starting very early in adulthood- b/c not only are they intuitive but they've heard about them, bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Exploited women in poor countrieswho don't want to date/marry more progressive women Is this a joke? Women marrying Western men largely if not solely for your resources is not more progressive lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneBetween hair/skin/nails yeah 5k, possibly more. If you're cool with funding that that's fair, I just don't think it is when a dude expects all that and isn't pitching in or offsetting the cost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 06:47 PM |
| 8 | What are some examples of shit tests?Wholeheartedly agree. None of this stuff requires intentionally baiting someone with scenarios and then judging them if they don't respond the way you want. Life is hard enough that you'll probably get thrown into some uncomfortable situations with someone relatively early on that will help show their character. No need to create them. One of the best examples I've had of this was when I was interning at an Embassy abroad and the week before I was supposed to start by pure coincidence I ended up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of shit tests?Lmfao I've spent more time than I'm proud of in clubs and festivals all over with good looking people and rarely saw interactions like the first one you described. Are there people who hook up, for fucking sure but it doesn't look anything like that cringy scenario you came up with. The played-out trope about women lobbying for free drinks is also a classic RP cringe narrative. The only times I've really seen that happening are with broke girls of barely legal drinking age and sloppy drunk women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:58 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of shit tests?The whole concept of "dread gaming" and all its possible scenarios is shit testing. For example Ghosting or making up an excuse of how you're not available and then judging the woman when she reacts negatively to it Being an asshole either by being aloof, belittling her, refusing to do reasonably expected things to test her attachment Anything done with the deliberate intention of making a woman jealous/insecure about the relationship Also stuff like Making sexual advances on a woman and then ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 05:32 PM |
| 12 | What are some examples of shit tests?Agree with all this, but though there are women who may employ "shit tests" RP literally teaches and encourages men to do them in addition to all manner of other manipulation and psychological abuse tactics. Basically when it comes to shit tests RP says "this is what women do, so you need to learn how to do it too" and then a lot of men go out preemptively pulling this shit on women who haven't even done it to them in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:08 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of shit tests?Why do you waste your time writing fanfic for reddit points lmfao. At least half of this is codswallop, especially the first woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:50 PM |
| 6 | What are some examples of shit tests?You're a sociopath if you're deliberately doing things to someone that they're probably not going to like and then judging them for it when they predictably react negatively to it. "Shit tests" aren't banter, a lot/most of the time there isn't even any humor involved, not even subtly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:40 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of shit tests?The first paragraph was straight on, but the last was a bunch of nonsense. Shit tests have nothing to do with "femininity." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 4 | What are some examples of shit tests?There's a helluva difference between "shit tests" and banter. Shit tests, you're intentionally doing something that you know they're probably not going to like to gauge their reaction and then judging them for it when they predictably act negatively to it. A lot of the time there isn't a trace of humor involved. With banter it's supposed to be light-hearted and spontaneous fun, you're not doing it to actually deliberately try to mess with someone and then judge their reaction. If you can dish it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | You must pick one, she's just nice, loyal and sexually active.. isn't that good enough? I'd assume there'd be good communication in the relationship if she's in love with you, enjoys being around you, etc. who knows about the other characteristics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneumm have you been in a relationship with a woman who works full-time?? most don't have the time/energy to dutifully clean/cook and look nice all the time. #1 would be a fairly accurate for a large percentage of relationships with women who work and/or have kids. #2 less common but definitely still exists depending on how you meet and their motivation for being in the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneOpe someone had to bring up the "N count" lmfao. +1 for predictable. Although tbf I would have guessed itd be mentioned a lot more gi ven the mindset of this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneWas curious about the motives of men here when it comes to their expectations. Most gave pretty reasonable answers. A few definitely did not, especially the people I've already seen being psychotic on other threads. They told on themselves again lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | You must pick onelol as long as you're prepared to fund the maintenance you're expecting, a lot of those things aren't free especially after having kids. easily 5k per year, men have no concept of the cost of a lot of these things for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | You must pick one#1 Describes a huge number of women who work full-time and/or have kids. They're in love with their partners they just don't have the time/energy to look good and keep up with the domestic duties a lot of the time. Unless you're planning to provide for your partner + not have kids/pay for daycare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 02:00 AM |
| 3 | You must pick oneI can only hope that unbeknownst to him she has a far superior replacement lined up, who she'll soon divorce him for taking with her most of the assets, because that's the only scenario that could remotely avenge this situation. The extra shitty part about it is, the reason why he's cheating on with her with sugar babies vs. escorts is because sadly SB's are much more likely to concede to unprotected sex due to being more naive and having a more skewed power imbalance. It's by far the main reaso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Man's burden is woman's choiceYeah, the suggestion that men are contributing anywhere near equally with childcare is insanity lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Man's burden is woman's choiceJesus!!! Are you also in the medical field?? You're bringing in over half a million a year combined, that's insane. You must have a very nice life lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Man's burden is woman's choiceShe's making 400k, so it's pretty debatable about whether her husband's work value is any higher than hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:11 AM |
| 3 | You must pick oneEnjoy bragging while you still can because your wife is going to get rid of you one day soon enough. I hope she puts you in jail when you bring home a "gift" that you infect her with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:57 PM |
| 4 | You must pick oneWait is this actually real????? I'm about to be really incensed if it is. ETA: Holy fucking shit it is. And no, he's not doing this with the agreement and knowledge of his wife. What an absolute fucking shitbag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:47 PM |
| 5 | You must pick oneYikes. If those two have been your only experiences then I feel sorry for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:42 PM |
| 3 | You must pick oneI don't think there's a huge number of women who are "feminine" by all your measures. For women who have the luxury of not having to either work or take care of kids and who love their husbands then yeah it's possible to dutifully clean, cook, look nice all the time and fuck daily or more. Not when you work full time and/or have kids to look after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:39 PM |
| -4 | You must pick oneIf you mean literally then yeah it doesn't b/c I assume most people here aren't currently being presented with these two options. But both situations definitely exist in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out theredon't listen to him you're objectively beautiful and most men here could only wish they could be so lucky lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out thereBy choking do you mean putting their hand on your throat and lightly squeezing or actually applying pressure? If a woman tells a man to do that I'm all for it, but if a man does that to me unprompted w.o me indicating I'm cool with that it's gonna be a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneI understand why having had your experience you'd feel very strongly when it comes to father's getting fucked with child custody, but while I'd wholeheartedly agree there are too many who've been put through that there's still far more that are just shitty absent dads. I'm not even saying that I agree with the way child custody cases are administered. But there's just a huge number of dads who don't even try to see their kids or contest custody. I know the stigma because of deadbeat dads has to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | You must pick onegood luck with that lol, 95% of women don't look like what IG models project in their pics. Most don't even look anywhere close lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneyour assuming it's someone good-looking. unless not being fat = good-looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:36 PM |
| 3 | You must pick oneI'm all for honesty lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:30 PM |
| 0 | You must pick oneThere are a few people who indicated #2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:29 PM |
| -7 | You must pick oneLiterally no where am I raging to any of the responses lol, but I guess in your world everyone has to be angry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do people ignore the possibility of rape in cases of abortions and child protection money?Any number of false sexual assault accusations is too high, but it's not nearly as high as recent demagogues would have you believing. The majority of studies deemed reliable by peer review puts the figure at somewhere around 2- 10%. There's been a few misleading/self-interested studies that have put the false reporting rate at a much higher percentage on the basis of the number of cases that are recanted, don't meet the precise legal criteria or don't result in a conviction. These three scenari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneWhat if she wants kids herself? Most women who'd be willing to take care of another woman's kids would probably want their own kids. I don't see many childfree career women opting for that situation, unless maybe they're older/in the unique position of not being able to have their own kids and they really love yours. Fathers are unquestionably important. But most single mother households where the father doesn't have an active role aren't because the mother prevents him from seeing the kids, it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | You must pick onelmao you don't even have the first one, where the hell are you getting 2 more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.I wouldn't deny that there's implicit biases but that's not the same thing as systemic. Even that study acknowledges that there's no intentional oppression on the basis of height. And tt doesn't cite anything other than employment discrimination. Short people don't get discriminated against by landlords or the criminal justice system. Again, liberals are always coming up with that stupid argument comparing short men with fat people. Being fat is a choice. Being short isn't. Full stop. Not compar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:37 PM |
| 5 | You must pick oneloll you don't think there's people who just stay cordial with and tolerate their spouses? "do the best to fake it" may have been a bit overblown but there are definitely people who do that, especially when they're benefiting financially from the marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | You must pick oneNot necessarily? Some women just don't care to do all the stuff women do to look good (plus the added factor that most work and/or have children). Some also hate cleaning/cooking. But still really love their men. The same way some men do the same things, they don't care to stay in shape or do domestic duties/childcare but still really love their women. Not that unusual actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:09 PM |
| 0 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsLmao. Citing objective factual data means being angry? Nah, that's not how that works. Gaslighting people for citing facts that you don't like to hear is unhinged and delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.I don't agree with the vilification of all white people, but it's still not anywhere comparable to the persistent racism against black people Also, in my experience, liberal whites are also racist against blacks. They just act like they aren't. You can cite whatever personal experience you want, that's anecdotal not empirical. All available evidence shows that it's conservatives who have a much higher tendency of being racist towards black people and other races. And let's not even get started o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Trans radicalism is hardly supported by all progressives. More and more are not endorsing those views for many reasons, but that doesn't mean they have to abandon all their values simply because they disagree with the party line on one issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:28 AM |
| 7 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.In what regard are they bigoted, besides possibly detesting conservatives (and not even as intensely as conservatives detest liberals)? Broadly speaking, because of course there's always hypocrites on an individual level but that's a huge difference between party-sponsored bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.A concise and eloquent summation 👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.I'm very progressive for the most part but liberals who are heralding our proxy war with Russia for the sake of following the party line are bafflingly dimwitted. Destabilizing Euope is not in our interest, and it most definitely is not in Ukraine's interest, whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.As someone who's progressive on just about every single issue except 2, I'd wholeheartedly concede that the Ukraine situation is a mess. It's a proxy war that we're fighting with Russia, and our meddling is of zero benefit to Ukraine whatsoever, or Europe as a whole. Many Ukrainians are starting to recognizing this now, if they weren't at least questioning it before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:07 AM |
| 6 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.It's noble to vote against people having healthcare, education and tax cuts for the wealthy and megacorporations? Interesting interpretation of nobility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:02 AM |
| 4 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Yeah so I know you fell into an alternate reality of fiction but that's not what happened. Nobody went after him for "sleeping with so many women." He manipulated women into believing he loved them and wanted to marry them, and then sex trafficked them into doing cam work. Then defrauded them by taking most of their earnings. None of them had any prior experience in sex work. All of this he stated for himself on his website, there's literally documented proof. Also he recorded video and audience… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:55 AM |
| 0 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.What a wonderful idea. Why aren't wE doing that? Sudan, Iran or Afghanistan would love to have you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:38 AM |
| 12 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.What kind of ideas have been put into your head that you would actually think 80-90% could be anywhere near a reasonable estimation??? You think women are thesE insatiable rabid beasts who open their legs for every man that presents an opportunity? "Oh a man just hit on me in the grocery store, guess that means I have to fuck him or my vagina's gonna burst. Too bad for my husband"....................... Did you have a repressed isolated upbringing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:33 AM |
| 6 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Which is a huge difference between alleging 30% of all children are born to a different man than the presumptive father, though I'm not sure too many people here are capable of understanding the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 07:18 AM |
| 4 | To all, but mainly women that have arguments with Red/Blackpills, worst thing they said to you?JFC. I'm twice your age, and even at my age it seems too young to be already this disillusioned thanks to the toxic cesspool that is the manosphere. I can't imagine having been not just exposed to this stuff but directly subjected to vile outbursts from these degenerates, at such a young age. I guess at least you're learning very early on exactly what to avoid and will hopefully be a lot better prepared for identifying red flags. The good news is that not ALL men are like this, there are a signi… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/23 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Lmfaooooo. This is so blatantly stupid. Your survey conveniently omits half the picture which could totally change the interpretation. Where are the questions and answers about men's thoughts on men cheating??? Only the women's cheating matters right like always. You can never overdose on double standards and hypocrisy, guess you do it so much that you're immune to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsLmfao. They literally DV'ed a comment where I cited objective facts. They can't handle being faced with the truth, they expect women to exist in their alternate reality. Honestly I'm afraid that some of these people are going to someday actually take out their rage by committing violence. Would hardly be the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incels............I'm the last thing close to RP lmao. I just don't think there was any point in her saying this stuff to him, even if there was truth to it. It's counter productive. Most men are just going to disregard any merit behind what's being said and think negatively of the woman for saying it. Better to just cease contact if you get to that level of frustration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 02:56 AM |
| – | Like 2% of the worldwide population has such a twisted fixation towards the opposite gender than this purple headed freak show.This comment and all the other ones echoing it are further proof of the fact that most of you are complete hypocrites. You literally shame women for having any kind of casual sex, for even just having multiple sex partners, but then you wanna cry "how is a woman in a FWB being used for her body?" .................................................................................................................................................... Anyone who can say both of these kinds of things with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsAt face value I'd agree that her messages come off as unhinged. I frankly would never say this kind of stuff to anyone I'm involved with, I'd rather just stop talking to them entirely before stooping to this level especially if it's not even a relationship. However I'm willing to bet that there's a whole lot of unexplained context behind this. First of all there's a lack of continuity between a few of her messages, like there are missing messages from you. But even aside from that, how you treat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:04 PM |
| 2 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelssex for money meas you were not necessarily attracted and had sex for other reasons, and having sex for other reasons with someone you really arent attracted to means you threw away your dignity for money, and its usage because you pretend you are attracted and that's manipulation. You're doing a HELL of a lot of mental gymnastics to arrive at your narrative. People who have sex for money aren't pretending to be attracted or manipulating anyone. They're providing a service for which someone cont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:47 PM |
| 3 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsEh that's debatable nowadays. A lot of ugly men are extremely resentful of not getting sex from hot women thanks to social media delusions, as we see here and out in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:21 PM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsSocial media nonsense. It seems the answer to a lot of men's woes is simply to find women who don't care about or even have social media. They definitely exist. But they hypocrisy of the situation is they only want good looking women who have a higher tendency of being social media obsessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsSo only prostitutes consider a FWB to be the same as nothing at all? Very interesting logic. The fact of the matter is you can't even come up with any benefits, that's why you have to come up with a scapegoat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incels. In today's age if all a man wants is sex he's not going to stick around just for the off chance of getting sex. Lmfaoo that's so not true. I'd agree the discussion of marriage would probably dissuade a good 50% of men who aren't interested in that, but there most definitely are men who are willing to put on a front and pull all the stops at the chance of getting sex from a woman who they perceive as hard to get. And then not infrequently they'll ghost once the novelty wears off of getting what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 07:02 PM |
| -5 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsLMfaooo. You could say the exact same thing for 99.5% of the male users on this sub, yourself included. Don't you think that's a tad bit hypocritical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:52 PM |
| -6 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incelsBig fucking difference: Women aren't out committing mass shootings because of not getting laid, or not being happy with men. In fact, by and large women aren't the ones who are committing violence...at all. 90% of homicides are committed by men. 95% of serious domestic violence is committed by men. 99% of rapes are committed by men. US stats but are closely matched everywhere else. ETA: Very telling that a comment which is literally citing objective factual data is getting downvoted. Goes to sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:51 PM |
| 5 | A growing number of women these days act like actual incels. You see so many on night out half naked, barefoot, wandering the streets absolutely drunk off their heads. That's an American girl tendency that I've admittedly always been repulsed by. Don't think I've ever seen women in other countries do that. I've never, ever taken my shoes off and ended up walking the street barefoot just because it got uncomfortable. If I was wearing heels I was always committed to leaving them on no matter how painful it got because no one was gonna catch me barefoot li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 06:18 PM |
| -1 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menImagine spending a minimum of at least 2 hours of your time on a date, getting ready etc. just for the chance of having a guy pay for your maybe $50 meal. Even if you're only making $15/hr, $50 for 2 hours of your time is hardly a huge boon. Plus, not even a guarantee that he will cover for you in the first place. And if he does, he may well expect that you should be repaying him with sex. Since we all know that's a thing. This whole situation is so appealing that 99% of women are taking these r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menYou might not, but that doesn’t mean the other 99% don’t. Ok, so let's get this straight. You think there are women dating men and intentionally deceiving them for free males. A HUGE percentage of them apparently. Let's just assume you're correct. You really think there are that many women who are broke enough to go on a date with someone they have zero interest in, just for the sake of a free meal?? Most people don't live in NYC, so we're talking maybe an generous average of $50 for her portion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menYour whole argument is flawed on so many levels. If a woman is seriously altering her appearance than it's reasonable to expect that it's acceptable for men to do the same, like wearing a toupe or lifts in their shoes. In no way is that anywhere equivalent to purposely misrepresenting your intentions and manipulating someone. Not even remotely comparable. Nor are most women who pursue traditional dating looking to use men for meals/$. That's absolutely not the case at all, the vast majority of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 03:59 PM |
| 0 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest mentry trentinoin, best affordable thing you can do for your skin is to start on it early | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:56 PM |
| 4 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menIdk, if you go by their logic plastic surgery would be the most extreme form of this deception because it's a much more drastic measure than just makeup. It can make you look considerably different than your natural features. What if someone marries someone who's had a lot of plastic surgery thinking their offspring are going to inherit their good looks, just to find out that their genes produce a totally different outcome? Of course the men complaining about this shit probably don't care about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menIf you consider makeup lying, why do you shame women for being ugly whenthey're not wearing it?? You realize that 95% of women don't lookanything close to what IG models project, especially without makeup?If your expectations are that insanely high that you want someone wholooks near perfect without makeup are you willing to fund their plasticsurgeries and maintenance? How do you expect women who aren't wealthy toafford many tens of thousands of $ to achieve that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:44 PM |
| 5 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menIf you consider makeup lying, why do you shame women for being ugly when they're not wearing it?? You realize that 95% of women don't look anything close to what IG models look like, especially without makeup? If your expectations are that insanely high that you want someone who looks near perfect without makeup are you willing to fund their plastic surgeries and maintenance? How do you expect women who aren't wealthy to afford many tens of thousands of $ to achieve that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | if you're a fake dishonest woman you can't complain about fake dishonest menbecause I know that uniform skin has a psychological impact on me that clouds my judgement You're bizarre. If having perfect skin is such an ideal quality for you that you're willing to make serious concessions about other factors then your priorities are all fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | What turned you away from the red pill?the PUA said the dude was too short Well that's helpful af. Point out something that the dude is already well aware of and has zero ability to change. Also mentioned that he needed more social proof on his IG (the Dan Bilzerian thing). These people's perception of what matters is soooo fucking skewed. Social media isn't real life and most women don't give a damn about a dude's social media. The advice they give is just a recipe to attract vapid gold diggers like you said. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 08:59 AM |
| 4 | What turned you away from the red pill?RP focuses on only external superficial attributes (net worth, appearance, a trophy wife/girlfriend to show off to other men) and teaches men that those things determine their value. It doesn't give a damn about your character and who you are as a person. That kind of mindset is bound to just further induce insecurities, it's toxic af. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 08:47 AM |
| 11 | Why do RP reduce men to being providers and then complain endlessly about it?while also giving away their money to their favorite RP content creators, aka random dudes on the internet | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Why do RP reduce men to being providers and then complain endlessly about it?JFC. I just perused that sub you mentioned, which from your description initially sounded semi-promising. Spent a few minutes reading comments and honestly, from the way those dudes talk they are the stuff of nightmares. I'm all about self-improvement and accountability, but they seem to be exhibiting the very worst aspects of RP. These men literally perform "shit tests" on their wives and scorn spending time with them...ya know, the person they decided to marry and spend their rest of their liv… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 07:50 AM |
| 2 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?I can assure you that the so-called "orgasm gap" isn't a primary reason for why women aren't inclined to have hook-ups. You're lacking fundamental understanding on the differences between men and women for motivation and enjoyment of sex. Men's need for sex is biological and animalistic, therefore they're able to detach sex from connection and feelings. Even though those things may enhance their enjoyment, in general they're not necessary for men's sexual gratification nor are they the reason wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 10:12 PM |
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