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Curious_Educator3425/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:24 PM
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I had a quick look. Female version of MGTOW. Didn't see much strategy, unless "fuck all men, all men are pedos", is a strategy. My favourite was the one essentially claiming that a woman can't consent to sex as their brain isn't fully developed until they are 30...
/r/askTRP02/01/21 02:36 AM
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That's not a date. It's a free meal strategy.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 02:18 AM
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Why is it not OK? Assuming you are only texting to arrange meeting up, 24 hours is a normal period of time for a reply. Pay more attention to what the reply is, not how long it takes to get it. You've also got to ask yourself why are you letting the actions of any one girl bother you so much. It comes across as very needy and seeking validation.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:35 PM
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That may be a good generalisation but there are exceptions. If they don't respond until the next day, but the response is long and enthusiastic and it is obvious they have put effort into it, that is actually a sign of very high interest. There are girls that won't reply until they have discussed everything with their girlfriends out of fear that they will say the wrong thing or appear too needy. Especially if you have just met. You also get girls that will respond immediately and seem high inte…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:29 PM
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Sometimes people are just attracted to someone else for no logical reason. I was walking through a park today and there was a girl around 20 out jogging. Perfect body and face, easily a 9. Just behind her was this extremely fat guy drenched in sweat, neckbeard and all. Looked like he had been playing call of duty every day for the last ten years. I laughed to myself thinking aww she's took her orbiter out for a jog. Saw them later and they were most definitely a couple. She was all over him. Onc…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:05 PM
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In modern times, presumably the invention of effective birth control was the first major catalyst. Social media has heightened that and ties in with validation seeking. Going by evolutionary theory, women were probably never designed to be in control of sex. The tribe alpha fucked all the women until the tribe was conquered and the new alpha of the group emerges. The theory is that the female orgasm was purely to bond women to the new dominant male. Probably explains why a lot of rape victims ex…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:47 PM
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Arrange a date within a day or two max. You should not be waiting ten days after getting a phone number. Despite what you might hear, that doesn't make you appear high value with an abundance mentality, it actually makes you look weak, nervous and indecisive.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 10:56 PM
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Women hate rejection but they love chasing. You need to be a challenge to her, it's part of the attraction.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:01 AM
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A girl I used to work with is an absolute master at deception. In real life she has a decent body but the face is a 3 or 4 at best and really dodgy teeth. On tinder and social media she somehow looks like an 8. She would always complain about getting ghosted after first dates with guys. One day she was ranting about how guys who post pictures wearing hats are all liars and are just trying to hide the fact that they are bald or have a receding hairline. The double standards are absolutely hilario…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:11 AM
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Yes, definitely. I had a very weak father who was depressed and I had little to no guidance from him in anything masculine. In fact we barely spoke. My mother was definitely the boss. Combine that with the bombardment of blue pill ideas in tv/movies/music and you end up growing up believing that's how real life actually works. I acted so feminine, my first girlfriend was a legit lesbian. And my second girlfriend thought I was actually gay at one point....
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:18 PM
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People show you a lot more respect in general when you have very short/shaved hair. It's very noticeable, especially if you used to have long hair like I did. I have a receded hairline now so it's no longer an option but I actually prefer it shaved short. I tend to think of guys with longer hair/man buns now as looking very feminine and weak.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:32 PM
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If you are in decent shape, fit and healthy, and have your shit together, the age gap is less relevant It's only "creepy" when girls get hit on by people they look down on i.e. a fat loser 50 year old messaging young women on dating apps.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 05:25 PM
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Hot girls almost always have the lowest self esteem. You see a goddess captivating the rooms attention while she does her bent over rows. In her head she's probably thinking oh my god they are staring at me because I am fat.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:38 PM
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They have a threshold level but also apply a scale. If you exceed the threshold of attractiveness, it's then down to where you fall on her scale and your frame and actions. For example, she may consider you a 5 and will possibly have sex with you depending on your actions, but not be that interested and act flaky and lose interest at the first sign of weakness. An example is she may consider some of her orbiters attractive enough to sleep with, if they weren't displaying "beta" nice guy behaviou…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:25 PM
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If they look up to you they will all lie and tell you what you want to hear to try and qualify themselves, especially early on. You could even say most LTR are an entire lie. How many guys have dated someone for years and when they finally break up, they are totally shocked as they see the womens true colours when she no longer gives a fuck about being with him.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:44 PM
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It's a very common problem. Most big companies and institutions are under pressure to ensure gender balance at a high level. It's meant to be that if two candidates have the same qualifications and experience, then gender might swing it towards a female. In reality, unqualified and inexperienced women are getting roles they should never be in. My brother in law went for a management job where he was extremely overqualifed and had experience of doing the job and was told off record that the job h…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:17 PM
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There are always exceptions of course, but in the vast majority of cases, the guy is fooling himself that he doesn't want to fuck the girl. Girls are fundamentally different than guys and are biologically driven to be entirely selfish and view everything as transactional. Even if the guy doesn't want to fuck her, the girl will assume he does anyway and derive validation from it. I keep seeing people posting that having hot female friends gives social proof and raises smv. Perhaps in a large soci…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:47 PM
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Met a girl who had everything in common with me, right down to liking the same obscure bands. Fell head first into the unicorn/oneitis trap. Made every mistake in the book, despite logically knowing my actions were turning her off.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:27 PM
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Either she got bored of waiting for you to arrange the second date and felt rejected or her interest wasn't particularly high. Some girls will just block/ghost rather than run the the risk of trying to let you down gently in case the guy goes full on butt hurt stalker mode. And yes stuff like that happens to pretty much every guy at some point. Don't take it personal or dwell on it.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:50 PM
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Girls don't have male "friends", they have orbiters that they use for validation. I'd even go so far as to say that girls don't have any real friends full stop. As a former blue pilled friend zone enthusiast, all they ever do is bitch about all their other so called friends to you and phone you up needing some sort of favour. Imagine you are at a party and a girl turns up with a guy who she introduces as "just her friend". The guy has just been presented to the entire room as an orbiter bitch. I…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:27 PM
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Depends on the type of girl and depends on the guys look/attractiveness. Strong and silent while also displaying confidence and leadership is important. There's a big difference between shy and strong/silent through. I would class myself as an introvert. In a group setting, I will be the least talkative and outgoing in my friends group but not because I am shy and afraid to speak up. I am still the group "leader" and generally make the decisions. I get a lot of flirty comments like "oh it's the …
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:02 PM
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No rule should be followed 100% literally, but generally yes. "How are you?" "What you up to?" "What you doing today?" All examples of totally pointless and needy text behaviour that will get you put in the friend zone/orbit very quickly. Just get to the point and arrange a meet up. She has already decided whether she finds you attractive enough to meet, anything else is just wasting away your valuable time.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:38 PM
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Girl loses weight --> her ego and perceived self value goes up She starts getting more interest from other guys and starts to think you must be low value to have accepted her when she was fat and loses respect and attraction for you.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:13 PM
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Just go silent until she reaches out. Doing anything else will make you seem more needy. She's only got the power because you are in her frame and chasing.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:53 AM
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1/2 litre whole milk + 200g ground oat powder. Stick it in the blender. That's at least 130g of carbs
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:20 PM
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Not sure of the science behind it, but I always feel super aggressive and angry just after doing deadlifts. Don't get it with any other lifts. Always felt it must be a testosterone related spike.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:33 PM
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It can go either way. I wouldn't bring it up but if she asks, I wouldn't lie about it. She might try and shit test you on it so don't get all defensive. If she's attracted enough, it won't be a problem. If she's only moderately attracted, then it might be a deal breaker. I'm in my 30's and had a 27 year old totally freak out when she found out, because I look about ten years younger than I am. But then other girls don't care. All down to attraction level really.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:27 PM
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Any slim, even average looking women will have many options and have no need to message anyone first. Fat girls send messages first because no one is hitting them up.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:07 PM
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You didn't strike when the iron was hot. She flirted with you and you didn't make a move so she now feels rejected and thinks you are weak and insecure so has lost interest.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:22 PM
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Only really an issue if you wanted to LTR her. Many male friends generally means tomboy traits, an inability to be submissive/feminine, never ending shit tests and flaky behaviour and a massively overinflated ego.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:55 PM
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It's not a case of asking her too early, you shouldn't have asked her at all. Asking for a relationship is essentially feminine behaviour. She was caught off guard because you dropped a role reversal on her.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:40 PM
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I wouldn't have even bothered going that far into a conversation. She either wants to hook up or wants validation. Wouldn't even bother asking her how she is doing. Her: Hey how are you? You: I'm good. Keeping busy but I'm free on Friday night. We should catch up. If she is interested in hooking up, then nothing else matters, you have given her the opportunity. Don't reply if she doesn't offer an alternative date. If you don't hear from her, then you know to ignore her BS next time around.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 06:06 PM
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"Hey can I have your IG" = please let me stalk you online as I don't have the balls to talk and ask you out in person. Asking for her instagram has just told her that you want to be a "fan". Another thirsty orbiter to add to the collection. That's why they will almost always hand that out. And stop worrying about being seen as a 'creep'. Creep is just a word used by women to describe guys they are not attracted to.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:15 PM
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Probably just seeing if she could still emotionally manipulate you, which she did if you responded to her. I had a similar situation when trying to get some belongings back from an ex once. Simple logistical texts I sent trying to arrange pickup of my stuff and I got a huge emotional essay back about how I won't stop harassing her and she doesn't know what else she can do to stop me contacting her. All very dramatic. It's all just part of the game. If you are not jumping through hoops and creati…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:37 PM
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This is just women virtue signalling on social media. Focus on their actions not their words. Only ever open up to male friends. Over the years, I've made the mistake of talking about feelings/health problems with women on a few occasions (when extremely drunk). LTR's and even just female friends within my social circle. On every single occasion without fail they all immediately became distant/ghosted/asked for space. They literally do not give a fuck about men full stop. Women are by nature ent…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:25 PM
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You may want to try a zinc supplement.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:14 PM
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I know the feeling. I spent my twenties in party mode, working dead end jobs and doing some travelling. Started and dropped out of 3 or 4 college/uni courses before finally getting my shit together and went back to uni in my 30's. I remember thinking at 26 that I was far too old but someone talked me round and the reality is there are many different paths through life. There are people in there 40's, 50's and 60's at uni for a career change. It's never too late. Just make sure you think through …
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:36 PM
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You chasing will lower that interest level even further. It implies you care more than they do and are of lower value.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:37 PM
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She's looking for an orbiter. The game is over as soon as she realised you were emotionally invested in her. She will check your social media to see if you are posting any pity party content to give herself an ego boost. Just learn from the experience and move on. I once went to meet a girl on my birthday thinking I was hooking up, and when I got there, she told me she needed me to give her a lift to some other guys house. Now that was an eye opening moment.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:47 PM
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Just a sign of low interest probably as 4 years isn't a significant age difference. Hamstering a reason so she doesn't need to be blatant about rejecting you.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:30 PM
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When they hit the wall around 30 and are no longer as attractive, they start to hit up beta exs, most of whom are only too happy to have them back. One of my very beta friends fell for this. They dated/lived together in there early 20's. She cheated obviously. She hits 30 and contacts him out the blue with stories about how they were always meant to be together. In other words, her looks faded fast, she could no longer pull the chads, and didn't want the stimga of being single. And yes, he fell …
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:41 PM
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18yo's are brutally immature, it's almost never worth the hassle. They are usually clueless in bed and end up being super needy/stalkery/false rape accusations etc when they realise you don't want anything long term. But if that's what you are after, there are always plenty of girls with daddy issues...
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:44 PM
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I agree. Unless your social media profiles are on point and of high quality, it is probably more of a hindrance. I remember years ago, a girl I used to work with added me on facebook and a couple days later, she was having an open discussion on her page with her friends about how much of a disappointment my profile was. The less they know the better. You will never be able to live up to their fantasy image of you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:05 PM
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I agree. Unless your social media profiles are on point and of high quality, it is probably more of a hindrance. I remember years ago, a girl I used to work with added me on facebook and a couple days later, she was having an open discussion on her page with her friends about how much of a disappointment my profile was. The less they know the better. You will never be able to live up to their fantasy image of you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:04 PM
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I agree. Unless your social media profiles are on point and of high quality, it is probably more of a hindrance. I remember years ago, a girl I used to work with added me on facebook and a couple days later, she was having an open discussion on her page with her friends about how much of a disappointment my profile was. The less they know the better. You will never be able to live up to their fantasy image of you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:03 PM
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I agree. Unless your social media profiles are on point and of high quality, it is probably more of a hindrance. I remember years ago, a girl I used to work with added me on facebook and a couple days later, she was having an open discussion on her page with her friends about how much of a disappointment my profile was. The less they know the better. You will never be able to live up to their fantasy image of you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:03 PM
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I agree. Unless your social media profiles are on point and of high quality, it is probably more of a hindrance. I remember years ago, a girl I used to work with added me on facebook and a couple days later, she was having an open discussion on her page with her friends about how much of a disappointment my profile was. The less they know the better. You will never be able to live up to their fantasy image of you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 11:03 PM
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I think it comes down to personal preference. A lot of "normal" type women seem to be into the rugby player build i.e plenty of muscle but hidden under a fair bit of fat. Girls that are in good shape and into fitness themselves are usually into more obviously muscular/leaner guys. Face fat seems to plays a huge role though. I was at university as an older guy and had a lot of attention from the younger girls when I was lean with a little obvious muscle definition and well defined jawline. I ende…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:37 PM
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What you interpret as excuses are actually a blatant rejection. If she is into you, you would know it. Trust your gut feeling. If things feel off, or you are unsure, then you already have your answer. Time to walk away. Sounds like you might be in a friendzone situation. She may flirt just enough to keep you interested. This is not a sign of interest, it's purely for validation and attention i.e. orbiter.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:10 PM
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