Curious_pari Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
129	How the patriarchal mindset means that chasing men is still a complete waste of time.	MINDSET SHIFT	Curious_pari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 02:27 PM
115	Never ever skip the background check!	LESSON LEARNED	Curious_pari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 08:29 PM
9	AITA because I don't want to continue being emotionally available for a friend I like?	SEEKING ADVICE	Curious_pari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 04:43 AM
1	Inspiring. Each word resonates so much!		Curious_pari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 07:23 PM
1	Men be like "Tell us exactly what you want, we don't understand hints" and then act all cold, distant, uncaring after losing interest and expect you to "get the drift and move on."	LVM LOGIC	Curious_pari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/20 08:04 AM
0	Bio updated! I think by this age, people should know what they want.	LESSON LEARNED	Curious_pari	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 05:23 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
43	Never let them get comfortable disrespecting you. I realised this when I asked him what he liked the most about me. He said "You always bounce back."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 04:06 PM
36	Anyone else notice this? Imagine what my friend went through. She cut off all social connections and slipped into depression. Took me a while to realise something's wrong and then after being so persistent, she finally opened up to me. I have seen such horrible things happen to women so close to me, that I'm absolutely paranoid about getting into a relationship. I'd rather be single, no thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 03:43 PM
32	Anyone else notice this? Like the post says, it was a very calculated move. She's a real queen ok and wouldn't fall for their controlling tactics. So, they waited in patience to screw her life just when she needed support the most. There's no logical justification for what he did, except for the fact that he's a monster.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 03:37 PM
104	Anyone else notice this? A close friend's husband and his family kept pressuring her to have a baby. When she did, after stalling them for three years, he left her within six months of delivery. Apparently, they'd been planning this all along. He wanted to leave after the baby so it won't be easy for her to remarry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 08:32 AM
14	“You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself.” Wow. Wish I'd read this ten years ago.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 05:08 AM
2	BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾 To start with, I've stopped blaming myself for wanting high standards. It's difficult when world around you is full of pickmeshas and you're the odd one out. I'm fine staying single but I WILL NOT LOWER MY STANDARDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 04:51 AM
33	Y’all rock! Literally years and years of these feelings in the gut but not knowing what they are coz no one around got it, now finally made sense! While there are some cringe moments looking back, there are also those QUEEN moments that I'm so proud of now. -When back in college, the guy I liked said he's not able to choose between me and another girl, I straightway backed out and told him I ain't competing with anyone. (He totally didn't expect that) -When I made this rule for myself of never going back af…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 07:59 PM
4	Never ever skip the background check! Never give anyone the benefit of the doubt, ladies. It’s who you least expect. THIS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 07:16 PM
27	Never ever skip the background check! And with such ease! Where do they get this kind of confidence?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 10:12 PM
27	I see no lies here. Remember, a guy doing the bare minimum does not make him a HVM! "I could've forced myself on you but I did not."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 12:22 AM
9	Move... And I'm probably "too picky" or there's something wrong with me coz I haven't married and settled with anyone yet!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 12:05 AM
5	FDS 101 👑 Yasss! Got myself a neat birthday present and it's here already two days early...! Can't stop grinning but I'm gonna be strong and not open it now. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:14 AM
22	If I could slap my past pick me self... The "May be I wasn't clear enough and that must've confused him" phase, only to get half-assed answers and denials in return. Ugh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 12:10 AM
5	Then again, alot of males wouldn’t tolerate their daughter being treated the way they themselves treat women Of course, it was years ago. I dropped him and moved on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 09:29 AM
58	Then again, alot of males wouldn’t tolerate their daughter being treated the way they themselves treat women Once a guy wanted to know how much of my salary would I be able to contribute to his household (he lived with his parents n wanted to settle there) since they'll be taking care of my needs (lodging n food) after marriage. This was on phone chat, we hadn't even started dating!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 01:41 AM
27	LVM are all opportunistic narcissists. Also: You're being so BITTER Yes I'm rude! Thanks for noticing duh!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 07:00 PM
8	A question to ask yourself periodically when you get into a relationship This should be on a poster 🙌	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 07:17 PM
2	AITA because I don't want to continue being emotionally available for a friend I like? Thanks for saying that. Phew.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 05:59 PM
3	AITA because I don't want to continue being emotionally available for a friend I like? Thanks much for the support!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 05:58 PM