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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | oop 👀It was just decriminalized where I live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 42 | Let’s suppose this is true, this type of “encouragement” harms so many women around the world. This is a dangerous pickmeChub.... No woman wrote that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | FDS isn't about giving the benefit of the doubt. It's about being smart women who don't get played.Yay!! This would have saved me a million times over. I recoil when I saw posts in certain fds type group where a guy is being a douche or a creep and the replies are maybe you should have been more bubbly with him, maybe give him the benefit of the doubt, I'd let this one slide he was just being funny. In all my years this has never worked out. Listen to your intuition. Question why you are trying to hard to suppress all the red flags in order to be more "likeable" from someone who is a clear di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:22 AM |
| 11 | Sexual Incompatibility is a Lie. Let me explainStanding ovation for this one right heren👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 304 | This lil queen out there telling scrotes off is a beautiful thing👑💛All in favour of championing the future use of the term "intolerable bitch pigeon" say aye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:52 AM |
| 14 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitThis is almost word for word my ex 😳 the age of finding porn the e.d the npd, Im actually an ex porn addict myself. That's why I stayed with him so long after I found out. But his addiction issues and obsessions with women went wayyyyy beyond what I experienced. Now I'm a mum of 2 young boys and I'm terrified. How to teach them. How to inform them. It's so scary. They're both older than I was when I first saw porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:24 PM |
| 59 | Performative love (what men want) vs the real thing (what women want).I saw a post the other day from a woman whose partner had left her and their kids for another woman. Told her she was a shit wife and bailed and rubbed it in about how the new woman was everything and amazing, a great mother, etc and he's never been so in love. Anyway he broke up with the new one because "she doesn’t take care of her child, she doesn’t cook, clean, or act like an adult...she’s spoiled and fights and argues all the time" The entitlement and immaturity are unreal. They meet someon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:56 PM |
| 17 | Performative love (what men want) vs the real thing (what women want).Wow. This is crazy I had the exact same thought this week and I really needed to read your insights that you dived into around it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 39 | Suble Translation - Find a b*ngmaid who loves you enough to unfold 3x her own baggage on herself with the hidden slice of P*** addiction 🤡💩 LMAO what they gonna do when they can't find?? 🤣 Sis go 🧱🗑️Omg I thought this was a joke, they actually added that hahahaha hell nooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 26 | Suble Translation - Find a b*ngmaid who loves you enough to unfold 3x her own baggage on herself with the hidden slice of P*** addiction 🤡💩 LMAO what they gonna do when they can't find?? 🤣 Sis go 🧱🗑️Can't wait to see what's in his bag of secrets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:11 AM |
| 7 | Popular Canadian brand targeting teens suggesting a prostitution site in their advertising email headline. Has pandering to the patriarchy gone too far?No kidding I used to send my male friend some adverts from some of the women's clothing brands I'm not kidding they looked exactly like pornography. Like pov, her moving seductively up close, taking things off. I couldn't figure it out. There was one on the tv that had a bunch of girls and looked like wap 😅 I wish I could remember the brands to share links. Maybe it's to pray on younger girls who feel like they have to compete with porn stars? I bet there's some research done that shows young gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:15 AM |
| 14 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!That is messed up!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:42 AM |
| 43 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!Just to add though. My ex was smart! He didn't follow a single account that looked in any way sexual or Instagram models. No one who was even verified. But he was secretly literally obsessed with seeking those pages out. He searched on there and Snapchat and Facebook for girls every day. He would look up random girls names and stalk their profiles or search up insta models every day before porn binging for hours. Sometimes going back and forth. I had absolutely no idea. They be sneaky. Check if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:42 AM |
| 18 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!I've refused to go on dates with guys if I see they follow him 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:38 AM |
| 19 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!Possibly but also saw a girl try something where she set up a tik Tok account as a young male.and she said all the videos that got recommended straight away were half naked girls so unsure how Instagram work but maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 65 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!If he follows Dan bilzerian | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:41 AM |
| 382 | Not all men?Not all men but my dad who had c.p on his computer. Not all men but a man who led me away from my parents when I was 11 and groped my crotch. Not all men but a guy who carried me while I was in and out of consciousness at 14 away from a party and after I finally came to and said stop he kept feeding me beer while I vomited. Not all men but a guy who thought I was passed out and jumped into bed with me trying to put his hands straight down my pants at 15. Not all men but all the middle aged ones … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:15 PM |
| 121 | "We are so historically and socially conditioned to accept this stereotype of the vengeful woman that more often than not, as the research bears, the official courts and the court of public opinion will turn on the woman, the mothers, in favour of the men, even when there’s an abuse allegation"I literally wants to scream thank you!! I expected it from the men but the comments from women attacking Angelina and going off about women should never keep their children from the father's is driving me crazy. Even when faced with all the facts they're still blaming her for brainwashing them. It's her fault he started drinking, she's just jealous and wants to hurt him by keeping the kids away. One lady even said "oh please, I have to coparent with someone who threatened to smash my skull in wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Idea: while they’re distracted by porn, let’s take over.We are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Some important changes in the prosecution of rape cases made in NSW, Australia yesterday. This makes me feel so hopeful, and proud of the progress being made in Australia. I hope these laws can be an example for law makers around the world and more widely adopted.Kerry Ann Kenneally will be losing her mind right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 3 | On the topic of snooping wanted to repost this to show y’all how guys manipulate you in not snooping - also FYI the guy in the vid is mocking the guys who do thisWow this smacked me in the face. It's that quote. "If you don't trust them then just leave, it's already over" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 09:58 AM |
| 8 | How to Spot a PANot connected. Can't look you in the eyes or buries his head. Trouble getting it up. Trouble cumming without death grip. You stumble across his premium porn account 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 12:04 PM |
| 97 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingI hate this comment so so so much. Or that if you don't feel safe you need to go back to therapy and not date anyone until you are ready. After all my experiences with men that would be never. I kept trusting them and they all did the same shit. I went to therapy. I did the work. I learnt about all the red flags. I stayed single and focused on me. And guess what? The next guy I met was the worst of all of them. No thanks. I'll keep myself safe if I choose to be in a relationship instead of keepi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 6 | How is being bothered by micro-cheating connected to having low self-confidence?I think they've confused confidence with sticking your head in the sand and pretending like you don't care or feel any insecurity so that you can be compliant and keep the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:27 PM |
| 8 | Men can never listenI don't see the confusion here. They don't care about your feelings or listening to you they just want sex. This is just them trying to apply porn in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:07 AM |
| 7 | What's with all the stupid guys?I did a research project on gender ratios at a school where I was working. There is also a growing issue that female students in general are outperforming male students at an alarming rate. "Research has determined that regardless of methodology, a larger proportion of male students in the classroom negatively impacts outcomes for both genders, whilst a greater number of girls improve results for all (Curtis, 2007). A number of reasons are considered for this, including the fact that male studen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 18 | Why scrotes hate single moms...I'm confused when most of the time it's because he stepped out of the relationship or was hurting her and she was told to leave or he was removed by police. They want to be angry at single mum's...look at why they're single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:50 AM |
| 6 | Age of consent.That's what thought too. That's only for those up to the age of sixteen. "A person aged 16 or older can validly consent to sex with any other person, except a person who in in a position of authority over him or her. This means that the general age of consent is 16. A person aged between 12 and 16 can validly consent to sex with a person who is not more than two years older than him or her." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 8 | Anybody else feel re-traumatized and/or re-victimized over the way they're treated when they try to talk about their painful experiences with men?I just cut everyone off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:05 AM |
| 10 | Anybody else feel re-traumatized and/or re-victimized over the way they're treated when they try to talk about their painful experiences with men?My ex fiance threatened to smash my fing face in while holding our child. Went inside to charge my phone and seek help, he assaulted me then threatened me with a knife and held us hostage until we escaped to safety at a neighbours. He was arrested, charged and all but only got a fine. Police asked me what I had done to escalate things. My own brother said you knew he had a temper, is close friends with him, wanted him in his bridal party. His friend heard me tell the story and said "there's alwa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:03 AM |
| 22 | Ain't nothing without a woman though, woman to woman, I just wanna see you GLOW! ✨Love 😍😍😍 I need more female empowering songs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:20 AM |
| 121 | Father and female University of Oxford student call for porn sites to require proof of ageThis is like the absolute bare minimum for all porn on the internet and I bet there's people outraged by it. Love the quote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:59 AM |
| 16 | We need more kink shamingI saw a screenshot in a group I'm in. A guy was texting a girl he had just met and said lockdown wasn't so bad because he's at home when the urge strikes wink wink and said that he's pretty sure there's some sort of link between lockdown to horniness (masturbation). Yeah man, it's called porn addiction or at very least an inability to deal with your emotions in a healthy way. Definitely an interesting approach to dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:51 AM |
| 9 | I am a pickmeisha through and through. Tried convincing myself I am not like that...but after today, I’m realizing I totally am. Ugh 😭Don't be so hard on yourself!! The brain likes to flit around and make up scenarios and create some expectations. In all life situations it's important to recognize them for what they are. It's ok to think about how it might go and have excitement around that but you have to bring yourself back down to earth a bit sometimes. Also remember that when you've been doing that you are prone to projecting a false image or ignore red flags. In this situation you did great though. You picked up on his be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:05 PM |
| 15 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.Ugh yes. The look on guys faces and their demeanour in strip clubs is truly scary. I remember looking around and being petrified. They came off so sleazy, aggressive, neanderthal like, salivating. Like a whole establishment full of sexpests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 14 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.I went to a strip club when I was younger. The girl who came into the stage looked like she was about to burst into tears and kept looking over at another girl at the side of the stage who had this weird sad but encouraging smile. I don't see strip clubs as any different to any of the other sex industries. Yes there can be better places and yes there can be girls who genuinely enjoy what they are doing. But most do more for extra (prostitution), many have major issues around drugs, history of se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:12 PM |
| 7 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.I knew a girl once that was pretty open to alot of kinks but whenever a guy requested to do something she always requested he do it first? Wanna do anal? Sure, you first though. Wanna choke and slap and spit on me? Ok, you first. I like that. My ex wanted to do anal. I enjoyed parts of it and wanted to try it myself but Jesus it's so much work and even more work to be into it enough for it to be enjoyable. Oh but when I wanted to do it back...I'll give him points for trying but he quickly realis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.My bad I totally read that wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:11 PM |
| 3 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.So he's 35 and she's 22. Now that she's pregnant she is maturing and isn't all spontaneous and going to the mall and getting dressed up but learning about the biggest change in her life more than likely and how to ensure how baby comes into the world safe and how to be a good mum. I think I see the issue 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:04 AM |
| 7 | Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party10000% I had mostly guy friends growing up and you get to really hear some stories when you're just a friend. Most bachelor parties, boys trips and trips to the strippers ended with cheating and extras. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | “i win” 🙄My ex got angry at my because I posted a hilarious video of me messing around with a snap filter. You could see the top.of my bra but it literally could have been a singlet. I was like huh, so you are angry at me for posting something innocent... But yet it's totally phone for you to search for and like photos of girls asses and tits. 🤔 Nope. Makes no sense to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 10 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsHahahahaha ooooooookkkaaayyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:16 PM |
| 57 | Scrotes can't see it any other wayF*** 😂 Everytime I hear one of those guys talking all I'm going to see is a parrot whose learnt how to mimic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 08:55 AM |
| 48 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsMad respect for women who inform ladies about this stuff 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 03:49 AM |
| 8 | Finding My DignityI can't even express how much I love this comment!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 10 | I got flamed for this on tiktok- was trying to spread the fds word in my own way😢Hahaha this is awesome 😂😂🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:24 AM |
| 14 | "I like your mask": harassment during the pandemictrigger warning 11 years old in Bali a guy separated me from my parents and groped my crotch. 14 I was intoxicated at a party and a guy carried me off and had his way with me but I was passing in and out of consciousness and couldn't say stop for some time. Multiple times being followed home from school in school uniform, being asked for directions and asked to come and look at their maps, followed home from work for like 15 minutes, public masturbation in front of me and some younger schoolgirl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Shun them.My youngest wasn't as affected by it in terms of obvious trauma. However my oldest had recurring nightmares for months and has issues with regulating his emotions still. I've tried to get them therapy multiple times but it's never worked out. The first psych we saw saw us for a few sessions and said she didn't think she could do anything for us. A few months later he explained that he had been having recurring nightmares for months. I found another psych after that who helped him specifically wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 01:05 AM |
| 41 | Shun them.My brother is still friends with my ex who pulled me to the ground while holding our child, threatened to punch me in the face, pulled a knife on me and then held us hostage. He wanted to ask him to be in his bridal party and yes he was at his wedding. All of his friends and family stuck by him. His mum asked me to help him figure out why this happened. Another one of our mutual friends (not mine anymore) said that there's usually 2 sides to every story. Etc etc They're all fake outraged when th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:44 AM |
| 85 | Every relationship with males is one-sided. Women are better off single.I've been thinking about this alot today. Im in a group where single mums were talking about what their partners took for granted. Eg. Mum in hospital for a week after c-section, husband keeps leaving to go home and "clean". She comes home to find the house is trashed and the dishwasher she stacked before going in is still full of dirty dishes and has stunk out the whole damn house. He was actually playing games all week. Eg. Mum just had a baby and her husband brings in her typewriter to do adm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:50 AM |
| 39 | #FactI watch my ex beg and cry for hours, days even. I realised he was never crying for what he did just that he got caught. When he gave up trying to continue fake tears he would make snide remarks or be patronizing one time he was a straight up assholes and said "you're just jealous" Honestly guys learn quickly how to avoid trouble. They shift the blame. They put you down, make you feel like it's your fault for looking, they want to have their life with you which serves one purpose and then still b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.And then my nails hurt it 😭 the worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 26 | #Fact👌 perfect!! God they're so pathetic when they get caught aren't they?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?1000000% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:37 AM |
| 19 | So, he instantly assumes that every single mother was abandoned by a man due to her own faults. What a catch.Omfg. 🤢 Well mine left me and the kids behind when the police removed him from the home after assault, threats with a weapon and holding us hostage Harry you f****** twat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Ain't that the truthIt's hard because I've actually met two men who are hvm and legitimately one had an ex who was neglecting their kid (he had majority care, to be fair they were very young and she wasn't coping with the transition into Parenthood, she ended up disappearing for a while to go to festivals instead of being with her kid) and the other's ex had npd. But as a general rule I never just take their word. As a single mum it's really hard to think about dating a single dad because Im always questioning did … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Ain't that the truthIt's hard because I've actually met two men who are hvm and legitimately one had an ex who was neglecting the kids or had npd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:00 PM |
| 49 | Ain't that the truthHahaha omg yes!! My ex got removed from the home by police for dv. It was crazy traumatic and the kids witnessed it all. Judges gave him supervised visits He wanted sleep overs. I was like hell no and so he told everyone I was withholding his children from him 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I think the title says it all. I can't be the only one shocked and profoundly sad and upset.Hahahaha "I swear some people are so open minded their brain falls out" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:18 AM |
| 9 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoI seriously came here to write this haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:40 AM |
| 4 | anddd... blocked!!!These are my favourite when they just keep talking to themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | anddd... blocked!!!Years?? Is he a friend? Wtaf is wrong with these dudes 😂😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 4 | I spend a lot of time hanging out with misogynists...how is this even something that was upvoted? ...Haha women? Amirite?Please yes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 27 | The Male Hormone CycleDoes anyone else notice guys seem to get emotional like they're on their period the week after we do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:39 AM |
| 25 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.Omfg 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:24 AM |
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