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My kink is you deleting This post
/r/seduction19/06/21 03:10 PM
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No
/r/seduction19/06/21 03:04 PM
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This
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:57 AM
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Yeah I fucked up for sure
/r/seduction01/06/21 06:01 PM
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Tinder is still tinder regardless
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:24 PM
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You don’t
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:23 PM
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I’ll get physical today with breaking the touch barrier and go from there. I do agree by date 3 something has got to happen.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:25 PM
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See I asked her that. I was like is there a sense of urgency to lose it? And she was like no, I haven’t met anyone that I felt was worth losing it to. I’m a little nervous if I take it, she’ll become clingy.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:23 PM
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Gotcha! I’m with you and understand that
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:17 PM
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Could you elaborate
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:14 PM
3

I think the second part of what you said will most likely happen honestly
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:14 PM
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Bingo. That was my first thought when I read that it’s been a few weeks. You’ve gotta break the physical barrier extremely early or you’ll be friendzoned or dropped when someone else comes along who is physical.
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:44 PM
1

You need new friends
/r/seduction20/05/21 06:03 PM
1

She and I were both drunk so I didn’t Perdue because of that
/r/seduction20/05/21 03:20 AM
1

Well I put it in her court with my message so oh well
/r/seduction20/05/21 02:52 AM
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Exactly. Should’ve gotten physical right away. She was probably fucking someone else while you were giving her dinners.
/r/seduction16/05/21 08:15 PM
3

Did you at least have sex?
/r/seduction16/05/21 07:14 PM
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where they are easier to ignore or reject. This is it. Texting is a no risk situation. You can just block someone. In person is the exact opposite. That’s why I drop women who don’t want to meet up within the first week. Don’t become a text buddy or to see “if you’re worth it” this isn’t a game show.
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:55 PM
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Yes that puts way too much pressure and comes across needy. Way too early for that before you even met. Pass.
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:20 AM
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Really all her idea.
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:27 PM
5

Hehe
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:25 PM
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Building a connection over a phone whether texting or calling has never ever happened for me. If anything, it’s made it worse because I’ve got this idea of who I think a person is based off text and phone calls and it’s usually never like that in person.
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:33 PM
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Well I told her she was attractive on the app. But the big thing is we met on the app. Which makes it understood I’m not looking for a friend. And it’s not your job to keep them excited. I’m big in the camp that if a woman is into you, she’s into you.
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:13 PM
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Casual. I didn’t get sexual until after dinner. I didn’t want our first convo to be sexual, that usually spooks women YMMV
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:05 PM
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Yes she said it at the table as we were eating. Our conversation was short. We talked about where we were from and that’s when I hit with the date and time. She agreed. I told her to reach out if anything changes but if not, I’ll see you tomorrow!
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:00 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction04/05/21 07:27 PM
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Well it was at night and I live near the water. So we walked out on this secluded pier and started to talk. Each sentence brought us closer and closer. Eventually the tension was so high all we could hear were the waves. I went in for a kiss and that was all she wrote. My advice is to get her secluded. It won’t be creepy or scary if she’s into you. Just don’t bring it up. Just do it and do it righteously.
/r/seduction04/05/21 07:25 PM
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Yes speak it into existence. Just remember, he who hesitates, masturbates. She wants to meet up again so I probably will.
/r/seduction04/05/21 07:23 PM
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Facts. Idk who downvoted you?
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:28 PM
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Yes sir! Rip cold feet!
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:01 PM
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I’ve had more issues with texting then not. Plus I feel it’s easier to get attached that way. You can’t tell tone nor understand someone over a messages. Save the mystery for in person.
/r/seduction04/05/21 04:37 PM
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Funny you used the couch reference. About 2 years ago I had this girl that was super into me. Would send me pictures of her ass after then gym and stuff. One day we go out drinking and go back to my buddies house. We’re both sitting on the couch in silence. I break the silence with “well, gotta go to work in the morning !” And leave. I killed every bit of attraction she had for me because of that move.
/r/seduction04/05/21 04:36 PM
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Cool. I’ll just confirm tomorrow and see where it goes. Thank you.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:32 AM
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Yes they really are 😂 And I genuinely have nothing to lose. I won’t bring up the texts and just go with the flow. But tomorrow night will really hinge on my next moves. I have to make a sexual advance tomorrow or I’m gonna be old news.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:28 AM
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No, we both had one drink a piece because she had to be back at work at 5am
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:24 AM
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Yes that’s what really threw me off. Because even she at one point during the first meeting said something about a second.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:24 AM
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It’s also supposed to rain tomorrow. Would meeting at the same bar we did last week be a bad idea?
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:21 AM
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Yeah I know I’m being needy about the texting and it’s shameful
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:20 AM
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It probably just beat her no-plans evening of Netflix at home. This is 100% how I felt when texting her. I’m considering just not saying anything tomorrow to see if she’ll even question it.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:18 AM
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F
/r/seduction21/03/21 07:40 PM
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Thank you. I thought it was a good response because it was polarizing. It was a “this is what it is” and that’s it.
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:21 PM
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Well her response to mine was simply “😂” so I probably took an L anyways
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:04 PM
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All she sent back to that was “😂” which I sent the same back. Haven’t heard anything for almost 3 hours lmao. Currently holding another L
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:03 PM
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How? If she really meant it as a friendship then I was never gonna get to fucker her anyways. And if she didn’t mean it that way, I reinforced that I didn’t want that either.
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:59 PM
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Yeah our convos have been flirty and my message back was playful but yet firm. It was just really out of left field is why I reacted in a way
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:44 PM
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I think it was a good move cutting it early because she was in the middle of a set. Catch her next time before or after she’s done and go for the closer. The hardest part is done my man
/r/seduction18/03/21 02:23 AM
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I hit my 200th milestone today myself. It was my 200th starburst in 4 days
/r/seduction16/03/21 05:18 AM
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First off you fucked up by becoming a follower. Never do that shit. That’s my only advice for you moving forward. Get numbers only. Leave snap and Instagram for the 13 year olds.
/r/seduction16/03/21 02:53 AM
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She’s not interested. You made it too casual by taking things to Snapchat. Next time, get the phone number and set up a date immediately. It’s been 3 weeks buddy and you’re old news
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:33 PM
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Dude you’ll never get anywhere with them and I’ll put my bank account on it. I only do numbers. With Snapchat, you’ll just become another follower. Girls at my work have TONS of snaps it’s unbelievable. And those 12 girls don’t mean shit if you’re not making a move and it already sounds like it’s too late with them anyways. Plus you always snapping and putting up stories is so needy. Quit it.
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:32 PM
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Doorbell fucks
/r/seduction14/03/21 03:08 PM
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Physical attraction isn’t the same as we are with women. You’re downing that man yet he’s probably balls deep in that chick right now as you post this. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
/r/seduction13/03/21 05:45 AM
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All of your theories are wrong. She’s using you for your time. Like all women will when you let them. As soon as I saw lunch date, I knew it was over. In the words of Patrice O’Neal “cancel her contract, you’re not her friend, you’re her time hoe.”
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:20 AM
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You need to play that razor and I mean razor thin. What seems cute and nice to you is going to come across completely different to her since you literally waited in line to hand her your info. This can spark other things and she will probably let management know and you make her barred from coming back. I say cut your losses when you don’t hear from her. Don’t be nice nor mean. Go in there for your fish and get out.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:29 PM
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Let this be a lesson to strike when the iron is hot Let this be your main lesson. The biggest thing I’ve learned whether dating apps or in person is momentum. Usually when conversations start to drag like this one, all momentum is gone. And is impossible to get back.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:26 PM
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I’m not a big fan of pick up when working as well
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:18 PM
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Did she give you any signs of interest at all? Like longer than usual eye contact? Then you waited in line to hand her that? That just comes off as creepy dude
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:15 PM
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This man fucks
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:51 PM
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I honestly feel like my chances will be better in person because of options. Women have so many other options on dating apps that it really makes it useless for men to use it
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:23 AM
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Was it a pungent smell
/r/seduction11/03/21 12:25 AM
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No bruh means bro
/r/seduction11/03/21 12:24 AM
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Did you just say passed wind bruh
/r/seduction10/03/21 11:23 PM
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Phone number. If you’re over 14, never ask for the snap because you’ll just end up becoming a follower
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:01 AM
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I don’t cold approach ransoms unless there’s be long eye contact or some other sign of interest.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:48 PM
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Man what did I just read. Delete this beta shit and grow the fuck up. Be a man a delete your tiktok too btw
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:53 AM
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Whenever you’re actively not trying to do something, yes. I was simply aimlessly texting.
/r/seduction25/02/21 03:47 PM
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Agree with the set up within the first week. I’ve tried to connect over texts for a day before setting up a date and it has consistantly failed me. I’m taking, after 24 hours she becomes a different person. Set date right away or drop em
/r/seduction25/02/21 05:26 AM
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I sure do appreciate all of the great advice and tips. I'll definitely be implementing them in my next outing.
/r/seduction18/02/21 04:08 AM
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That's just slang for any physical touch
/r/seduction17/02/21 09:59 PM
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I'd say I'm overly concerned with boundaries. It's a really weak feeling asking for permission every step of the way. I, in no way want to force myself on someone but it's really demeaning how I'm acting now.
/r/seduction17/02/21 07:26 PM
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Thank you. I can often see the disappointment after a date because of how much space I've given them. And yes, I'm afraid to touch them and this has to change.
/r/seduction17/02/21 04:52 PM
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Touch
/r/seduction17/02/21 04:49 PM
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They ended with absolutely nothing and pretty much instantly fizzling out. I think it's my lack of escalation.
/r/seduction17/02/21 04:49 PM
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Good point. I've been scared of women on dates and it's gotten me absolutely nowhere. Looking to shake it up.
/r/seduction16/02/21 09:38 PM
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Great point man
/r/seduction16/02/21 09:03 PM
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I sure appreciate it man. Let me know when you sent it
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:39 PM
1

I mean she was being super short with me so I feel like it’s a lost cause?
/r/seduction17/12/20 11:37 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/seduction19/11/20 03:26 AM
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F
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:27 AM
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Listen to yourself. Possible charge for this girl? HA
/r/seduction15/11/20 10:47 PM
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True. Plus what do I have to lose. $15 on a dinner? I doubt she’d accept to meet up if she wasn’t at least a little curious.
/r/seduction14/11/20 03:54 AM
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I was ghosted yesterday after a first date. I just drop it. Don’t text anything. No needy “what happened” or “is it something I said?”
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:21 AM
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I’ve been on that same boat. But it’s like once that sexual tension passes your old news and just become a follower at that point. It all depends on what you’re looking for.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:42 PM
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It obviously varies from person to person. I’ve just never had success with using Snapchat as means to anything worthwhile.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:40 PM
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Did your convo start on Snapchat or was it moved there?
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:37 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. I honestly didn’t think of it this way. I can definitely see how it would be taken that way. I was incredibly random in bringing it up. Totally fucked myself.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:33 PM
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I’m 26 and find it useless. To each their own
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:32 PM
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I definitely agree.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:46 PM
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But if you’re already hitting up people you know, that isn’t momentum. I had newly met this girl and we were texting with plenty of momentum
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:39 PM
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It’s disrespectful because you know she’s getting attention there when you’re right next to her. Why need more attention?
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:34 PM
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I feel that social media platforms are an easy out for women. It’s easier to leave me on read on Snapchat than it is through texting. Something about a text is way more personal IMO. Especially if you ever been victim to the “fishing snap” where a girl sends everyone the same Snapchat. Infuriating and childish.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:31 PM
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You’ll realize that Snapchat becomes to casual. It’s way easier to leave someone on read and ignore them on Snapchat that it is through texting. I’ve had zero good from Snapchat other than getting nudes from girls I’d already been with.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:29 PM
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God damn that was poetry. My FB and instagram have been deleted for about 8 months. And I’m NEVER returning. Snapchat joined that graveyard today.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:20 PM
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I agree. I’ve been burned by taking things to Snapchat before. But this time in particular really struck a chord with me. Our conversations were FLOWING. Maybe she saw my snap and thought I was ugly? Idk we did meet on a dating site so she knows whay I look like
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:19 PM
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I can’t agree more. When I was the girl had like 10 stories posted, I knew I had lost. I deleted my Snapchat about 30 minutes ago. I’m not even going to flirt with the idea anymore.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:01 PM
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Please please don’t bring it up. That’s metaphorical suicide. I say don’t reply.
/r/seduction16/04/20 04:05 AM
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This. I had a girl who was being super short with me and i wasn’t gonna carry the convo, she replied with “haha oh 🤷‍♀️” NEXT
/r/seduction16/04/20 04:01 AM
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I’m 26 and deleted all social media 7 months ago. A wow, what a difference for my mental health. I’m no longer comparing my life and stuff. And I don’t give a fuck what others think. If someone is that hung up on you not having social media, drop em
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:36 PM
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A larger number of girls never use dating apps. Remember this most of all
/r/seduction10/04/20 07:21 PM
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Why does he continually do it
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:54 AM
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Bruh didn’t you post this shit last week? Or was it on a different sub
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:49 AM
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I just think if you get sunk into that talking through a social media platform, you’re doomed. Same thing with the dating apps. I had a great match yesterday, she ended up falling asleep at 1am and haven’t heard anything. You’ve gotta get the number. Having someone’s number still holds plenty of value.
/r/seduction07/04/20 04:46 AM
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The Instagram/Snapchat. And I’ve got two reasons why. 2 girls in the past week have given me their Snapchat instead of their number and we are no longer talking. Leading with social media will almost always end in failure based on my experience.
/r/seduction07/04/20 04:40 AM
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That approach to me feels like you’ll truly never win. Sounds fucking awful
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:49 AM
1

Why be on tinder in the first place then
/r/seduction05/01/20 06:09 AM
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I like this comment
/r/seduction20/11/19 03:16 AM
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Okay I'll get straight to the point.
/r/seduction01/11/19 11:04 PM
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Okay will do. Automatically set up a date
/r/seduction01/11/19 11:04 PM
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Fuck that. That's too beta
/r/seduction06/05/19 05:56 AM
1

Great point. I'm in the camp of if someone is interested, you'll know.
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:12 AM
1

And basically if they come back with "I'll let you know when I'm free" that means an easier way if saying no?
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:03 AM
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There's your problem
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:19 AM
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Goodness, I've failed countless shit tests :( lol
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:47 PM
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Could you give an example?
/r/seduction10/02/19 05:07 PM
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What's a shit test?
/r/seduction10/02/19 04:20 PM
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Full body seize up 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:24 AM
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Eh a little of both. It was just a wreck.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:21 AM
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After not hearing from her all day I was like "so I'm guessing that we aren't going anywhere from here. " And she was like yeah let's just be friends LMAO
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:17 AM
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Wow thank you for this incredible write up. Yeah both Reddit and my friends have allowed me to speak like this and it was just second nature. I'm honestly surprised she stayed the whole time. I mean I even got into flat Earth theory. I'm so embarrassed.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:11 AM
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😂😂 I'm done trying to be funny lol
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:09 AM
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She made so dark comments so I just went straight to hell with it. I was talking absolutely crazy. How 9-11 was a setup and stuff. Terrible terrible decision.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:08 AM
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In hindsight it is so cringe, I can't even begin to describe how embarrassed I am.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:02 AM
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Watch out with negative talk. Like talking bad about yourself. I just had a first date last night and was very negative about my job, life, ect and was friend zoned this morning. Definitely a learning experience for me.
/r/seduction21/01/19 02:30 AM
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