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I'm just saying this: your friends can make you single. People need to be careful who they have in the circle, especially when they marry or in a relationship. If their friends are cheaters or pos cut them off. You want friends with sexual discipline who are going to tell you to stick with your husband or wife or good man or woman. Now for your situation. Idk if she cheated, but if she did, that is grounds for divorce. Maybe, hire a Private Investigator?
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 08:44 PM
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I don't like the term "alphas" because many of those who label themselves as such are often just insecure men or incels. High-caliber men exhibit sexual discipline and don’t have sex with just anyone. If you’re referring to 30-year-old, high-quality men with successful careers, they are typically married and respected in society, or they tend to avoid pursuing women in bars once they reach their thirties. They understand that they are getting older and seek something more meaningful in their rel…
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 05:24 PM
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It's definitely divorce-worthy.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/25 01:48 AM
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Wait a minute. If you are really serious about the divorce, then why are you all still living together? Why she not living with the bf or her family? Are you keeping t he house and your son, right? I couldn't live together with my husband and seeing him leave to see new gf and he should be taking care of his kids , working and priorities first. No way jose. I think that's so selfish of her . She needs to focus on being a mom first and taking care of suspended license and parking tickets. It seem…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 05:05 PM
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Yes, sometimes women say or think in their hormone rage I gave birth to this baby, and you are not in pain like me, or have to breastfeed and have much resentment bc you didn't go through what she went through. They don't see that the husband is working, cleaning, and cooking either while she just takes care of the baby and recovering.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 03:42 PM
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Yes, I always recommend women take a break from work or work part-time for a year or two. Working full-time while having a baby or sometimes a toddler and recovering isn't possible and usually causes resentment in a marriage, especially If the husband isn't pulling his load. Most Women are the ones doing all the child-rearing bc of constant breastfeeding, and we have mommy instincts, and most kids always come to mommy. Most of the time, moms wake up when kids are crying or sick, or we need to sm…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 03:27 PM
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You have to realize pregnancy, postpartum, postpartum depression, and childbirth are very hard on a woman and definitely willChange her. I saw it with my sister-in-law. She finally kinda getting back to normal when the baby is Two. If the baby wasn't planned or wanted, she could be missing her old life. Also, Mothers are always tired, too, especially, when they are in the babies and toddler stage. They always go to mommy for everything She don't mean to be mean but breastfeeding, and new Parents…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 12:25 PM
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The one income does work bc women are so materialistic these days and not willing to compromise and cook. I'm frugal myself, thank god. My husband paid the bills while I went to school and used to care for Mom. I know we have to prepare for retirement. So I am going back into the workforce until the the kids come. We are both in our 30s. Once the kids come, I take a break or work part-time until school. Try Jesus, getting some hands lay on, and show her the bible, which says men are head of hous…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 12:19 PM
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What was her reason for not giving sex and how old was she ?
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 02:56 AM
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Never blame the guy for rape. She overeacted to me. I just said there's more to the story of her wanting a divorce. We dont know if their relationship had cheating or abuse or they both pos. He did touch her in her sleep .Technically, touching someone in their sleep is grape or SA, according to the eyes of the law even if you are married.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/25 08:59 AM
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That too but we don't know if she was a pos or he was too. She could not have wanted to be touched bc she was cheating, or he cheated, too. Could be a dead bedroom situation and he touch or sticks his penis in her while asleep and she felt violated. We really don't know the whole story. There are always two sides to the story.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 09:49 PM
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Women don't get a divorce bc the husband touches their azz and breasts and they have an active sex life. Wtf There is more to the story . Could be history of grape or abuse or adultery , deadbedroom from her or him.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 11:48 AM
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²Sorry, Wow 1k for a month for a Prius or car note is a Bad financial decision. The most expensive car notes I ever had were 400. I think that was too much. I like to keep it 250 a month just In case I get into a financial pickle. I don't even do car notes anymore bc it's a waste of money. I paid in full for an older Acura with low miles. 12 x 1000 = 12000 can get you a reliable miles Toyota, Honda, or Acura. If I were in your shoes, would you give the overpriced car to your wife and ride the bu…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 11:24 AM
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Sorry, but you are doing the same thing this poster is doing. Not every man cheats or likes minors under 18. Not All the rich and famous date very young girls either. The majority actually date around their age group, especially if they have kids. Now the wife is hot.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 10:19 AM
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Yes, the red pill and mgow is bad . It's the worst of the worst men . We used to help men out that was into that movement. It's just a bunch of men who butthurt over women bc most choose the wrong women or was wrong Yes, a few wives were pos, but some of the husbands admit they were wrong and cheated or could have done better, but still complain that wife took their money That doesn't make sense bc it's your children, too, and you were in the wrong. Really? 300 to 1000 in child support is really…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 05:38 AM
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Look in the mirror. You can't enter the dating market being a divorced man and single with baggage and turn around and judge young single people who have never been married with no baggage. Make it make sense lmao.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 05:10 AM
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That's the American men's entitled mentality too. They don't realize how good they have it in the Western world. If they live in India or some parts of Middle East. A divorced man is useless; no one wants or is shamed by his family and society, and he may be disowned unless he is a doctor or rich.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 05:04 AM
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Yes, that's a red pill for ya lmao Being divorced is a red flag to most young single women, too They have so many options and would rather choose an unmarried man and have a nuclear family as their top pick over a divorced men esp with kids. I can't believe he said the late 20s and early 30s women are red flags. That's the age they actually get married or look for marriage in most countries . Lmao 🤣 😂 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:28 AM
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Don't get married bc men are butthurt is the wrong advice here. I seen many men happy with second marriages bc some don't like hook up with culture, or religious and feel in love again. Men choose marriages NOT women. Vet, vet, and vet and make sure she respects men and has good character and morals and prenup. If the parents are still married or last, it's a good sign.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:08 AM
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Bingo. Americans need to think divorce is a problem like conservative countries do.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:04 AM
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🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:02 AM
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If she was unhappy or feeling out of love due to her husband cheating, not being a good father, or being abused drugs, or corn addiction, that's understanding. Usually, those types of women don't outright say they are unhappy. They give a reason that he was abusive or not faithful or addicted if the marriage didn't work. If she has a good, hardworking man who is faithful and a good father, then I would question why she is unhappy. These types of women need to be watched out for. Usually, they sa…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:56 AM
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Are you reading these comments here? Yes, I'm shaming. I take up for these some of these men here. Some of these divorced men here had wives who cheated or wanted to party instead of being mothers. They seek attention online from AP and not from husbands and family. Marriage is never about your happiness but GOD. You are happy bc you are honoring God by being a good wife and mother. I don't like when women have a good, hardworking man, a good father, don't cheat, and say they are unhappy. For wh…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 02:38 AM
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The truth is The long-lasting marriages we see today are people who are typically religious. Like I said earlier, god grants us divorce for abuse and adultery. Marriage isn't for the weak or full of roses. There will be ups and downs and periods of unhappiness. If you choose a good spouse, there should be more happiness than unhappiness. If you have a good hard Working man, who is a good father and didn't cheat then what are women unhappy for? All of men have flaws. All women do, too. That's the…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 02:16 AM
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Statistically, 80 percent of all women and men are married by 40 in the US. The average age of marriage is 30 for men and 28 for women. So, being an unmarried woman in your late 20s or early 30s isn't a red flag. Men need to stop listening to Redpill bc this isn't true. Even in the most conservative countries, Women are getting married later. In India, women are getting married in their late 20s and early 30s. You have to realize that people are getting married late bc of inflation and the high …
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 01:59 AM
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I just said some of the things you said that Americans were better with god and religion and Shame and everything being taboo. The morality and character were better back then but people downvoted for speaking out on God smh. With the religious people, at least they know divorce, , or adultery, and not respecting husband or wife is a sin. I am not saying religious people don't do this, but some are more likely not to bc of fear of god. More religious people are willing to work out marriage, seek…
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 08:22 PM
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Compare to what? This generation. Everything was taboo and god was everywhere. There was a lot of Shame, too. Compare to now. It was way better. The stats don't lie . The majority of people married young and stayed married. WE NEED GOD BACK
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 11:19 PM
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What was the changes ? Yes , I agree if its not abuse or adultery which god grants for divorce its best to work things out.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 09:58 PM
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We see more divorce in this generation bc people lack morals and self-control and don't value marriage anymore. People don't have a fear of God now, and everyone lives for the world and is selfish. Morals and character were better, and marriage was better back then. The hook-up culture was nonexistent. Everyone got married young and stayed married. .The concept of nuclear families and Gods was important until the 80s. God said how to act in a marriage. He said women should not be quarrelsome, su…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 08:50 PM
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I agree women are looking for men who provide, good fathers, and hard workers. We get pregnant and do not carry these babies ourselves and need help. Lmao. That understandable. A man's role is to always provide from the beginning of time. What I do not understand is that women have unrealistic expectations, are too materialistic, or want to divorce for anything, but God only grants a divorce due to abuse or cheating. Godly women know The root is money is evil. You should NOT focus on money or th…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 02:49 PM
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An older single mother can easily find an older average man with kids if she willing to settle into a blended family but she definitely markets herself out of a childless man . The young, hot men she wants or man with money just want to have sex with her, not marry her.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 02:39 PM
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That's why I not on social media platform's with pics. Everyone looking for attention and everyone is fake. I usually post Godly things You don't need validation from men only GOD.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 02:32 PM
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Some women just like to complain about nothing and make big deals over things. I personally wouldn't care about some mismatched socks. It would be devastating to see my children getting dropped back and forth. As long as no cheating is involved, I make the marriage work. Do you have a new gf or wife? That's prob why lmao
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 04:42 AM
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Sorry, you are going through that. You might as well stay married if you doing all that. The only person you should be taking care of is your son. Did she want the divorce? If so,o she needs to realize you can't be doing everything like a husband while still wanting a divorce. Where does she live? Unless she lives in a rural or low-income area, There are jobs everywhere . How is she full custody of kid but cant support herself is beyond me ? Can you get money for lawyer ?This dont make sense . T…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 04:28 AM
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Well, Is she super young and immature? Childless people usually do date childless and entering a relationship into a newly divoce man with a kid is hard. This why, childless women / men should only stick to date childless people bc most don't understand single dads or moms. If she feels a type of way now, wait till 2 or 5 years down the line. Cut her off for the kids safety .
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 11:10 PM
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Yea, that is grounds for divorce. Sorry. It's tough you was faithful and she wasn't. Make sure you vet next time you get into something serious. I know the signs were there that she was a gold digger. Was she hot, or very young , or did good sex blind you lmao?
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 12:21 AM
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Ok. What type of stuff she asking you to do? I think you should help me with some stuff if you have children under 18. Once the children are adults or she has a man, no way Jose. Also, you said you working two jobs. I'm confused. So you pay for her mortgage or everything for her? Then no way. She can hire someone.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 12:14 AM
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Wait a min ? She cheated and she gets everything . She should be living in a one bedroom not you.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 11:03 PM
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Dam 3 years of marriage? What's going on with this generation? You only pay alimony after 10 years in TX.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 11:01 PM
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Did she cause the divorce or you.? If you were pos or cheated, then yes, you need to help the mother of your kids bc you messed up. If she caused the divorce, bc she was pos or cheated; then she needs to call her family or a new man for help.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 10:57 PM
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Nor character and morals
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/25 09:07 PM
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Well, it's not just married women bc married men get too comfortable too. Have you been seen married middle-aged or older men ? The majority has beer guts and t*ddies. As a former personal trainer, I've noticed that both men and women often lose weight after a divorce or breakup. They realize they need to be attractive in the dating market, especially if they're older. Let's face it: being fluffy is not attractive to most single men or women esp if they younger then you. Some people aim to find …
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/25 09:01 PM
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Whoa, I can see why she is upset and why you choose to cheat bc of disrespect However, two wrongs don't make a right; you cheated and brought another woman into the situation. You should have left her a long time ago if she was very abusive and choose alcohol over her family. You should have the kids with a new stepmother (better role model ) rather than for them to be raised in a toxic, drunk environment; That would have been better karma for the kids to loving the new mother over the toxic mom…
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/25 08:46 PM
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Whoa, has she already introduced her bf got him living there and her party moms around your kids? She is unfit bc she wants to party in front of your kids and put your Kids in harm's way, and I assume she doesn't cook? Is she oblivious that people do molest and harm kids? Get full custody. What was the reasons for the divorce? Bc 180 plus 120 means y'all were living a good life.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 01:01 AM
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If a guy ends up divorced two or three times, he really needs to look in the mirror and figure out what he’s doing wrong or why he keeps choosing the wrong women. Yes, there are women willing to help support men. I do yard work, pest control, and fix things around the house to save money. While everyone tends to outsource these tasks, I'm too frugal and more of a DIY person. This saves my husband a lot of money. I’m actually trying to find a job to help my husband get out of debt as well .
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 12:52 AM
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I don't think wall is made up thing. Men and women will age, get sick and not be desirable compare to their prime .
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