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LifestyleCurrent-Weather-9561/r/seduction29/05/22 07:45 AM
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2

Social circle for sure. Much easier and higher success rate
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:58 AM
3

Night game with your friends is the best way.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:52 AM
7

Not true. If you don’t have a social circle, you’re fucked. Cold approaching is a last resort
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:25 AM
2

Sure. But they see a white guy they’ll think money. Just don’t wave tourist areas and you’re fine
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:16 AM
2

Dude. You’re a lawyer. That IS your wingman
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:46 AM
5

Are you white? Go to South America.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:34 PM
3

I think this is good advice. I agree
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:38 AM
-1

I would suggest he gives up cold approaching.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:36 AM
0

The odds are that she will reject you. This sub loves to deny it but you really can’t be shorter than her in 90% of situations. You can be SHORT, you don’t have to be 5’11”+, but it helps. But shorter than her is an uphill battle.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:32 AM
-2

average looking and 5’7” screams “sorry, I have a boyfriend”
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:30 AM
5

Don’t treat her like your only option. Women want to think “why isn’t he calling me beautiful like the 100s of men on Instagram”. I would say creating the mysterious vibe is only relevant at the beginning. After that, I don’t think it matters as you’ve already got her hooked.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:30 AM
1

Go to South America if you’re white
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:54 AM
-2

Approaching @ 5’7” is a no no
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:47 AM
-26

You’re right. But talking isn’t really all that hard. If you’re sociable, it will come naturally, it isn’t “game” as much as it is just being social. It only seems hard in this sub because men are approaching random women on the street and forcing conversation.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:28 AM
1

If you’re just looking for something sexual, you’re already in. Relationship seems like it would be more work
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:23 AM
1

Women have fragile egos. They wouldn’t risk just staring at you for validation, hoping that you’ll stare back. Too much risk to their ego of you not staring back. If they are staring, it’s because they might find you attractive. They definitely are not doing it for validation. They get that from instagram etc, where it’s egotistically safe to seek.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:18 AM
1

Im surprised that she’s stuck around this long without you kissing her or making some type of sexual move.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:15 AM
-3

Agreed. Cold approaching will eventually get you someone, it’s a numbers game, it’s not at all efficient, or a strategy worth pursuing, unless you meet certain prerequisites that women look for. And after reading posts on here, the men who cold approach do not have social circles, that’s why they’re cold approaching.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:52 AM
4

I think most men on this sub would be happy to settle in a relationship from a social circle. I think a lot of men want to “slay” in this sub, but 99% would settle with a relationship. But like I said, if tinder works for you, then keep going. You’re probably likely either uploading pictures with friends, or with another woman, or you’re very good looking. It’s kind of like that first job out of college. Once you get it, you’re desirable to get many more later. Get that first woman, even if it e…
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:49 AM
-1

That’s the problem with this sub imo. They think they’ll be new, innovative way to meet women. It really all comes down to a few things. Pretty much everything is already known. This isn’t science, where new things are always discovered. I think it may seem that way, because people learn new things about themselves and try to apply it to meeting women.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:47 AM
1

In my opinion, social skills are not taught, they’re learned through experience. You can’t teach someone to be social, they either are or they aren’t. Faking it is even worse, because they’ll know that you’re faking it. Either you have the ability to be social, or you don’t. I don’t think it can be “learned in class”
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:43 AM
2

is the music you’re listening to at the club the music you like? Dancing is hard. It’s even harder to dance to music you don’t like. One recommendation is a reggaeton/latin club. There’ll likely be Latin American women there. Dancing is much more accepted in their culture and they’ll be more likely to dance with you. If this isn’t an option, my only suggestion is to just keep doing it. Or find a way to approach a woman first, and just ask her to dance. If she’s into you, she’ll say yes. Dancing …
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:40 AM
-4

I respect your opinion. If whatever you’re doing works for you, then don’t change a thing. But for most men, this is how you consistently get women.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:36 AM
-2

That’s how you beat the odds on tinder. If women on tinder see that you’re with other women, you become desirable. It’s that simple. I would say one selfie is OK, as long as you either have a few photos with friends, or at least one with a woman.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:29 AM
-5

Im sorry, but it is what it is. It’s not going to change because you can’t find friends. It is difficult, but it’s just how it is. If you are a loner, you’re not desirable. It is what it is. Tinder is a waste of time, unless you have photos of you with friends/women. Tinder is where you need to look most desirable. Women want you to either be extremely attractive, or decent looking, but sociable. Most men on tinder have neither.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:25 AM
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I would say most social circles are: men who grew up together, met at college, or met at work. Those are the 3 easiest. Anything after that, it gets hard. In my opinion. One suggestion which is a cliche, is find something you like and try to find a group. I like basketball. I literally used to go to the public basketball court and just shoot by myself. Eventually, pick-up games turned into the creation of a social circle/invitation to their social circle. That’s hard though, it’s much easier in …
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:17 AM
1

The fact that you’re basically saying that you don’t have friends, is a big issue. 21 with no friends is difficult. Most social circles were either friends from their teenage years, met in college, or at work. You seem to have none of those things. It gets really hard to make friends if you don’t have those things. You work from home? Try traveling, meet people from another state (assuming you’re US)
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:11 AM
2

This is a good post. Once that girl (or girls) see that you’re with friends, they’ll find you interesting, and you’re basically already in. All you have to do is not be weird and you’re in. However, you did mention that your friends are weird. That’s a problem.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:08 AM
1

I have a few questions. Where are you going out? Are you going alone/with friends? If you’re going alone, I would just stop. You’re wasting money. Women don’t want to be with men who are alone, they want to socialize, they WANT you to bring them into your social circle. Don’t have a social circle? Spend your time finding one instead of going out alone (if that’s what you’re doing)
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:05 AM
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