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| 1 | The largest cohort preventing boys from excelling are precisely the people who say they need to lift themselves from their bootstrapsCNN recently did an interview with a girl who was a freshman at UConn who was completely illiterate the education system is a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:43 PM |
| 3 | If "an increasing percentage of women are going for a shrinking percentage of men" is not true, the standard redpill model is not trueUmm did you read the article? It says clearly that 90% of the sex is going to the top 20% of guys it just proves that online dating isn’t the cause. Also how was this data obtained, how is this worth more than the stats from dating companies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:23 PM |
| – | I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationshipsSo basically that’s really the end to this subreddit. The red pill was right and we just deal with it. Ironically it’s good advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How many of you here are neurodivergent?Now I understand this post. I’m also curious about your age. If you grew up 90s and 2000s it was very much be nice and wait your turn, girls will mature and like you. The culture has shifted massively, even on this very subreddit three or four years ago if you said women prioritized looks you would get shit talked, now it’s definitely more in the open. I’m not autistic and I figured it all out by about 18 but I am angry about how it works I have resentment that I believed a lie for so long. In t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Is Jamie a “monster” or a product of a broken system that failed him?It’s a fictional show there are very few if any knife attacks by young middle class boys with both parents who knife someone because they got rejected. The vast majority of the rise in knife crime is due to the worsening economy and the influx of immigrants. There is no Jamie in real life it’s fake hence it seems like propaganda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.What is our entitlement please explain, maybe rejected and butthurt is a better adjective than victim because victim seems to imply something much more horrific to you. But please what is the entitlement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 08:54 PM |
| 5 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.I don’t feel like a victim as in I’m oppressed I do feel that I was lied to verbally and now you are saying I should have seen the truth. Well personally I did see the truth I improved myself and now I’m successful. But saying someone should dismissed words and paid attention to actions is blaming the person who was lied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 08:45 PM |
| 18 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.I feel I was gaslit and led to believe that you will have your chance, be yourself, be nice, we like nice guys etc etc. I will admit even without red pill I realized it was a sham by about 17. But there is absolutely gaslighting going on. I also have personally seen every attempt to help guys get better with girls is openly disparaged. I also believe this is definitely victim blaming, and I think in a few years we will have a subset of girls angry that they were told that they were beautiful at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson's views on the sexual marketplace are self-contradictoryHis whole thing is personal responsibility so that’s his take if women reject you it’s on you to improve not them to change which is obvious but does seem to need to be pointed out quite regularly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.Everyone is treating this experiment as factual it seems to me it was a survey of 58 men who self reported their attitudes and it also hasn’t been replicated. I don’t understand how this data is treated as factual but data from dating websites with sample sizes in the millions is dismissed. It’s a very weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to want what The Red Pill supposedly promises, or is The Red Pill simply the wrong way to get it?Women think that a man wanting to be more sexually attractive is gross, and they find the discussion of it misogynistic. I don’t quite understand why. Women also think it’s perfectly normal for women to try to become more sexually attractive to men. Reference every issue of cosmopolitan and the 100 billion dollar make up and plastic surgery industry. Women think it is highly manipulative to learn conversation starters and tips on how to flirt. Changing your entire appearance artificially perfect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Is the “friend zone” real? Why are men and women so divided about the concept?I think a lot of women are not even accepting the fact that there are women who are emotionally manipulative and keep people in the friendzone on purpose despite knowing the guy has feelings. If you reject a guy who was your friend and you remain friends that’s fine, that’s not the friendzone. If you lead him on by saying things like I wish there were more guys like you or now is not the right time or any number of things to keep the hope alive that one day you’ll go out with them, then the blam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Is the “friend zone” real? Why are men and women so divided about the concept?Yes, but you don’t understand that women can lead men on and keep them in the friendzone with similar blatant lies. Lies that make you think maybe one day but not today. While you continue to meet their emotional needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Is the “friend zone” real? Why are men and women so divided about the concept?I think this is a big difference between men and women. Men would love the fuckzone, where as women like the friendzone because we have different needs and biological wiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What are the advantages of being the Nice Guy?I agree that may be the biggest advantage, you escape the need to fight, and you are therefore safe and comfortable. It’s a huge advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What are the advantages of being the Nice Guy?Well it works it almost every scenario except for in sex and dating. You basically described the perfect employee. A person who is non confrontational, tries to make other people happy, and a person trying to meet my needs without me having to ask. That is a dream employee as well as pretty awesome sounding friend and co-worker Also the people pleasing trait is extremely useful in a school setting. Also very useful when trying to avoid bullying. Also a good way to never get arrested. Pretty much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub?Yeah sure being positive is very helpful. However if you take a person who is black pill or incel in general they were unpopular in high school and ignored by girls. If they get to college it’s the same story. Nobody really helps them learn and talk to girls. There is essentially no mainstream advice that helps. Red pill addresses the issue but describes a near impossible route to success and also sort of destroys the idealistic version of women many men grow up with. Pick up and seduction help … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub?Well as someone, who overcame many of the problems constantly whined about on this sub I would say your basic premise is correct. Many people on here or black pilled which is essentially just women hating. Almost everything can be compensated for if you are willing to work hard and take action. That said you probably didn’t face many of the issues these guys are complaining about. First off at 6”4’ you are in the top 1% of male height. It’s also one of the traits many women pre-select for. Also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Mens height is just a natural form of peacocking, knowing this, average to short men can compensate by actively peacocking.I think he did some extreme things to sell his stuff but the basic concepts are useful for men. Take peacocking down a notch and instead wearing a fucking top hat wear nice shoes that give you an inch and wear a fitted suit. Your results will probably jump up 15-20% just from that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:39 PM |
| 11 | Mens height is just a natural form of peacocking, knowing this, average to short men can compensate by actively peacocking.Actually pretty much all of his shit still works well. It’s shocking to me that people were so against it. If you’ve ever actually tried his stuff it work’s shockingly well, and I personally think he was/is a genius. People got obsessed with the idea that he was teaching guys to trick women into bed when in fact he was teaching guys ways to overcome the initial fear and social anxiety around approaching and attracting strangers. Also people became obsessed with negging and how it was misogynisti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate.Go watch some Kevin Samuels he is basically the person fresh and fit copied. He interviews average and below average women, and honestly it’s worse because at least the beautiful women stand a chance of finding mr. Perfect. The average women are actually kinda sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 12 | What opinions are you tired of hearing here and what dismissals are you tired of hearing?From men the idea that you can’t improve your situation and it’s impossible. I was socially awkward and struggled with women and I worked on myself and now I’m happily married. From women complete and utter lack of sympathy and being angry and mean to men with legitimate problems. Also the habit of not conceding a single point despite literal scientific evidence. I thought this whole sub was supposed to find a middle ground but actually it’s become a shouting match between mainly black pill guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | The "Nice Guy" is a scapegoatThat is the least hot take imaginable there is literally a sub with 2 million followers dedicated to this idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 05:45 PM |
| 9 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityAn advanced sex robot designed for the purpose I don’t have a problem with, but a human clone sex slave is disgusting especially considering it would essentially be a baby. I’m a man by the way. A robot you could design not to have any feelings a human clone would essentially be a slave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Men and women have it equally hard in dating, just with different strugglesI can’t agree with you on the second point because men especially nowadays are shamed for approaching to, we are usually told that it’s harassment to hit on a girl, and also like mentioned already probably higher risk of rejection. So in that point I don’t agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Men and women have it equally hard in dating, just with different strugglesI’m disappointed in the guys in here. I agree with what you are saying. I think the baseline for men is much worse because you have to overcome a lot to find a partner. However I think the opposite is extreme for women is extremely bad, much worse than a man can understand. I’m in law enforcement and it’s insane how much cruelty and physical women have to deal with. In your original post never even mentioned rape and sexual abuse which is a much more prevalent risk for women. Also it’s just insa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Men and women have it equally hard in dating, just with different strugglesYou should know obviously this isn’t a good representation of men, men on here have almost all been hurt by women and are extremely angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | That The Red Pill holds some hidden truth is the illusionI personally feel I was cruelly duped, I was told if I acted a certain way I would get rewarded. I was also told women like x when they actually like y. Even now on anonymous online forums women still hold onto lies about what they like, or say stuff like I used to like that when I was in my 20s. I have read many little debates on here and while women have had some good points they have had absolutely 0 alternatives useful advice and the good advice still comes from red pill and pick up. What am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYou’re not wrong. I would say Mens best decade is probably 30s. Women is probably 20s. We are all basically fucked after 40. Also many men on here especially are delusional. Most large age gap relationship happen between women in their late 20 and early thirties and men in their late 30s or early 40s. Your not getting a girl in her early twenties if you are old and not famous. However I would say aging in general is rougher on women, and I think most women would agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Most men are part of one of these two groupsHey man, you need to stop complaining and start learning how to approach and talk to women. If you are really fit with a good job you will eventually have success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The only way to success with womenSeriously kid go find and talk to a club promoter and you will see what real success with women is like. Becoming a doctor is becoming the best provider it will work but it’s like climbing Mount Everest to get stronger legs sure it will work it’s just probably just the hardest least efficient way you could possibly go about things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women do not "set up" male friends with other women unless he meets a certain attraction thresholdI disagree they are rare but you can definitely find women who will help you attract other women. Setting you up with their hot friend is incredibly rare, but talking you up to strangers at a party or giving helpful tips and advice is not that rare. Also don’t be demanding but be clear in what you are looking for and what you want and female friends will help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingI think this is satire but it feels real lol. Your obviously not obligated to help someone but it’s a nice thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingAnd sometimes that’s good advice when a person is ruminating in this crap but again there is no where else to turn. Go into fringe communities or live with it. When you are in pain you search for any relief, and about 50% in red pill and 75% in pick up advice is good constructive usable advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingI’m married and I never went to a prostitute. I’m just saying I’m disgusted when women say this it’s like telling a victim of abuse to hire a bodyguard it’s fucking stupid. The lack of constructive advice that women have for sexually and socially awkward men is at least 50% to blame for the existence of these niche pill communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingI can’t even count the number of replies I’ve seen that were essentially oh you are frustrated nothing is working go pay for it loser. I think it’s morally wrong and sort of gross, but apparently I’m in the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:15 PM |
| 2 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netI think you are definitely right. However a lot of fringe interests men have women aren’t interested in. However I could go back I have realized that’s one of the major mistakes I made. You gotta niche down and be the dream guy for whatever subset of women you are most interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What's your "I'm such a catch, but nobody wants me" grievance? Can you elaborate on that and point out what you think you deserve?I actually agree that a large percentage of men in red pill and basically 100% of black pill men are do nothings who don’t take advice, but I have seen very little good advice in terms of how to have more success with women. The good points I have seen point out that men are forgetting entirely about below average looking women who have the exact same problem as them, and also the point that many men should drop their own standards to start having success with women. I disagree with a lot of stu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:50 PM |
| 0 | What's your "I'm such a catch, but nobody wants me" grievance? Can you elaborate on that and point out what you think you deserve?I don’t think women are judged by how socially awkward they are I think they are judged almost entirely on their appearance which isn’t exactly fair but it is obvious. My gripe is that the obvious solution to your problem doesn’t exist for men and seems to be made more confusing on purpose. It is also seen as a negative thing for a man to work on dating skills. From my perspective most of the women on this subreddit actually make fair points but many fail to even acknowledge the basic gripes men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingI use to look down on prostitution but after reading some women talk about sexually frustrated guys I’ve realized women are actually all for it so in a way I guess your right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 11:18 AM |
| 27 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?As a guy I can say emphatically they do not. It is part of why we rejected so much their tastes or so varied it’s hard to nail down a look that works for a large percentage of women. Women generally don’t fawn over sexual attractiveness as well it takes a lot more to turn a women on. The only one factor that is almost universal in females is height and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | What's your "I'm such a catch, but nobody wants me" grievance? Can you elaborate on that and point out what you think you deserve?I can definitely relate to the non-linear nature of return when working on your social skills with women. Also society still seems to look down on a man trying to get better with women and actively discourages many routes of self improvement in that area. Also even after years of refinement by experts it’s still pretty confusing especially when you are just starting out because women tend to tell you the opposite of what works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 0 | What's your "I'm such a catch, but nobody wants me" grievance? Can you elaborate on that and point out what you think you deserve?I think my biggest grievance is the blue pill lies I was fed for so long. So for about 25 years I had no clue what girls really liked mainly because they lie about it and I am socially awkward. 7 years later I am now married and happy but I do hold a small bit of resentment that I could have worked on myself and been a lot more successful if I had known earlier. I also remember being frustrated that women in general are cruel to socially awkward guys. I never felt entitled to sex but I also didn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?This has probably been mentioned before but sadly for her in her 40s it will be difficult. Like it or not red pill is right about the wall. A woman in her 40s is well past her prime and men her age are being pursued by women in their 30s and late 20s. So she probably will have to drop her standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4WOMEN: What are the clues a man can use to tell if a woman only wants to string him along and not sex/commitment?If you like her sexually tell her and see how she responds. It’s a man’s responsibility to state his intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment?This is kinda mean but women don’t seem to be good at differentiating and get scorned because of it quite a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Best male celebrity dating roster?I believe Leo DiCaprio has had boats full of models at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo if you are an incel you should probably see a psychologist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What archetypes do men find like most?Honestly I would start by defining the guys you like what are they into what do the hot girls in their niche look like and then try to look like that. If you are going for like what is easy to make 1 million followers online it’s gamer girl. But if you want a guy who is constantly at the gym dress like a gym girl. If you want a guy who is into music what do the girls in that music scene look like, and so on. That’s my answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 8 | Is it pointless to argue with women about male dating struggles? Why or why not?This is strange to say but I think in about 10 years there is going to be a major reversal as there will almost definitely be life like sex robots. It’s weird to say but they are already in the beta stage and there is some crazy shit happening in AI in robotics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up?Haha I can relate to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up?For the most part I was told nothing. My mom told me to be nice and respectful. I also inferred the same from movies and TV. Being nice is literally the worst advice you could possibly give. At this point in society women seem to have a great deal of disdain and mistrust in men who are nice. I am married now and happy if I ever have a son I will teach him about game and confidence at a young age so he won’t have to deal with the shit I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?People do meet strangers and go out with them outside of high school and college that’s generally how it works. People used to rely on bars and clubs now online dating has a lot more influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?Sure here https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066?widget=personalizedcontent&previousarticle=0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?As more proof I think the journal of American medicine just published a study that found like 40% of men aged 18-40 haven’t had sex in a year or more vs 20% for women. That’s another example that could lead you to believe women are choosier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?It is not a perfect representation but it is an accurate representation and one of the only sources of large quantity of accurate data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?The dating world does reflect those standards just check out the stats from ok Cupid and tinder women are something 10x pickier than men. https://review42.com/uk/resources/tinder-stats/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 08:58 PM |
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