| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 179 | Had three different men ask me out for Valentine's Day... | QUEEN SH*T | CurrentTrifle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:54 PM |
| 20 | I fucked up and approached a LVM about "dating" and now he's spooked and I think it's finished | RANT | CurrentTrifle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:27 PM |
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| 5 | "He knows if you're the one within a day/week/month of meeting/dating you." Propaganda or reality?Yes, I think this can happen. I think it’s exceedingly rare in the first place and even more so when it sticks, but yes I think it happens. It happened to my parents and it happened to me. I am weary of posting this comment because I feel like I’m going to get downvoted for it, but here goes... my boyfriend and I recognized something in each other immediately, within the first three hours of knowing each other. We exchanged I love yous within a week. He introduced me to his family and friends wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Never simp for women. They simp for ChadSeek therapy. Jfc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:03 AM |
| 53 | Woman wants to know if she's the asshole for putting puppy pads around the toilet because the 30 YR OLD GROWN ASS MAN she calls a boyfriend keeps pissing all over the floor. I FUCKING CANNOT, Y'ALL.Lol I recently broke up with someone I was seeing for ~3-4 months. One of my biggest reasons for doing so was because he would never put the toilet seat down after using the bathroom in MY apartment. I asked him, got shitty with him, had conversations with him about it like seriously every single time he’d pee at my apartment because he’d leave it up without fail. Came down to me realizing he either (1) didn’t give a fuck enough to remember, which seemed unlikely given how many times I told him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:54 AM |
| 242 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandI’m very upfront with men I date about the fact that I do not intend on changing my last name. At most I’ll hyphen it. I will not be going to grad school, publishing research, potentially getting a doctorate one day under my maiden name just to change it to someone else’s name who DIDN’T DO all the work. Plus I really like my last name and I don’t have any brothers or male cousins, so hell no I am not changing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:27 PM |
| 72 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.I spent two years of my life so lonely in my first serious relationship. We would see each other 1-2x a week on a good week (despite living 10 mins apart and going to the same school), there would be stretches of weeks that we'd go without seeing each other once, he would lie to get out of spending time with me and cancel last minute, he never once prioritized me. I didn't have many friends during this time period and I was so painfully, heartbreakingly lonely with him. The event that made me fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:49 PM |
| -1 | CMV: if sluts/good girls is ok, so is af/bb.What women are you fraternizing with that openly discuss their past hookups/ relationships with men they’re dating. I give that info up on a need to know basis and that’s it. It is in extremely poor taste to discuss other things so nonchalantly and idk any of my girlfriends who do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 05:38 AM |
| -3 | CMV: if sluts/good girls is ok, so is af/bb.People... change? Do men only think with their dicks? Is that literally the only thing that matters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | CMV: if sluts/good girls is ok, so is af/bb.How would you find out? Why do you even care? If the person makes you happy and you trust them, what does it matter? I could not give less of a shit about the number of people a potential partner has slept with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 02:13 AM |
| 22 | Reminder: Men Who Want You, Will Do Anything to See YouI needed to be reminded of this because I’ve been talking to my fearful-avoidant LVM ex recently with the idea of potentially getting back together. I put down one of my pets yesterday and asked him for a hug and he immediately began giving me excuses as to why he was too busy to spare 5 mins to see me. We proceeded to get into an argument in which he said he didn’t understand why he had to show me why I was important to him. Lol that’s why I broke up with you loser. But yeah needed a FDS remind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 65 | Romance shouldn't be a literary analysis. It's clear.This went straight to the heart bro. That generational trauma really do be wildin out in unexpected ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Are alpha-widowed women screwed?I fundamentally do not understand where you are getting this 50% figure from though. What are you basing that off of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Are alpha-widowed women screwed?Ew this is a really gross way of looking at it. The more dating experience you have, the more you understand what your wants, desires, non-negotiables, etc are in a relationship and are able to make better informed romantic decisions. This takes time of course before you find out what you really want and the person who best matches up with that ideal... there isn't a "wall" if you're a good hearted, interesting, attractive person. I can't comment for people who aren't generally attractive but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Are alpha-widowed women screwed?How do you figure? Attractiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | To all the lurking pickmes and FDS newbies!Can we stop with all of the memes and screenshots? At least make a stickied post for them or something? I feel like the quality of the sub has taken a sharp turn for the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Red Pillers what do you have to offer?Jesus you sound like a sad person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 07:40 PM |
| 6 | The Age of Instagram Face: How Social Media, FaceTune and Plastic Surgery Created a Single, Cyborgian LookThis is a really interesting point. I had never thought about the historical parallels before, but you’re totally right! Thanks for bringing this up, gives me something to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 15 | Olympic swimming champ Sharron Davies on her 50th birthday. No wall in sight. 👍She’s also an Olympic athlete, so maybe not the best supporting evidence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 15 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSYes, thank you! I don't understand the hatred of FDS. That sub has helped me improve my self esteem and my relationship with men significantly. I have been a lot happier since I've been reading that sub. I think it helps women who are looking for serious relationships navigate the awful world of heterosexual dating in the 21st century. A lot of the posts there are basic emotional intelligence lessons that tons of people miss out on for whatever reasons. I think it's generally a positive communit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Would a girl lose out on high quality guys if she makes him wait three months for sex?My ex of two years and I waited at least a month to have sex, maybe longer. It was an excellent slow burn because we still spent lots of time making out and learning about each other’s body before actually having penetrative sex, and to this day it was still the best first sex I’ve ever had. I have never wanted to wait with anyone before and have absolutely zero qualms about sleeping together on the first or second date, but I was serious about him so we waited and it paid off incredibly well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 40 | Woman helps her husband “transition” & now he calls her “some d*ke" and filed for divorce. You don’t have to be a Pickmeisha in the name of gender equality. Abandon ship as soon as they start to put their needs far above yours. Trans scrotes are still scrotes and expect them to behave that way.I think that it’s a fucked up combo of fetishism and mental illness in a lot of cases. I think men get confused by being turned on by cross dressing and think that makeup and tight clothes = I must be trans! I also think that porn has a lot to do with it. I have felt myself slipping down a very cynical and jaded path re: trans women lately and I’m trying to pull myself out of it. But the more I think about it the more insulted I get that these men think that being a woman boils down to liking tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 33 | Does anyone recommend The Robber Bride by Margaret Atwood?I’m not an English major but here was what I took away from it: that women are conditioned by the male gaze and everything we do in some way or the other is influenced by men’s perception of us. Even our own understanding of self is viewed through a male-centric lens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheCan you elaborate on what you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 06:09 PM |
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