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| 615 | Hilarity of diversity hiring | Discrimination | CurveArtistic | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Bloomberg reports female candidates favoured in white collared jobs | Discrimination | CurveArtistic | /r/MensRights | 15/03/23 01:06 PM |
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| 2 | There is a manchild, but why there is no womanchild (or I do not hear that) ?There is “brat” and “princess” | /r/MensRights | 11/04/23 05:05 PM |
| 4 | I am so so very tired from the overtime I need to work because of women in the teams I work with who aren't functioning. I'm working until midnight day after day and into the weekend week after week. It's all a lie. Almost no woman I work with who has a demanding position actually works. I do it allYou have to tell them what’s wrong with the half baked project and that they need to fix it You have to convey that you don’t have the capacity to do it yourself, and that they need to get it to the finish line. If they say that they can’t, loop in a senior team member and ask to get it staffed with someone with capacity Stop letting them take credit for your work | /r/MensRights | 06/04/23 04:02 PM |
| 7 | USA: Anthony J. Broadwater who was wrongly imprisoned for 16 years for a rape he did not commit is to be paid $5.5 million compensation.Yeah, that kind of trauma robs a person of ever feeling sure and confident in themselves | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Vast majority of men were historically oppressed more than women, if not way more. Books and articles about history are extremely misleading and make people believe that ALL men lived life on easy mode, and not only the small minority of men who were born to noble families.I don’t think we should get into the suffering Olympics, we can leave that for the feminist | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Vast majority of men were historically oppressed more than women, if not way more. Books and articles about history are extremely misleading and make people believe that ALL men lived life on easy mode, and not only the small minority of men who were born to noble families.Both African men and women were enslaved in the Atlantic slave trade, which was unusual up to that point (because slaves usually comprised of prisoners of war / prisoners up to that point) African slave women also had brutal lives, so I wouldn’t diminish that for them. I do agree with the sentiment of the post though. The noble houses were tied to its men, who did indeed benefit more than the noble women, but they were also required to fight and die for their land and were also more likely to be… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Feminist in men’s rights?I love this sub and is the most important one to me IMO, but I sometimes give relatively balanced answers that aren’t “all women are bad/evil” and they get downvoted to hell This sub also elicits emotional responses from people that aren’t grounded in reality. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/23 09:57 PM |
| 0 | The idea of female Sex Strike is relatively common - yet society still pretends sex is not a commodity controlled by womenI’ve learned that I withhold intimacy when I’m upset with the subconscious intent to punish my partners. It’s something I’ve needed to work on to prevent my partners from spiraling as well | /r/MensRights | 22/03/23 01:55 AM |
| 14 | The idea of female Sex Strike is relatively common - yet society still pretends sex is not a commodity controlled by womenIf I had a partner trying to change my behavior by withholding sex, I would dump her right away Withholding intimacy to manipulate behavior is a huge red flag. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky).Well, if they were, they were good at feigning betrayal when they all found out about each other | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Are Men's Rights or feminism different for POC?What I find interesting is that there is a branch of feminism that’s considered “intersectional,” meaning that even amongst women, there’s recognition that white women are privileged compared to women of color. The funny and fucked up thing is that for some reason, white women think they are less privileged than all men, even poor men of color. A wealthy, white woman has to be the most privileged and protected class in our society, yet some think they have it harder than a black man born in pove… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/23 07:56 PM |
| 3 | UK: John Lewis's female boss admits it is difficult to find men who will work for her. She has received complaints in the past for trying to 'rebalance' the company away from its masculine 'command and control' culture.You’re exactly right, it’s because they assume men are predators Don’t get me wrong, many men have abused their positions of power for sexual gain, but on the flip-side women claim to be attracted to power — a lose-lose for men I’m sure people would assume it’s because a guy would be saying sexist comments, but I’m sure by the fact this lady would go on stage and say sexist comments means she is even worse behind closed doors | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 03:32 PM |
| 2 | UK: John Lewis's female boss admits it is difficult to find men who will work for her. She has received complaints in the past for trying to 'rebalance' the company away from its masculine 'command and control' culture.Touché - now let’s see if they really get paid 77% of men as they claim | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 03:29 PM |
| 23 | UK: John Lewis's female boss admits it is difficult to find men who will work for her. She has received complaints in the past for trying to 'rebalance' the company away from its masculine 'command and control' culture.Imagine if a guy said “it’s hard to find a woman that tolerates working for me” | /r/MensRights | 11/03/23 09:37 PM |
| 24 | UK: John Lewis's female boss admits it is difficult to find men who will work for her. She has received complaints in the past for trying to 'rebalance' the company away from its masculine 'command and control' culture.More than 60% if leadership positions are filled by women at the company. Damn, I’m not saying they aren’t good at math but seems like they missed the 50/50 “equality” mark | /r/MensRights | 11/03/23 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Women’s rights have gone ‘too far’, say majority of Gen Z and millennials, study shows | Article is mislabelled, headline should say "women's privileges and special benefits have gone too far"True. I mean, boomers had life on easy mode, so understandably, they aren’t fussed about the impact of policies made after their time | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 08:58 PM |
| 30 | Women’s rights have gone ‘too far’, say majority of Gen Z and millennials, study shows | Article is mislabelled, headline should say "women's privileges and special benefits have gone too far"It’s because boomer men didn’t have to deal with the repercussions of biased hiring practices promoting women in the work place | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?Dude, you retorted with a super abrasive comment and forgot about it? Does that fly with friends or the workplace? No it doesn’t | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?Honestly, the hyperbolic statements and defensive attitudes make this sub exhausting People like you on here aren’t about equality, you just want to bitch | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?You literally say that in your comment | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 02:15 AM |
| 9 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?To be fair, it does make it eaiser | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 02:08 AM |
| -11 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?No one is going to throw you in jail for saying hi and introducing yourself. Maybe if you grab her ass or something, but no need to exaggerate a little rejection | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 02:07 AM |
| -22 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?Women use subtle cues to indicate interest. It’s up to men to pick up on those cues. You have to go out and fail a bunch before you start picking those things up | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Where exactly should a man meet a woman?Most places You shouldn’t just surprise someone in approaching them though. Make eye contact and smile, if she holds the eye contact back and also smiles, then you can approach. No need to say something overly flattering, just make friendly conversation. If she wants to engage, she will make conversation. If she doesn’t, give her an out. Simple | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 10:49 PM |
| 2 | The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky).You don’t always meet the one at a convenient time. Good on you for taking the chance and being honest about it | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky).The thing is, they don’t know that he IS Barney Stinson. They think he’s a sweet guy that’s giving special attention to her and her only | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 12:37 AM |
| 3 | The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky).Sometimes it’s impossible to be kind to someone and nice at the same time. You could have been “nice” to her and string her along, which would have ultimately been unkind, but you chose being kind even if she couldn’t recognize it at the time | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 07:25 PM |
| 7 | The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky).I never thought about it that way, but you’re right. I was dating several women at one time in 2018-2019, but never thought about the implications of how that would impact the dating pool | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 05:03 AM |
| 12 | The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky).You’re not wrong - I had three girls that referred to me as their boyfriend in 2018-2019 and was dating / seeing 2-4 other girls at any given time. It took me a real heartbreak to realize the error in my ways | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Why men are so competitiveI feel like those immutable traits are desired but not necessary to be valued. I do think that for the most part men are only valued / loved conditionally upon production though Edit: as they say, if you can’t be handsome, be handy | /r/MensRights | 03/03/23 10:07 PM |
| 5 | How many of you are left wingers?I think there should be more financial accessibility for lower income students, but women have already saturated their universities. I think I’m referring to ultra competitive programs and universities where they are prioritizing women over men for “diversity,” thus giving away a more qualified man’s seat to a woman | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 10:27 PM |
| 6 | How many of you are left wingers?I support some feminist agendas such as pro-choice, access to birth control, parental leave (for both parents). I get lost at the push for more women in higher education, representation in certain industries, lighter prison sentences, and “believe the victim” and forego due process narrative when women claim abuse from a man. Western society is failing its young men by prioritizing women, and the full extent of the consequences are yet to be recognized Edit: due to messages about being pro-choic… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 10:01 PM |
| -1 | How many of you are left wingers?I vote left for the most part. I’m for most social programs, investment in public education, etc. I’m a strong ally to gay and trans rights. I’m pro-choice and want women to not be restricted in access to healthcare. I don’t love being taxed a ton when I don’t really see it trickling down to social reforms near me, but that’s how it is in most places I would want to live | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 08:47 PM |
| 13 | Six out of 10 young men are single — the disturbing reasons whyI don’t think young men have more to give because they were disproportionately screwed out of jobs to make way for “equality” | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | What are the rituals that men use when interacting with women? What about women when dealing with men.Right? The first one was happenstance (wanted to get home to go to work in the morning), the second one was just generally respecting boundaries. If I had known that’s what she was thinking sooner, I would have probably lost interest | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What are the rituals that men use when interacting with women? What about women when dealing with men.One of my ex girlfriends did this in a couple of ways in the first month of us dating, the most noteworthy ones were around if I would push her for sex. After sleeping together on the first date, I asked if she would grab dinner with me a few days later, which she declined but then suggested the following day, which was a weekday. After dinner and some making out, I asked if I could get her a car home so we could call it a night. She used this to establish that I wasn’t just trying to have sex w… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine?I love watercolors as well! Portraits mostly | /r/MensRights | 21/12/22 03:54 PM |
| 9 | I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine?Drink what you want to drink! It’s masculine to be yourself unapologetically! | /r/MensRights | 21/12/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine?What kind of painting | /r/MensRights | 21/12/22 07:03 AM |
| 14 | I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine?I fucking love belting Les Mis in the shower | /r/MensRights | 21/12/22 07:03 AM |
| 4 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?That’s unfortunate that your family member is penny wise and pound stupid about that. I’m about 3 or so years away from being able to retire if needed or start my own thing, so hopefully that will mitigate that from being a possibility | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 02:39 AM |
| 12 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?I wonder how it plays out when the man provides financially though. I make 95% of the income in my household but also work a demanding and around the clock job. She also has a solid career by most standards (makes $200k a year), but we both agree that my career takes priority. My gf takes care of a majority of chores, but says she’s happy to do so. I am also pretty clean and cook a lot of meals for us as well. Also, I think she recognizes that I provide a lifestyle that she wouldn’t be able to a… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 07:02 PM |
| 6 | When women do more household labor, they see their partner as a dependent and sexual desire dwindles.I wonder how it plays out when the man provides financially though. I make 95% of the income in my household but also work a demanding and around the clock job. She also has a solid career by most standards (makes $200k a year), but we both agree that my career takes priority. My gf takes care of a majority of chores, but says she’s happy to do so. I am also pretty clean and cook a lot of meals for us as well. Also, I think she recognizes that I provide a lifestyle that she wouldn’t be able to a… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 07:00 PM |
| 42 | Called Misogynistic For Asking My Sister Not To Date My FriendsYou’re not obliged to keep relationships just because of blood. You can draw the boundary if she agrees to it or not | /r/MensRights | 07/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 0 | WE DON'T HATE WOMEN, we hate feminism, can people get this thru their damn skulls already?I don’t even think men here hate the earlier waves of feminism, we hate the heavy handed and over the top demands of modern feminism | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | have you ever imagined how your life would be different (you can try it right now, use your imagination) if you were the opposite sex? I'm serious....If I were a woman with equal attractiveness and abilities? I’m not sure I would have the same morals or ever gotten out of my hoe phase | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 01:30 AM |
| 7 | People will always side with women no matter how in the wrong they are.And then she will wonder why he cheats on her or has no interest in her sexually. Men also need and emotional connection to their long term partners | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | This Woman Wants To Cheat On Her Boyfriend, But Thinks She Should Ask Him For An Open Relationship First — What Do You Think?I’m glad the article seems to disagree with her. Given Buzzfeed’s usual double standard for men/women, I was pleasantly surprised by his response | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 11:18 PM |
| 9 | Affairs boost self-esteem and life satisfaction - but only if you're a womanSo it seems it hinges on the fact that female victims don’t make the positive changes to give their male partners a better relationship after the affair, but men go ahead and fix their behaviors | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | I asked in AskFeminist how do feminist feel about the Till movie. I stated that the movie illuminates the inmate privilege white women have, and since white women are the primary people who push and belong to the movement, I wanted to hear some thoughts.You’re right, I was talking about crime in my original comment, just they social priority of white women vs the social invisibility of PoCs experience | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 07:20 AM |
| 38 | I asked in AskFeminist how do feminist feel about the Till movie. I stated that the movie illuminates the inmate privilege white women have, and since white women are the primary people who push and belong to the movement, I wanted to hear some thoughts.I think most white feminists have a hard time grasping with intersectionality, because it doesn’t benefit them. It’s easier for them to be considered part of the “minority” as a woman, but they underplay their privileges and take up feminism when convenient. White women, especially middle and upper class white women, are extremely privileged in comparison to black men and women. Depending on color, this also applies to Latino men and women. It’s really hard to take any white feminist seriously w… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaintI’m feel like I’m talking to 2XC here | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 11:21 PM |
| -1 | UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaintY’all are sensitive AF, Jesus. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 11:18 PM |
| -16 | UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaintThere are plenty of men’s only clubs in the UK - search Whites | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 01:56 PM |
| -19 | UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaintYou’re creating a strawman to what I said. It technically isn’t discrimination, it’s incentivizing female patrons. It isn’t like the Jim Crow laws of the US where you’re refusing service to patrons of color. People are thinking about this drink special like a zero sum game. Women having their ladies night isn’t taking anything for men. Taking it away from them means everyone loses - in order to recoup the loses of what will probably be a really slow Monday going forward, the restaurant will prob… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 01:27 PM |
| -26 | UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaintI’m going to go against the grain and say this isn’t a win to be celebrated here. I agree that they had a shitty statement of “world is clearly weighted against women and we want to rebalance it,” but they aren’t wrong to offer ladies night specials. Is MRA, we should celebrate gynocentric spaces if they are positive and healthy, and not at the cost of men. The spirit of the evening came from a good place - it offered women an incentive to come into the bar and catch up with their friends. It di… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled?Even if that guy cums before her, she should be equipped to instruct him how to make her cum afterwards. If there’s a gap between his willingness and her willingness to please, they just aren’t sexually compatible Loads of people don’t realize how immature they are about sex. If they can’t communicate their expectations and needs, they shouldn’t expect much. Guys pretty much control their orgasm by setting the pace and strokes anyways. Most women aren’t nearly as confident when giving oral or ha… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled?Being in my mid thirties and living through it… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled?Sorry that you’ve had that experience so close to home, but you don’t have to take that into your own dating experience | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled?Yes, in college classes. People outgrow this insecurity and immaturity though | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled?Yeah, I think men are taught to be inherently insecure about penis size, so they seek validation from their partners. The answer is that every woman is different, just like every guy. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 10:22 AM |
| 54 | Why is every question or topic men bring up regarding women misrepresented / mislabeled?I don’t think most women would participate in a similar conversation IRL. A gentle reminder that those women do not represent how most women are, just a certain subset. I think things like height, baldness, penis size, etc will always get to men because there isn’t much that can be done to change it, and a small subset of toxic women know that. It isn’t worth your time to participate in a conversation with them, nor is it doing your experience with women any good. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.Some guys, but just like some girls. I find it rarer in men though | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.Well, to be fair, my drive has also ruined relationships when I was younger. When I was younger, I wasn’t equipped to strike a balance between work and life, communicate at a capacity that demonstrated that I my partner was a priority, or have the ability to throw things on juniors so I could skip out to make time for a proper relationship. Something I used to say to explain why I would have to cancel so much in my early twenties is that ‘my time isn’t my own’ It’s why I excluded drive from the … | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.I do have a natural desire to caretake, but don’t like feeling like I’m being used for my money. I like buying gifts, but usually if it’s something that’s unique/special/thoughtful more than it just being something for the closet | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 6 | How to help male students stay and succeed in collegeThe problem is that the public focuses on the outcomes of men that come from upper-middle and upper-class backgrounds, not the average man. On average, younger men are lost and there is no program in place or safety net to help them gain employment in careers to be excited about | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.I’m hoping to move back to London from California soon, I’ll definitely have a better chance finding what I’m looking for there | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.It wasn’t for this relationship because she had such insane spending habits. Even though we were peers in a lot of ways (which is uncommon for me), she still expected for me to buy everything and treat her with lavish gifts at some point | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.I get torn between wanting someone smart and driven or someone young, attractive, and easy going. The last girl I dated seriously before my current gf was a CEO of a tech company. She was attractive and we had great sexual capability, but she didn’t give as much emotional labor towards the relationship as I was accustomed to, so it failed. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.It’s because midwestern women want to be SAHMs with a lifestyle elevated beyond what they currently have | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.It’s also the way some people that come from money understand care. They might have had absent parents that spent lavishly for their children’s’ affection | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 07:57 AM |
| 7 | Tell me about a time when dating someone who made more money than you was detrimental to the relationship.For reference, I made ~$2.0mm in 2021, and my comp increased linearly from $750k to $2.2mm over the past 6 years and is expected to grow at that rate. She maybe made $2.0-2.5mm in 2021, but definitely isn’t consistent or guaranteed going forward and made less than $100k the years prior. I definitely had a larger net worth because I consistently earned more from 22-34 than she did from 22-38, but I tend to invest and reinvest my money, so I have a more low-key lifestyle. She spent money in the ne… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.I’m sorry that you had that experience when you were younger. A lot of young men, uncomfortable with their own sexuality or status, will find anything to bully someone else for to elevate their status. MRA should not only be accepting, but they should be more supportive than most for gay men. Gay men generally get the worst of both the male and female worlds regarding societal treatment. Not only that, bi men are held to a double standard bi women are not. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Hilarity of diversity hiringNuance takes dialogue and conversation to get to the bottom of. People here are airing out their grievances, so of course it will be one sided. A majority of people will demonstrate their level-headed nature and understanding of nuance when you engage in a conversation. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Hilarity of diversity hiringMetoo definitely fueled the fire. Funny thing is that I was the subject of harassment from my senior female colleague and then was penalized by her when I denied her when I was 24, but that was swept under the rug | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Hilarity of diversity hiringWhen they were looking for the 3:2 ratio, men had a 15% chance and women had a 40% chance, meaning women originally had almost a 3x better chance than the men at getting a seat. Once it dropped to a 4:1 ratio, men had a 20% and women both had a 20% chance of getting hired. The problem is that the men’s pool was a lot more competitive than the women’s pool. I think we had +1,000 applicants and for the women we had less than 50. So the men had a 2% chance to making it to the superday and women had… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI’m sorry you had that experience but glad you came out on top. Wealthy women that fit into western beauty standards will always have a leg up, but I do think women of color (specifically black, Caribbean, darker Asian/Latino) have it particularly hard in general though. The problem with “equality” in general is that it’s a zero sum game. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, I agree. A lot of these kids basically had to know this is what they wanted to do before they even hit the desk at their IB jobs, and had to know they wanted to do IB as sophomores in college. I didn’t even know what investment banking was at that time. The problem is that they want people that present a certain way and people that they are familiar with, so they stick to schools they know. I’ve mentioned it somewhere else before, but I would much prefer a top performer at a state school t… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI’ve realized that I’ve had a pretty lucky experience with life and women in general, but a lot of people in this sub have been really fucked over. I agree with your approach though | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Hilarity of diversity hiringAren’t medics schools like 60% women? | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 07:09 AM |
| 6 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, and it certainly doesn’t demonstrate that they should continue to be hired. Hire the women that deserve to be there, and let them pull in other women that are just as excellent | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, I would if I ever ran a business of my own. A big part of my job is finding diamonds in the rough, and I think you can do the same with people. I believe if someone has displayed true excellence in serious endeavor, then they can also do that in this industry I should say “authentic” wokeness/diversity instead of for quotas | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 05:16 AM |
| 12 | Hilarity of diversity hiringNot at all - let’s hire the people most like us whilst filling a requirement It’s just like how every black guy I’ve worked with has played lacrosse at Cornell, Dartmouth, or Penn. They all keep the same close cropped hair and grew up in affluent families. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:38 AM |
| 9 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, exactly. I was pretty lucky because even though I grew up in foster care, I have the exact educational background that I listed above and I behave/present in a way that’s familiar to them. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Hilarity of diversity hiringFunny thing is that my comment history is pretty tame. I don’t really complain about women in general, just that I may have had ill suited romantic partners in my past, but they taught me what I really want | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 14 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI would enjoy real wokeness though. Let me hire a guy/girl that didn’t go Ivy, but excelled at a state college after fighting to be there due to his/her socioeconomic situation. Let me hire the first generation citizen that had to navigate his way though college and professionally himself. Let me hire a college athlete that was stellar on the field but didn’t go pro but shows the aptitude and drive to excel at this job. I don’t need someone that has a section at Harvard library named after them … | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 03:48 AM |
| 7 | Hilarity of diversity hiringDon’t get me wrong, both happen! I have several female coworkers and friends from b-school that are rockstars in finance that are harder working and more talented than I am. But, on the flip side, there was a girl at my last firm that fits the second scenario perfectly. Literally couldn’t contribute anything to the point we couldn’t even hide it from clients. Everyone in my cohort made fun of her for her lack of finance knowledge and super inflated ego. Regardless of how poorly she performed, sh… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 03:41 AM |
| 8 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, it was a huge school in b-school. Banks would literally whisk the women away in recruiting leave us with our dicks in our hands | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:56 AM |
| 14 | Hilarity of diversity hiringExactly. They don’t demand equal representation in high paying jobs that aren’t sexy (oil/gas rigging, waste management, etc). It’s about cherry picking the best. I think it’s like the pyramid posted where women only focus on the very top of the pyramid without realizing they are above a majority of men | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:54 AM |
| 12 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYes, of course. There’s a reason why I’m posting here, it’s something that people here understand and have been on the other side of People can call me whatever, I know myself and my sex life, so it’s not like an internet stranger is going to change that | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:50 AM |
| 27 | Hilarity of diversity hiringThe wealthy white women I’ve hired have had it really hard though…/s | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Hilarity of diversity hiringThe wealthy have always had it easier in a hiring process lol | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI’m sure this comes from a place of not really understanding what my firm does but I assure you that my group working in tech investing has nothing to do with inflation, the credit hikes, or rent increases | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Hilarity of diversity hiringBrutal | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI don’t think it’s in every field, but most highly compensated/competitive fields that require long hours or is physically demanding is historically dominated by men, and women have demanded equal representation in those fields. Fields that fall outside of that but are also highly compensated and demanding are oil & gas, waste management, chemicals production | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Hilarity of diversity hiringInvestment Banking and Private Equity | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 6 | Hilarity of diversity hiringNo, but they make up the largest percentage of my colleagues, meaning if you fire the one or two outside of that category, then you’re left with no minorities. Companies like mine don’t have a large headcount, so the lost of 3-5 people can really shift the demographics I’m a minority that doesn’t fit into that bucket, but I’m racially ambiguous because I’m mixed | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:33 PM |
| 10 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI’m only saying that for my field and company. It’s pretty widespread in IB and PE | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:27 PM |
| 10 | Hilarity of diversity hiringIt’s because when you fire everyone until you only have white/Asian/south Asian male talent left, you’re accused of discrimination | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 15 | Hilarity of diversity hiringIt’s one of those things where there were a lot of eye rolls, but no one felt comfortable speaking out. The biggest thing we could do was take the number of female hires from 2 to 1 | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:24 PM |
| 11 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI live in the US. I think there’s a gap here with equality and equity of outcome, as in they were looking to disproportionately represent women hired vs women in the pool | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, this actually just happened to my friend at my old firm, he didn’t get the cred when the deal printed | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:15 PM |
| 60 | Hilarity of diversity hiringThere were guys at my business school that would identify as LBGTQ because firms were so anti-male in hiring my year | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:14 PM |
| 9 | Hilarity of diversity hiringIt is performance based, but if you create a safety net for the women in order to retain them, you are basically guaranteeing that they won’t fail or fall to the bottom | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:11 PM |
| 15 | Hilarity of diversity hiringThere’s a soft skill/presentation component to it that isn’t as easy to score in a quantitative manner. The four I mentioned above weren’t all the top scorers (although were in the top 8), but had amazing poise, knowledge, and presentation skills | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:00 PM |
| 15 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI meant that the same efforts aren’t made to incentivize men to enter those female dominated fields, and if there do it’s met with intense criticism | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:57 PM |
| 17 | Hilarity of diversity hiringExcept for when women outnumber men | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:54 PM |
| 41 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYeah, it’s an earnings gap more than a wage gap, because men generally work more. Young women in large cities actually have a tendency to outearn their male peers https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2022/03/31/16-us-cities-where-women-under-30-earn-more-than-their-male-peers.html | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this article? Most man not worth the effort?Cooking has been used here a lot as a proxy for having a basic skill. A lot of men and women lack these skills, but men are often receive harsher criticism. There are both men and women that need to lower their standards. Men needing to lower their physical standards and women needing to lower their economic and physical standards | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:26 PM |
| 30 | Hilarity of diversity hiringAt our firm most women actually score top bucket in bonuses, because they work the biggest deals and less likely to have marks against them (they aren’t on overstaffed projects where blame for performance is harder to assign) | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:16 PM |
| 12 | Hilarity of diversity hiringYou’re welcome! | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:14 PM |
| 18 | Hilarity of diversity hiringIt became a hot-button issue and firms were tired of bad press about male-dominated and toxic work environments | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 23 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI actually think I’m fairer than most on this sub. I don’t find all women to be bad, but think that male problems are generally downplayed compared to female problems | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 43 | Hilarity of diversity hiringI studied biomedical engineering and it was the same! | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 10:09 PM |
| 13 | Hilarity of diversity hiringDefinitely have to at this point. The policy it put in place to appear more “diverse” in comparison to other funds | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 09:45 PM |
| 137 | Hilarity of diversity hiringThey have a tendency to coddle the female talent with easier projects or prestigious projects with a lot of resources so there’s no one person to blame. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on this article? Most man not worth the effort?I’ve had both male and female therapists recently, and I would disagree based on my experience. They were able to acknowledge that I deserved more emotional and domestic support in two of my previous relationships. They both worked to get me to see that I was more than a caretaker or provider, a role that I took in my family for my mother and brothers, and show me that I deserved love for who I am and not what I can give. Eventually, my most recent therapist helped me define and maintain boundar… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on this article? Most man not worth the effort?It’s not even “keeping them around,” it’s not even entertaining | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 11:53 PM |
| 16 | Thoughts on this article? Most man not worth the effort?I think more men need to realize this. Many women aren’t worth your time, but feel like they are a prize regardless. It took me a while to realize not every date needed to be “a success.” Sometimes there’s just bad chemistry or a shitty date | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 08:51 PM |
| 39 | Thoughts on this article? Most man not worth the effort?Yeah, it’s crazy how many women don’t know kitchen basics, how to iron clothes, etc. I realized while dating one girl that even if they know a skill better than a man, they don’t feel obligated to teach it. I’ve finally found a girl that has an amazing job, can cook better than I can, AND doesn’t mind paying for things to treat me. It’s the first time that I don’t mind that it’s occasionally expected of me considering our wide earnings gaps. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 08:49 PM |
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