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Even there a scrawny man who hasn’t built his body won’t be of interest. Skinny woman is no detriment to her attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:58 PM
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On a dating app? How a majority of relationships are formed today? And forget millionaire, that was just an extreme 1% example which still rings true if you have model looks. If you’re even top 25% attractive and have a few nice pictures looking classy your financial status doesn’t matter a drop. My friend moved to LA with nothing and was living off her new boyfriend she found off tinder within a few weeks. Both of them couldn’t be any happier with the situation. I could never do that even if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 08:23 PM
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Thats just one example. I’m referring to the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:31 PM
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Sorry next time I’ll be sure to sugarcoat reality for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:24 PM
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The other magical thing about that era was a single income could cover all your living expenses and more. What could’ve been…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:11 PM
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Well in the past, the great part about every woman being stay at home is you had a similar community of women around to support you. Now stay at home motherhood is synonymous with isolation. So yeah we kinda had it figured out until the government realized couples could be taxed on 2 incomes instead of 1, and had feminism push women into the labor force.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:07 PM
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Human nature is bizarre now? Is it also bizarre to you that a 40 year old man would love to date a 22 year old woman? Sorry biology can be icky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:03 PM
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As a woman your dating value starts at its peak and the decisions you make lower it. You could do absolutely nothing in life once you become an adult woman, and your dating value remains unchanged, completely tied to your looks and demeanor. That kind of woman can easily find a man willing to provide. A man however starts from scratch. If he does nothing in adulthood his dating value stays very low. Even his attractiveness is something that takes years of work in a gym. In no world can a skinny …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:00 PM
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Blame the feminist movement for making women enter the workforce for that. The world was perfectly fine when women were able to be full time stay at home moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:27 PM
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You are misinterpreting human value as sexual marketplace value. Danny DeVito and Margot Robbie have the same inherit human value, but obviously one is much more desirable on the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:21 PM
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Yeah and all are barely a drop in the bucket compared to the work a man has to do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:19 PM
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The same reason there’s no shortage of fat lazy housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:18 PM
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Well you want a top 1% man you have to be a top 1% woman in terms of looks. Not saying that’s easy just saying a top 1% woman was born with everything she needs to be that, but a man has to earn his way to becoming a 1% man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:16 PM
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Yes of course people would take money if offered. I’m saying a woman can marry a millionaire with 0 dollars in her bank account just off her looks she was born with. However a man would never receive the same chance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:30 AM
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False. Men can walk through a Mumbai slum and walk away with a wife if they find a woman particularly attractive. However for a man to attract a partner, they must display capability to provide resources and protect her if necessary. A hungry, broke man in the slums will never be chosen. Even when it comes to appearance a man must build a physique over years to be competitive in the dating market, whereas many women can achieve a near ideal feminine figure without ever stepping foot in a gym. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 07:03 AM
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Value in the dating market, where money is much more important to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:17 AM
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Women are born with their value, men start with nothing and have to earn their value
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:14 AM
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Know what, if they’re crazy to live with or incompatible? Like I said I think incompatibility is generally a non-issue. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with living with a bf/gf while dating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:31 PM
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I think sexual incompatibility as an issue is blown out of proportion. The vast majority of loving newlyweds can help each-other get where they need to go regardless. And also I’d hope you would know before you marry someone if they have the propensity to drive you crazy, people can only hide their true selves for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:13 PM
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See in my perspective sex is the capstone of a healthy relationship, not the cornerstone. It’s definately not easy to withhold from sex, but if one is serious about making sure that they are with the right person, they will deny themselves. Even if it takes years. By waiting you can sniff out someone’s true intentions, if they are willing to wait for sex that’s a surefire way to tell if someone is serious about you as a person. Not saying it’s for everyone but it’s what I am willing to sacrifice…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:42 PM
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It can be very difficult to recreate the connection that someone had with their first love when they had intense sexual experiences. By marrying someone with past partners, there is always a risk that there was that failed deep connection that may never heal. By waiting, a person is saying they are willing to put their wants aside so they can save that special connection for the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:21 PM
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Sex releases Oxytocin the “love” chemical that binds people together. I prefer my future partner not have been with a bunch of different partners and therefore have less ability to pair bond with me. I hold myself to the same standard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:32 PM
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My future wife won’t find it icky I promise you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:09 PM
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Please enlighten me as to how
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:05 AM
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Because it’s an English term that perfectly conveys what I am trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:58 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:55 AM
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I’d be willing to wait for the marriage bed no questions. Already am in fact
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:15 AM
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“Blue pill trans woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:56 AM
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I absolutely disagree with OP, but generalizing men as having big egos is wild considering a large majority struggle with self image. Maybe the ones you consider dateable and who have options, but that’s a very small %
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:51 PM
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It’s actually women that slut shame other women even more. Men will only put in the minimum required effort to get sex, so it hurts other women when a woman is giving out sex for minimal effort. Thats why girls always label girls they don’t like as sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:15 PM
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Men lower their standards for hookups. Women on the other hand, raise theirs. A man won’t commit to the girl he’s seeing at 2 am but won’t be caught with in public, but many times girls will date the guy who they don’t think is as attractive because they haven’t been able to lock down a higher value man. Therefore, women are much more likely to want a relationship from their casual sexual partners, because for the most part they only sleep with those top guys, where guys will sleep with much low…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:01 PM
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Well that’s the risk you take by not waiting to see the man’s investment level. A man will do the bare minimum required to sleep with you if that’s his main intention. And once he’s achieved that there is not reason to put in any more effort for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:07 AM
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Well that’s a risk you take sleeping with someone who isn’t fully committed to you. There’s a chance the man you’re sleeping with has seen you as an object the entire time, and has just been doing the bare minimum to get sex. Once he’s achieved that, he sees no reason to put in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:04 AM
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Because you waited long enough to know who they are? If someone loves you then sex will only deepen the bond. And if they truly are interested they will be willing to be wait for sex as long as it takes. If they insist sex is necessary to stick around, then clearly they weren’t truly in it for YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:59 AM
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That’s almost one of the ways you have to test women these days because they typically hide their promiscuous nature. I do my best to feel out how far a woman is willing to go. If I had seen you as a long term partner and you show me you’re willing to have sex early on, that idea goes out the window. I personally don’t take advantage and move on, but most men will go ahead and keep sleeping with you until it’s inconvenient for them. And like the post says, you could’ve possibly had that man you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:53 AM
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Big difference between losing money on a bad date vs hooking up with the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:36 AM
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Not sure how that point is at all related
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:33 AM
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This post isn’t for you. It’s for women who are pursuing a man they want long term, who erroneously think sleeping with him will make him commit. You’re referring to your hookups who you aren’t interested in staying with anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:30 AM
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Good for you bro. As long as you know where we’re headed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:47 PM
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Fine. That’s exactly how the elites want to reduce population, by making it financially unfeasible, their strategy is working.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:46 PM
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Individually sure. But on a societal scale, all you need to do is look at the fertility rate to see how bad things are. We are at a historic low of 1.6 in the us, well below 2.1 replacement level. Historically, a society has never recovered from a 1.2 fertility rate. Meaning if this trend of childlessness continues our society will inevitable collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:43 PM
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It does unfortunately, but deep down our biology will always prevail. If they don’t have children to raise, they turn these biological senses elsewhere, turning their maternal instincts to their pets or marginalized groups. That’s why you see so many middle age single women being such strong advocates for social justice. And the provider that they would get in a man is replaced by the provision of the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:07 PM
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Ah yes that’s how it is for a while.. but time catches up to everyone. And if a woman hasn’t found her big catch yet, she can settle for a less exciting sure thing, or risk getting old and having much fewer if any options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:03 PM
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I think the opposite. Women will be pickier about hookups because they likely can easier get a hookup from a more attractive guy. When it comes to securing him for a relationship, that’s much harder. So they settle for meh guy who’s been chasing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:57 PM
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Friends the blueprint for how to have a lasting loving relationship is there. Find a person who you want to spend your life with and control your lust until you are certain of this person’s character. Only once are sure that is the person you want to be with should you sleep with them. Casual sex has ruined the dating marketplace. Pair bonding is real and finite. If you want true fulfillment this is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:30 PM
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He’s right though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:24 PM
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Who hurt you dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:23 PM
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I don’t expect sex from women at all, all the way up until I put a ring on her finger. I’m ok with that because I know what it is like to experience genuine desire and attraction from a woman. But it seems a small minority of men have actually experienced receiving that authentic desire, and are stuck chasing a woman not fully attracted to them. If the desire is present, you won’t have to jump through hoops to get anything. If you haven’t experienced that desire though, jumping through hoops wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:31 AM
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So have an utter lack of self respect? I hope nobody actually wants that life…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:32 PM
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What the hell even are blue pill ideas fam, buy her flowers? Treat her like a gentleman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:58 PM
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What the hell even are blue pill ideas fam, buy her flowers? Treat her like a gentleman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:58 PM
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Cool let’s say it is internalized misogyny by all men, great. Doesn’t change the fact that If you ever want a man worth shit you’re gonna have to learn what they want out of a partner, which are usually the aforementioned feminine traits. If that’s too tall of a task for you, I know a few good pet shops you can find a companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:00 AM
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New World order this you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 PM
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Ironic. Male loneliness epidemic means women are having to vie for the same few men while young men worth their salt will be building themselves up. Give it a decade for the women’s biological clocks to tick down and those men lonely in their 20’s will be dating the 20 year olds and women will be crying wondering where the good men went.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:57 PM
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You’re sooooo close. If your so called misogyny is internalized by every man, across cultures and time, then maybe just maybe it’s male biology. Those traits you described typically translate to a peaceful healthy relationship. If you want to maximize your dating chances, why would trying to emulate universally desirable traits be a bad thing? Of course, if you reject to be those things then there will still be men willing to pursue you, but more likely in a short term context. Long term those f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:42 PM
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What about my assessment has been red flag? I am sharing my perspective on reality the same as you are. I can just as easily consider what you’ve said a red flag. The women I have dated respected me for being my authentic self rather than trying to appease them. Just because what I am saying isn’t your experience or is uncomfortable doesn’t mean it isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:27 PM
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So you’re telling me you don’t have a single friend who’s dating a good guy? Again I’m sorry your experience has been with only terrible guys but your options are A) keep trying to date who you usually do with the same strategy, keep getting burned B) keep assuming all men are bad, and be alone because why would you want to date a man when they’re all evil C) change your dating approach to better vet men so you don’t end up with a bad one again. I consider myself a high value man. I am affirmed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:21 PM
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You keep generalizing men. Your perspective is skewed by your anecdotal experiences. You think all men are a certain way, but what you don’t realize is that you are the one who keeps choosing men who are that way. “But I only attract toxic men!” No you attract all men, and then choose the toxic ones because they are more exciting and novel. Think of your friends in relationships. Guarantee you can see some of those men are good men. They exist, they’re everywhere in fact. They’re just not always…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:08 PM
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Too many fatherless homes these days. Women chase validation from men who won’t give it to them trying to emulate the love their father wasn’t there to give them. Someone who shows up front they’re willing to commit must have a lack of options or be low value. They don’t feel they deserve love unless it’s earned, thus leading them go for unavailable men. Not to mention that the uncertainty of these men who won’t commit excites them, and many girls would rather chase the novelty and dopamine rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:56 PM
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If that’s the case, it comes back to filtering out the bad ones better. Once again the nature of these men are out of your control, so it comes down to adjusting your strategy to find a good one. The easiest fix nobody likes to hear is withholding sex until absolutely certain about commitment, even if that means waiting until marriage. And if they leave because of that, perfect, because that’s all they were in it for anyway. Another thing to look for is morality, and not the performative politic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:34 PM
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Don’t care what my opinion labels me. I choose to seek reality for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:16 PM
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I’m assuming you’re of average attractiveness. You mentioned even sometimes shorter or chubbier guys ghost a lot. That’s a pretty rare occurrence for someone very attractive. Now if you have done all that and still haven’t gotten the desired results, that’s when it’s time to reevaluate the type of men you go after. But I promise you put in the work you’ll see results far beyond what you’d assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:11 PM
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I’m saying.. if you want a real tangible solution, it’s time to try and activate the halo effect. It’s just human nature. Your perspective now is of how men treat someone of your current attractiveness level. If you work on things that make you more desirable to the opposite gender, you’ll notice all of a sudden you get treated that much better in almost every facet of life. Humans are really that shallow, so you have no choice to play the game if you want the good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:58 PM
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Once again your average is likely well above average wherever you realize it or not. If you aren’t happy with your dating results, rather than project upon men, it may be time for some self improvement. Fitness is very important to men looking for a partner (a partner, not a hookup), as well as interesting hobbies and personality. I never got any commitment or even attention from women until I did those things, it went from ghosting and flaking to “when can I see you again?”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:46 PM
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Let’s not get mad at her. Not her fault she only sees the top men. Only 20% of men are deemed somewhat attractive by women, and studies have found that when shown unattractive men, women’s brains literally register them as invisible (For men in the same scenario their brain just registers annoyance). If you can’t get a top man to be loyal that’s a you issue hun, they got options. Time to lower those standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:35 PM
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I notice it’s mostly with teenagers and younger dudes. Even a “role model” like Tate at least preaches some sort of future building. Clav’s lifestyle meanwhile just promotes straight hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:39 PM
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All face temptation, but those with character will be able to resist their fleshly desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:31 PM
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It’s all a bunch of pointing fingers, most issues on both sides come back to a lack of societal morality. If you don’t have a guide and just follow your animalistic tendencies, of course men and women will be terrible selfish people. If you have a code of ethics from religion or wherever, you’re less likely to be a scumbag as to avoid cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:30 PM
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We accept it as part of women’s hypergamous nature. Doesn’t mean we can’t vent our frustration with the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:12 PM
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True. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:10 PM
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Sure, but men arguably get it worse. Most of the hate towards women comes from other women, and the men who hate are just projecting their own shortcomings that they can’t attract any. Men get absolutely no sympathy online. Someone posted different scenarios on am I the Asshole subreddits, posting the exact same scenario but swapping the gender. Guess what. The man was the asshole every time, and the woman who did the exact same things was never the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:08 PM
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Doesn’t even matter how they died point still stands. With today’s dating market, that reproduction skew is more than believable. No man wants to be invisible to women, aka sexually undesirable. It’s biology hun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:56 PM
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If you think anywhere close to 40% of men have died young to war historically idk what to say 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:49 PM
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They don’t wanna die alone. Historical DNA suggests 80% of women reproduced while only 40% of men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:26 PM
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We’re using anecdotal evidence and google 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:25 PM
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They might think they are give it 15 years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:26 PM
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Proximity is the term you’re looking for lol
/r/seduction02/08/25 04:41 PM
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Massive..?
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:12 PM
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I get that heavy. I can never tell, I usually have them laughing and flirting, sometimes even longer conversations where I then try and get their number or snap before we go our separate ways. I’m usually hopefully but the fact I rarely get a text or added back on snap makes me wonder if these girls are being fake nice and want me to just go away instead of trying to talk to them.
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:26 AM
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Got the opposite problem 😭
/r/seduction11/07/24 07:05 PM
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Age range?
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:10 AM
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I think it says a lot about a man not when he sleeps with a lot of women, but when he has the opportunity to but exercises self control. Otherwise what are we? Just subject to what our monkey primal brain says?
/r/seduction06/07/24 05:25 PM
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Yeah going alone wasn’t necessarily intimidating for me but I knew I’d be more consistent if I went with a buddy so I always had a fall back if I wasn’t meeting new people. Good luck!
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:13 PM
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You’re right most of those girls aren’t even worth connecting with.. all the “period! Slay!” chicks are dumb as rocks. I have found going with a friend to my churches young adult groups are a good way
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:09 PM
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He just means dark/edgy humor probably
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:06 PM
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See I wish I had this problem, I try and keep it casual and they always seem to want more and I feel bad.. that being said agree with the comments take things slow
/r/seduction01/07/24 06:59 PM
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