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Nope, there are people who are legitimately low libido. With everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:11 PM
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Women dont have a longer list on average, men just take what they can get and after the beginning, try to apply their list to that woman. OR...they are completely unaware of their list but it does come out organically during the dating process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:12 PM
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When I was young, I really just dated whoever seemed to like me, unless they repulsed me. I was pretty immature. As a result, I did date a bad boy and some other men I'd never date now. I dated them because THEY pursued ME. The thought of me finding a guy I really liked and chasing him didnt occur to me. So what she wrote, it does happen. It wasnt because he gave me the tinglies more than other men I dated after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:11 PM
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Well you are a beta bux according to men here. I bet you arent into these stable women and are using them for what they offer (sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:02 PM
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Can attest this is true, ask me how I know haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:00 PM
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I rejected men with jobs like this but it wasnt because Im not passionate about my career. It was difficult to have quality time with them which is important to me and they often had work with them emotionally most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:59 PM
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Generally always liked active goofy nerds but my pickiness for emotional and financial intelligence has increased as a result of maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:34 PM
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My husband and I met when he was 30 and he was pretty much a virgin. Theres also a good chance you did have girls flirting with you and you didnt know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:31 PM
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Im very happily married to a guy who was pretty much a virgin when we met. However, he chose to be one which is the key difference here. (Which made me like him even more, I am not into promiscuous men).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:29 PM
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Only if he has the other negative traits to go with it (physically unattractive, low social/emotional intelligence plus assertiveness, shy, too focused on career, other social deficits) Men who choose to be a virgin arent seen that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:27 PM
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The best sex Ive ever had has been with virgins or almost virgins. Dont lose faith. You may end up being a better sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:23 PM
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Nope, the best sex Ive ever had always ended up being with guys who are inexperienced or not that experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:23 PM
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Yes absolutely. Having someone with similar sexual values is very important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:21 PM
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Nope. I see all sorts of Red Pill stuff man stuff on Instagram regularly saying nasty stuff about single moms, women past 30, women who have slept with more than 1 person in their past, women who dont cook a full meal every single day (and a noneasy one too while she works), women who dont regularly clean like a housewife in 50's commercials etc...and men support each other on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:18 PM
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Yeah but you dont give us the leniency you expect us to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:36 PM
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Now why would they do that when you dont do the same in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:03 PM
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I know a lot of shy guys, they didnt have issues asking out women they were really into. The ones they kinda liked or were on the fence about, they didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:34 PM
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I'd argue its fine for men as long as it doesnt hinder their ability to have actual conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:33 PM
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Eliminates the majority of men on apps. Finding one that can hold a conversation and isnt self centered is difficult. This for me always eliminated WAY more men than looks or income or height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:32 PM
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Agree with this except the "out of your league" part. Ugly and average looking men display these behaviors all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:14 PM
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Ive led a very social life with all sorts of people and know plenty of men of all ages who do stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:13 PM
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Hence the "male loneliness epidemic." It is much more common in men and more women are just deciding to not partake in dating due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:13 PM
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There are studies showing the more porn a man watches, the more negatively he views womens bodies around him. The brain is malleable. The mental gymnastics the average male user here does to convince me social media rots womens brains but porn doesnt rot the male brain is astounding. They both do the same thing. Any male who complains about social media affecting women but porn not affecting men, his opinions are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:12 PM
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I do, but its women trapped in absolutely miserable marriages. Im older than the average person here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:09 PM
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Ive usually waited around 1-3 months for sex (it depends on how much time I have spent with the person. My husband we immediately had marathon dates (over 12 hours) and spoke alot during the week, other guys I saw twice a week for 3 hours each time with little communication inbetween) and its because - I only have sex with people I want a relationship with. I dont have sex and then ask myself if I want a relationship. And that takes time to develop as most of the men I dated I met off of OLD app…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:24 PM
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Im not. Im white. But I have a slight health condition diagnosed in my early 20's that has caused me to avoid the sun/use sunscreen religiously, do therapies and take medications/vitamins that are very good for your skin (as a side effect, the main reason I took/take these is for my immune system). I also had acne as a teenager and started using retinol at a young age (continuing until now). Thats why my skin looks younger than people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:34 PM
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Im almost 37. I am slightly above average in terms of looks, I get even more attention now than I did when I was younger in my 20's. The wall is a made up thing and a revenge fantasy by men obsessed with women for superficial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:23 PM
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Being boring doesnt have to do with your job so this isnt a good analogy. I've met extremely interesting accountants and extremely dull astronauts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:22 PM
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Mens worst fear is being laughed at womens is being killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:21 PM
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I'd rather have a man submit to me. I have good judgment and would take care of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:39 AM
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Somewhat true. But the thing is if males sexuality is like this, its bad. Sorry not sorry wanting someone as a romantic prospect- the male needs to think more just beyond is she attractive and do I like being around her...its quite unintelligent to be this simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:37 AM
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Can be. For both perpetually single men and women, there is a long list of reasons they are this way. I actually think the number 1 reason is attachment and emotional issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:17 PM
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He can realize she grew as a person, changed and probably became more mature. People change as a result of their experiences. And I do NOT feel bad for writing this because this sentence I just wrote is what men say to women who feel insecure their man is likely beta buxxing her based on his history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:11 PM
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You said the rise of single women = rises of trashiness in women. I am saying thats not correct. The rise of single women is due to not needing to tolerate BS from a man in order to survive. This is a good thing despite what men think. It means when she pairs up, its much more likely she isnt just using him to survive. I worked at a nursing home with female 80-90year olds when I was in my early 20s from 2006-2010, and I had to talk to each resident at length about their past lives, they wouldnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:48 PM
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I agree with this. I also agree this is the reason why women tend to hold social grudges longer and for less offensive things, its a survival mechanism. Women had to be much more savvy socially and more on alert for people to hurt her socially (as it often could lead to her being ostracized).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:26 PM
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This, my husband works in a male dominated career and he says nearly all the women he works with are aggressive but he gets it because if they dont, they get stomped all over. Also, when these women do act normal assertive many of his (more immature) male co workers see it very badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:23 PM
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Relationships benefit men more overall, thats why there is a rise in single women. Women dont need to enter relationships for survival anymore, its expected for this to happen. Now women actually need to like and benefit from the guy to be with him. Women in relationships tend to bear the brunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:13 PM
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Is it surprising Manosphere men feel this way? No. Just look at the type of man who joins this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:35 AM
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I do understand this. It is sad your life is ruined for a future partner because you married the wrong woman. I pray you find someone who doesnt care and you think is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:51 PM
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I wish I could like this post a million times. Apparently, all this stuff falls on women only...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:50 PM
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Um...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:50 PM
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"Accept that your husband is never going to do his fair share of housework and childcare" LOL OMG!!!!! No wonder women say the kind of stuff I do! Your comment is EXACTLY the reason why women post this crap. Do some inner work and work on your mind and heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:33 PM
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I have no problems compromising. I dont expect a man to do everything. But when it comes to family life, it is rare to find a guy who will compromise on his end. The only marriages Ive ever come across where the guy pulls his weight and is truly equal when they both work full time, the wife must resort to acting like a nag and a not nice person on a consistent basis to get it to happen. Men seem to expect women will be fine with pulling all of the weight due to society's messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:39 PM
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I find this site SO funny, because most of mens complaints about women have been my complaints about men when I dated a ton before marrying. My husband is the best Ive ever had, because hes the only man I have found that has consistently been a nonselfish lover. Most of my exes, if they were good in bed, it stopped after they thought they had me, and the sex was bad. ​ The only time I acted like a starfish in bed was 1) with my very first relationship when I was young and it was an abusive train…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:28 PM
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They report it differently because they aren't as stressed and frazzled as women are, who pull more weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:25 PM
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Ohhh boy, this is so wrong. One of the biggest things our society needs to do in family life is make men contribute just as much as women. One of my biggest fears with getting married is how much sheer WORK it is to be a married woman. I am due with my first child, and I'm terrified of this. It is work too for men but not as much. Men just have to contribute financially, do a bit of housework and child care and if they do slightly more than their father who did probably did close to nothing, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:23 PM
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Uh no, those are not turnoffs. I liked caring men when I was young too. However, I found often their caring attitude didnt last, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:20 PM
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I disagree. ​ One of the things I love about my husband is that he is expressive or moreso than other men. To the right woman, it wont be a turnoff. There are women that are not into stoic alpha men. ​ However, if a guy is emotional to the point where it is causing a lot of relationship problems, that is different. But that is the same for women. I actually think being emotional is bad for women too in the same sense you are describing in your post. ​ A lot of the relationship posts on this site…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:18 PM
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I think I'm pretty accountable. I tend to be a more laid back person, small things that seem to bother others alot don't bother me and some think this makes me a "doormat" but if something really bothers me, I can be very assertive. Plus, I am compassionate, empathetic. My last ex told me I am the most interesting blend of "strong woman" and "nice woman" he had ever met. I dont think Im lying about this- many other people have told me this about myself. When I was young I didnt believe them. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:13 PM
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