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Cute_Contribution480/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:38 PM
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I would regret rejecting him after some time. How about men? What would men think in such scenario? Will he regret rejecting a woman who took his no at face value and respected his boundary?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:16 PM
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What if I told you that you don’t need any special skills to be considered a wife material? All you need is to just be yourself, exude femininity , be kind and that’s it? You don’t even have to touch a man for him to consider you as wife material. Did you know that not everybody’s cooking and cleaning are up to every family’s standards? Those are skills often times learned within the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:26 AM
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Being single is a lot better health-wise (both mentally and physically), than being married to a man who disrespects you, despises you, emotionally neglects you and only married you out of ego and utility. Women are waking up and see marriage for what it is: a bondage their mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers couldn’t escape easily from, even if they wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:08 AM
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The delusional part is that men often times believe that if a woman approaches men, she has a much higher chance to be guarantees a “yes”, which is total bullshit. Men don’t understand that when a woman approaches a man, she has a much higher risk in getting abused, assaulted and worse. Heck, some men will even call the cops on a woman, for telling him that she is romantically interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:40 AM
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Almost every day. But most are taken or uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:26 PM
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A man will never ever settle for a woman if he doesn’t desire her that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:26 PM
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Men who simp aren’t all that. They usually go for low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:17 AM
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100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:10 AM
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Love is illogical - people choose whatever they want, not whatever makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:09 AM
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I don’t want to be labeled a creep or weirdo for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:58 PM
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I’m an average woman. I see myself as a 4 and a 5 at best. I want a man within my league. I find average men attractive. Problem is, nobody dares approach anyone these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:38 PM
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Dating apps should be outlawed in my opinion. They are nothing but scams, that use intermittent reinforcement just like breadcrumbing and a casino does. You are close to making the row and think: “One more try and I will get the combination!”, which is the exact same thing with dating apps,only the wording is different: “One more swipe and I will find the one!”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:31 AM
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GuysI like getting riled up over me liking them, not giving me grace when I don’t always say the right thing (I’m autistic, so not always good at reading signals) , getting breadcrumbed, being put on the backburner, them choosing someone else, you name it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:00 AM
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Good women tend to be unassuming and don’t give fireworks and butterflies excitement. Think a car ride passing by beautiful scenery, rather than an exciting rollercoaster ride or bungee jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:47 AM
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That’s because the good women don’t excite you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:55 PM
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Western women have access to help, women’s shelters, therapy, resources, whereas women from many places around the world don’t have any at all. I’m not dismissing western women’s hardships in western countries, as there are certainly women there who indeed suffer and can’t access help easily. I’m talking about the general population, not the exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:02 PM
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Attractive people have dating on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:25 PM
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Truer works haven’t been spoken! Dating apps are like playing in the casino - they use intermittent reinforcement. They breadcrumb us and we get played like a fiddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:11 PM
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Absolutely.They have a smorgasbord of options - Asians, Latinas, you name it. American men can find hot Latinas for much cheaper - no extra costs for long distance flights to Europe and no extra living costs to spend while in Europe. The hot chicas Latinas are right across the boarder, even driving distance (if they are in Western states) They can vacation, sleep around in Latin America or find a wife any time they feel ready - all they need, is to just pick and choose which one they like most. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:33 AM
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I think in totality that western men are preferable, because we share similar cultures and mentalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:03 AM
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I don’t think East Asian men are inherently better than western or other men. I’m a white woman of European origin. I prefer to keep my nationality private.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:52 AM
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I see western guys through a more realistic prism after I went out with them. I found them very avoidant and non-committal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:18 AM
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From my experience, East Asian guys are a good option. They are gentlemanly, want to take care of the woman, they don’t have machismo and toxic masculinities like guys often times have in western countries. Of course, it depends on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:16 AM
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I said that western men are generally viewed more favorably. They are seen as less sexist, more egalitarian, respecting individuality and women as equal partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:58 AM
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Western men are the top preference internationally. You won’t believe the things non-western women believe about western men. They believe western men are all Prince Charming basically.. Of course, western men aren’t all the same - some are good, others are bad. Stereotypes sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:45 AM
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They haven’t lived a single day outside their privileged western world bubble, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:43 AM
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They haven’t lived a single day outside their privileged western world bubble, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:43 AM
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Absolutely spot on! And a lot of people in the West don’t realize that many women all over the world, not just the Middle East, but any patriarchal society, actually condone this! That’s right, that’s how mothers raise their sons - to be dominant and entitled, while daughters are raised to put up with men and be obedient. Women perpetuating misogyny, is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:50 PM
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They are viewed as empowered where? Only in the select few progressive societies? In most parts of the world, they get nothing but condemnation - they get called names, horrible things are assumed about them, etc, while men are celebrated as “golden bachelors” who are just exercising their freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:12 AM
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The red pill is right in many ways. What I I don’t like about it, is how it generalizes all women as sleeping around in their prime and that once they become 30, they are good for nothing. Even the ones who are still a virgin at 30. The red pill focuses mainly on men’s improvement, but I have yet to see a guide for women on how to become more desirable for men, how to stop being shy, how to stop being awkward, how to stop getting friendzoned and treated like a cute little puppy and have men see …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:20 AM
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I expect him to be honest and straightforward in telling me that he is romantically interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:02 PM
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I’m not interested in single dads with multiple baby mommas. Too much drama for me and chances are, some of these baby mammas are batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:46 PM
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We should live our lives for ourselves, not for validation from others. Suppose you get the muscles and get the girlfriend you want. Now what? She will feel under constant pressure to be grateful for being with you, no matter what, just because you worked out a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:48 AM
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I met a guy randomly on the street as I was walking around my neighborhood with my bicycle. Suddenly, as I stopped to pet a cat and marvel at it, I hear a guy behind my back say: “Hi”. I turned around and I saw this guy on a bicycle smiling at me and greeting me. I said “Hi” back and then as we were pedaling, we begun getting to know each other and then started going out. That was more than 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:21 AM
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Which is why so many men become jaded and refuse to commit to anything after experiencing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:25 PM
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Marriage is truly a gamble. You think you got a spouse with your values, religion and upbringing, but that doesn’t guarantee if they stay with you till the end or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:12 AM
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I agree with you. All the guys who appeared decent on the apps, have put effort in their profiles and they certainly expect the same in return. When I did online dating, I usually put little to no effort in my profile by taking selfies only, putting some generic greeting bs in my bio and some edgy opening lines. The thing is, I couldn’t be bothered making my profile captivating, as I found it pointless - why put pictures of activities, hobbies and interests online, when I could well meet people …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:39 AM
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That whole virginity thing only works for highly religious people that want to marry someone from their community/faith. Doesn’t work in the secular world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:05 AM
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Some men blame women for having standards, because they are probably not getting any matches and get frustrated by the zero prospects of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:25 PM
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Not by the sight of them of course. I need to be able to tolerate them longterm and they need to be able to tolerate me longterm too, for this to be viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:17 PM
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What I said had nothing to do with physical attraction. If lifestyle and habits aren’t compatible, all attraction goes out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:01 PM
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Sad, but true. And the red flags were right there at the beginning. Unfortunately, we often times choose to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:17 PM
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The biggest benefits are that you get to see if you can wake up next to that person everyday, without being turned off or disgusted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:03 PM
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I refuse to sleep around and prefer to keep my BC in the lower single digits. Men aren’t stupid - they definitely care about a woman’s BC and I’m not being this way just because of what men think. I simply find the idea of sleeping around, self destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:14 AM
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Men are very simple, so I don’t believe in being tricked. We often times choose to ignore the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:55 PM
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We need to show some accountability here, cause we are the ones at fault for continuing staying with a man who isn’t right for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:00 PM
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People don’t change who they are - it’s up to us if we choose to tolerate the poor treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:53 PM
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How are autistic women treated as cute? We get treated like freaks too and compared to men, we face much more likelihood of getting physically assaulted by an uninterested man simply for expressing romantic interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:21 PM
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100% agree. Westerners have absolutely no clue what it is like to be a woman in most parts of the world - they totally take their freedoms and equality for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:28 PM
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Still, these men didn’t choose to commit and this had nothing to do with their height or me being the only woman who agreed to meet up. The apps attract the type of men who aren’t usually looking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:23 AM
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Not all of us use the paid features. I certainly didn’t and went on dates with men who were 150cm tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:57 AM
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I get shown guys that appear normal and decent too , but they almost never swipe right back. I’m certain that they prefer to swipe right on the top 10% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:32 AM
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Online dating apps mostly show us the top 10% of men - the players, Chad, Tyrone and rarely, if ever, average guys who are looking for a girlfriend. Online dating is designed to prey on men’s loneliness and desperation, make false promises to them, so they pay up and prey on women’s ego and low self esteem, by giving them the illusion that a 3/10 woman can lock down an 8/10 Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:17 AM
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That’s not fair at all, because it removes accountability from women and teaches men to accept poor behavior from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:30 AM
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Men are allowed to distrust women too . There are plenty of soul sucking opportunistic women out there and good men are their main target and prey. These women aren’t looking for a partner, they are looking for a simp who will put them on a pedestal and be at their service, until full exhaustion. Men deserve to protect their peace too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:19 AM
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It depends on the timeline. Personally, I never slept with any man on a first date. I did sleep with my ex on the second date and we lasted for a while. However, we had some rapport and communication for a while before that, so weren’t complete strangers. I’m strongly against giving up the goods easily and too soon with a total stranger. Of course, YMMV and I don’t judge other people’s choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:37 PM
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I don’t dislike shy guys. Calling them weak is uncalled for. I definitely dislike misogynistic, loud guys who act mighty and superior. The only issue is that shy guys often times need to work on their mental barriers and be able to communicate their interest in a clear, respectful manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:02 AM
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I’m 100% certain I would be doing a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:40 AM
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Taking accountability for our own bad choices is actually excellent advice. What I find the most toxic, is when people enable people to continue making bad choices and never taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:19 AM
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Taking accountability for our own bad choices is actually excellent advice. What I find the most toxic, is when people enable women to continue making bad choices and never taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:17 AM
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It’s a very common misconception that women are considered the cleaner sex, when often times it’s not true at all. Women can be gross too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:29 AM
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I want a good guy. If I had a dollar for every good guy I saw going after a bad girl, I would be buying my 10th Rolls Royce
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:04 PM
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Men always have someone too, in my experience, regardless of the man’s looks and height. They are either still hang up over an ex, prefer someone else, emotionally unavailable, or breadcrumbing and unwilling to give a chance to the woman who is willing to give them a chance -they assume she isn’t into him, because she didn’t sleep with him on the first meeting . Well, not all of us are willing to drop our pants after a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:09 PM
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I get that my experience does not fit the norm. I’m sure I’m not the only one. I’m not in the top 10% , that’s for sure. The more conventionally attractive a woman is, the more romantic interest she gets and the more effort men put into their messages and the more she gets asked out on dates first. I’m below average and average at best and the majority of time, I’m the one messaging guys first and me doing the asking out. Attractive women date on easy mode -they have a smorgasbord of options and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:35 AM
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How are the apps incredibly blessed in favor of women? You mean that women can easily find a relationship on them? In all the 5 years I have been on them on and off, I met around 30 guys in total, with only 2 being interested in seeing me again and all but got friend zoned when I told one of the guys that I liked him. A third guy I liked the most, whom I met once, breadcrumbed me for two years and after I finally told him that I want to explore the possibility for a real relationship with him, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:18 AM
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Romantic intentions are reserved for the top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:08 AM
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Why do guys conveniently ignore the fact that the apps don’t work for women either, unless they are also in the top 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:05 AM
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Not a turn off. Who am I to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:45 PM
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Why does her having a license and a career matter so much? All she needs is to be attractive to a man and make him feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:54 AM
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The toxic parts of the red pill strongly encourages men to get into shape, improve their looks and finances, so they can bag a hot, young wife. It strongly encourages men to ridicule and look down on women above 30 who happened to still be single, with contempt, by generalizing 100% of single women as promiscuous and going after Chad and Tyrone during their prime. There is basically zero sympathy towards women who don’t sleep around and are single and childless not by choice. It’s about ego, sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:48 AM
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Weak boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:05 PM
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I’m a woman and I’ll be brutally honest. Yes, size matters. However, I can’t speak for others, this is my opinion. To me, 5 inches is ideal, anything below 4 inches is small and anything above 6 inches is too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:41 AM
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That’s too bad. There are good women out there who are looking for companionship and able to offer it. Their loss then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:33 AM
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On what planet does a below average woman get 2000 likes???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:38 AM
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I do not think of myself as better than anyone else, because there is always someone hotter, more skillful and better out there. In fact, I fully acknowledge that men can be perfectly fine on their own, which is why for me to deserve to be in a relationship, I need to bring something of value to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:29 AM
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Getting matches means absolutely nothing if 99.9% of them only see you as bang material, but you are there looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:11 AM
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You can totally choose to be alone, than with a train-wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:43 AM
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Any job that requires significant physical strength to do properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:26 AM
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A man who lies to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:20 AM
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There are good free men out there. Problem is, a lot of them have become jaded after divorce and are unwilling to marry again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:53 PM
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The same is true for women lying and manipulating to keep a man. Guys can usually see through that shit real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:48 PM
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Absolutely spot on. This is why being taught as a woman to be nice, is toxic. This is why so many women lack accountability for their bad choices. Many women would listen to a woman’s tales that says how much her man has changed since being with her and they will fall for it, thinking they must be so special that they can change a bad boy too, ignoring the fact that the guy chose to change by his own free will. What many women fail to understand, is that a man can change, but only if he chooses …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:30 AM
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We do have egos and some of us don’t take rejections well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:57 AM
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Women can’t handle it either if a man told them that she is not their physical type or start telling them their physical preferences in a woman. Saying this to anyone is a bad form. Men aren’t stupid. They can sense right away when a woman is not that into him physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:47 AM
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A lot of men refuse to commit to anything, let alone a relationship or marriage. Even below average men play it cool and act like mighty gatekeepers, even towards women who are willing to give them a chance.. Zero sympathy with that loneliness bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:30 AM
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Men date down when they want variety and sex. They date up for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:30 AM
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And men don’t go after bad women? Hahahaha, gimme a break!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:24 AM
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I listen, validate and offer empathy to men, whenever they choose to open up and show vulnerability, but I either get friend zoned after I tell them that I like them, or after I express the desire to see them again,, only for them to breadcrumb me and not give a damn about me. Being kind and empathetic is a losing game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:38 PM
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I rate myself as a 4 and would go for a 4 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:56 PM
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That’s where I would put him too - a 6 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:52 PM
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The guy is above average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:50 PM
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I have been interested in short men, the one I lost my virginity to was average height for a guy in his country, but considered short in western countries. I was also into a short American guy, who was shorter than me with short legs and balding. I would have definitely given him a chance and slept with him, had he been consistent with me, emotionally available and didn’t choose to breadcrumb me. I’m demisexual and it’s impossible for me to sleep with somebody right off the bat - I need to conne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:38 PM
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I have been interested in short men, the one I lost my virginity to was average height for a guy in his country, but considered short in western countries. I was also into a short American guy, who was shorter than me with short legs and balding. I would have definitely given him a chance and slept with him, had he been consistent with me, emotionally available and didn’t choose to breadcrumb me. I’m demisexual and it’s impossible for me to sleep with somebody right off the bat - I need to conne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:37 PM
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Attraction isn’t a choice. The same is true for men too. Men who complain about women, do it only for the ones they are attracted to. The ones they aren’t attracted to, aren’t in their radar at all. Even if said unattractive woman is attracted to them. She is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:16 PM
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I don’t know about others, but to me average means a guy who is neither a top model, nor with deformities and severe mental issues. He is just a normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:07 PM
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How is being perpetually rejected and friend zoned larping? I’m involuntary single. Not even average guys are attracted to me for a longterm relationship and I tried. I have been actively trying to find love for over 20 years, to no avail. This is not me larping, this is facing the fact that it’s pointless to look for love and that being on the apps is a royal waste of time. For 5 years on them on and off, only two guys expressed the desire to meet me again and I got friendzoned. Last time I got…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:31 PM
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Alterior motives are definitely not good. Being chivalrous doesn’t entitle a man to a woman’s body, just like a woman being sweet and feminine doesn’t entitle her to being girlfriend zoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:15 AM
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Being chivalrous and protective are masculine traits to me, which are very attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:26 AM
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I watched a documentary about these women. They are mostly mature white women from western countries that look for boytoys in Africa
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:39 AM
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If you are an American man, there is no such thing as an unattractive American man - you can find many women from third world countries who will agree to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:16 AM
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A common misconception is how much more empathetic and nurturing women are compared to men, when reality is often times different. Women can be equally cold, cruel, calculating, self serving narcissists and psychopaths, just like men. Another misconception is how gross men are compared to women, which is total bullshit. Plenty of women are gross asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:56 AM
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The harsh truth nobody wants to admit, is that the true losers in the game of love, are unattractive,neurodivergent women. Nobody, including unattractive and neurodivergent men themselves, see them in a romantic manner. The brutal reality is that what men mean by “settle for less”, is not about a woman’s appearance, but her personality. Ideally, she should be both attractive with a good personality to match. An unattractive woman has no chance - she can be very sweet and empathetic, but it all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:23 AM
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You described a conventionally attractive, neurotypical woman. Not necessarily a 10/10 - just conventionally attractive. Try being a below average, neurodivergent woman and it’s all crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:01 AM
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You made some solid points! Average guys are absolutely not morally superior. In fact, a lot of guys who are average or even below average, breadcrumb and play games too. Looks and height have nothing to do with integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:26 AM
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Of course not. Plenty of people aim for people out of their league, but that’s on them. I aim for men within my league. I’m a 4, so why go for a 9?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:50 AM
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Not at all. I don’t view men within my league as ugly. I want a guy who sees me as attractive enough to be my partner. I’m not interested in men who find me unattractive and only good enough for one thing. Thanks, but no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:35 AM
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Absolutely spot on and it shows on the apps. The dating algorithm is showing people what’s most popular and desirable in town. If most women only swipe right on Chad and Tyrone, that’s what the algorithm will show to every woman who signs up. Guess who loses at the end? The good decent average guys who get zero likes and matches and the good decent average women who are searching for a good average guy. They are almost never shown to each other in the swiping deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:16 AM
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I’m average at best in looks and pretty realistic. To me, average guys look good. Problem is, dating apps are rigged in favor of very attractive people. Attractive women get tons of ROMANTIC interest, whereas us not as attractive ones, almost never get romantic interest. The experience of an attractive woman vs a less attractive one on dating apps, is like being on two different planets. I can only dream for the options and romantic interest that attractive women get. My experience on the apps i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:08 AM
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I’m average at best in looks and pretty realistic. To me, average guys look good. Problem is, dating apps are rigged in favor of very attractive people. Attractive women get tons of ROMANTIC interest, whereas us not as attractive ones, almost never get romantic interest. The experience of an attractive woman vs a less attractive one on dating apps, is like being on two different planets. I can only dream for the options and romantic interest that attractive women get. My experience on the apps i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:02 AM
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Not a man, but sexy women have lots of options, they have a smorgasbord of men throwing themselves at them and getting tons pf romantic interest. The difference between them and below average women, is staggering. It’s like they are on two different planets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:35 PM
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Sometimes, our circumstances are beyond our control. It’s not my fault that I’m not conventionally attractive and for being neurodivergent. I suck at flirting and don’t know how to read people. I prefer blunt honesty, which, depending on the culture, not many people were raised to do. Which is not their failing - it’s simply me not being able to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:14 PM
2

A guy fell in love with a woman who called him out on his tactic, he stepped up and they are now happily ever after? Who wrote this book? Is the author’s name Walt Disney, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:29 PM
3

It’s one thing to not be constantly available and needy and completely different when your next reply is in weeks or months. The first one is attractive, whereas the second one is freaking frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:24 PM
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I don’t see anything wrong with any of this. Whatever works for people, as long as there is consent and no harm is done to anyone. You are missing one crucial detail - he has to be physically attracted to her enough to want to wake up next to her indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:52 PM
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I’m a 4 at best and the man I was willing to be with for the longterm, is 5’0 tall. I usually go for guys who are around my height or shorter. But, he chose to breadcrumb me regardless. Everybody wants the top 1%. Women that go for Chad and Tyrone and men that go for the highly desirable women. They want the validation and bragging rights, often times failing to look at themselves in the mirror. This is why I chose to stay single. Online dating is rigged against below average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:46 PM
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I had a below average man pull the breadcrumbing tactic on me (I’m average at best myself and not interested in Chad and Tyrone at all) and the moment I mentioned that I want consistency and that I would be glad to explore a real relationship with him, he folded. But, it’s my fault for letting it go on. I should have nipped it in the bud at the first breadcrumb. The way you deal with this type of behavior, is by not playing the game at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:57 PM
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Some men have Chad and Tyrone written all over them. The women who keep choosing them are the ones responsible for their personal fallout, not the men themselves. We are the gatekeepers of intimacy and men the gatekeepers of commitment. Why lay down with a man who offers zero commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:54 AM
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We can’t change other people. Any sane, self respecting person would stay far away from bad and toxic people. We are the ones solely responsible for who we let in our lives and for our ability to screen potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:46 AM
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Relationships and marriage are the biggest scam of all. The marketing industry sells a fantasy - the perfect relationship, the perfect marriage, the perfect partner - which are all highly unrealistic. The dating game is rigged against neurodivergent, below average people. Choosing yourself, working on yourself, improving yourself, are all worth it when done solely for self improvement and never for validation from others. No one is worth sacrificing your peace and sanity for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:11 AM
8

Then we as women should do better and stop going for the player type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:41 PM
15

Why would any self respecting woman entertain a man she knows he doesn’t even like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:45 AM
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It’s her fault for continuing staying. She should learn some self respect and stop believing that she i can change a man, cause she can’t. She stuck around due to her own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:18 PM
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“Choose better” absolutely applies to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:15 PM
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Beta orbiters are commitmentphobes who lack the cojones to tell the woman they orbit, that they are not interested in her. It’s all about ego boost and validation for the orbiter, with zero ROI for the one being orbited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:10 PM
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