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| 57 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in general | CutieHomey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:12 AM |
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| 8 | Come back when you figure out how to talk to a woman in real life.Holy shit, guys have done this! I didn't realise it was a move! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalWoah if you're right then no guy has genuinely liked me.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalthis all happened outside of work with zero witnesses -it's my word against his and he claims to have zero memory -I have zero evidence of the events -literally everyone around us is convinced we are either a couple or something is going on between us How on earth could I report this to HR? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalI've legit spent days being like "I'm not good enough, I'm dying alone, I'm so ugly and useless" I've literally been spending the last few days working on a cross stitch project for my friends as a house warming gift, about to order more craft supplies for a second gift I helped my bro learn to deep fry food for the first time And I've passed 3 weeks of no smoking and lost nearly 2st in the last 4 months Like, I know I'm not the greatest person ever but I feel like that's quite a bit going on fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalI just want to say as well that it was when we were alone, away from everyone else at the end of the party when all this occurred | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalYou're 100% on the nose and being kind of person I am. For years I believed I was a really terrible person so I HAD to be great and kind 24/7 and if I'm not I'm an awful human being. I'm only just finding out that I have to find a balance At the time I honestly froze and was bewildered... Im very afraid of saying no because I have asserted no before or just went against a guy and they had serious consequences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalWell we met at the same job and work together yes, but it was a party outside of work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalAccording other people at the party though we were apparently really flirty, we were both very drunk but we were like 2 metres apart the entire time... I think anyone would've seen this as a chance to "shoot his shot"... Right? I just wish it wasn't like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalOh the drama has been and gone, they went through a time of sleeping together and he was rejected by her, she is now in a relationship and living with someone else in the group.... We all met each other for the first time about October last year | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalThank you I really really am working hard to see myself as "good enough" and "worthy" but when the only attention I ever receive is men like him, my ex being an abusive sociopath telling me repeatedly that sex is the most important aspect of any relationship and he'll leave me and fuck other women if I don't have sex with him and another ex who slept with me but pined over his best friend the entire time we were together It's really hard to ignore that reality, not one person sees this so called… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalI did feel a bit freaked out when I realised this is something that's reported... But I'd have zero evidence. I've told him that I have zero interest in anything casual ever happening and to make sure nothing similar happens again... Im going to have cut him out if he does anything again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalI'm actually more angry at myself for believing I deserved this bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 03:22 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalThere is a girl in our group he had feelings for, he does treat women he likes differently, and he didn't treat me that way I am feeling like avoiding him... Maybe just at least when he's drunk... This wasn't the only incident | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:52 PM |
| 31 | Ladies, I've done it again and fell into pickme ways.. Help me move past this, and just past men in generalHe did also say "I'm sorry, you must've thought I was so creepy" Wait, I have to comfort you now? What he did was sexual assault and he's the victim?! Why can't he just talk to me?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:47 PM |
| 37 | I don't enjoy being degraded for someone else's pleasure. It's not liberating, it's demeaning and rooted in sexism, but if women address this to LVM, we're "kink-shaming".That was my sexual liberation, realising what I really wanted in the bedroom which was connection, respect and love. All this time I gave them consent to do what they wanted to me so I didn't need to experience them taking it away from me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:40 AM |
| 29 | I can’t believe I’m going through this right now...Jesus Honestly, FUCK YOU, MARK HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING 100% I bet he loved every minute of it too "a woman moved miles to be with me, that's how great I am" He's a sociopath He will never ever form true emotional attachment, he will rely on lies/manipulation, drugs and alcohol to fill the void of emotional connection You learnt something the very hard way, he will never ever learn. He's incapable of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:55 AM |
| 3 | We don't beg, we move on.100% I'm seeing so SOOO many people tick the boxes for npd it's unreal I'm so sorry you had a run in with one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:53 PM |
| 8 | We don't beg, we move on.Just..... Why?! W H Y I have been online stalked/harassed by guys before, sometime for years... It is so fucking creepy and pathetic Sometimes I'd never met them irl and only texted for a couple weeks They will never cease to amaze me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:39 PM |
| 123 | We don't beg, we move on.I had an ex dump me then 20 minutes later told me he wasn't really dumping me and he's not telling me to beg but I have to convince him to stay with me, yes, word for word I said no, we're better off not together. We're a toxic couple Him: pikachu face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Honestly, same.Or he's on his phone or computer Yes, it has happened many times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:40 PM |
| 10 | Dump him.When you had to do anal because he couldn't wait for me to heal from my surgical abortion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:26 PM |
| 21 | Beware of guys gaming psych language like “codependent” and “boundaries” to try and absolve themselves of any accountability to you"What do you mean by that?" Repeat ad nauseum because he'll crack under how little sense he makes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:54 AM |
| 51 | *Ahem* reddit is 69% male, so women are automatically marginalised on the main subsIn my experience men absolutely refuse to look for or search any of these resources, however in every case when they did they received more help and support than I'd ever received in all my years of severe depression/anxiety/being suicidal They ARE taken seriously when they reach out for help! They just refuse, I have asked depressed or struggling male friends "what can I do?, what can we ALL do to help you and other men who struggling?" They always answer nothing, they "can't" be helped, they h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020I used to miss this too, I'm normally very much a loner however yes I do miss cuddling someone at night So Id settle.. Lemme tell you, it felt even lonelier being in the arms of a man you knew deep down couldn't give 2 shits about you So now I cuddle my pusheen toys at night, much less hassle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 09:07 AM |
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