CyberLama Archive

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1	About escalating Totally understandable. It's definitely something you should work on, just learning to relax and get out of your own head a bit more when it comes to dating. Best of luck to you!	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/20 01:16 AM
5	About escalating Might not be what you want to hear, but there isn't really concrete "dating advice" out there. There's loads of things that help to know, like certain red flags, toxic behavior, etc, but you're never going to be able to find the answer to "how do I date this girl I'm into". Because in the end, nobody else knows how you operate other than yourself, and nobody really knows how she behaves either, so dating advice can only get you but so far. That being said, most people's dating know-how comes alm…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/20 12:18 AM
2	About escalating Yeah my strongest recommendation is to not even go to those forums and blogs. I know it adds pressure when your bros are egging you on (happens to me too), but do your best to go at your own pace and ignore them. Start asking yourself what it is YOU want, not what other people want you to want.	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/20 06:55 PM
9	About escalating I've had similar issues to you before, where I'll miss a pretty clear opportunity to "escalate" just because I'm stuck in my own head. Definitely sucks, but I promise you it's not the end of the world. To answer your question, though, a couple things: Communication is important, especially since you said you'd like to form an emotional connection before getting too intimate. It might sound really weird, but make your intentions (or maybe lack thereof) known to her. Something simple like "hey I r…	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/20 06:04 PM
13	It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overrated Great post. I think more than anything, RPers tend to get caught up in the idea of sex and how it impacts their own self worth, and not the act of sex itself. In actuality, sex in and of itself is nothing impressive. Some people enjoy it a ton, others think of it as routine, but the act, intrinsically, has no real bearing on one's own self image. I will always agree that sex is overrated. It's nice and it feels good, but more often than not you enjoy sex for the feelings of desire and to be desi…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 09:40 PM
15	Disillusionment with relationships. You do you, but the "risks" you pointed out aren't really valid if you're really selecting for the right people. Having half of your stuff taken in a relationship? That legally can't even happen unless you're living together and she owns the home/is on the lease. If you're married, sure, but if you end up marrying someone you're truly happy with and they feel the same, there's a high likelihood she wouldn't be so spiteful as to take you to court for everything you're worth in case of divorce. Th…	/r/ExRedPill	20/11/19 05:57 PM
2	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking Feminism could definitely benefit from becoming more intersectional with men's issues, but as an ideology and a movement, it does not actively seek to harm men. Conversely, it seeks to liberate the traditional values of manhood such that they can better serve the individual, not some weird historical concept of what a man is supposed to be. I know the anti-feminist narrative is really appealing and it's fun to be mad at the triggered SJWs, but you're incorrect in saying that feminism has never c…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/19 10:37 PM
13	First post - something's wrong Well, do you want to just pursue casual sex or actually have a committed relationship with these women? The issue you're having seems to be that you act like the former without explaining that to them. Just keep trying to be honest and open about what you're looking for. You can definitely have it both ways, too, as long as you're honest about it. There's been a few times where I feel a connection with someone, we become intimate for a time and I'm thinking about being in a relationship, but the…	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/19 12:05 AM
26	This might be the hardest thing I'll ever have to write Thanks for posting this; you brought up a ton of really great points and I'm glad you're self aware enough to understand how TRP has warped your view of society. The most important part is to forgive yourself and not beat yourself up over things that you've done in the past. Sure, losing close friends always sucks, but like you said, often times apologizing isn't an option. For those friends that you do have, tell them exactly what you posted here. Be really honest, direct, and make them underst…	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 05:49 PM
3	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking Yeah your original statements made it seem like you're anti-immigration, but I see that you're just worried about anti-semitic and Islamic attacks. I'm not too keen on Islamic terrorism in Europe, so I'm not sure how much women are being targeted. I do think the comparison you've made is a potentially interesting one, though. Everything else you've said I totally agree with.	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 12:40 AM
8	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking What are the "misogynistic cultures" you're referring to? Even if immigrants didn't commit crimes at a significantly lower rate than the native population, the "burden women face" by misogynistic non-immigrants would still be vastly greater. Acting like immigration will have a tangible effect on current sexual assault statistics is just reactionary fear-mongering and has no place in a constructive discussion about men's disillusionment with society. The only thing I can think of where immigratio…	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/19 11:59 PM
8	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking This topic constantly fascinates me and is the main reason why I am even remotely concerned with this subset of internet culture (TRP+). As we are moving further left in our politics and what is socially acceptable, the traditional signifiers of "masculinity" are quickly becoming less and less efficacious (think things like marrying early, having a single stable career, being the breadwinner, having rippling muscles, etc). People as a whole, and men in particular, are feeling disillusioned from …	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/19 08:54 PM
16	Do you guy believe in the Dual Mating theory ...I guess? This gets into evopsych pseudoscience territory because it's suggesting that mating strategies that were used hundreds of thousands of years ago are still relevant today. Like sure, vestiges of dual mating I'm sure are present today in some way or another, but we've come a very long way. We don't "seek good genes" the same way we did at the dawn of humanity. Why is this theory socially relevant to you?	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/19 05:31 AM
5	My personal experience and where I'm at I can't really give a ton of advice because you really put a lot of yourself out here and it's hard to talk about most of the things you said specifically. Also I'm early 20s and definitely not engaged, so there's a lot of relationship discussions that I simply can't have any input on. That being said, here's my philosophy concerning what you've said: Firstly, get off the internet. It's said a lot around here to RPers who are really deep into the mindset (which thankfully it doesn't seem like yo…	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/19 06:32 PM
9	I just can't be attarctive Thanks for sharing. These feelings are hard to deal with and I'm not gonna act like I totally know where you're coming from, but if you want, here's my two cents: I hate that you have to be confident and witty and Charming all the time. The main thing I want to point out is this: you don't have to be confident, witty, and charming all the time. I know a lot of the advice and recommendations websites/people give is "work on your confidence!!" but that's super broad. So try not to force yourself i…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/19 03:08 AM
4	Do Men and Women Really Have Equal Mean IQs? I'm just saying that the only study you can find to support your assertion is from a guy who was laughed out of his own profession by the entire community. If you want me to dissect the methods he presents in the study you're referring to, I'm glad to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/19 04:27 PM
5	Do Men and Women Really Have Equal Mean IQs? The hilarious thing about this is that this study is by Satoshi Kanazawa, who's been ousted from the evo psych scientific community since 2012 for his ridiculously outlandish "studies." Maybe find a different study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/19 04:06 PM
22	TRP severely fucked me up emotionally & am now paying the price in my relationship; looking for other perspectives on how to be a good SO It feels really uncomfortable at first, but try to actually do those things that TRP trained you to not do. Not comfortable with openly complimenting her? Do it anyways. Even if it feels awkward and forced, that's still showing her that you're making an effort. She'll appreciate it regardless. Don't like to show emotion? Have more conversations where you get to gush about a new TV show or game you've been getting into. I feel like I'm lousy at the "gooey relationship stuff" too, mostly because I…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/19 08:37 PM
6	Reaching out for support and insight This is kinda tough, just because I don't think anybody can provide an answer that's 100% helpful, but here's my go at it anyways. If you can answer any of these questions as a reply, that would be great in getting more context; otherwise, keep them in mind when you're talking to him. I think the most important thing you can ask yourself and your partner is this: Has there been any significant change in his behavior after he claims he dropped TRP? If he says he used to be RP, but now behaves wit…	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/19 07:05 PM
8	The red pill double standards on 'women only want high resource men' What was the point of your post if this is your addendum to it? You just made this post, presenting it as factual (without sources...), and now you're saying you don't actually support what you just posted because you left out pretty much all of the stuff that refutes your statements. Who is this helping? It's also pretty presumptuous of you to say you don't want to cite evidence because you're not sure people can assess its validity like you can.	/r/ExRedPill	03/01/19 01:46 AM
4	Why do most women I see and read about on reddit all like older men? Don't worry about it; that's what this sub is for. Try not to get discouraged just because you see some age gap couples. The majority of women are looking for people in their age range, so focus on that instead!	/r/ExRedPill	23/12/18 09:38 PM
8	Why do most women I see and read about on reddit all like older men? This sounds a fair amount like confirmation bias. I obviously don't know your area or the people you see at school or walking around, but are you really looking at every couple? Or are you just seeing a few instances of older men with young women and then generalizing based on that? In my experience, men and women tend to date closely in their age range (0-3 year difference usually)	/r/ExRedPill	23/12/18 09:23 PM
1	I'm an insecure 22 year old virgin Yeah, that's an option. Or at least stay out of internet circles that unironically use that kind of terminology.	/r/ExRedPill	20/12/18 05:21 AM
4	I'm an insecure 22 year old virgin I think the other user really nailed the reply, but to double down on their sentiments, a couple tips: 1) Don't call yourself a 22 year old virgin. You're 22 years old. Sexual history should have little to no bearing on how you identify! I'm shocked you put "virgin" ahead of "mathematics grad student." Don't sell yourself short! 2) I know it's hard and the internet loves throwing these terms around, but try to not think of yourself and others in terms of "alpha" and "beta" behavior and actions. …	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/18 11:38 PM
2	I hope this is the right place to ask, but, can I have some advice? I think something important to keep in mind is that you won't be completely throwing out everything you think/know about people. The distinction is that TRP/MGTOW prescribe a set of characteristics before knowing anything about the individual. They pretty much sentence people before even being tried. If someone is throwing out red flag behavior that you know is toxic, then you don't have to sit there and completely assume the best from them. You're more than welcome to disassociate, because they…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/18 11:58 PM
2	[Science]Modern marriage system is prostitution, where the government mediates as the 'pimp' I agree, the assertion he was making has no reason to be even considered scientific. But clearly there was a misunderstanding of what the scientific process even was, so I figured I'd spell it all out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 10:18 PM
2	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature That's fair, I'm just saying that I imagine most feminists would disagree with her. If she says she's a feminist, then it can't really be helped. But, again, that is why I qualified with "doesn't try to define." There's, unfortunately, plenty of instances of radfem where that's not the case. It's like saying "TRP advocates that women be enslaved and forced to have sex with every man," and then backed it up with blackpill threads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 08:19 PM
1	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature Oh no, you got me. A 70 year old grandma who seems to have some long-brewing issues told her husband what to do because she had pent up anger about the Ford hearings. This is closer to "radical feminism" than anything else, and ultimately isn't helpful, nor is it representative of feminism. And for god's sake, look at that headline. Clearly Washington Post wasn't aiming for a nuanced critique of men's behavior in the scope of whatever that author wanted feminism to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 08:12 PM
2	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature Well yeah, they're cut from the same cloth, that being "masculinity." You don't need to be a male to be the recipient of men's actions, though. Feminism does not try to define how men are supposed to manage, behave, etc, it merely describes the behaviors themselves. Toxic masculinity is basically saying: "There's this specific group of cultural norms that have been passed down to men from a previous time that seems to stifle their range of emotions and behaviors, which effects both the other men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 07:24 PM
2	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature I never said they were the only ones. Obviously there's women and minorities in Congress. I just refuted the claim that "They (the people historically responsible for making uninformed decision on behalf of women) are all gone now." Don't misinterpret me, please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 07:11 PM
1	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature I mean yeah that's part of it lol, but I was referring mainly to "dying out" as in numbers decreasing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 07:08 PM
5	I hope this is the right place to ask, but, can I have some advice? I was gonna post something along derpey's lines, but nobody's pressuring to do anything. You're not "fucked up" or anything. I struggled with TRP and MGTOW ideology back in late high school, and I was a little scared of going to a really liberal, feminist university because of it. What helped me? Just observing people. Not with the mindset of "I bet that girl over there just got done smushing with 3 Chads," but just with an open mind. I talked to new people, made new friends. And guess what? The…	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/18 06:55 PM
2	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature Had a feeling that was the case. It's there anyways if you change your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 06:30 PM
3	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature Given current political climate, "dying" is only in a very marginal sense. It probably won't be in our lifetimes (unless some very, very dramatic shifts happen) that they will "die out" in a meaningful way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 06:27 PM
0	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature But what feminists and most women are saying is that for most men, there is no proper time, place or form for its expression, AT ALL, EVER. That's the whole "masculinity is toxic" meme that's circulating now. Hey, you just got feminist theory wrong. No well-meaning feminist or woman is thinking this. Not even clickbait pop feminism thinks this. I will agree that the term "toxic masculinity" is a very aggressive and charged term, but it does have a sound definition. The Good Men Project defines t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 06:19 PM
2	#MeToo and the Taboo Topic of Nature They're still very much alive and are probably representing your congressional district or state (if you're in the US).	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 06:00 PM
3	[Science]Modern marriage system is prostitution, where the government mediates as the 'pimp' Both, surprisingly enough. I've been waking up earlier than usual and found myself with very little to fill the time between morning and going to work, so here I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 03:31 PM
3	[Science]Modern marriage system is prostitution, where the government mediates as the 'pimp' Obviously, huge amounts of resources are diverted into the industry of lawyers, police officers, protective services, and other "Public Services" that secure and divert assets from people within society. This makes zero sense. "lawyers, police officers, protective services, and other 'Public Services'" are all run by people within society. You can't divert resources away from "people within society" just to give them to "other people within society." They're the exact same thing. Again, please d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 03:10 PM
6	[Science]Modern marriage system is prostitution, where the government mediates as the 'pimp' Alright, I'm back. I've been through the comments so I think I finally have a grasp on what you're trying to say. I feel like other people have addressed your points directly, so I'm going to do you a huge favor and let you know why this post is so damn hard to get through. The main offense here is your use of verbose wordage which hides the meaning of certain phrases or ideas, making the result utterly incomprehensible because there's no clear reference. The first couple paragraphs are fine I g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 03:09 PM
1	[Science]Modern marriage system is prostitution, where the government mediates as the 'pimp' Cool, I'll respond with specific questions when I'm off mobile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 08:19 AM
3	Is the parable of Mrs Puff a warning to young girls of the conflicts of conscience that can arise from divorce raping their husband? This is wack. I think you should put your analytical prowess towards a show that at least tries to emulate reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 08:14 AM
9	[Science]Modern marriage system is prostitution, where the government mediates as the 'pimp' I've read this through about 5 separate times, and I have no idea what you're talking about. Is the title your thesis statement? Because the post is incredibly pedantic and I'm having trouble garnering any meaning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 07:54 AM
3	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much This is fair, I was mainly in contention with the idea that any problem the woman has can and should be solved by just being more active in the bedroom and that talking to her about it is pointless. The alternative option that you mention is probably the best one. If she's starfishing and he can't talk to her, they should definitely see a marriage counselor or their individual psychiatrists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 05:34 PM
2	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much That's pretty true, but men and women often communicate their wants and needs very differently. It seems a little nearsighted to say that men need to have their needs fulfilled through sex every time, but can't be there for their wives when they need support as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 05:24 PM
2	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much You're right, it's not up to the man to solve the problems. Ultimately the individual has to make a conscious effort to improve, but that doesn't mean that they have to do it alone. People need support, especially from loved ones, and more often than not support is best communicated verbally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 05:18 PM
4	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much If that's how y'alls relationship is, then I can't really argue. If you feel like the only way you can communicate with her is through sex, then that's between you two. Just remember that just because it hasn't worked for you two doesn't mean no men should discuss things with their wives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:56 PM
4	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much How does having sex remove her complaints? Prolonging the discussions is probably the reason why she has "all her complaints"	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 04:44 PM
4	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much "Many men who have no idea how to talk to their wives directly prefer that"	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 03:38 PM
6	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much I'm skeptical at the claim that "many men prefer that," but ok. What if it's something completely unrelated, something that the woman needs to address because it's been stressing her out for weeks or months? She should just feign excitement and wait for her husband to become charitable enough to bring it up first? What if the man thinks nothing's wrong and never cares to open up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 03:34 PM
15	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much If she's doing starfish, chances are her dissatisfaction stems from a lot more than just sex. It's a symptom of dissatisfaction, not the root. And trust in what way? She trusts her partner to... assume everything is fine when it's not? Trusts herself to get enjoyment out of something that she might never find more enjoyment in? Trust that she'll suddenly enjoy it, even though nothing else is changed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 03:21 PM
11	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much So you're saying that they should hide their dissatisfaction with their partner? What does this accomplish? If not through sex, the guy will find out eventually that she's not satisfied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 03:13 PM
14	Why Startfish Sex Hurts Men so much What if they can't get in the mood for the rest of the night? Should they just do it anyways or not have sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/18 03:05 PM
24	What "counter argument" situations you had which proved that redpill isnt truth? I found counter arguments for most things in TRP. Some parts of trp advocates for basically manipulating your partner in relationships, which is immature and unnecessary. Stuff like "never show weakness," "never show gratitude for her unless she does something for you," "always have other options when she inevitably cheats on you," and stuff like that. If you're having to micromanage not only yourself, but her as well, and have to resort to cheap manipulation tactics to make yourself feel less i…	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/18 02:40 PM
1	Fetish, objectification or preference? I think another user pointed out his thing about prostitution and that he saw marriage as the only valid form of morally upright sex, so it's kinda hard to tell what his views today would be. Otherwise, I agree with you on what you said. I just don't agree with Kant's assumptions about value, is all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 08:22 PM
1	Fetish, objectification or preference? https://www.nature.com/articles/387253a0 This is actually really interesting and I didn't know it was a thing, thanks. Even still, you're not entirely understanding my point. This is a great comprehensive measure in terms of USD, but it doesn't get at the core of what I'm getting at. Prices are just another measure of viewing the scope of the world through a specific lens. And this does do a good job of what I said: being comprehensibly reductionist. They did what I suggested, and provided a pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 07:50 PM
1	Fetish, objectification or preference? Right, which is why I asked the question. It too falls under the slippery slope. Fair, I got a little ahead of myself. We can absolutely give trees quantifiable value. We're not talking about trees, we're talking about the Earth. This is exactly my previous point I made at the end. You can quantify every tree and assign it a value, yes. The problem arises when you extrapolate this to the value of the Earth itself. I'm talking about the entirety of the planet itself. You can count all the trees a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 07:16 PM
1	Fetish, objectification or preference? I am not misrepresenting your argument. I am asking you a question. Ok, I was just making sure. Usually questions like the ones you asked lead to whataboutisms. So it's only objectification when a relationship is largely predicated as a means to an end? But ALL relationships are largely predicated as a means to an end to fulfill whatever desire. This goes back to my previous statement where I said that if you expand the definition of objectification to equal desire, then you can't really deny th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 06:41 PM
1	Fetish, objectification or preference? Don't misrepresent my argument. I never said "objectification doesn't exist in interpersonal relationships," nor did I say "objectification never conflates with desire." It definitely does, and you provide a great, well-known example where both of those are true. The woman sees the man as a means to an end of her getting more money, to which she objectifies him. Therefore, their relationship (from the woman's perspective, anyways) is largely predicated on a means to an end. What I did say was th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 05:46 PM
3	Fetish, objectification or preference? The thing about that is that it's a very steep slippery slope, to the point that the original argument becomes rather useless. If we're talking about how every interaction with another human is a means to an end, no matter how vague (e.g. "comfortable life," "happiness," "progeny," etc), then you can't really deny that. If I say "I find inherent value in me getting ice cream with a friend," and you just say "Yes, well that ice cream was a means to an end of filling your stomach and the friend wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 05:22 PM
6	Fetish, objectification or preference? Most people, as Gravel is explaining, don't see their partner as a means to an end for sexual desire. If they did, then they would be objectifying them, by the definition provided earlier. The only problem is, you'd be hard-pressed to find people that say "I've been in a committed 25 year relationship because I only want to have sex with them and nothing else."	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/18 05:02 PM
1	Answer to Q1: No there are no power relations. Answer to Q2: Women have more power. How does "the social culture built around romance and love" not recognize power? The point the women in the video were making was that, in a relationship, power dynamics are mostly irrelevant.	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 06:11 AM
1	Answer to Q1: No there are no power relations. Answer to Q2: Women have more power. Nobody; I'm just making sure that you're aware that anything you can attribute to women in this case can also be attributed to men in most, if not all or more, instances.	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 05:57 AM
3	Women yelled "Yes" when I told her I was a virgin. Gotcha. So really, I'm not too sure. I was willing to entertain your pessimistic thought that maybe she was like "thank god," but the high five really threw me off that trail. High five-ing over such a negative sentiment seems cartoonishly cruel. If it helps, people don't really make bets about complete strangers. I know you're thinking that because it's like a worst-case scenario, but it's an insane reach to think that she'd openly celebrate winning a bet about you like that. Otherwise, I have …	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 05:38 AM
5	Women yelled "Yes" when I told her I was a virgin. Important question I didn't ask: was this conversation before or after you'd asked for sex?	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 05:27 AM
8	Women yelled "Yes" when I told her I was a virgin. Alrighty. Her saying "yes" and giving you a high five is definitely a little strange, so there's not much telling where that came from. It could be that she's a religious type as someone else said, maybe all the guys she interacts with are womanizers and it was refreshing to see someone who didn't have sex all the time, who knows. I don't think it's too good to dwell on interactions from months ago. Just chalk it up to people doing weird people-things and forget about it :) Quick edit: As much a…	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 05:10 AM
3	Women yelled "Yes" when I told her I was a virgin. Wait, so when did you tell her about your issues? Was it when you went to her office, or a different time?	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 05:04 AM
1	Answer to Q1: No there are no power relations. Answer to Q2: Women have more power. There's no denial here. These women recognized when they held power (e.g. in a lot of casual dating interactions), otherwise they stated their relationships with guys aren't generally built on power dynamics, and when they are, they admit to it. Do you feel like men never have power or privilege in relationships and in dating? Because if so, that's a really great quote you just used.	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 04:56 AM
4	Answer to Q1: No there are no power relations. Answer to Q2: Women have more power. You answers to questions 1 and 2 aren't necessarily wrong, but they're not as contradictory as you're making them out to be. Question 1 is formulated around men in relationships, or at least men seriously considering dating a particular woman. That is, specifically, "should a man have other 'options' while dating a girl to improve the 'power relations' between him and the woman in question?" To which most the interviewees responded with, "Being in a relationship where you have to worry about pow…	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 02:01 AM