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DATING ADVICECyberTutu/r/RedPillWomen08/05/24 10:32 PM
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DATING ADVICECyberTutu/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 01:07 PM
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CyberTutu/r/RedPillWomen23/05/24 09:04 PM
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Because it's an unequal relationship. Person A has multiple people who fulfil person B's role, but the reverse is not true.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 04:59 AM
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I'd rather be single and broke forever than be one of two wives for a man whilst I only have one husband, I hate unequal relationships. I'd feel devalued and worthless. Literally makes my stomach turn to imagine such a scenario
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 03:16 AM
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Are you serious? Learn to say NO. This is how you do it: "NO". Sex before marriage is antithetical to the RedPill philosophy, as is having a long relationship before marriage involving sexual contact, the way you are doing. This isn't a religious sub so I can't give you religious advice but there is certainly a lot of it that would be relevant to your situation. If he ends the relationship over this, then he's been using you for sex and doesn't love you for who you are as a person, so it would b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 07:03 PM
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Let him know you are looking for a life partner and if he disagrees dump him, next time ask at the first date what the guy's intentions are and make it clear you're looking for marriage / life partner only, not casual or short/medium term relationship. I feel like this advice should be more well-known by women than it is...
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 10:35 PM
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Talk about this right from the very first date. Make it clear that you're only dating to find a life partner/ get married. You're not dating for fun, not dating for a causal or short-term relationship, nor are you dating for anything other than a lifelong relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/24 02:31 AM
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Oh really, how do you know how the FB algorithm works?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 12:11 AM
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ok busted, I was stalking you and accidentally hit friend! 😭 You know how online dating goes, just trying to get all the info on you lol.” I can't do that. Right now I'm thinking I'd rather just take the L, avoid further embarassment and disappear from him forever.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 12:08 AM
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Avoid. Having slept with 70 women isn't normal, habits are very hard to change, values are hard to change too, and it should bother you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 06:08 PM
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Attractive men are hard to find, so it sucks when you finally find one and he doesn't want to be monogamous or in a serious relationship. I understand. I've observed that some of these men also have harmful views and ideas about women, like it's in a man's nature to be polygamous, all women are evil, inferior, exist for sex, conquest, making babies etc. and see us as objects to be used rather than partners to be loved. I think it is better, given these views which are hard to change, to just tot…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 02:21 PM
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I'd be interested in seeing if any women felt the way the OP did and if things became resolved eventually?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 08:11 AM
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Don't sell yourself hun. Have some self-respect and self-love. You are precious, men shouldn't be allowed to touch you, look at you or even be near you
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 12:18 AM
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The average man is undesirable to most of us women though and not something that most of us aspire for. Why are we basing how things should be, and what's ethically right, based on the average man and what he desires? Particularly if a woman is high value herself, I feel most of these stats won't be of much relevance to her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 08:43 PM
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You talked about beliefs so I mentioned a belief even though it was a change of subject. What you said still isn't true, most men don't watch porn.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 05:54 PM
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I believe that porn is misogyny. The porn industry uses sex trafficked, vulnerable and destitute women who are coerced into doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 11:23 AM
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Most men view porn whether in a relationship or not. Nonsense
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 10:03 AM
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Aww I love your response. You put it very accurately and I feel I understand myself better now. Evolution, power imbalances, being very concsious to and sensitive to things, everything. ❤
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 10:02 PM
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Uh... I didnt think of it that way at first, but upon reflection yes I do think I feel a little ashamed for being smaller and weaker physically. 🙈 Especially because we had a debate via messages before meeting and I was trying to win it haha. And no, I wasn't genuinely afraid he would hurt me. I have not had relationships before, I'm very inexperienced. Have you ever felt this way? How did you deal with it?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 06:08 PM
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Well one of the guys said I was too quiet and nervous so it's not just me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 04:51 PM
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I am not sure why social acceptability is coming into this at all and further confused how being somewhat more quiet and demure around men is not socially acceptable. Because I don't want to come across as being someone who is socially awkward, unconfident (which is unattractive) or a weirdo. As I said I wasn't 'somewhat' quieter, I was a LOT quieter and just not myself...
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 03:19 PM
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Huh? I went out with the guys because I was attracted to them on paper, I did not feel intimidated when I saw them on a dating app. In real life I had a different experience. No need to be so mean assuming the worst!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 03:16 PM
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I do like it. I should have clarified it in the OP, will do so now.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 03:10 PM
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Yes I was attracted as well as intimidated. It was definitely both I'd say. But i'd like to not respond this way because it's not socially acceptable. I'd say I was far too quiet and unconfident rather than just a little bit quieter.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 01:59 PM
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Do you have taller men in your life other than these dates? Have you had bad experiences with taller guys that’s coloring your feelings around these other men? Not that tall, my male relatives are around 6'0 or 6'1. Not had bad experiences with taller guys.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 01:56 PM
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Playfighting is OK. Like if you feel no negative emotion whatsoever and you're both enjoying yourself. But that's not what you're describing, is it - you're describing hitting someone when they've made you cross or annoyed you, when you disagree with them or what they're doing. That's a bad thing to do even if it is a light hit.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 05:38 PM
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I think the issue is that he has a platonic female friend that he spends one on one time with (with his son, who doesn't count as he's so young). I would personally see this as a problem. It isn't a major issue that you aren't exclusive yet as it's so soon, however it is an issue when he has a friend he spends so much time with yet doesn't acknowledge the fact that she is more than just a friend. I do think it's a bit odd.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 09:08 PM
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Again, this order of precedence is absolutely nuts, and I'm a Muslim. Islam doesn't teach that order of precedence. Where's the Prophet Muhammad in that order of precedence, he should be second to God? And the mother should then come next, because the Prophet said the mother is the person who is most deserving of your good treatment. Are you a troll?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 03:52 AM
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That isn't my understanding of Islam. Get men to be leaders in a general sense, and have the final say on issues such as where to live for work, etc. after you have put forward your opinions too? Maybe. Men are still told to be good to their wives, the Prophet said the best of men among you are the ones who are best to his wives. But absolute blind unquestioning obedience to your husband on every single issue, big and small? That is absolutely nuts even in Islam.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 03:47 AM
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I'm sending you a virtual hug but I know that won't help you much as it wouldn't help me. I'm in my mid/late 20s and above average attractive, a white passing POC, green eyes, 170cm tall, also currently working in a demanding clinical role. I've always known that women get jealous, and have known to be careful and expected them to undermine me. Sadly in my case I also learned a lot of social skills later in life and haven't been social for most of my younger years, as various family issues outsi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 10:28 AM
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Person B for several different reasons. Having aligned values is a non-negotiable for me. Having different interests doesn't matter, if anything it probably makes the person more interesting as you'd learn and be exposed to more through each other as long as you were both open-minded enough to enjoy learning new things and get along with people with diff interests and of diff backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:45 PM
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What science? And your second sentence doesn't prove anything relevant to what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:01 PM
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It's actually very toxic because men might read this and think cheating is good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:44 PM
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A lot of men on this sub seem to base their theories on what women find attractive off of animal behaviour, e.g. the alpha male of the pack mates with multiple females in species such as, say, wolves, and the female wolves find this impressive and attractive. Forgetting that humans are different to wolves. Most human women are repulsed by, not attracted to, men who have sex with multiple women at once. Unless we're talking about extremely low value people here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:41 PM
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Seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:59 PM
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More women, even the superficial ones, are waking up and not sleeping with men just because they're rich and attractive, because they realise that wont give them what they want (a LTR with an attractive rich man) so as time goes on men like you will find it harder to get pussy. Also, I find it hard to imagine most men feeling happy with just 'pussy' with various people rather than being in a long term relationship w someone who genuinely cares about them and is committed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:22 AM
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