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| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Maybe, but I don't care at this point. I just pay sex workers whenever I want sex and instead focus my companionship needs around my comrades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.But why are you blindly believing them? Plenty of children start rebelling even in elementary school but it’s usually middle school. I don't. That was many years ago. So you literally never bothered wearing the right types of clothes because you hoped women would fuck you regardless? So you didn’t even want to wear the right fitted clothes just for yourself? Thats lazy and way too focused on incentive. As I said: This was years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.That is way too old to be believing your parents so blindly. Perhaps. But the messaging from earlier had already done its damage. . Why was that not a problem as soon as you turned 18? Because the same adults became goalpost pushers and said "Don't worry about it in high school! Girls will chase you around college!" It's on me for believing them, but I had a chunk of that damaging emotion we call "hope." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 11 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Why are you guys just blindly believing them? That’s not society‘s fault. Who says I still am? Besides, a naive 16 year old buck is not going to have life's wisdom to sniff out bullshit, especially if they were a goodie two-shoes. You’re an adult, learn it yourself now Already have. It still does not take away the sting of wasting my teens and twenties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:58 PM |
| 28 | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. Wrong. The supposedly caring adults in my life did. Instead of telling me to, say, know my clothing size or otherwise put on an exceptional first impression, they gave endless bullshit platitudes that should never be taken literally by a delayed autistic young man. Turns out that "Be yourself" and other fucking bullshit are far more damaging during critical social periods than actually sitting down and dressing down a complete degenerat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?are you actively trying to date I somewhat am? Are you on dating apps? No Are you asking women out IRL? No Are you on a platform like Reddit or elsewhere wherein you regularly communicate with potential desired partners? Not using any online platforms. I'm using a matchmaker to set up monthly dates And if you are, why are you still here? Does it help or hurt? Or do you consider this just a hobby? I'm grieving my lack of early-20s experience from my incompetence. There are vastly more cocks than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 07:35 PM |
| – | Have you ever realized that it's better for you to be alone than in a relationship? (if that's the case for you)I have. I had sex with an escort once, realized that I'm demisexual and that the kind of woman I'm attracted to doesn't fucking exist. I try to live in real life, not inside a cruel fantasy, so I am better off alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry a woman who would not take your last name?I'll be honest and prefer that she keeps her last name. The practice of stripping surnames upon marriage creeps me out as a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:24 PM |
| – | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀No. Somewhere between partial and full RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:23 AM |
| 9 | Does one ever recover from missing experiences as a youth?Does one ever recover from missing experiences as a youth? I haven't and won't expect to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 12:36 AM |
| – | The narrative that dating success is a matter of 'self-improvement' is toxic and misleading.Under the older BMI-only standard, it is "just" 40 percent. Throw in recent proposals to include anthropometric measurements, and it skyrockets to 70 percent. At this point, just being a scrawny 136 lb 5'9" gamer dude already puts you in the top thirty percent of American men, provided that you shower and groom yourself properly of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?then when you are READY to settle down, "spin the block" on the good dues so to speak. I would tell any young woman who's only interested in me after she's "had her fun" to fuck off. I can fuck an escort who actually knows what she's doing as opposed to some woman who will do what the Youtuber above suggests and then complain in the same breath how inexperienced I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?I don't care whether refusing to approach will "fix" the loneliness epidemic. The mere knowledge that I can meet my intimacy needs by visiting a sex worker brings me relief as opposed to getting blown up on some asshole's TikTok for misreading her shitty "signals." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 07:46 PM |
| – | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyWhere did this bizarre idea come from, that beyond money, society somehow owes you women's bodies too? I blame clueless, well-meaning parents who try to assuage their high functioning autistic sons' concerns about not having had a girlfriend in high school. "Don't worry about dating in high school; it will happen in college" becomes a moving goalpost along the lines of "If it doesn't happen in college, it will happen after," since no fucking parent will actually seek help for their burgeoning in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 01:36 AM |
| 3 | What age is it weird to have never been on a date before?I was twenty when I went on what I try to count as a first date, though we did not kiss as I'm not a touchy guy on the first three dates or so (I take too long to warm up as a dude, I fucking know...). I would put an upper age limit of 24 before the excuse of "I was studying hard for my degree" becomes too suspect for an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Focusing more on aggressively masking autistic traits would go much further than most self-improvement advice (though the self-improvement advice will be great for yourself, and therefore your mental health). There’s regular masking, then there’s this exhausting level of effort that I am unwilling to sustain just for a sexual relationship. Our least shitty option is instead seeking the services of independent escorts to satisfy our intimacy needs so that we can focus our attention on those we ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:06 PM |
| 15 | Men who don't want to get married, why?I was effectively invisible to women at the age of 22 back in my awkward autistic phase of life. I bothered to actually wipe my own fucking ass, commute to my third space by bike for work, and revamp my wardrobe, yet guess what that did for me dating-wise? Radio silence. I kept seeing gray-heads and 40+ year old married couples with kids where I’m “supposed” to meet women, the apps kept yielding few results, and the few women who match with me on dating apps have kids and are just looking for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:54 AM |
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