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| 1 | Starting to get feelings for my fwb. What to do?Always agreeable when I bring it up but never initiates conversation about it on her own. Hasn't been long since I first mentioned it though. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Starting to get feelings for my fwb. What to do?With. Sorry. Messed this post up a bit. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Starting to get feelings for my fwb. What to do?Thanks, I just need to stay on top of this. I haven't made an admission of feelings to her or anything, but I have, for the first time suggested we go on an actual date together, because I find myself wanting to do that and spend more time with her. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Starting to get feelings for my fwb. What to do?Sorry spelling errors sent from phone. * said we were DATING without me agreeing to it. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The next step: Seddit Wingman LocatorFort Worth here, you guys want to organize something for this weekend? | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 03:35 AM |
| 5 | The next step: Seddit Wingman LocatorGod damn it all you're right. Signing up now. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:52 PM |
| 9 | I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips?Hey guys! So sorry about the late update but I'm very hungover and the computer screen and I are not the best of friends right now. Things went FUCKING GREAT. I got two #-closes and k-closed another girl!!! This had to have been the greatest party I've ever been to. I don't know what it was, I just went in and talked to everyone. Anyone I made eye contact with I made sure to ask for their name and talk to them at least momentarily. I ended up dancing with one group of girls even, standing in the… | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 06:15 PM |
| 5 | I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips?Thanks for the advice. I'll do my best tonight. Its just the feeling of being in the middle of an ocean without any support. I dread the idea of standing there talking to no one awkwardly. But I can do this...I need to do this if I'm serious about increasing my social skills with women and people in general. I'll update later! | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 02:36 AM |
| 8 | I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips?Thanks man. I will definitely come back and let you guys know the results. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 02:34 AM |
| 13 | I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips?This is so college...every conversation I have with someone new it never fails; "What's your major"? I'll do my best to avoid that tonight. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What's your weakness when it comes to women, seddit?Ah, no, but I can see how this was unclear. I meant that is the one thing I find incredibly attractive. It's very easy for me to be attracted to a woman who plays soccer, I don't know why. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Got stood up for a coffee date, but it looks like she just got the time wrong. What's the best thing to do in this sort of situation?"No problem, enjoy your day, talk to you later." If she plays it from there, go with it. Otherwise, a few days later "Hey, let's try this coffee thing one more time, how's [date/time] look for you? | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 08:06 AM |
| 1 | RationalPUA's Three Part Guide to University Excellence - Part I: The Epitome of ExperimentationAwesome! Really looking forward to the second edition. I exited a LTR over this summer, I can't wait to go back to school and just blow up socially. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 10:30 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Great advice, thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Move out at all costs?Well, moving out and having your own place would help a lot, but its not a complete deal breaker. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 11:57 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?I think you're missing the point, at the time I was upset because I didn't know if the flakes were legitimate or not. Also, check the conversation, you're the only one who has used the word mad.. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Question about lying to increase social valueYeah, don't do it. The farthest I've ever gone was to download an app that will send texts to my phone at designated times. I used this on a date to make it appear as though I was being contacted semi-regularly throughout our date together. That I have important things going on, yet I'm there with her, and ignoring my phone every time it goes off. I'm not doing that again though. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:04 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Yeah, I'd have to agree. I see where locotx is coming from, but I think he's reading a bit to much into this. I was upset that I was flaked on, nothing more nothing less than this. I think he's just saying don't develop a case of oneitis, play the field, don't let her get to you in the early stages, because it'll degrade how seriously she takes you later on. Idk. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 09:02 PM |
| 0 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Why....not? You ask for a date, she agrees, day of she flakes. Annoying, ask to reschedule, she agrees, then day of she flakes again. It's perfectly reasonable to be upset at that point, doesn't mean I made a big deal of it. On that day though, I think she got the hint that I was pretty much done with her because she was wasting my time, and within the hour sent me another text asking to go out with me at a different time. So, you could view this as a pity date, but I've ruled that out after act… | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:46 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Well, I thought that might be the case, but I know it isn't after having had the first date with her. Ton's of IOI's. Also, the second flake was within hours of when she asked me out. She texted me letting me know she couldn't make it, I got upset and gave her a short response, she kept texting me saying she was sorry, I didn't respond, then she asked if we could go out the next day. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:32 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?You know, I'm really not entirely sure..In a way I think my game that I have right now leans strongly towards LTR type behavior, but thats just because I exited one a while back. With this girl, ideally, I would love to just have her as a girl I can hang out with whenever I want and have sex with, while slowly moving towards the possibility of a LTR. So, to definitely have fun, but not at all closing the door to a LTR. I would like the fun to lead to that I guess. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:12 PM |
| 1 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?Definitely. But I think the suggested text is too beta for me, plus, I already sent her a text last night. I feel like asking her for another date the very first day is a little soon, which is pretty much what I'm being forced into today. I do feel like I have the capacity to ask her soon like this though, she's the one that asked me on our first date after-all (she flaked on me twice and apparently legitimately had something come up both times, so she asked me out out of the blue when I didn't … | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:08 PM |
| 3 | First date went great! Giving her a call today, should I ask her on a second date?I can see the logic with this. And I do feel as though I need to give her some space from myself. One thing to keep in mind though, is that I already said I'd call her today :. The last thing I want is to look like I can't keep my word on things. But I do feel slightly anxious that moving this fast will crowd her..or make her lose attraction because things are coming to easy. I think I'm going to wait until the afternoon to give her a call, then just set up the second date. | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 07:02 PM |
| 5 | How do I handle a situation like this?Yeah, I'm going to have to say you were being oblivious to her simply not being into you. Either that or she saw someone she didn't want seeing the two of you together. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 06:34 AM |
| 11 | I can't get over this rejection. No matter how hard I try, I just can'tSounds extremely childish. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Extended texting game before having a first date; how to do it?Right, that's why I plan on only calling her once during the vacation to ask her how its been going, reconfirm the date, and say see you when you get back. That kind of thing. I'll have my conversation ready for the date. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?Thanks man. Yeah, I single out women too much. I put a lot of energy into one girl at a time, and don't spread out my effort. Unfortunately, when I start talking to a girl, I'll start going through the mindset of what it would be like if she were mine. So in my mind I'm putting all my eggs in one basket. Need to stop that. Thanks for the advice though. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Extended texting game before having a first date; how to do it?So..it works...but its a dick move. I do feel like a dick not texting her when I said I would but I feel like its difficult ending conversations and I don't want to start another one up that I can't end and risk it getting boring. Wouldn't it be better for her to be expecting a text and not get one for several days, and then BAM I'm calling her out of nowhere and asking her how she's been, how the vacation is going etc (maybe say sorry I didn't text, I got busy with something). I mean, for those… | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Facebook poking?Right back atcha buddy-boy. | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Extended texting game before having a first date; how to do it?I can not thank you enough for all your help! This is pure gold man, I'm soaking in every word. I think I'll give her a call Sunday/Monday, since she doesn't actually leave until Saturday morning. Ask her how her vacation is going, bring up past discussions, etc. I assume one call is all that needs to be made during the full week long vacation? Sorry, I'm a noob at all this, just recently got out of a LTR. Thanks again! | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?Yep, I overreacted. I just got out of a LTR so I'm not used to this, just being a little jittery. Things turned out fine, she promised she'd reschedule. Regardless, I need to calm way down in general. Thanks for putting me back in line. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?So just an update, things should be fine. I pretty much said exactly what you quoted, and she said she promises she will, that she's leaving for vacation tomorrow but she will when she gets back in a week | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?You're right, I overreacted. I've been nose deep in r/seduction for weeks, and things went smooth as a baby's bottom with this girl, from the first message, to number, to setting up the date, everything. I freaked out about a tiny wrinkle. No big though. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?Oh you | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her?This sounds like a good course of action. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 05:35 PM |
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