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Thanks. I don't think I'll check out the book just for time reasons. I've done my own reading about nutrition and suffice it to say, it's a rabbit hole that goes down forever, and far from a settled science. You could read a hundred books and not be much closer to the truth. You should read at least a few though. I wouldn't be at all surprised to hear of some very small increase in cancer risk or other health problems from eating meat, dairy, or whatever else. Overall the studies that show these…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:06 PM
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You have a lazy definition of meat. Nobody will tell you to eat bacon or sausage for protein density. The advice is always to eat LEAN meat. Chicken, Fish, Lean ground beef. Very few foods match lean meat for protein density. Of course, there's no reason not to take in protein from numerous sources. "meat should be considered a dessert" No, this is nonsense. I'm sure this is regurgitated from some health magazine, as it's completely baseless. If you're gonna make a claim like that you need much …
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:27 PM
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So much of self improvement gone for a freakimg waste Self improvement doesn't get women. It just improves you. You are too stuck on women as a goal. Go pursue something else for a while. If you must talk to women, focus on being outcome independent. Do something you will enjoy regardless of whether you hook up with them or get a number. Either find a fun activity with women around, and talk to them only about the activity, or have your own brand of fun with women (black knighting, social experi…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:22 PM
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Are you doing any of the things you do because you enjoy them, or because you think they'll give you a better life? Are there other things you want to do? Have you explored enough to realize what those things are? You have to do some things which might not be enjoyable. But you'll never enjoy life if you don't have your own pursuits and passions. Keep exploring until you find them, and either make time for them, or get yourself to the point where you have the resources to do them.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:55 PM
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Have you ever broken up with a woman who was an amazing person, but for whom you just didn't have any feelings? I've done it. Repeatedly. Because I'm heavily insecure, I date down all the time, in the looks department. So I find these lovely people who deserve a great relationship, which I can't give them because at the end of the day... I'm not attracted to them. I don't have the feelings I want. So there can be no relationship. No woman can love a man unconditionally. No man can love a woman u…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:40 PM
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Please ask yourself what you want in life. What you truly want. If your #1 answer is "love" or "a relationship" or "tons of beautiful young pussy".... your psychology is fucked. You aren't alive. There's a reason you have to do all this other shit to get women. It's not some arbitrary task list set by a cruel mistress. People who do those things, and take pleasure in them, are good at life. THAT's what draws women in. Go read the book of pook. For fuck's sake, lifting is crucial! When you start …
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:21 PM
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Sounds like you don't know what shit tests are and are somewhat lacking in sidebar material. The sad truth is that really beautiful women these days are mostly worthless sacks of shit. You must try out a vast number of them before finding one worth your time. Don't waste your time on the worthless ones. If you truly are a 9+, you can spend MUCH less time and effort on approach. A 9+ who approaches too hard is not natural, you need to work on your attitude and place yourself on the pedestal. Make…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:23 PM
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I've been stricken by how clearly RP ideology is embedded in the stories we tell. Anyone who's been through academia will have noticed that certain critical lenses will give new meaning to movies, music, and shows... or at least uncover meaning that was already there. With RP philosophy, the same effect is present. I find it much more compelling for that fact that many of these ideas are taboo and certainly haven't been articulated. They're just manifesting in stories that people write, oftentim…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 08:09 PM
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I was wondering about this too. I read about a study on scarcity. Subjects were recorded when they thought no one was listening, and again when they were told that someone would be listening. Those who were in a state of social scarcity (betas, loners, whatever metrics the study actually used) were rated as less interesting when they thought someone was listening. So what is the purpose of this? You have to consider that humans evolved to live in small, semi-permanent bands. As we all know, it's…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:57 PM
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Is beer also specifically bad? Obviously it's empty calories and very easy to go overboard. But assuming a balanced amount of drinking, are alcohol calories worse?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 05:25 PM
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If you can find a way to do it financially, then no. I'm 31 and I wish to god I'd started working towards a new career at 26. It's never too late though.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 05:08 PM
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She knows exactly what she means. Look how fucking incongruous that phrasing is! You can see her writing process by looking at it: spent most of the night calling you on your bullshit well that's no good, can't admit to having shit opinions! spent most of the night dominating the conversation woah, where did that come from? Obviously can't say that! spent most of the night intellectually challenging you That's the ticket, now I get social credit for being smart and liking people who are even sma…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 09:14 PM
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How do you just not do the things you're supposed to do and go talk to people? When I'm at the gym I lift the iron, I put it down, and I go home, because I have other important things to do. At what point do you say "ok, my workout is not important right now. I'm just gonna go blab to this random person."? Or do you specifically hang around after the workout? Maybe your gym has social areas? I have to actually schedule time to be social. Either with non-activities like drinking, or explicitly so…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:53 PM
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Agreed. I don't set the bar at 9 or whatever. I set the bar at "any woman I'm attracted to at all". Those, I can't get. I can only get the ones I have no interest in. Basically the girls I can get, I have to force myself to have sex with. It's hardly even pleasurable, and I wonder if it's worth the effort at all since there's a big psychological gap between taking home one of these and one that I actually want to sleep with.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:20 PM
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I arrived at this conclusion on my own. I haven't really noticed the benefits from it, but I did notice the drawbacks. If you spend years never having sex and jerk off maybe once every 2-3 months, eventually you stop even thinking about sex. Your sex drive goes away. Only the absolute hottest of women can even cause me to think about sex. After getting laid recently, there's been a huge spike in the amount of time I spend being horny and the number of women whose body parts catch my eye, and in …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:14 PM
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When I was younger, I concluded that the only thing that made life worth all the suffering was the feeling of being in love. It just magically made everything better. It seemed so qualitatively above every other sensation that only it could account for the endless shittiness of existence. After finding TRP I realized this was impossible. The mechanics of the world just do not allow you to attain that goal by chasing it. Of course everything will seem like a burden if it's only an empty means to …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 04:13 AM
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It's possible for many reasons to have large deficits in personal skills, which take years to develop. In my case, I cannot talk to people. I was fine at it in elementary school before my family exploded, so I'm not an aspie. There are several aspects of not being able to talk: No concrete conversational skills, and habits of boring and safe conversation. I can't joke or tease. I have to force it constantly, and when I do manage it I get shit reactions because I'm so awkward. This alone would ta…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 03:35 AM
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You would gain about 1000 times more from fixing your frame, dependency issues, and psychological issues than fixing your face. You're failing to engage with the real world. Move out ASAP and do different things every day.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:56 PM
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You don't "need" plastic surgery unless you're disfigured. If you are as strong as you say you are, and you aren't just huge, fat, and bulky, your body is fine. Your face is a HUGE afterthought. You have done everything you can in regard to your looks. There's no reason, again barring serious disfigurement, that you can't pull decent chicks with a great body and an ugly face. You are well past the point of diminishing returns on looks. If you are still having trouble, looks really aren't the pro…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:45 PM
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So you had 5 years before you got it, really. Whew, makes me feel better about my slow spare time progress towards software dev in the past 6 months. Thanks for the info!
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:34 PM
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Sounds too advanced for me to offer any advice. I just want to know how to get a $55k work from home with only 1 year of training.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:13 PM
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There is some hamstering going on here on TRP, probably due to the fact that this is a new philosophy and isn't fully accepted or understood yet. "Women can't love unconditionally." Well yeah, but neither can men. (Though women do get away with having more conditions than men.) All of us regardless of gender are intelligent creatures trying to get what we want, as directed by our biology.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 06:40 PM
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She can't just be below you in looks, she has to be below you in gender-adjusted SMV. I'm seeing a HB5. In looks, I'm probably 6, but she responded very well so maybe she sees me as 7. On top of that, she makes more than I do, is pretty strong willed, and has interesting hobbies. If she were a guy, she'd be like an 8 or 9. Fortunately, all that shit doesn't mean much on a girl and she knows it. It shows in her actions. Unfortunately, my looking better than her doesn't mean much on a guy. Luckily…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 06:34 PM
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I noticed a huge effect when I started lifting. It was temporary though. I've gradually been cleaning up my diet and now it's pretty good, but my lifting has fallen off due to injury (fewer days, lower weight, some exercises cut.) Overall my mindset is pretty much back to where it was when I started.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:49 PM
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Not OP, but I have tremendous difficulty dealing with this. The reasons: I have massive self-confidence issues. I don't know of any fix for this besides actual success on my own terms, which could take years. I seek out people who are better than myself, and don't spend time with those I see as lesser. How can I enjoy or benefit from that? Several decades of blue pill conditioning saying to NEVER do this. Even books like "How to win friends and influence people" champion a high-road approach 100…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 04:51 PM
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She's right. Too bad they never seem to realize they can indeed be that adventurous girl as long as you are not fat and can put on makeup. It's not even hard for a woman to not be fat since they don't have to worry about muscle. Just cut calories. Literally, it costs a fat woman NEGATIVE time and money to become more attractive. Put the savings towards wardrobe and makeup and the dick will roll in. Obviously the only reason fat women exist is because they're afraid of their sexuality. They fear …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 02:54 PM
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The problem with your view is in the phrase "what we think of". The "we" here means modern American mainstream culture. This represents a context shift that excludes pretty much the entire intellectual history of these ideas, and the movements that came from them. You are limiting these words to their modern, local, popular context when in fact they have had a different meaning in academia, in other parts of the world, and through much of the time since the 19th and 20th centuries when they beca…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 11:39 PM
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You are using leftist in a very narrow way, probably to mean something like "democrats and sjws". Anarchists have always been considered leftists. Chomsky is certainly considered a leftist, though I'm not sure if he's ever used the term. I would also be very surprised to hear him say anything against feminism. You could use the word "liberal" instead. Commies and anarchists don't identify as liberals and often malign them. There are some people that call themselves things like "anarcho-capitalis…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 10:16 PM
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Absolutely I would never give LTR status to a girl who cheated in a relationship. Doesn't mean you can't fuck her though.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 09:22 PM
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It does not put pressure on her. You're giving her everything she wants for free, she doesn't feel pressured. Some girls might say they feel pressured when they lose attraction, but listen to what they do, not what they say, right? Overinvesting is male slut behavior and it broadcasts desperation. There's not a good way to tell when investment is overinvestment. 3 months and jewelry is almost certainly too much though. If you feel doubtful at all you shouldn't do it. You can't buy her attraction…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:04 PM
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If the roles were reversed and your girl told you about kissing another guy, trp would tell you to next immediately. That said, guys and girls are different and it depends on your relationship. I wouldn't tell personally unless i thought there was a real danger of it getting back to her.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:09 PM
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Better for what? What are you trying to do here?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 09:14 PM
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Pretty young girl. Usually I'd avoid these after I fucked up with them, but she kept coming around to visit my roommates, who she's friends with. It got to the point where my life was completely disrupted by her presence. I couldn't stop paying attention to her, I started doing creepy shit like listening through doors for her voice. And the whole time I knew she was worthless. Boring, incompatible, not particularly bright. And I couldn't stop thinking about her. I became incredibly angry at myse…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 08:27 PM
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It's still a good FR. We deal in reality, right? That includes when you fuck up. We are not women that only want to hear about the finished product, the glorious success. Keep pushing to overcome your difficulties, OP.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:52 PM
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a modest amount of money like 5 grand Come the fuck on. You know what average earnings and expenses are like. That's publicly available information. This advice is for the top 5-10% of earners or something. And it's good advice. For them. Pretending that you don't know most people can't afford this and never will be able to is humblebragging.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 10:38 PM
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I just used the youtube video. It proved to be a huge pain in the ass as it was during a long drive and kept causing my gps to crash. Still, it was a magical drive. Let me know if you find an actual audiobook, I'd be interested too!
/r/askTRP16/12/15 08:52 PM
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There are a few experiences that teach great information about relationships. Some of them I've experienced are: Having sex the first time. Having sex with a girl you thought you couldn't get. Having to break off a relationship because you just aren't into it. Don't kill yourself trying to make it happen, but it's as fine a goal as any, and may be informative.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 08:49 PM
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Good question. I was struggling with accepting TRP and pook cured that in a few hours of listening to the audiobook.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 08:35 PM
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Entitlement (to women, a good career, happiness, etc.) is a key component of Nice Guy syndrome as Glover identifies it in "No More Mr. Nice Guy." The belief you describe is a covert contract. "If I do these nice things, I will be rewarded with the things I want. If I do these things and then don't get rewarded, that's unfair. I've met my end of the bargain and society won't hold up its end." He feels entitled to the things he wants because he believes he's put in the necessary work to achieve th…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:44 PM
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Except that if you're a gamer, you also have to devote time to learning social skills. You have to purposely devote time to going out and being social, alongside other self improvement, and you have to be careful to use that time productively. Gaming away your 20s is much worse than partying them away.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:10 PM
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It's very much like Dennett saying "stop telling people they don't have free will". Even if you don't have free will, it turns out that a really good solution to the question of how to act (in fact, the solution that evolution has given us) is to act as if you and everyone around you actually has free will. That's the strategic answer to a hard philosophical question. What I'm not sure of is why chasing dreams is a strategically good choice, in spite of the fact that it looks to be statistically…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 09:47 PM
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Can you elaborate on "make money the way you want"? I hear this sort of sentiment all the time from veteran RPers and it completely mystifies me (also "making money is easy". Yeah, maybe if you already have the resources, education, and social skills to do it!) There are millions of people who want to do things that people like to do. All of these people are in the market, looking to get paid to do those things, yet the market cannot support them. Hence, you can't make money doing those things. …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:07 PM
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Learning game easier than learning a sport? Hah! I appreciate that really learning a sport takes many years. But you can easily reach top ten percent just by showing up consistently. All it takes is time. Errors in sports are self correcting. You make a mistake, you see the mistake, you fix the mistake. People who play with you will tell you how to play better. If you fail at game, you get ignored. You might get feedback if you ask for it all the time. Most of that feedback will be garbage. A go…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:30 PM
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It's worse than that. All the problems are interlocking. It's hard to undergo an adventure like that without friends, real friends that you can trust for support. It's hard to make friends with no social skills and nothing interesting to talk about. It's hard to learn social skills when you have no money to go out and your wardrobe is outdated. It's hard to do anything interesting with no money. It's hard to move into a good job to get money when you have no confidence, no valuable skills, and n…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 01:51 AM
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It's hard because you have the constant thought of "how can I possibly waste time doing nothing when I have so many things that desperately need to be improved?" Trying to enjoy yourself with that constant anxiety in your head is very difficult.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 07:00 PM
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I am really struggling with this. I seem to have backslid a bit. I think scheduling time to do "fun" things is very important. Also, set aside time before that to sit still, meditate, and change your mindset. Convince yourself that this thing is different than the rest of the time. Pick out your usual objectives in that situation and discard them. The goal is to experience that place of lightness. Good activities are either new things, or things with no real content, such going to a bar. I have …
/r/askTRP09/12/15 06:59 PM
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Back to the non negotiables: I have done this numerous times without ever getting approached. Every potential non negotiable you tick increases your chances of anything working. Tick none of them, and nothing will work.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 05:32 PM
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Question 10: ”Sorry, I don’t just give out my number.” That's good because I don't just accept numbers. Won't this usually come after you ask for her number? That feels like "well I didn't want your number anyway!" I think you can still imply that you didn't want the number, but only as an obvious joke (because everyone knows you wanted the number.) For example, "Good. I work for the phone company and I was running a security test. You passed!"
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 06:42 PM
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People reading TRP are in all sorts of states. Some of us need crutches to get out there and make SOMETHING happen. As long as we don't forget they are crutches, and that we need to be our honest selves eventually. There's a reason "Models" is on the reading list.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:28 PM
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Well, now that I'm good and drunk like a regular bar environment. Let me embarrass myself with my throwaway internet account: Question 1: ”Are you a player?” I'll play a song if you want. I don't have my guitar though. Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” I do. I have a 93% success rate. Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” I was counting the days till the end. Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” More than you! Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone els…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:47 AM
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Excerpt from The Book of Pook, Lesson Four: ... “Hear me, oh Don Juan! There are women around and other men are hitting on them! What is your reaction?” The Don Juan just shrugged his shoulders and laughed. “What!” cried the young man. “These other guys are going to take his women! How can he be so laid-back?” “He is laid back because he knows how great a catch he is and that getting women is easy. He knows he is the Prince.” “But the women...” “...are not significant! The focus must be on you! …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 08:42 PM
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Me too. I can't do it very often and even when I do, it's still somewhat superficial and doesn't stray much from my normal style (except that now I'm talking instead of saying nothing.) There are "hard barriers" that I can't break through with this technique - certain words and subjects are just completely taboo.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 06:17 PM
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If you break frame to accede to her demands, you're a swinging dick with no balls. Is that what she's looking for? Is a girl that looks for that really LTR material? It just doesn't work logistically from your perspective. You don't need to consider hers at all.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:32 PM
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One way to overcome the anxiety of social interaction is to simply tap into stream-of-consciousness and say everything. Some people find it easier than trying to restrict some things and winding up censoring everything and saying nothing. I find myself doing this occasionally when I am really pushing myself to socialize.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 04:17 PM
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Yes, also the style she has will not attract anything other than Bro types. Very "generic black girl".
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:45 PM
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You do have a slightly higher chance as a smart black woman. It helps if you don't listen to any "black" music, use "black" words and expressions, or hang out with "regular" black people. Of course it has nothing to do with skin color and everything to do with perceived status. I am not usually attracted to black women but I have found a few exceptions. Always cultural outliers. As a white guy, I get a fair amount of attention from minority girls. When I started working in retail during college …
/r/askTRP01/12/15 05:41 PM
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"Be yourself" is great advice, but it's also partially wrong because "yourself" can be changed. One effective way to change "yourself" is "fake it till you make it." Example: I do not feel comfortable touching or teasing women. Many years of extremely limited interactions (and feminist attacks on overt male sexuality) have made me this way. If I go out to a bar and hit on women, and express my current genuine self, I will make lots and lots of friends, because my current genuine self is an inact…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 07:27 PM
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I would like to see a good long dialogue between both sides on this. If one exists, I hope it can be pointed out here. I am willing to re-evaluate a lot of my assumptions as a leftist after accepting TRP principles, but I find that many of them still hold up, just with a different context. Attempting to "level the playing field" by changing gender relations through politics will lead you to rightist stances. The question is whether that should or even can be done. The womens' lib cat is out of b…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 09:01 PM
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"Think what you like, but act as others." If your "alpha" persona is the most important thing in the world to you, then by all means, cling to it to the end. The difference between alpha and beta is not a matter of being tough and not getting pushed around. Betas submit and hope to be rewarded. One strategy, never changing. Alphas go after what they want. If their strategy doesn't work, they choose another. If they find that the most effective way to gain resources is to submit temporarily, that…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 03:53 PM
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TRP smashed my shitty old worldview and put me in control of my life for the first time. My anger phase lasted a week or two. Now I'm excited about all the opportunities I have! But then, I am a bit older. Many of the people here are teens and twentysomething year old men who aren't getting laid. They're angry in general?! Shocking! People also say that atheists are too annoying and "in your face". This is because there are tons of new atheists exhibiting behavior that will cement them as part o…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 03:38 PM
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Thank you. I greatly appreciate your insight and time. I'll keep exploring to find my genuine self. I actually have no interests, aside from my niche music (and maybe philosophy, another lovely relateable gem). I'll describe it below in case you're interested, though I suspect my story is common and not tremendously useful to you. I had a very toxic worldview inherited from my parents. "You're so smart you'll succeed at whatever you do." Their interactions with the world were explicitly covert c…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 03:21 PM
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There are some similar things suggested in "The Charisma Myth". I'll schedule in some time in the morning to try your suggestion. I need to reclaim that time anyway and have some more discipline with it, so getting right up and doing this activity sounds like an excellent start to the day.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:53 PM
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Thanks for the kick in the ass. I am aware this behavior is bad. I'll simply have to get more exposure, it sounds like.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:12 PM
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I will keep trying to do this. I know that is the correct mindset to have, it's just very difficult to attain. More practice, I guess!
/r/askTRP24/11/15 10:12 PM
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I had considered something extreme like this: Try talking to some random chick without saying any words at all, or speaking only utter crazed nonsense. I really need to go and make an experiment of it. Sounds like fun!
/r/askTRP24/11/15 09:53 PM
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♂ Your analysis of me is 100% accurate, though I don't understand this: ...that stems from a fear of self-evaluation or self-introspection. I think I self evaluate. I just don't like what I find. But that will take a long time to fix. And I don't want it getting out in the meantime. I take away from this that I need to spend more time on new activities. I should also meditate more and often fix the idea of "having fun" in mind, instead of "improving social skills." Do you think my failure to enj…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 09:51 PM
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Video games are fucking toxic. It cannot be understated how bad they are. I tried multiple times over the years to kick them. I could never play a "reasonable" amount. I seem to have finally broken my addiction after discovering TRP. I don't completely understand what happened in my mindset, but I just have no desire for them anymore. I think maybe it's because I value my time more now. Possibly you are intelligent and feel unchallenged by the world. You lack the resources to explore it and feel…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:30 AM
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I also heard about TRP negatively. Not being averse to manipulating women, I checked it out briefly and was turned off by the harshness of it, the implication I perceived that you can never trust a woman. Came back again when angered by a girl, read the Book of Pook and got some perspective.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 09:25 PM
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Don't forget the status difference. An Asian girl is more likely to be from a wealthy family, in the US at least. You may not think you care about that as a male, but slumming is slumming.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:11 AM
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I don't suppose you have some suggestions for avenues to explore? Just a list would be nice as I'm coming from a deep deficit of social and practical knowledge. I enjoy almost any topic to a moderate degree, and tend to be fanatically interested in specific manifestations of a thing. For example, i listen to highly technical metal and other strange high energy music which i have a hard time finding in common with even my metal or hardcore friends (The highest SMV girl I've ever taken home by far…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:11 PM
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Shit, that's brilliant! Non-pussy and smart.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:17 AM
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This may be the best thing. Im already going to the gym and i need a Linux computer to do my work, and can't afford a laptop right now. So maybe I'll just explore the local bars and such when she's around.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:35 AM
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Headphones are fairly effective, used that a few times. It's just the sheer amount of time she's here. Also I'm really bad at socializing, and was hoping to use my roommates for practice, but i guess that's impossible like this.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:34 AM
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I don't recall in my entire life encountering anything as life changing as The Book of Pook. I listened to it on a drive up to NYC this weekend and was absolutely awestruck. I had 2 girls hanging off my arms on Friday, just on the strength of the mindset delivered by this book (didn't manage to pull, whoops. Didn't bother me at ALL, because I was in the right mindset.) It chased away the ghosts of depression and uncertainty. It is an inspiration. I want to do the things TRP is about, but no long…
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:32 AM
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Oh i agree. I've tried cold approach, it just causes lots of rejections. I guess i need more.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:30 PM
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I took out a girl from a class. We fooled around a little in the theater. We went to her place and fucked while watching anime. It was both of our first times, we were both 22. She was definitely looking to get fucked and I came at the right time. I broke up with her shortly after. I couldn't figure out why - she was cute - body could use some work, but ok. She was crazy in a great way, I liked the way she thought. But I couldn't give a shit about the relationship. I later realized that a couple…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:53 AM
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Any recommendation for location to do this, based on my circumstances? Just bars? Doesn't matter, maybe? I've done this sort of thing before and I'm not sure if more focus than that is needed. Of course, i didn't do 5 per day. Maybe quantity and consistency makes up for quality and discipline on the approach.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 06:53 PM
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Thank you for the advice. As both of you suggested, i quit video games a little while ago. I already have over a decade of that, there's more to life. They are clearly making a cognitive mess and eating all my time. Hobbies seem really boring in comparison to games, because that's how they're designed. I hope i can find something for that 10% of the day that is relaxing and productive. I was hoping i could work on social stuff in my "leisure" time, but if you think that wouldn't be effective may…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:40 PM
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Are you talking about lifting or am i missing a term? I do intend to press on in the gym.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:35 PM
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Hey, thanks. To answer your questions, I ask a fuckton of questions. That's practically the only thing out of my mouth. It turns into an interrogation. I don't know what sort of balance I'm looking for in terms of giving vs taking information. I'm also afraid of answering questions about myself because I'm ashamed of the answers. There are two modes of communication, fun and discourse. I'm really good at discourse and dogshit at fun (unless energized by others.) Although i ask questions, i often…
/r/askTRP28/10/15 04:32 PM
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