CypherMX Archive

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4	Lengthy list of advice for pretty much every aspect of dating Not sure you need to write that book, these are all obvious and none goes deep. You say stuff like "just be this just do that" when every thinking man knows that already, the issue is HOW exactly. What steps can any men go through like building an Ikea chair to end up with girls. That is something a book won't help anyone with bcs it's deeply personal and individual. Try coaching men 1 on 1 and you will quickly realize how difficult it can be to check even a single one of your bullet points. Lot…	/r/seduction	01/02/26 10:28 PM
4	Social circle game changed my life for the better This is pretty cool, but where is the juicy stuff? Like, how exactly are you gaming these models as a photographer? What works, what doesn't? What's your success rate? Are you dating or hooking up?	/r/seduction	27/07/24 05:07 PM
5	Self Improvement Won't Get You More Girls There's so many factors that go into getting more girls. The inner game is just one piece of the puzzle. What it all boils down to is masculinity. Develop a consistent masculine energy that never ever goes down, and you won't have problems with women ever. The only men who have problems with women are the ones lacking masculine energy, or they can only hold it for a short time. It's very hard these days to maintain your masculinity when the world itself is being designed to stamp it out. There a…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/24 01:28 PM
1	Could we all be less attractive than we think? The word "attraction" is misused. When you say you are attractive, you and I will understand that differently. I could think you look good, while you might mean that you are average looking but charming. There's so many things missed in translation. Good looking is not the same as attractive, also not the same as interesting or seductive. There are more variables at play. When most guys say they are attractive, they mean one of those, and you can't tell unless they elaborate. I think they mean g…	/r/seduction	27/07/24 12:08 PM
3	Why not just become a Passport Bro? It's not predatory at all. People and animals always migrate for better climates, resources, and life conditions. It's a smart move to go from a place of low resource to a place of high resource. These girls also want to fuck white guys just for the experience, not only for the money. Your opinion sounds like it comes from a place of jealousy, white knight-ism, simping, idealism, high moralism, or some other bullshit. Maybe look at your front yard first and realise how many guys in the West are …	/r/seduction	27/07/24 11:04 AM
3	Why so hard despite being attractive? Imagine the date is done, went well, and now there is this moment where you feel like you can push for closing the date with sex at your place. What do you think happens if you ask.. 1) Wanna come over to my place? :) 2) Hey, wanna meet my little pup that I told you about? He's really adorable :) See the difference? 1 almost sounds like "wanna come fuck at my place?" while 2 sounds natural and smooth. The pup is the attraction you have at home that gives her the plausible excuse to come over and…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 08:18 PM
3	Why so hard despite being attractive? This right here. Don't ask for sex, lead into sex. Every guy should have "the moves" that take you one step forward into sex. Imagine, what would you do if you had to say "I want to fuck your brains out" without saying it. Those are your moves. Get creative. Use your body, appearance, touch, look in your eyes, innuendos, subliminals, conversational skills, masculine energy, intelligence, wit, humor, etc. One last thing, plausible deniability. Prepare a list of attractions in your home to use as …	/r/seduction	26/07/24 05:30 PM
2	Why so hard despite being attractive? Ok but does he SMELL attractive?	/r/seduction	26/07/24 05:11 PM
3	For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and bad It's about the culture, not the numbers. smaller rural towns tend to have more down to earth people. You are more likely to find nice girls there that value the traits that are lost in the competition of a big bustling city. Smaller towns mean less freedom for girls to fuck around bcs the word would spread. Do you see the advantages now?	/r/seduction	26/07/24 04:42 PM
2	For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and bad Depends entirely on your location. America, for example, is going to be a shit show in major cities, but easier in smaller rural places. More expensive the city, more difficult the dating market. People need to wake up and realise we are living in an era of passport dating. You have to carefully analyse the place you want to go to find your mate. I mean, sure, there might be small tiny pockets of good dating space even in the bad locations, but it's going to be a hard find with limited options. …	/r/seduction	26/07/24 10:39 AM
11	For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and bad Oh you bet those single women still fuck around. It's probably the main reason why they're single.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 10:23 AM
25	Seduction is not for everybody You can either be short or skinny, NEVER both!	/r/seduction	23/07/24 10:29 AM
2	What's exactly charisma? Reading this thread I am even MORE confused about what charisma is then I was before lol	/r/seduction	12/07/24 06:56 PM
1	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? I get you, but at the end of the day, who are we kidding here. If a dude starts up a convo with an attractive girl, he wants her. We can mask it by talking with other people around to seem like that's just how we are, but the girl is always always the reason why we do it. Sex and money are the only things that make men go out and socialise with strangers on our own. Otherwise, we make friends through work, school, hobby groups, etc where we get bundled up together and eventually get to talking w…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 06:17 PM
1	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? That's being needy simp, not exactly creepy.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 06:08 PM
1	Escalating the conversation on dating apps - How I get laid without ever going on an actual date Its a bit too on the nose but not a bad cover funnel ad for tinder, you got potential 👍 keep hustling, G. Cheers.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 05:29 PM
1	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls Sure, there are some features girls like but just bcs you miss some doesn't mean it's over for you. Find your hot guy look. I bet your brother could give you some tips. Have you tried?	/r/seduction	08/07/24 09:28 AM
-7	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls So what's stopping you from dressing like a fuckboy, tat up and generally at least try to mimick some of what is making your bro hot? That's not the only hot guy look but just saying.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 07:22 PM
2	Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed. This mindset right here is your problem. Dude is right, do not put hot chicks on a pedestal. Find a way to put yourself on the pedestal and become the prize. It takes hard work and self improvement journey, but the end result will be worth it. And not just for sex life, much more then that.	/r/seduction	23/08/22 10:53 AM
1	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero You have too much money for not living much. At least travel to places, buy stuff, get on with hookers, live it up a little. You don't need friends or dates to do that much. It's better then doing nothing and slowly going crazy.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 11:21 PM
1	I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do? You go to the party, try to ignore this flaky girl of yours and just focus on having fun.	/r/seduction	29/08/21 04:35 PM
2	Lifting....Changed everything It's not that complicated. What you're doing sounds good, seems like you understand that processed food (packaged, long list of ingredients) and sugar is unhealthy. I would also say to stay away from dairy but some pple can tolerate it. For you I would say that really focus on that protein if you are lifting already. Track your calories with myfitnesspal.com, it will show you how much of what you need to eat to bulk up. When you figure this out then go and figure out lifting. With that the key i…	/r/seduction	10/08/21 06:59 AM
1	Lifting....Changed everything I just want to add that as a beginner you should first look into your diet and worry about the lifting later. You could have the best workout plan and still fail if your diet is bad. Do some research on the net for best diet for your body type. Don't rush this step, focus on doing the diet right first and then knock yourself out with lifting.	/r/seduction	09/08/21 09:12 PM
4	Blame Yourself, You are making it hard for yourself The really big thing from this post is this msg - stop being a consumer and start being a creator. Create content, value, make a difference in the world. This is arguably the most important step on journey of self improvement.	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/21 09:00 PM
2	Told I am too innocent? I think this girl is telling you that you are not attractive/masculine enough for her right now, but do come back in few years when you level up. The virginity thing wouldn't matter otherwise. Get rid of this girl immediately.	/r/seduction	30/07/21 12:49 PM
1	If you have a 4 to 5 inches length junk you are perfectly fine don't worry about it! It's not just that men have different shape and sizes of their junk, but women as well. Plus, vaginas have different sensitivities and sweet spots for pleasure. So don't really worry about your junk, instead focus on adapting to her body. And hey, if you find out that you are too small for her, or too big, then don't beat yourself over it and move on. Sexual compatibility is definitely a thing.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 09:42 AM
1	What “Just be yourself” actually means Your post was confusing to me. Here's what I mean.. Pple say "own it" when there is something you can't change that makes you insecure, like being very short for example. In this context it's not a flaw but rather a perceived disadvantage. You can only say to a guy like that to "own it" bcs there is no way to fix it. If he makes peace with being short then he can move forward with life and at least learn to wear it like an armor so it can never be used to hurt him. I hope you can understand now …	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:16 PM
2	What “Just be yourself” actually means Let's say a random kid has a bad trauma and becomes mute, he completely stops talking and adapts this into his personality. This kid obviously starts to struggle with other people. Kids don't want to play with him, adults don't want to deal with him. Nobody in their right mind would tell this kid to just be yourself and own his flaw, everyone would rightfully point out that he should get therapy and get over his trauma so that he can speak again. That was extreme example but I think my point sta…	/r/seduction	04/01/21 09:02 AM
1	If you’re online dating and the questions you ask are never met by questions in response, it's time to end the conversation. Texting women for the purpose of dating is different beast to your typical texting with mates and acquaintances. It doesn't work well imo trying to get to know her with texting. Texting should be done mostly for logistics of the actual irl date, where you actually get to know her. What's the point having great texting game but then failing on the actual face-to-face date? That's just time wasted.	/r/seduction	31/12/20 02:43 PM
1	Reminder to take any advice here with a grain of salt Because it's not about what you do but how you do it. That "how" contains things like your appereance, voice tonality, smell, non-verbal communication, etc. The vibe needs to be adjusted right to whatever you're doing or it won't work. Other big thing is context. If a girl has you labelled as a complete asshat already, then it is hard to come around from that. Social status is part of this in big way too. To sum up, vibe and context determine success of anything you attempt with women. Picture t…	/r/seduction	28/12/20 03:46 PM
1	Reminder to take any advice here with a grain of salt I doubt that most people actually even go out testing the stuff written on this sub. So nothing to worry about lol.	/r/seduction	28/12/20 03:21 PM
5	Tucker Max Wrote a Dating Book? It's Actually...Good! When it comes to Intelligence, it's not book smarts or high IQ that makes women attracted. Women perceive Intelligence as being successful, interesting and generally having your shit together.	/r/seduction	21/12/20 11:00 PM
10	When she says "let's just be friends" it's really over, isn't it? You mentioned "genuine desire" but imo she just wanted to hook up. Her initiating kissing on the 1st? date is a pretty good give away, as well as other strong iois you noticed. You didn't take her hint and so she now backed off. Learn from it, Ignore her and move on. Maybe she will txt you weeks or months down the line, if that happens by any chance then you should know not to mess around anymore and just go for it.	/r/askTRP	18/12/20 03:21 PM
2	Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men. Well I would say that even those good but un-masculine guys can find attractive girlfriends or wives even. The tricky part is actually having them stay and not branch swing to other dude when the good guy starts to show weaknesses (which is just a matter of time imo). Women can be damn brutal in that regard.	/r/seduction	17/12/20 06:37 PM
1	Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men. The leagues you mention, sounds like you mostly mean money league, or am I wrong? Better yet, what are the leagues?	/r/seduction	17/12/20 06:27 PM
1	Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men. Nice guys and incels have no chance. Good guys are lot better off, but also not there yet because there is still something missing to complete the potential. You alluded to that missing ingredient - raw masculinity. Physically and mentally masculine good guys are the most attractive to women. There are also bad boys and "fuckboys". These guys have strong masculinity but none the good guy traits or very little.	/r/seduction	17/12/20 06:20 PM
2	Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way? You are asking something that needs tailored answer for you, bcs there is a lot of things that might be getting you friend zoned. So my advice would be to go ask this questions to your guy friends who know you better. Also you can use these friend girls you accumulated as well, pick the best ones and ask them too bcs maybe they will have some insights.	/r/seduction	13/12/20 11:02 PM
6	Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too Seriously Looks are a factor but it's more complicated with women. I would say women have more varied preferences than men. These preferences also change with age and experience. You know, the so called "my type". Women invented this term basically. It's also a no brainer that younger girls mostly have more superficial "types", but later their "type" almost always evolves into more personality based traits. One thing to remember though is that even if a particular girl doesn't find you hot based on first …	/r/seduction	13/12/20 03:37 AM
1	How to get any girl you want, period. The thing about smiling is that it needs to be genuine and in order for it be genuine you need to actually feel like smilling. The other things you recommend as well. Without that positive energy and character you can't do it. You can try faking it of course, but people see through that, unless you have great acting skills lol. What I want to say is, if you don't naturaly feel good then you first have to figure that out before you can thrive and emulate Garry.	/r/seduction	12/12/20 02:24 AM
1	First Approach Today Is there something better then complimenting random piece of clothing for cold approach?	/r/seduction	10/12/20 09:35 AM
2	If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR IT Alternative version of this is preparing an extra date on top of the main date. This isn't "let's go to my place.." but rather a mini date thing close by you could do as an encore to the main date activity. Watch her reaction when you ask this, if she is all in then that's a green light to go for a kiss and maybe even more.	/r/seduction	06/12/20 06:54 PM
2	TRP vs natural alpha Can't say for sure since you didn't give us much detailed description apart from saying one looks good and the other doesn't but is an asshole basically. I can only guess that male 1 simply lacks frame and confidence while the other guy is a dark triad type.	/r/askTRP	04/12/20 03:36 PM
2	How much should you look into signs of cheating? If you are looking for a LTR, then you absolutely need to be a prize. It simply means being valuable, not the most special snowflake on Earth. Also, isn't it contradictory to say that you don't fear loosing her while stressing about her suspicious behaviour? I understand that what you are looking for is a covert way of finding out if the girl is cheating, but I don't think you are looking at the right place for that. RP community doesn't entertain questions like that bcs they go against RP funda…	/r/askTRP	04/12/20 03:16 PM
2	The 7 traights of masculinity and flirting If only we could flip a switch in our brains and assume these traits just like that. Reality is that there are genetic, environmental and parenting factors that mold you into a person. Some are lucky and naturaly grow the traits, and others not so much. Can the unlucky ones learn the traits by themselves? I can only hope so bcs I am one of them. Knowing is the start, now hard work on yourself has to follow. Fighting your fears, going outside your comfort zones, taking good care of your body and …	/r/seduction	03/12/20 10:38 PM
1	Where is the line between mysterious and boring? Actions speak louder then words. BUT beware that doings things out of your way to impress a girl leads to trouble as well. It becomes too much work eventually, and she will find out one way or other and bail. So the answer is, do interesting things because you want to for yourself. The girl will tag along for a ride.	/r/askTRP	01/12/20 09:55 AM
2	Lost my frame. How would you have handled this situation better? When you go the route of monogamous LTR, the girl needs to be properly vetted, tested and LTR "certified" so to speak. By reading TRP materials back and forth few times you would have internalized how to do that. I think when you cool down and look objectively at your now ex gf, you will probably realize there were some red flags about her that went over your head before. There was not much you could have done better IMO with that situation. You were too emotionaly invested in that girl to pull …	/r/askTRP	19/10/20 01:52 PM
7	Holding your frame /standing up against bigger guys. What would you do in this case? Inability to stand up to a bigger guy is not really a weakness. Literally anyone is going to back down from confrontation with significantly bigger foe. Those who wouldn't are crazy, over confident or stupid. These are real weaknesses that can get you killed in worst case scenarios. I am not saying that you shouldn't learn martial arts or get jacked, what I am saying is be smart above all. In your example, the mistake you did was letting your guard down. The guy appeared out of nowhere which fur…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/20 06:41 PM
3	Failed a shit test with a chick at gym. It will be mentaly difficult at first but the answer is "assume attraction". If you start treating every encounter with women seriously, your brain will be more alert to shit tests and body language. Reason you failed hers is simply bcs you did not expect her to throw one at you.	/r/askTRP	24/08/20 06:00 AM
21	Why do women exhibit promiscuous nature after experiencing trauma? Here's how I see it. Women under normal circumstances are very conscious about being perceived as sluts so they filter their behaviour. This is the anti-slut-defense and when women are hit by something traumatic/emotional it can weaken it considerably. Thus they are not suddenly changing into different person, the "slut" was always somewhere in there just kept on a tight leash or locked away entirely.	/r/askTRP	14/08/20 02:19 PM
15	"She/He's not yours, it's just your turn" real meaning I think there's a reason why the phrase is worded so harsh. It's meant to make you stop putting women/men on a pedestal and be more outcome independent and IDGAF.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/20 10:25 AM
5	How do you walk the line between caring/not caring? Getting attached and caring is not the problem. The problem is putting women at the center of your world. You just need more things going on in your life to keep you busy and have your attention. This is also one of the things that you shouldn't be faking bcs women always eventually find out if you really are a busy man or not.	/r/askTRP	07/08/20 07:04 AM
1	LTR wants to get married ... I do not Trust your gut. There's not lot much else to say. You could try soft next, see if she responds by fitting herself more into your frame. Either way it's time to put yourself out there again.	/r/askTRP	05/08/20 06:45 AM
3	Is she playing hard to get? Forget about her, but more importantly please read the side bar content because you have made some rookie mistakes. I think she could have been your plate right now had you done 2 or 3 things differently. But maybe it's for the best, she doesn't seem to be worth the while.	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 02:12 PM
18	How to deal with a girl who says "are you always this quiet ? " These types of questions are most likely all shit tests. Women just want to know that you being quiet doesn't mean that you are scared, timid, intimidated, etc. Response like "what do you want me to say?" is definitely more on the bad spectrum so for next time prepare a more confident and self-assured response. And if can't think of anything then even a simple "yes I am" should do the trick. I guess some people will recommend you to practice talking more, but I think if that is not really what y…	/r/askTRP	09/03/20 03:24 PM
2	Boyfriend watches virtual reality porn? Question n1, do you know if he is watching VR porn while in relationship with you? Maybe he didn't touch it since you are together? Question n2, is it ok if he was watching regular porn as opposed to VR porn? Question n3, do you have healthy sex life with your boyfriend or are there issues? These are some questions to ponder before talking to your boyfriend.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/20 10:22 PM
1	Do older men always have the advantage when it comes to getting women? The actual age is irrelevant, it's about success factor. It's just natural that older men are more successful in life - more money and their shit is better put together.	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 01:27 AM
1	Honest question for long time red pillers Afaik there is only one way how to stay detached - having a strong sense of purpose. If your purpose in life is your strongest passion, then all women become second fiddle. That being said, one of the most common purpose men find for themselves is to raise a family, this encompasses both BP and RP men. Even if this is the purpose you are gravitating towards then all the more reason to stay on strong RP grounds, otherwise the 9-10s will stop dating you. Just make sure that this is what the real y…	/r/askTRP	04/10/19 09:04 AM
1	Should you treat your SO as your equal I agree with the first part, not exactly with the second part. I don't think it's a deal-breaker if women have some masculine traits, like being more rational then emotional or being especially goal driven. However, on overall scale of things feminine traits should clearly outweigh masculine traits so that man's masculinity dominates.	/r/askTRP	27/09/19 10:57 AM
11	Intimidating characters, fights & how to deal with them? The strong frame concept won't always work, good example is the situation OP was in. 6'6 drugged guy won't give a shit about your strong frame. In fact, I don't think any 6'6 300 lbs guy will. These guys will challenge you anyway because their physical advantage gives them confidence to do so. He did the right thing by de-escalating the situation and walking away. In case there is no way to avoid the fight, I don't see any reason not to use a valid self defense weapon like pepper spray.	/r/askTRP	18/09/19 02:46 PM