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CypressSmallz/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:46 AM
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Start here: Guidebook for Marines https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005HRTG8S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_5xlxCbQBMNT27
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:50 PM
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475 so almost as much as you mom.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:13 PM
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Current or all time?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:20 PM
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Examples?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:19 PM
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Don’t start with gaming just do it to talk. Start by giving non sexual compliments like “hey I really like your bracelet where did you get it?” And then see where the conversation goes. You’ll eventually start to get comfortable approaching in a non sexual manner and with time you can start to make the encounter more and more sexual (assuming she is responding positively to your advances). If you have no game and you are trying to fuck every girl you’ll fail a lot and come off creepy. Just start…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:55 PM
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If he stops eating junk food and changes over to a Leto diet and dies. Then he already has to have serious health problems. The chances of this not helping him are close to .05%, so I’ll give him helpful advice since I doubt he has the resources to afford a licensed nutritionist.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:01 PM
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It’s pretty fucking simple humans at the same shit for thousands of years, meat, fruit and nuts. Won’t kill most people.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:54 PM
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Think of junk food like this: it only tastes good because biologically fats and sugars are difficult to find naturally in nature. Aka you either got lucky and found some fruit (healthy form of sugar) or you got lucky and killed an animal with a lot of fat (rare). Start thinking of your food as fuel. If you have to choose between Doritos and grilled salmon which one is better for you? No shit it’s the salmon. You need to retrain the way you look at everything you eat, stop thinking about “what ta…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:52 PM
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Yes I initiated it, however it was mostly by luck.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:38 AM
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She has had one with me, hence the discovery.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:37 AM
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Read it again dumbass
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:13 AM
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N count 5. Meets me. I tell her I need a first mate not a gf. Has a threesome with me. Now wants to be queen bee bc she discovered she loves dominating women and wants me to Fuck girl in front of her. She has a domination fetish but knows I’ll leave the second she touches a man how do I initiate threesomes efficiently?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:13 AM
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Not that type she literally around my 24/7. I’ve seen both types.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:09 AM
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No. Don’t develop a bad habit at your first job. A lot of guys think you have to try to fuck every girl you meet. This is a dumb ideology and shows you have no standards. Use them to your advantage. Game them to catch their interest; then go out with them in a group of friends to meet their friends and then go for their friends. Once the internship is over they’re fair game.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:52 AM
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Just be patient. Don’t push the boundary, she’ll break her boundaries every time bit by bit. Start with getting her to do little things like giving head, fingering etc. Eventually she’ll with lose control and jump on your dick or she’ll bend over and beg for it. REMEMBER she has to be the one who caves in, not you convincing her. That could turn rapey real quick.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 08:14 PM
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As long as you only play for a few hours here and there. It sounds like YOU think you might have a PROBLEM with it, so there for you probably DO have a problem with it. Everything in moderation.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:00 AM
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I don’t think this is entirely true. The girl I’m currently seeing is almost 95% dominant, but I broke her rather quickly. She’s still a dominant person but she is obedient to me. A better scale would be Obedient vs Disobedient
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:45 PM
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Because you’re fucking up the power structure of the group and they want to put you back into you place. People always remember you as how you were when you first met.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:27 PM
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Consciously probably not but when you’re a raging hormonal teenager you can bet that subconsciously she wants to reproduce. Wear a rubber and if you’re being a dumbass and not wearing one you better have one hell of a pull out game.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:45 PM
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It’s bc she wants you so deeply that she’d make a baby with you. And as a daddy you have to make rules and punish her when she’s bad so she’ll behave. It’s a submissive thing, you’re there to be firm and set boundaries and she wants to break them.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:44 PM
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You’re subconscious is replicating your parents relationship when your drunk. I had a similar problem, so I stopped drinking for a long time.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:40 PM
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Bc it’s you taking care of yourself physically. You know you look better, so you feel better, which directly results in a confidence boost. The tough part is taking care of yourself mentally, and treating yourself right within your own mind.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:38 PM
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That getting a therapist isn’t the end of the world.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:35 PM
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Stop looking for LTR cheat codes. Become an awesome and interesting person with a busy and abundant life. Maintain frame and you’ll start getting results. It’s a hard pill to swallow.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:34 PM
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Remember this, you have a rich inner world that you love, if you can love it so can other people, and if they don’t they’ll admire your passion. Have you ever mat someone who was insanely passionate about what they do? You probably didn’t even like what they did but their passion is what you remembered bc of how inspiring it was. Most people never find what they love or even enjoy doing during their lives. It sounds like you have so cherish it and wear it with confidence. Don’t worry if other pe…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:20 PM
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This is a self esteem issue combined with the nature men have to solve problems. Look at how you think when you’re alone. Instead of finding all of your problems and mistakes and fixing them (obviously if there’s a glaring issue solve it), instead, remind yourself of everything you accomplished that day and give yourself some compliments. How you talk to and treat yourself is ultimately how people will treat you.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:59 PM
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Read “Sex at dawn.” Like today.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 04:32 PM
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Whenever a girl shit tests me in a very direct, what-are-you-gonna-do-about-it kinda of way my response is always the same. I stop what ever I’m doing, I stare at them in the eyes with an I’m-not-Fucking-around look on my face, pause and calmly say “you don’t fucking talk to me like that.” And wait for them to submit. The shit tests stop for awhile after that.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:44 PM
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The biggest sex organ is the human mind. The size of your dick is not nearly as important as you think. Learn how to make girls squirt. They will be your slave afterwards. Read sex god method and learn about subconscious conditioning. They will learn to tie good feelings to you. I make all my girls look me in the eyes and tell me they love me as they’re cuming (after they’ve been around for awhile) they all keep coming back wether they have a bf or not. Non of these things have to do with dick s…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:43 PM
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Just remember this: men find solace in accomplishment. So go try a new work out, go read a new book, go find a new job, finish a project around the house, help a friend with something. Do things that you can control. This will keep your mind busy and stack up confidence in your abilities as a man. When you go out, you’re going to be needy. Some guys say it’s best to go approach, I don’t. If you decide not to go into monk mode and do end up at a bar, go talk to people with no intentions other the…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 07:04 PM
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Ok makes sense
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:13 PM
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Yeah she wasn’t in our group originally I invited her in and she got close with everyone
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:12 PM
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We were together for a year and she’s been hanging out with our friends for the past two weeks, getting people together to do things intentionally with out inviting me. (Doing this as a power play I’m sure). I’m just not sure exactly how to handle this, I’m doing my own thing with other friend groups and not trying to invite myself out with the friends she is hanging out with but I don’t want to look weak or like I’m avoiding conflict. Should I just keep distance and not contact her? Do ignore t…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:41 PM
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Don’t think of it as “getting over rejection”. Think of it as embracing rejection and understanding it’s a GOOD thing. It means your are the prize and she wasn’t ready/isn’t right for you.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 03:03 PM
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Pulled it from someone’s paraphrasing, I’ll look more into his work didn’t know it was his quote.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 04:44 PM
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Amen brother. I know I still have some dark shit to dig out and address. I know in due time I'll come to peace with these faults if mine and do my best to become a better man. One day at a time.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:41 AM
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Just finished it this week.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 01:18 AM
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Isn't this reacting to her though?
/r/askTRP15/09/17 02:58 PM
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Thank you for this, I have definitely been implementing covert contracts when I thought I wasn't. I'll change this in my future dealings.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:34 PM
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I'm starting to believe that allowing oneself to be vulnerable to someone means that there are no other strings attached. Just because you open up to someone doesn't mean they now have to act in a specific way. It just simply means you're allowing a deeper part of yourself to be exposed to them, which can further attraction. If you attach strings to this subconsciously, which I believe I have been doing, my mistrust is stemming from her inability to appease these new stipulations that haven't be…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:55 PM
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So would you say that it's me simply fightinh the emotional desire of oneitis? Logically I know what oneitis is, that I'll never marry and that they shouldn't be trusted. However, I'm talking about plates that haven been wonderful, they don't go out, they check in with me throughout the day, they cook, clean etc, promise exclusivity without needing it from me. Essentially all systems go. And then at this point it goes south. Is this possibly that I'm not confident enough to be vulnerable to some…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:48 PM
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Not trying to trust a plate. I'm saying that after 6-8 months when I see LTR possibilities I start to mistrust everything they do. I understand that never having an LTR is a viable option but as soon as the idea creeps in my head I start to indirectly sabotage the relationship. This isn't healthy and I'm trying to find the root cause of it. I'm simply thinking that I'm not comfortable being in vulnerable state yet.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:41 PM
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I'm seeing my ego hiding behind intellectual self-righteousness.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:37 PM
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Fuck you're right, I'm depending on them emotionally when things progress to this point, I have to remember that I'm responsible for my own happiness, that trust has to be given which incorporates vulnerability, and that eventually when AWALT happens smile and move along.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:36 PM
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I agree, I know intellectually what needs to be done but I'm still not doing the emotional side correctly can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:22 PM
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I agree that they should never be the primary focus in my life and mine never are, it's just that when I get emotionally close to any of them I start to mistrust them.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:28 AM
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This answer strikes a cord with me. Makes sense.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 03:34 AM
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Start by reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy". Before I read it I was my Alpha self about 30% of the time and the rest I wasn't. I thought I was but after reading this book I realized I wasn't stand up for myself in the right ways. This book will give you invaluable tools to get what you want emotionally. It's not some dumb new age bull shit, its practical and shows you why and how to be assertive. Read it immediately. It helped me more then most of the books that I've read. Secondly you need to learn…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 11:23 AM
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Stop thinking of what you can do to get them to fuck you and start thinking of how they can impress you to convince you that you should fuck them.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:37 PM
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She still wants your attention that's why she texted you. She also did it to maintain status. Think of her as a band aid that needed to get ripped off. She was useful for awhile but became toxic and needed to be removed. You're feeling that pain of her being torn from you but once that pain goes away, the experience of learning that she wasn't what you needed will be all that's left. Remember you make your own happiness, the idea that a woman will make you happy comes from your mothers love that…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:50 PM
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If I remember correctly Joe Rogan is a huge proponent of ketogains. I'll have to take a heavy look into it.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 01:18 PM
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Put women on the back burner of your mind. You need to become the best version of who you want to be. If you wanna be a pilot, start flight school. If you want to be an engineer apply to a university. If you don't know what you primary MISSION IN LIFE IS then you'll be lost. When you don't have a purpose you lack confidence and when you lack confidence women can smell this a mile away. If you DO know your life's purpose then make sure you are constantly making strives to be the best at it. Men a…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:52 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:27 AM
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Never reach someone until they're ready to learn.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 04:46 AM
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I feel like you have give enough back though, many times when I play the mysterious card I end up loosing interest, not all the time but lately.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 08:37 PM
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Literally the last place I was out was today. The example I'm thinking of was I went out with a group a friends on Saturday to a bar and the conversation was fairly dry so I tried to ask questions and eventually told a few stories but nothing seemed to be working. I was thoroughly enjoying myself but it didn't seem to spark anything so perhaps it was just a dead night or maybe I was off a little. I do agree that I need to play the mysterious card more instead of talking so much.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 08:34 PM
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Call him whatever you want but if it's not your dick, it's not your chick.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:47 PM
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I had a similar issue when I first started and a friend of mine reminded me that I was incredibly outcome dependent even though I thought I wasn't. Now I may get eaten alive for saying this but just talk to them for the sake of having a good conversation. Don't look at them and think how can I get them to suck my dick, that'll just make you nervous going in. Next time you see an attractive girl just go up to her and give her a simple compliment or ask her opinion about something and let the conv…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:41 PM
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Also the Rock.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 04:13 PM
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Talk to everyone. Work on developing good conversational skills by ENJOYING THE CONVERSATION. Remember age has nothing to do with it, it's all about the level of confidence that you emit. If you go into this emotionally invested in trying to hook up with a girl there, they'll sense it and be turned off. Instead go to have fun conversing with new people. This will cause them to open up and once they do implement the knowledge you've learn here.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:34 PM
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Essentially she's a plate that has been around for almost a year, I intend to keep her that way for awhile. If anything I'd say she's close to what a first mate would be but she hasn't jumped that barrier so I'm keeping her in plate status for the time being. Also she lives a few hours away and we haven't seen each other physically in a few weeks but she still hits me up everyday and is very much invested. With that being said, it feels like she's getting comfortable and my only concern is that …
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:35 PM
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There we go, that's the explanation I was looking for.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:38 PM
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It's at the point where she knows I'm seeing other girls. So just say fuck it and let her be frustrated?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:13 PM
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I do want to see her, we took a week off and she's a worthy investment. I know we'll have a blast and that she genuinely wants to see me, I just don't want lose any level or respect.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:20 AM
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A plate is an incorrect assessment she's more of a first mate.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:58 AM
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Roger that, I know we're going to be ok I just need to put her mind at ease.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 05:23 PM
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I wouldn't mind an open relationship but it's not a deal breaker for me. There's been some tension between us most like due to the fact that she's gotten closer to me then anybody she has before. I believe this is causing her to feel unsure and out of control which is new for her. More then anything I just her mind to be at ease, I want her to understand that she doesn't have to feel threatened by genuine intimacy. We both highly value our independence and I know she feels like hers is threatene…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:57 PM
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I definitely love this girl. I'm also aware that oneitis will kill some of her attraction towards me. We've talked about having and open relationship which is pretty much what we're doing even though nothing has been set in stone. I just feel that ever since it's gotten more serious it hasn't been as fun and it feels like there's a damper on us. I'm just doing my best at this point to hold frame even though I know something is on her mind.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:24 PM
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This was worded perfectly thanks. It was honestly working perfectly until people found out about it and now her friend tries to coax information out of me all the time. My dumbass gave her some but from now on fuck that I'll keep my intentions to my self. Holding that frame is the most important thing so that's what I'll focus on. I definitely need to go back to teasing more, I know that I've been lacking in that department with her so it's time to ramp it up.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 07:29 PM
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Thanks man I needed this.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 07:24 PM
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Cool I'll keep down this route. I know I've been getting soft on her so I'll have to spice it up and get her guessing again.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:44 PM
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I appreciate this. I'm not saying shes my perfect woman at all but I can definitely feel some oneitis creeping in and I can see that. What would you advise for keeping her around and attracted? I just feel like I've been losing ground when it comes to her attraction towards me.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:43 PM
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No I'm def still spinning but I've weakened my game significantly and I think this is where my concern might be stemming from.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:37 PM
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Ive been saying fuck it for awhile but she's definitely a high quality woman and is open to the idea of an open relationship so this is something I would like to pursue and experience.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:34 PM
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I want to keep her in my life, dating is eventually the mail but I'm not sure how to make this transition happen. She's been single for a long time and says she doesn't want to date but I hear from her friends that she does. I want her to commit first but it seems like we're in a stand off where the other person wants the other to commit first.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 05:28 PM
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