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| 2 | You CAN be emotionally intimate with your friends. Many just choose only limit is in relationships.I agree. Some of my friendships have more secure attachment and emotional intimacy that anyone I’ve dated in the last four years. No sex necessary. BUT. If I were attracted to these friends, the sex itself would change the dynamic of the relationship. It would bond us closer simply from the extra oxytocin. It sucks so much that sex does seem to open up something even deeper, but sometimes I feel like my sexless friendships are closer than a lot of couples who actively have sex (but don’t communi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Men’s sexual desire has been socially castratedMillennial here. We grew up with music where dudes were talking about cumming all over women’s faces. I guess “ahhh skeet skeet” is all over the oldies station now. :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenWe are hard wired to wish to reproduce with attractive looking people. There is always someone out there willing to put up with terrible treatment to shoot their load into a physically attractive girl. It doesn’t mean he wants to stay forever, tho when she’s done with him he is likely to lack any self esteem whatsoever. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.Bruh anyone of literally any gender can have sex at the drop of a hat. Go on Grindr And enjoy your privilege. 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 01:46 AM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Is it? I’ll take that fate! 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:35 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I think it goes both ways: I’ve seen a lot of both sexes with some (conventionally) physically unattractive partners. I’m sure they’re attracted to each other tho. My ex is with a very unconventional looking guy. 😅 you ever go out to the store and couple watch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winYooo where at? That’s crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:33 AM |
| 2 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenI think it’s American culture as a whole, irrespective of gender. We literally have a toxic male running for president. You can’t really believe only one gender in our culture is toxic, can you? It’s everyone:( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Social awkwardness and lack of fitness are the reason for lack of interest women have in men todayA bit confused as to why you’re blaming anyone at all. Individuals are a product of culture. In our culture we train our kids to sit all day every day…and then we publish day saying that it’s awfully unhealthy. I’m not an incel before I get attacked with an ad hominem. I’m lucky, however. Raised by boomers in the middle of bumfuck, where we played with each other. I kinda think poor people (well, trailer park “poor” which imo isn’t poor…I grew up that way and am thankful) right now may have bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?I think there’s some truth to that biblical “tree of knowledge” story. It is when we became aware that we could somewhat control our surroundings that we began societal ruin. And no matter how many times this were done over I think the “tree of knowledge” is so seductive to us that we will always eat from it. While we gain short term comfort from implementing technology (and yes, birth control is one, as is agriculture, esp modern ag with crop density insanely increased at the expense of soil de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:04 PM |
| 16 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Historically speaking, women probably had just as little desire as now. The difference? Arranged marriages and selling daughters and shit. Another example looking to something other than modern day humans is looking at mating seen in other mammals. The male dogs will be all over a bitch in heat and she (seems to be) trying to get away. I’d imagine it quite scary to have a shitload of males trying to fuck (anyone here, imagine yourself in than scenario, and I’m talking more to the dudes in here s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV - Women are more shallow than MenGeneral vibes I’m getting here: man writes post “women are more shallow <or some other negative trait> than men.” woman writes post that says the opposite Subjects writing these posts are often straight af. The kind of heterosexual that forgets about same sex attraction. The cold truth: your sexual orientation matters more than your sex for mating success. People who like males, which of course, are more likely to be female will have more success in catching someone for sex/dating than people wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 04:54 AM |
| 0 | I'm very new to all these pills but red pill seems very convincing. Can women in this sub refute the following claims ?I need to find the stats on this but not sure if I agree with this. By this statement do you mean “have engaged in” like once or twice? If a girl is rejected after sex is that sex casual? Reason I doubt the statement: the studies I’m reading (will link when not at work) say that gay men (m/m attractions only) have the most # partners, and lesbians (f/f attractions only) have the least, heterosexual people actually run somewhere in the middle. As in, ask a straight man or woman and he or she is l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?Hookups have always been a source of sadness for me. They mean nothing but “hey I am still a viable mate.” But when I think about it too much I’m reminded that the person I sleep with usually is just “meh she is okay, but…” and I can only assume the same for her. think it’s a coping mechanism for many people. Hookups have always stemmed from a lack of confidence for me. Someone constantly doing hookups seems like a constant “am I good enough to be loved?!?” It has been a 100% selfish act (for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are both players & Incels so vilified?Probably like how a moderate politician can vilify extreme leftists and right…ists (righties? Wtf is the analogous word to “leftist?”). In reality both extremes actually have something in common: they seem to view women as all the same. One is trying cold call marketing for YouTube views and the other guy thinks that rejection from 7 girls in a row means all girls will reject him. “Manlet” here, “short king,” whatever ya wanna call a 5’7 guy. I don’t agree with incels because being short is a di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 05:22 AM |
| 2 | What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022?Physical privilege. If that man is Steven hawking, not sure. Legislatively not really shit. Biologically I could name a list of reasons (applicable to western world as most disadvantages like the male immune system have been circumvented in some way). No periods, no pregnancy, physically stronger, physically larger (both of these contribute to higher pay, or at least, using logic, that height is correlated with higher pay and that males are generally taller than females, thus…higher $$$$). Deepe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?I mean young attractive young people in general are often looking for a fling, male or female. To play devils advocate, we are all pretty damn similar just given a different hand, one of those “cards” being the genetics of maximum physical appearance. Anyone in the top x% of their gender (or who has a large dating pool) has freedom of choice given the maximum number of shots. It’s like a college kid with rich parents who can fail out of college many times and it doesn’t matter because there are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you associate being single as a bad thing? Why or why not?Not really. Doesn’t really cross my mind when I’m talking to men or women in pretty much any location. Bottom line: I’m usually chatting people up to be friends and don’t give a fuck of their relationship status. Though women in particular must think I’m flirting a lot since they often bring their boyfriend/husband/etc up within the first 15 min of meeting them. At least, my lady friend tells me that’s what it means,. Edit: outcome is such a final word. If they’re like 70 something i don’t look … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Biologically speaking(maybe not philosophically) the entire meaning of life for men is to produce sperm and spread their genes through sex? Do you therefore think men are unfairly criticised in society for showing a strong interest in sex?Biologically speaking, we (all humans) are essentially de-conditioned since birth regarding biology. Holding our piss/shit in, taught to ignore our bodies when they’re in pain, taught to hide our pain, to avoid settling issues how other animals might (via fighting, sometimes resulting in death of another individual, depending on a lot of factors). The mothers of other social mammals randomly abandon and eat their babies (that’s demonized probably more than wanting to fuck, but all killing seems … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men are more right wing than women?Top comment thinks it’s about money, but I think it has to do with biology. Hear me out before I get mobbed: ever notice the biggest dooms day preppers are male? Right winged-ness (I’d say conservatism, but not sure if the definition is in the midst of changing) has a lot more to do with fear of things getting worse if xyz changes occur. Leftism looks at certain things that are not okay but does not consider the implications of changing said issues. Example: I imagine a lot of progressives in ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?I’m not gonna answer for anyone but myself: I do not want a “traditional woman.” I, like 95% of humans on the planet, don’t like traditional jobs, which is where most of us make $$$$$ at. I want my wife (and she wants this too) to be the bread winner so I can start my own small biznezzz. It’s a niche market focus and has a medical device part of it that I need to focus on grant writing for, among other things. I can only get so far in my home lab. Tldr: I do not want a traditional woman because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Women in a nutshellThe part about being in a relationship and still lonely: yes. I don’t know if just women are communal; I think both sexes are. I’m reading about how the literal city is built in the modern US. The way we separate areas is weird and unnatural. A commute (by car) to work generally decreases happiness, maybe because it makes us feel separate from the environment. Everything is too separated right now. We separate food and people. We separate basically everything from living areas (notice how your n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:39 PM |
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