DAMNYEBEL Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	just needing to vent		DAMNYEBEL	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/19 09:02 AM
2	a blog on my conundrum after divorce and my job		DAMNYEBEL	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/19 07:40 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I want to kill myself but I can't bring myself to do it. Dude give yourself a year. I was left with a 2 door honda civic and everything I could fit in it which wasn't much. She took both boys and was remarried In a month. No one will have the exact same experience as you but we all have close to what your goin through and everyone here lretty much says the same thing. It takes time to get over it and you will. The odds of her being the only one for you in this world are so vastly impossible you probably could hit the lottery many times in a row before…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/20 07:58 PM
1	Meeting women dude you have to get yourself right first. make it a point to interact with everyone on an equal plane. treat women like you treat men in a sense for now. dont think about dating just think about developing a friendship. and yeah get your fatass to the gym i think self confidence has a massive role in how you interact with others. and clearly if you think your fat then your confidence will suffer. i also believe when your at the point you want to try and date again, or even just talk to women in…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/19 01:02 AM
1	Need advice! hire someone to take her out. the justice system is completely fucked in this country when it comes to who should get what in a divorce. seems like all you need is a vagina and the world is your oyster, no matter how much of a useless piece of shit you are. speaking from experience of course. my ex is a jobless homeless cunt, but gets full custody. meanwhile im an electrical engineer and my wife now is a plant operator, preparing to get her mech engineer degree, we own a house and make over 200k…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/03/19 12:54 AM
1	Need a little help dude i get it. emotional ties are hard to break. but at least if you have some other form of sexual gratification it may help you make the break easier and quicker. thats all. i know its hard. i used to have fantasies about my ex but i also know theres a reason im not with her. and maybe not just sex but another possible relationship even if just for a short time to get your head somewhere else. just training your brain to another form of thinking could change it. just trying to help	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/19 04:00 AM
2	Need a little help you ever think that maybe getting another woman to uncross her legs will help? sometimes all those feelings of good sex with your ex can definitely be squashed by some good sex with a new woman, or a few. you have to treat love like a chemical sometimes, the dopamine dump you get from your naked ex can possibly be gotten from a new woman	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/19 03:01 AM
3	Hang in there, Fam. The future is brighter. dude thats exactly it. its about finding yourself again	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/19 07:50 AM
1	just needing to vent dude this makes me definitely feel a little better thank you. she wont let them fly down until my youngest is at least 6. ive told her i would drive up. get myself and them tickets and fly all 3 of us down together and apparently she has been bringing my oldest to psychiatrist that says he isnt emotionally ready to come down on his own. she has him on Ritalin (at fucking 5) and going to a doctor. when i spend time with him i just see a 5 year old boy. i know my sons. and i know my ex. its just a…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/19 05:47 AM
2	just needing to vent i also want to say that i do need to provide for myself as well as make sure they have the child support. ive never been late and used to pay 2 months in advance but because of the way she acts i just pay on time. i have to be financially responsible and i just cant afford the 5k for lawyers fees just to lose out. i dont want to seem like im copping out but making sure they are taken care of is my primary goal, especially when everything else is against me. and if we do go to court i want it on …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/19 10:56 PM
2	just needing to vent hey guys. i had spoken to 3 lawyers that all said the same but the one im with now has the most info to help me out of all of them so i stuck with him. he showed me the general law which says i must see my children a minimum of twice a month for a year before i can make any move towards getting custody... and just to clarify the 1.5 hours a day isnt my choice. its a constant fight. ill give her a two months in advance heads up that im coming and then every week for the 3 weeks leading up i tell …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/19 10:54 PM