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DANdruff4MEN/r/seduction27/06/14 03:02 PM
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1

Agree and amplify. "I stopped counting after 20"
/r/seduction05/10/15 01:11 AM
0

I'm inclined to take the advice from an older experienced guy who has been through some shit. How old are you? That will tell me a lot about how worthy your opinion is in this thread.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:31 AM
2

You're just upset that your friend is taking away your permission to become and act like a guy capable of having success. RSD Tyler breaks down the whole dynamic of what you're going through in this video very well: ** Curing The "Menvy" Disease - Male On Male Envy, Jealousy & Learned Helplessness (+infield)
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:13 AM
6

Solid, right, unimpeachable. Keep them coming man you are doing a huge service to the community.
/r/seduction20/08/15 09:40 PM
2

How many girls have you approached in the past two years?
/r/seduction20/08/15 07:36 PM
3

Makes a lot of sense. Thanks for taking the time to reply and mad props on all the work you've put in
/r/seduction20/08/15 03:06 AM
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Looking forward to Part 2. Quick question: "I had nothing going on in my life besides crossfit and occasional music festivals. Seriously if it wasnt for this two hobbies I might be lost and given up hope." What would you say you have going on in your life now?
/r/seduction20/08/15 01:26 AM
5

Guarantee that you two don't bang. At the most you will kiss her cheek as she turns away when you go for one on her lips. It's obvious (because I've experienced this) that she is trying to be "chill" and give you the heads up that she is not interested in your dick Girls are very inept in boxing guys in to the "friends but no benefits" category and you're definitely right in there. How do I know? Because you offered to take her to dinner on a friday night. Rookie mistake, keep it simple with the…
/r/seduction13/07/15 02:42 AM
1

Hit me up if you have any questions or hit any sticking points with day game. I can help out beginners and intermediates but in no way do I consider myself advanced. I've just done this more than 99% of guys which ain't saying whole lot.
/r/seduction03/07/15 10:52 PM
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DO a 30 day challenge brother. I've done it a couple times (both day and night game). For day game, start out small. Just manage to do one approach a day (usually direct is better, man the fuck up and do it, be a real man). Ideally, get a solid direct/slightly indirect opener down so you can have that in your back-pocket. That will take a lot of the "pressure" off you to have to come up with something witty/awesome. In day game, having a decent opener can help but it's going to come down more to…
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:46 PM
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Relevant: 'This is EXHIBIT-A arrogance of guys who think they have it in the bag because they have outside attributes they assume other people will go along with the whole “I AM the shit” aka James Bond syndrome. Tall? Check. Handsome? Check. A romancer? Check. So whhhyyyyy isn’t this girl falling for me yet??? Because it’s all an act. It’s the same act she’s seen since she was 15. Over and over and over. And the moment he faces adversity (and not only this guy in particular, several others have…
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:16 AM
1

Yep this has happened to me too. Basically, you've improved your skills and gotten confident but in the process you are throwing out fundamental game principles because you have psuedo-abundance and think that the rules of the game don't apply to you. This has happened to me a few times when I was in a period of sarging heavily and on the cusp of seeing significant results. Patterns, I've noticed: You stop caring so much about what the girl thinks You care less about texting intervals and textin…
/r/seduction04/02/15 09:47 PM
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Doing 50 approaches over a span of 6 months is about one approach every 3 days. Simply put, you're not learning fast enough. Go do 50 approaches in 2 weeks. Try to do some kind of 30 Day Daygame Challenge. I did one this summer and did easily 100 daygame approaches over the course of a month (working full time).
/r/seduction19/01/15 01:31 PM
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PM me as well please. Thanks so much Ben for doing this.
/r/seduction13/01/15 12:32 AM
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My definition of Day 2s in this context is when you meet for the first date. So, during my pick-up I open the girl, make plans in set and then get her number. The day 2 will actually be when we meet up to have the drinks. On a side-note, don't use the date word in set or with the girl. Younger girls seem to be put off by it as it seems too formal and a bit clingy and provider-ish. It's much better to use "hang-out", meeting up, grabbing drinks, going on a little adventure, etc. You get the idea.…
/r/seduction31/12/14 02:04 PM
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Good shit. I usually go to 2-3 different venues with the girl so I'll pay for the first one. As the bill is being paid, I might suggest she grab the next round at the 2nd spot around the corner but I say it in a no-big-deal kind of way if she is offering to pay. "Hey it's all good. Here, you know what, just buy the next round when we go to this next spot. Whatever." Initially I was all about paying and being a proper gentleman. But this shit gets expensive and honestly, I don't want to seem like…
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:17 AM
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I hear what you're saying. If you have a system that works and it's getting you laid then keep doing what you're doing. At the same time, little tweaks here and there (even if they don't work out) are part of the process of optimizing your "skill-set" with this. I used to be a nervous nelly before dates. I would have a few shots of alcohol. I would get butterflies (still do if she is that hot) and it would come out in my mannerisms. What helped is enveloping this mindset that I'm a sexual confid…
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:07 AM
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Thank you for taking the time and providing your field-experience. You're a good dude and congrats on the come-up. One piece of advice that I've used from setting up Day 2s from PUA via DayGame: Don't ever, ever, ever compliment a girl's looks. Not at the start, not after you've been talking or texting. This is a tempting and safe fallback to try to prevent conversations from slipping into friendly banter, but just don't do it. I won't try to understand the psychology behind why this doesn't wor…
/r/seduction30/12/14 05:37 AM
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That's fine. Overall you did a good job driving the discussion and if you want to keep it that way try to reflect on if the honey and sweetheart were effective at that point. Thanks for bringing this up and I enjoyed reading your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 01:54 AM
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Seems like you're just trying to pick a fight where this is none bro. Reading the comment chain it seems like you deviated from the civil discussion and it may be because you were getting counter-argued pretty well. You were doing good up until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 01:21 AM
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Thanks for ignoring the roles of r/seduction and instead posting here seeking advice for a particular situation with 1 girl r/sarcasm
/r/seduction29/11/14 03:16 PM
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no, fuck you
/r/seduction27/11/14 08:05 PM
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Classic and should be mandatory reading: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/23/what-is-anti-game/ Anti-game is trivial: get misty-eyed at emotional shit – bore her with details – constantly let her re-frame – buy her drinks [Ed: Outside of a date context.] – compliment her gratuitously – talk about your hobbies with oblivious enthusiasm – never ask her a question – never look away – let her see your shit-eating smile – accede to her manipulative horseshit – never, ever say “horseshit” in con…
/r/seduction02/09/14 07:46 AM
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Here is where you fucked up: "...a friend whose real tight with everyone, he invites me to a party...I didn't text back that day because I honestly wasn't up for it at all... Like, why did you do that? You don't come across as a guy with a solid social circle and here you blow off one of the best people you have in your life right now in terms of social circles "....at first I didn't wanna pay up ($5) since I'm really cheap and all." That right there tells me everything I need to know. You remin…
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:54 AM
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But he still gets laid more than you...
/r/seduction04/08/14 03:48 PM
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This is going to end well...
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:13 PM
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Being a normal cool guy
/r/seduction25/07/14 11:55 AM
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Upvoted everything you said in this thread. Glad to see you applying this to your game and spreading it to others. Wishing you much success.
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:53 AM
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You sound like you should read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" first bro and then assess whether your strategy is a good one.
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:02 PM
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Look massive props. As someone who has completely revamped his physique, style and attitude towards PUA, I still think you should plow through and get to the other side. Why are you afraid of your new style? Why are you afraid of changing your attitude a bit? Are you afraid of success? Is that fear holding your back. Go to GoodLookingLoser.com
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:46 PM
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Then man up and get to the other side man. Seriously, it seems like you half-assed each of those endeavors. You got "fed" up and went back to your old style You barely did SS (did you get to advanced in any lifts??) and aren't working to get back there You have no structure for how the PU should go down. I don't want to kick a good man down but you got some work to do. You're quasi-committed and in the twilight zone of self-improvement. Give yourself 90 fucking days and get to the other side. St…
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:22 AM
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Thanks for updating. In terms of style I meant your physical style. What's your dress like. I actually recommend you go to goodlookingloser.com and check out the posts on style and having "a look." The fact that you think you're OK tells me that you'd benefit a lot from a weight-lifting program. Head over to r/fitness for a bit or let me know what your goals are. I can link you to a suitable program. There is no excuse to not work towards better physical improvement. I can verify that the differ…
/r/seduction21/07/14 01:16 AM
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Read Posts by u/laserf0cus. All of it. Streetpickup.net. All of it. How To Get Laid in NYC by Paul Janka Also, be honest with yourself. What's your style like? Do you have some kind of edge or is it bland? How about your physique? Are you maximizing your looks or just schlepping it on the treadmill. Provide a structure of your approaches. Or are you just winging it.
/r/seduction20/07/14 11:50 PM
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So what is the solution to this? Not calling you out just legit curious. I'm working through this as well. It's difficult to turn off as you get addicted to the validation of holding the group's attention and making them laugh. But it does not equate to getting laid.
/r/seduction20/07/14 09:34 PM
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"Hm not often, to be honest I was nervous as hell when I came up. But, you seemed like a cute girl, and I was in an adventurous mood so it was worth the risk." "Are you an adventurous girl?" That's all man. You own up to your intent and aren't Agreeing+Amplifying (Overgaming). If she affirms that she is adventurous then take that as a signal that she is possibly DTF. Also, it's totally OK to admit you're nervous during the initial PU or to recall the fact when you meet for a Day 2. Girls find it…
/r/seduction20/07/14 09:29 PM
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Solid write-up. One point you missed that might have helped u/nycprowl is to be non-judgmental. Differentiate yourself from the other guys by having a care-free attitude on hooking-up and make it seem like you're somewhat raunchy from the start. This comment might help explain what I'm trying to say better than I can: http://yareallyarchive.com/2012/3/#comment-heartiste-319490 Edit: I don't mean to say that being non-judgmental is the magic wand as you have to bring other cards to the table but …
/r/seduction08/07/14 12:24 PM
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Good looks!
/r/seduction08/07/14 12:57 AM
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Props man. I've been doing it 6-7 days a week since June 1 and plan on continuing it into the fall. Do you ever have days where no set hooks or nothing sticks? I had one of those a couple weeks back that I attribute to being on 2 hours of sleep so it was bad energy all around.
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:54 PM
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One thing I've learned is that you're not going to click with every girl in terms of kissing. Some girls have the same kissing style as you and will believe that you're a good kisser. Some girls will be inexperienced and not good kissers (too timid, or too much tongue) and will label you a bad kisser because they are projecting. Some girls will be too aggressive and use too much tongue and will clearly be bad kissers. The message here is to not get too wrapped up in their opinions because overal…
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:12 PM
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You honestly have to go out and approach/put your self out there so much where you don't have the time, energy, mental capacity to even think about what others are thinking about you. 30 Day Challenges (look it up) are good for this. The answer to your question is that you have to grit and go through the field forcing you to develop a thick-skin and hardened identity. Hopefully this helps.
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:02 PM
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No I'm good. That's 10 more day 2s than you've been on... Mental masturbator
/r/seduction05/07/14 05:26 PM
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You sound like a girl. Please try this stuff out on 20 and report back here or else please don't give advice until you have the experience
/r/seduction05/07/14 05:03 PM
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The crux of the problem is that you're not escalating and hoping for it to happen at the end of the date. I bet you're satisfied with the awkward kiss on the cheek before they walk into your apt and justify in their minds how they "weren't feeling it" with you. Stop playing it safe. Go out there and get a real mans rejection for laying it too forward. At least they will respect you for having a cock. None of this gentlemanshit bro. Are you tired of this shitty feeling right now? How about each o…
/r/seduction05/07/14 03:23 PM
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Sorry bro but that was the greatest mental masturbatory rant I have ever heard in my life.
/r/seduction04/07/14 12:02 PM
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Hit the gym you weak fag-let Seriously head over to r/fitness and get on a weight-lifting routine (preferably with core lifts) You have little to nothing to be proud of yourself right now and it shows. Choose the one thing you can actively improve at.
/r/seduction03/07/14 04:17 AM
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Working on it. So far it seems like I'm escalating too fast and dropping the ball with comfort.
/r/seduction27/06/14 08:41 PM
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That's a bad mind-state for you to get in, when you're asking those kinds of questions.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:33 PM
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All you need is one really hot girl to go on a Day 2 to change your mindset : ) Or the cute Russian kissing you in Times Sq even though you just met 15 minutes ago. Or the cute 18yo going on an instadate on a Wednesday night after you just got out of the office at 10pm. It makes it all worth it bro. Get those mini successes first.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:10 PM
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I've had girls respond back immediately and not show up to the date. I've had girls not respond to the first text and still show up to the date. A lot of depends on the vibe in the interaction and how solid the set went. Keep it simple. I'll actually text something like "Hey there Rebecca, it's dandruff4men. Tues drinks @ 9p." either right after the set ends or during so she is saving my number. On the day of: "Hey cute girl, drinks with cute guy tonite at 9p. Let's meet on the corner of XX and …
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:49 PM
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I never use the word date at all. Don't use the word date as it can give off too much of a "bf" vibe to girls. It's a bit too formal and it's not needed. I instead just make it seem casual like we are going to grab drinks. You don't have to explicitly say that it's a date because given the context and your flirty vibe, the girl will know EXACTLY what the situation is. She will show up in a cute outfit and with make-up on to the place you recommend and it will be on. But make sure you lay the fou…
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:42 PM
1

Yes, this ^^^ Although it helps to have the right opener that enables walking alongside to be normal.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:03 AM
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You sound like a bitch, work on that
/r/seduction23/06/14 01:57 AM
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Exactly man. I understand it's not good to rely on your looks for your core confidence as they eventually fadeaway....but damn. Go to any PUA meetup and you see 80% of dudes who don't even pass the "smell" test in terms of coming across as a guy who has got his shit together. And in terms of lifting, why would you not do that. Straight up. The psychological benefits and the increase in "respect" and better body language you get (not to mention having wider shoulders) is enough reason alone.
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:30 PM
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Real-talk. Getting kind of old seeing sedditors bitch about the "good-looking" part. 95% of readers in this sub could /should maximize their looks but are too sloppy to do so. That's the one fix that every man can do on his own and will boost his self-confidence and initial receptiveness of women...which will also boost his self-confidence as he realizes he is "enough" and doesn't have to be "Mr. Dancing/Funny PUA Man" Don't ask why the competition can't be worse, ask why you can't be better. Re…
/r/seduction20/06/14 01:42 PM
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I almost never do "street game" or daygame in general... Then please don't give advice bro. On today's episode of unqualified people offering advice, a construction worker from New Jersey will go to NASA and tell scientists how to improve their space program
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:36 PM
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First of all, props playa. Going to be quick but here is the number 1 thing I want you to change up with your daygame that will solidify leads. STOP GETTING THE NUMBER AND VIEWING THAT AS THE GOAL Now do this: START SETTING UP PLANS/MEET-UP IN THE SET AND USE THE NUMBER AS A MEANS TOWARDS THE GOAL. Straight-up. I read this tip from an avid daygamer in NYC who confirmed how his flake ratio went down when he set plans first and then got the number as a means to make the plans happen. His username …
/r/seduction07/06/14 05:24 PM
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Hey man serious question. When you open girls, do you walk alongside them or do you come to a dead stop. Do you make eye contact upon your approach or does the direction your project your voice indicate you're opening them? Curious because I'm starting to see some success when I just walk and lessen the eye contact when approaching and walking with them.
/r/seduction05/06/14 01:35 AM
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It's called don't be fat
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:38 PM
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Filed under: Cool story bro
/r/seduction29/05/14 04:12 PM
2

A note can be used as evidence. Seriously think about that
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:39 PM
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I would focus on minimizing your risks right now. That means don't discuss this with co-workers, think about the potential fall-out that might occur, even consult with a lawyer. I've seen cases like this go south and a lot of it was due to bad game post-lay and by the guy saying things that didn't put himself in a good position with the law. Example, by asking her "What was wrong" and not getting a response, how do you think that would look? As opposed to you getting breakfast together, you aski…
/r/seduction05/05/14 11:20 PM
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Annnd Another "If you DO get the lay quickly and bust through that LMR and all that shit, spend some time after sex cuddling with her, let her stay the night and grab breakfast with her in the morning, etc. Basically do your Comfort building AFTER the bang…VS kicking her out at 4am or playing “aloof” and calling her a cab as soon as you wake up etc. If you skip Comfort, she can feel slutty because she slept with you without you even knowing eachother well, and she can end up with Buyer’s Remorse…
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:59 PM
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And Another "You made her feel like a slut. She’s worried you’re judging her so she’s rewriting history in her head which can be very dangerous for you. False rape accusations are generally the result of the guy not diffusing Buyer’s Remorse before, during, and after the fact. Going by your description (her cool with the lead up, her cool with the immediate aftemath, then her 180′ing) I’d pin-point it down to you didn’t txt her something sweet/friendly/funny after fucking, made sure she got home…
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:52 PM
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Relevant Comment “The popular game forums focus more on attraction than on comfort building” "If you escalate fast enough, you have to do comfort/rapport afterward to avoid ASD issues triggering regret and Buyer’s Remorse. Like the girl from the other day I escalated with super fast to sex, but after we banged I told her “Let’s cuddle” and we chilled together and got to know eachother and shot the shit for about an hour and she shared a bunch of deep comfort connection stuff about herself with m…
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:49 PM
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Please stop commenting on these matters until you have some experience
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:48 PM
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I don't see how something along the lines of 'I'm sorry if I've done anything that may have made you upset' could be twisted into evidence of rape. are you retarded. Honestly a little upset with you that you'd give OP terrible advice like that. Both from a legal and moral standpoint. You are setting him up in a bad way by encouraging this. Please share the benefits of writing some kind of sorry note. Let us know how you think a court of law would view that.
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:47 PM
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Randian you come off as someone that I wouldn't like to grab a beer with
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:16 PM
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If you're hung up on the comparisons then you missed the point of what was being said. Go out more and report back here when it starts to make sense.
/r/seduction25/04/14 07:00 PM
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Just a rant on hotness and internal mindsets since the subject is up for discussion: A 5-6 wants a guy who treats her like shit because she doesn’t believe she deserves to feel good. A 7-8 wants a guy who treats other lesser girls like they’re shit because she’s secretly insecure deep down and needs reinforcement that she’s better than other girls so she gets off on a guy who will call a fat girl a fatty. But a 9-10 wants the guy who makes a random 4 feel like a 10, just because he spreads value…
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:40 PM
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Fuck you HappyJerk
/r/seduction23/04/14 05:38 PM
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Then post some new stuff then, ya jackass
/r/seduction20/03/14 08:44 PM
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Your lack of real-world calibration and understanding betrays you.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:31 PM
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This will damage your social proof man. The game is to be sold not told. Hopefully you have other interesting stuff in your life than to out yourself like this.
/r/seduction05/03/14 05:21 PM
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So what do you suggest for those damaged by fuckups? It's a tough balance because you aren't being 100% true if you're withholding yet by disclosing you're doing yourself a bit of a disservice.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:55 AM
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You might be confusing displaying vulnerability with conveying your insecurities. I'm not knocking you as you bring up a great point; it's not a good look to be that guy who oozes his insecurities. Vulnerability is a bit different though and tough to genuinely pull off. I'm pasting the break down of vulnerability from "Models" so you understand where I'm coming from: When most men hear the word “vulnerability,” their immediate reaction is to associate it with weakness. In general, men are raised…
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:32 AM
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Gothamseddit is the place to be... http://www.reddit.com/r/GothamSeddit/comments/1y9drc/intermediateadvanced_challenge/
/r/seduction26/02/14 05:55 PM
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Start with not being a social retard and go from there
/r/seduction16/01/14 04:52 AM
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Are you really that socially retarded where you felt the need to come out and make this point? Did the OPs post really go over your head that much or were you trying to garner validation in the form of upvotes? (<===Rhetorical) If you can't see the message of this post for what it is then you got some serious work to do outside of seduction bro.
/r/seduction16/01/14 04:18 AM
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Solid, thanks man.
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:11 PM
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Tony D, How did you get better at escalating? I noticed in your book that was integral to your success. Curious as to what epiphanies you may have head in that area.
/r/seduction14/01/14 08:27 PM
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Here is the order of preference for dispensing PUA advice Guy who has done significant amount of approaches (300+) Girl who has done significant amount of approaches (300+) Guy who hasn't done significant amount of approaches Girl who hasn't done significant amount of approaches It seems like Seddit, in order to become more socially acceptable, has made it a mission to pander to women and get their approval. I see no reason why being a woman automatically means you have a place here. Edit: For s…
/r/seduction14/01/14 06:28 PM
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He goes by the name Craig. In part 2 he is the guy who actually wins.
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:38 AM
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He is the one that eventually one and who Styles referred to as "Grimble" in the book.
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:18 AM
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Part 1 - Youtube Part 2 - Youtube
/r/seduction12/01/14 12:40 AM
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Try it 10 more times and then report back here.
/r/seduction10/01/14 09:42 PM
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EDIT: I am deleting my comments from the argument with u/xxruruxx as it takes away from OP's message.
/r/seduction10/01/14 06:50 PM
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100% agreed. What I posted could be supplemental to what you wrote in your blog post but is a slightly different concept. Makes sense and thanks for clarifying. The ability to steer the convo for everyone's benefit is different than avoiding the 7 stale questions. Good stuff and looking forward to your book on Charisma. You and Ben are doing God's work.
/r/seduction10/01/14 05:21 PM
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Follow up Comment from YaReally When you’re advanced, you can ask these questions and it goes over well…why? Because when you’re new and ask them, you’re seeking rapport, you’re looking for commonalities and evidence that you should be together and she should let you have sex with her. When you’re advanced and ask the same questions, you’re qualifying her…you’re asking those questions to possibly disqualify her from getting to have sex with you. For a fun experiment, try this: Take the 7 things …
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:45 PM
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Charlie, solid post as always and thank you for sharing here. I am copying/pasting this I found from another game-blog and it relates to what you said but with a more PUA-angle. Why Ask Why? Shun The Stale Seven Questions Here’s a little trick for beginners to improve their rapport skills with women: don’t ask them questions. Specifically, don’t ask them the following anticipated questions: What’s your name? What do you do? Where do you live? Where are you from? What school did you go to? Where …
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:44 PM
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"Yes, is it working" (Smirk)
/r/seduction30/12/13 06:53 PM
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^^^ Female solipsism at it's finest, people.
/r/seduction24/12/13 04:05 PM
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Try it 10 times, mental masturbator. And then report back with your findings
/r/seduction19/12/13 09:44 PM
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Dude how can you not get laid when you have $60k in savings, $70k a year as an engineer, your own pad and are classically good-looking>? Oh right, because none of that fucking matters. Stop wrapping your identity in what you were in college and what you are now. Your attitude, lack of game and belief that you are entitled to girls because you have superficial qualities is something you need to obliterate and rebuild.
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:11 PM
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You don't have to fight man. There are other ways of lowering his value IF you have no other option left. Read my comment below. Your perception of AMOG'ging another guy is not jibing with what OP took the time to explain to you. What's with that by the way? Here we have an OP who goes out of his way to provide field-tested advice and you shit on it...without even trying it... MENTAL MASTURBATOR
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:28 AM
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It is good to AMOG. I agree with OP, it is better not to and be that high-value social guy that spreads good vibes (Props to Ben and Charlie of Kick-Ass Academy for living that mantra), but sometimes you have to. I think your perception of AMOG'ging is different. Here, let me copy/paste some subtle amogging for ya because if you aren't dealing with AMOGs when you sarge, then your sets/HBs that you're gaming are not that hot, straight up: The Art of the Subtle Amog - Credit to YaReally Now when m…
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:24 AM
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But he is fucking your ex so who is the one achieving that goal? (rhetorical)
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:06 AM
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Honestly, I don't like using amog moves - in general my style of nightgame is high, positive energy all around. If a guy in a mixed set feels threatened or is threatening, I generally diffuse it by being EXTRA social and kind - kill him with kindness sort of stuff. Broseph, did you not read OPs opening comment? "Honestly, I don't like using amog moves - in general my style of nightgame is high, positive energy all around. If a guy in a mixed set feels threatened or is threatening, I generally di…
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:06 AM
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Thank you for explaining your position. I agree with you more than I thought as my strategy has been to put on a good impression for friends and family. Lately, I've realized that it isn't crucial when it comes to keeping your girl attracted to you. It does have a lot of benefits (ex: new network of people) that could pay off down the road. Surely, her successful Dad isn't going to hook you up with a job or job interview if he despises you.
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:01 PM
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My problem with OP's post is that it seems like the strategy is to win the friends over by being supplicating always be nice to your girlfriend in front of her friends Really? What if she is being an asshole? bring flowers Nah, use that stuff sparingly or it loses it's effect. Bring flowers when it's warranted. show affection Nah, not if it's supplicating. Actually, I'd rather be aloof/stoic and sprinkle in some affection from time to time than be smothering with my loving behavior. Which do you…
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:56 PM
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I've seen instances where a girl breaks up with or stays with a guy almost solely based on her friends influence. You really can't understate how important it is to have her friends really like you. I would not want to be with a girl who is only with me because of her friends opinion. I have been with girls whose friends hated me and what did that do? It only pushed her more towards me and increased her attraction. You would be surprised at the mental gymnastics a girl will do in order to stay w…
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:49 PM
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" always be nice to your girlfriend in front of her friends, bring flowers, show affection, be a gentlemen. That way if things should end, you already have the seeds of a possibility planted." That is terrible advice in my opinon. You should be nice to people if they deserve it. Sounds like your teacher wanted you to do things for your future gf even if she didn't deserve it. So if you get disrespected, flaked on, lied to...you are supposed to be a doormat and engage in supplicating behavior? Ye…
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:47 PM
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GO HOME EVERYONE
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:20 PM
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I would give it a high chance that this girl flakes on your co-worker as unless he came off as having really high value. Don't beat yourself up for it. Until this guy has stuck his P in her V, any celebration on his part is mental masturbation.
/r/seduction21/11/13 02:46 PM
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Thanks for chiming in, mental masturbator
/r/seduction15/11/13 02:19 PM
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Holy formatting batman.
/r/seduction15/11/13 02:10 PM
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De-activate your accounts What you're asking here is akin to an alcoholic living next to a 24/7 Liquor Store asking how they can stop drinking. Remove the source entirely. This was a big reason why I quit Facebook and twitter and social media in general. The positive feedback loop is silly if you sit back and think about it. Beyond that, I got tired of constantly judging my life compared to other peoples. De-activate your accounts. It's the best step you can make. You will be in withdrawal at fi…
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:00 PM
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Yeah, thanks for adding value here and recommending some alternative solutions u/birdwontquit Respectfully, Nobody
/r/seduction27/09/13 05:27 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/seduction18/09/13 12:22 AM
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Let's see if OP can chime in here and share his experiences using it. He probably has done it at least a dozen times. ....OP?
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:54 AM
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I got your back bro. Been following your blog and I am a little ashamed the Seddit-newbs would bash so hard. Please keep posting here TenMagnet.
/r/seduction13/09/13 07:44 PM
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lol
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:27 AM
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Why would I care about stabilizers used during a squats if I don't squat 405 lbs. Because I choose not to be a faggot; that is why I do squats /thread
/r/seduction10/09/13 05:49 AM
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Follow up Comment from YaReally When you’re advanced, you can ask these questions and it goes over well…why? Because when you’re new and ask them, you’re seeking rapport, you’re looking for commonalities and evidence that you should be together and she should let you have sex with her. When you’re advanced and ask the same questions, you’re qualifying her…you’re asking those questions to possibly disqualify her from getting to have sex with you. For a fun experiment, try this: Take the 7 things …
/r/seduction15/08/13 08:02 PM
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Why Ask Why? Shun The Stale Seven Questions Here’s a little trick for beginners to improve their rapport skills with women: don’t ask them questions. Specifically, don’t ask them the following anticipated questions: What’s your name? What do you do? Where do you live? Where are you from? What school did you go to? Where do you work? How do you like it here? When you meet a girl, and she’s a tight-lipped sort who won’t volunteer much to help a conversation gain traction, you will feel a powerful …
/r/seduction15/08/13 07:59 PM
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