DAOcomment2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction?		DAOcomment2	/r/askTRP	14/07/19 11:36 AM

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–	My brother is deep into Red Pill. How do I help him get out? Do you and your mother give your father the utmost respect? Do your parents still have an active sex life or a dead bedroom? Is Father's Day a big deal in your house or everyone including your father act like he's just doing his job no big deal? Do you and your mother treat your dad as "the man" or just the guy who pays bills? If your dad is the ultimate nice guy, sexually rejected by his wife, not regularly appreciated and respected by women in his home, maybe even gets treated as a doormat or …	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/24 07:33 PM
2	Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed. Be attractive. Then any approach can work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 12:03 AM
1	Got rejected by more than 5 girls in a clubs, what am I doing wrong A club is a place for people to go out with their friends, get silly, cut loose, hear their favorite music, and have fun. Hookups may or may not be a finale to a wild night but are secondary. The primary goal is to have a great night first. In a club environment, you have mostly a bunch of bored people hoping to have fun, and a few pockets of people generating all the fun. Guess who everyone wants to join? They want to join anyone who seems to be generating/having all the fun. A room full of peo…	/r/seduction	02/04/22 05:16 AM
1	Pizza Hut Karen gets a little dose of her own medecine. Young brats evolve into Karen. It's not about age, just lifelong privilege, entitlement, freedom from consequences, and an abundance of other people ready to fight all their fights for them. Male version of this exists too. Judge people as individuals, not by demographic. If you think an entire group is one way, unconscious bias is at work. No category of people is monolithic. Decent people are the majority and don't demand attention. They're everywhere but fade into the background. Attention ov…	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/12/21 12:56 PM
1	Chasing the paper Pursue a managerial career at Dunder Mifflin Paper Company.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/10/21 05:38 PM
1	Chasing the paper Respect ladies. Learn grammar.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/10/21 05:36 PM
3	Chasing the paper Let her go.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/10/21 05:12 PM
1	Maria is not as smart as she thought. Could there be a greater waste of time than learning, researching, and teaching? Lmao get a desk job in the corporate world. Losers!	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/06/21 09:48 PM
8	How to feel "good enough" for beautiful women? You've framed this about how women see you but this is really about how you see yourself. If we scratch under the surface a little further, behind these questions is always a man who isn't even good enough for himself--yet. Are you impressed with yourself? Have you made yourself worthy of your own respect? If you're not working on becoming the best version of yourself, someone who you love and admire first, then of course you won't love and admire yourself. Naturally, you'll wonder why anyone el…	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 07:46 PM
-1	Using a slut financially? Yes it's wrong to financially exploit anyone. Doesn't matter if women exploit men like this, it's also wrong for you to exploit anyone like this. Being poor isn't an excuse. Being a real man and being good with women doesn't mean being a piece of shit human being. You're asking advice from a sad crowd of people who have failed all three of those life tests. Be better my man. You're asking because your conscience already knows the answer.	/r/askTRP	04/04/21 08:41 PM
1	Lol It's a vending machine	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/02/21 01:03 PM
2	Ex messaged me, we hung out, things got sexual. Agreed to meet again but she doesn't want things to go that far anymore. Chasing a girl with a boyfriend is desperate, low-value, and shitty behavior. Ask her the situation. If she's exclusive, tell her you shouldn't hang out till she's unattached. Live your life for a year or two and pursue other girls while her relationship mostly likely fizzles out. She'll hit you up when she's available and interested. She won't be on the fence when she comes back around. If a girl is exclusive or not that interested in you, you really shouldn't bother with them. You should have …	/r/askTRP	03/08/20 03:32 PM
1	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? Got your point the first time. You just want to make a very small and focused point that SOME preachy polyamorists are losers, right? Maybe you also know that some monogamists are preachy ugly losers too, but this is not news to anyone, nor is it particularly illuminating about monogamy in general. Ditto for trying to circlejerk about ugly/annoying polyamorists. Pointing out some ugly preachy polyamorists isn't false. It's just small. It's not really an insight about polyamory in general which i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/19 06:41 PM
1	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? Go up the comment history, you are the one quibbling with my post not the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/19 02:32 PM
1	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? Picking up that third person makes them polyamorous. That is by definition polyamory. Attractive people practice polyamory. What dictionary says polyamory requires you to self-identify with the word and join a club? None. Irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/19 06:36 AM
1	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? Great so you agree that polyamory isn't only for ugly people. Hot people practice polyamory discreetly much of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 01:51 PM
0	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? 1-6 are "not hot". Non-identical members of same class. For purposes of fucking, 1-6 are the same thing to a hot person--people I will never even think about fucking because they are "not hot".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 01:48 PM
1	Girl I fucked ghosts me and chases my friend? She was interested in your potential, gave you a shot, but you didn't perform. She was nice and didn't humiliate you afterwards then you returned the favor by kicking her out. Just put yourself in her shoes. Imagine you went home with someone, they were selfish in bed, didn't care for you, didn't perform, you were gracious about it and still chatted with them, then they told you to GTFO. She isn't in the wrong here. In the future, make sure your partner gets off and enjoys their time with you.	/r/askTRP	19/12/19 01:17 PM
3	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? You think 8, 9s, 10s don't fool around? K.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 08:01 AM
1	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? 8-10 is "hot". All else is "not". "Not" is most. "Not" outnumbers "hot".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 08:00 AM
22	Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory? Attractive people have open relationships. They don't have to advertise much though. The opposite, in fact--they are trying to keep 99% of people out while privately picking and choosing other uncommonly attractive people to play with. 1s, 2s, 3s, 4s, 5s, and 6s just outnumber 8s, 9s and 10s. Hot people are uncommon. They barely need to advertise. The world comes to them. Most of the world is actively kept out. Those who are let in, and aware this happens, tend to be hot and therefore rare thems…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/19 03:25 PM
19	Ltr gets touchy with another guy during dinner when sitting in front of me She really just likes fucking with you. She held your hand because she understands exactly what she did. She pushed the line as far as she could get away with, maybe too far, then immediately walked it back with hand holding to make sure she got away with it. Because you taking her shit massively validates her ego. She validates herself by disrespecting men and watching them take it because "I'm so hot." You yourself wrote this in your post history, which clarifies everything: "So recently I've …	/r/askTRP	14/12/19 10:22 PM
1	Girls are losing interest after knowing me Bingo.	/r/askTRP	12/12/19 06:06 AM
1	I have a date tonight with a higher SMV girl than I’m used to. More than likely will fail, so what are some “exercises” I can apply to this date so that I can develop a stronger frame in future dates? Just get the reference experience. Repeat for years. What you're doing is like a year one bodybuilder stressing out how he's going to perform tonight's set. What? Just do the set and pat yourself on the back for getting it in today. You'll grow a tiny bit as you process whatever happened. Repeat more sets consistently for years. Don't expect to see big gains on any scale other than months and years of consistent effort. If you're on a 10 year path to mastery, this girl and this next date aren't …	/r/askTRP	08/12/19 03:54 AM
2	GF of 3 years cut me off after my mom died Seen this pattern enough times. Your parent dies, your dog dies, you lose a job, you get into an accident. Something weakens you, she sees it, she's repulsed. This doesn't always happen when you fall on hard times but just don't be surprised when it does. There's a good reason why men historically don't show vulnerability in front of women. Don't be mad about it. Just understand it. Nature selected for women to be repulsed by weakness and attracted to strength. Women who stuck around weak men in…	/r/askTRP	08/12/19 03:28 AM
1	Those who kept delaying going to the gym for years, what was the final push that made you give in? The whole idea of needing a big final push of motivation guarantees you will never go to the gym consistently. That's not how discipline works. Stop waiting for motivation. Start baby stepping better habits. Start baby stepping towards being a better person. You have the psychology and habits of someone who will never go to the gym. You don't need external motivation to overcome all the resistance being created by who you are and how you live. You need to admit that who you are and how you live …	/r/askTRP	07/12/19 01:37 PM
2	You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them. Someone who practices socializing will blow away one who doesn't.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 08:42 AM
2	Body count Yeah, I think people here are too concerned what the average dude thinks about sluts when what women here want is to be exceptional women for exceptional men. Exceptional men are pouring most of their energy into a mission and passions, having casual fun with women who are attracted to their orbit, and biding time to see which one of these turns out to be a black swan compatibility that makes all other women seem like a waste of time. They're not sitting around judging n-count, and they have eno…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/19 01:18 AM
2	Body count Fair enough. I get the distinction you're making. OP is asking if she should have low self-esteem for sleeping around, and if it hurts her commitment chances. Yes, it hurts her chances with dudes who hate sluts. Not all guys hate sluts or assume that a slut has poor character/integrity unsuitable for relationships. Personally, I think n-count is quite irrelevant to what I look for in a long-term partner. Is she my best friend? Do we laugh all the time? Share the same values? Is she a great match…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/19 12:56 AM
2	Body count Did you see the comment I replied to? It has been removed by a moderator. The comment I replied to was a man who said "I hate sluts and so do all dudes", basically. So I didn't come into this space to "defeat" all the women--I was qualifying a statement by another man who seemed to be speaking on behalf of men, incorrectly, in my opinion. OP literally asked if promiscuity makes men value her less. That dude said yes. I replied to him to provide balance and said I don't feel the same. His view do…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/19 12:38 AM
-1	Body count Because everyone in this thread wants OP to hate herself for loving sex. She is a threat to women who compete with her for male attention, and a threat to men who feel they can't compete with other men for her. Outside of competition anxiety, there isn't a logical reason why having lots of sex should devalue a person. Quite the contrary, people who are in high sexual demand are actually by definition highly valued in the sexual marketplace. This is precisely why the concept of "slut" exists--to …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/19 07:05 AM
-8	Body count I'm a guy and I am not bothered by body count. Why wouldn't a beautiful woman bang a ton of dudes? I want a beautiful woman who loves sex. I don't want to fuck a prude nun. I want a girl who is free and enthusiastic about sex. When I'm single and there is no one particularly compatible around, I'll just run through hookups. But if a really amazing woman comes along who is a companion to share life with, and she's hot, I'd rather go deep on enjoying life and sex with her than fucking a bunch rand…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/19 03:32 AM
2	Joking and Insecurity Joking more or less isn't going to change people's impression of you. Being stoic because you need to be respected and taken seriously is just as much of a reactive behavior as being a clown for validation. You've probably run into people who are very much alpha and always seem to be light-hearted and untroubled even though they're responsible for some serious shit. You've also run into people who are alpha and serious, not really caring which way they rub you. Your body is constantly leaking yo…	/r/askTRP	07/11/19 07:17 AM
2	Follow up on my post about a girl at Uni I was having trouble with (fairly long) Exactly, not a hard next. Soft next. Pull back from chasing and doing all the investing, as it will soon be counter-productive. She needs to feel your absence and ideally the implication of some female competition to re-ignite urgency on her end to hook up with you. Acquiring and promoting some other plates due to her lack of interest is what a cool guy would do, and a behavior she's wired to respond to.	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 10:17 PM
3	Follow up on my post about a girl at Uni I was having trouble with (fairly long) You did pretty well OP, though you cracked at the end. Understandable. But you saw that she did in fact respond well to re-initiating the kissing after rejecting you the first time. Just recognize this latest encounter for what it is--more of the same. You've been token rejected again, but you've also seen how much she wants to do more. Lotta dudes saying to move on like she's fucking around with you. Move on if you want to just find someone easier, but if you want to play this out to the end, j…	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 09:04 PM
3	Do girls actually have an easier time in college? Easier is a curse. Pressure makes diamonds. The difficulty is a gift. Even living under the pressure to be great, you don't want the pressure, you want it easy, you don't want to be great. You would remain a tickled baby your entire life if allowed to. But you're not allowed to. You must go through the pressure and transform into something greater. That is actually the gift. Stop seeking to be comfortable and getting angry at people who have it easy. So disgusting.	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 07:37 PM
2	Comments on height in social settings This is a nuanced topic. In groups of men, dudes bust on each other for laughs. This can be a way of re-affirming friendship because no one takes it seriously, and you wouldn't say something insulting to someone unless the underlying assumption is that you're great friends and don't mean it. Bantering back and forth can establish that everyone is secure with themselves, enough to laugh at themselves in small ways that don't matter. On the other hand, this can also turn into status jockeying and …	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 12:43 AM
84	Horrible place to pick someone up went extremely well.... Just wanna share. That was actually awesome. She felt cornered but once you backed off and released the pressure she was receptive. Shows how important calibration is to verbal or physical escalation. She didn't just react well to the clever joke but the demonstration of emotional/social intelligence, kindness, and security/confidence (to take the L in stride). Backing off, giving space, and never getting butthurt are so key. Rejection and resistance are such huge opportunities to DHV by handling rejection well.	/r/seduction	31/10/19 08:07 AM
1	Need advice on how to proceed Invite her one more time. This time, escalate the bases in order, starting with kissing. Last time she clammed up when your hands went south, before you'd even kissed. This might have been legitimately too much for her. She may have expected you to run the bases in order, and you skipped passed foreplay (caressing, kissing) to heavy petting. It's normal for your first kiss attempts to get rejected, she is going to be coy to see if you handle rejection poorly. After that if she keeps coming back,…	/r/askTRP	31/10/19 05:49 AM
7	r/femaledatingstrategy is disgusting. No Circlejerking This is a shit post. There is no debate issue here. "Disgusting, amirite?" is not a CMV topic. Just OP ranting about being triggered, no focused topic of debate, just seeking a soapbox to vent. Delete this pollution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/19 03:56 PM
1	How well does the TRP mentality hold up when you're not physically fit? Sounds like you have weak frame and a weak bod. So this isn't "How well does TRP mentality (strong frame) work without being fit" because by definition if you had a strong positive frame you'd be confident in your shitty body. And to answer the question, there are of course men with strong frames and weak bodies. Accomplished older men are necessarily this, as time took away their bodily strength. Confidence comes from accomplishing shit. You know you're the shit because you've proven it to your…	/r/askTRP	26/10/19 05:54 PM
3	Women who are 18-24 arent going for guys who are 35-40s Rule of thumb not universal law. Keep the exceptions coming though, saves me the trouble of qualifying every statement with footnotes. Thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 06:12 AM
10	Women who are 18-24 arent going for guys who are 35-40s When you see a hot well-maintained 30-40 year old, you just assume they're much younger. Slept with an early 20s girl recently, she just assumed I'm in my 20s, her mental concept of 30 was suburban dad decrepitude, not lean muscled with clear tight skin and vitality. Cognitive dissonance biasing perception. It's true though that 30-40 is a period where the general populace starts falling apart without maintenance. If you can't control your diet, if you don't lift, if you don't have a sport, if y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/19 11:45 PM
5	It all comes down to this! Push-pull works best. It's not all push. Pushing is easy. Pulling is easy. Striking that perfect balance between push-pull is hard. That's the art. Push-pull kids. Behind that, actually be a valuable man and display it. Your unavailability isn't inherently attractive on its own, it's attractive when you have value and she thinks she could have it, but she's not quite sure. Get your mental/emotional health sorted, get fit, handle your money, accomplish shit, have friends, have a life, then push-p…	/r/seduction	24/10/19 11:57 PM
52	How to deliver a “perfect” compliment and become the guy everyone wants to be around. I'm so grateful for you saying this, brother.	/r/seduction	23/10/19 04:25 AM
1	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience Yeah, sounds like you have some issues to overcome. Sounds like you have low-self esteem and emotional trauma. That's beyond my capability to solve for you. However, I can tell you that those two things are where you start getting good with girls--getting yourself on a path to working through your traumas and continuously accomplishing goals and mastering skills to increase your sense of confidence in being able to handle the world. You will never be done. You will just keep working to improve t…	/r/seduction	23/10/19 04:20 AM
2	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience How's the rest of your life? Have you ever mastered a skill? Because that's the biggest obstacle. If you play an instrument, if you taught yourself to program, built a business, achieved rank in a martial art, built a great body, won a championship at something--then you have the requisite practice and dedication to fix your social skills. Because social skills are just skills, skill with girls is just a skill, and all skills get better through the same process: consistent, regular, long-term pr…	/r/seduction	22/10/19 08:22 PM
1	Past few years I’ve gone into a lot of self improvement. NoFap, TRP, Lifting. I originally started cause I wanted to become the best version of myself. I’ve improved but I also feel like I lose the fun goofy part of personality I used to have and it sucks. Anyone in the same boat? How can I fix it? Quite simple really. Make time to practice relaxing, socializing, having fun. Schedule play time. How is having fun counter to Red Pill? Red Pill is men's sexual strategy with women. Women love fun. Women love fun guys. It is very hard to seduce a woman without having fun or giving her a fun time. Cool men you want in your tribe socially and professionally love fun. You love your fun self more. The best version of yourself has all his shit together and has fun. Clearly if you allocate no time to…	/r/askTRP	21/10/19 07:47 PM
1	Really struggling with turning conversation flirty You are wasting my time. I'm done here.	/r/seduction	19/10/19 08:03 AM
1	Really struggling with turning conversation flirty OK then you have a gap in your socialization. Go out in the field and observe how people relate to their children and their pets. Watch how animals relate to each other. The logical content is almost non-existent but they ARE interacting on an emotional level. This layer of interaction is present between human adults too, it's just easier to see in children and animals because it's the only layer. Embodied emotional communication is the fundamental layer of communication, the one that people res…	/r/seduction	17/10/19 11:11 PM
9	Really struggling with turning conversation flirty When you talk to children, do you run out of things to say? Do they? No you just say silly shit, often disconnected logically from what was just said. Kids don't worry whether they're saying the right thing to you. They just express whatever they're feeling or thinking, and that provides fodder with which you play with them, and they with you. You don't interview kids, you have silly conversations with them. In a social situation you're not interviewing each other as professional adults. You're …	/r/seduction	14/10/19 11:14 PM
3	Can't get into my head that women view me sexually Great comment, man. Thank you for articulating that.	/r/askTRP	14/10/19 07:23 PM
24	"Women were more willing to have sex with more attractive men, but were less inclined to use condoms when they do so." ---Does attractiveness influence condom use intentions in women who have sex with men? Published: May 23, 2019 I'm a dude and my desire to lose the condom would rise with the attractiveness of my partner. The more attractive they are, the more you want to feel them without a barrier.	/r/BlackPillScience	14/10/19 06:56 AM
13	Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls? If you're attractive you attract all kinds.	/r/askTRP	09/10/19 02:17 PM
1	Men face no wall (or do we?) Men don't hit a wall, some just stop climbing the mountain.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/19 06:35 AM
2	What Gay Guys Have Taught Me About Game Great post, OP. As my SMV rises, I get hit on more and more by gay guys. Nothing against gay guys living their lives together, without hitting on me, or even if sometimes they accidentally hit on me respectful of my boundaries, but I definitely hate some of the approaches. Like you're saying, it's not a clean "Hey, what's up. I like you. Just checking to see what's up with you." Instead it's a weasel thing where you don't know what it is at first. The dude is pretending to be just a bro while ge…	/r/seduction	08/10/19 09:27 PM
1	How to toughen up? What is tough? If someone withers easily under adversity or suffering, they are not tough. To be tough is to be capable of handling adversity and suffering. So practice enduring suffering and adversity. Then you'll toughen up. Lifting is a gateway to toughness up because lifting presents a set of simple challenges anyone can quickly understand, repeated daily and weekly for years, yielding steady, perceptible rewards for the work--controlled suffering and adversity--you put in. Martial arts is a…	/r/askTRP	08/10/19 02:23 PM
54	Being a wing man when you're the AMOG? (not a flex I swear) Key distinction: a wingman's job isn't get girls for his friend but to help out while his friend gets girls. He pilots the pickup. You're on the wing of the plane shooting down cockblocks and providing navigational support. You can't wing a dude that can't pilot his plane. He'll crash the plane. The navigational feedback he needs is that he isn't a good pilot. Point him to flight school. The initiative to learn is then on him.	/r/askTRP	07/10/19 08:55 PM
4	What I wish someone had told me at 18 about game: just act like a normal person This is actually the first advice everyone is given right away: "Just go up, say hi, relax, act normal, be yourself, have fun!" But for many guys, it takes an odyssey of social skills development to understand and implement this. Initially, approaching is terrifying, your default is to act weird, you can't be yourself, you're uptight, self-monitoring, stifled, and none of this is fun. You have to train and rewire yourself to flip every one of these negative defaults around into a positive. At th…	/r/seduction	05/10/19 07:28 PM
7	Talking for a month, def had a good connection, had sex, texted too much she said better off as friends. Can I get out of friend zone? Get other girls. You've established yourself as a pussy with this one. Just the act of trying to get her back is something a cool guy wouldn't do. A cool guy would literally just rotate the next girl in when one falls off, which is what you're not doing. Do that. If you can't do that, get yourself into a position where you can. Because once a girl's impression of you is set as a loser, you're usually done with that particular girl. The only time it ever flips around is when she sees you with oth…	/r/seduction	27/09/19 07:12 PM
273	Excellent TED talk on the difference between Masculinity and Femininity- a vital concept to understand for seduction (9 mins) Summary for those looking to save time. Her main idea is to understand femininity as experience-orientation, masculinity as results-orientation. For example, drinking a cup of coffee to savor the flavor and a moment is a feminine way of taking coffee, whereas drinking coffee for the productivity boost of caffeine is a masculine way of taking coffee. Wearing a dress for how pleasant it feels to you is feminine, whereas wearing a dress for its effect on someone else is masculine. The best bit is t…	/r/seduction	27/09/19 07:00 PM
1	Hung out with a girl, she ghosted me for a week and I deleted her on Snapchat. She just messaged me, was this the right way to respond? I don't think he completely fucked it. I mean, he did terminate the possibility of anything further with this girl. But think of how well this sets him up for future girls. He has practice walking away because he just did. It's good for a guy to just walk a couple times like this and get more options. Down the road girl's sense that walking is something you'll really do unless they're acting right. They only sense that after it's something you've repeatedly done. Girls want a dude that they sens…	/r/askTRP	09/09/19 01:27 PM
1	The light switch effect. Opportunism is biology so it's never been otherwise. There were no good old days. Nature is ruthless. Women who weren't opportunistic were weeded out of the gene pool, while women who swung to the best branch multiplied and prospered. Men are opportunistic too.	/r/askTRP	03/09/19 06:32 AM
2	Stuck in my head? "Last night some neighbor girls were throwing a party in the back yard. I wanted to go up and say "you guys didn't invite me?" With confidence, but what happened instead was I stood in my house with a 6 pack I bought specifically for this reason and looked out windows and my porch for an hour straight while my mind went through a rationalization masterclass. Even called my mom and dad for encouragement, like it would help. Eventually it died down and everyone went to bed." Broooskiii. Haha. Happ…	/r/askTRP	03/09/19 02:15 AM
19	People having a hard time accepting that you're High SMV now? Your fake friends will vanish when you fall on hard times and try to pull you down when you surpass them. In a group of losers, when one loser becomes a winner, the losers will fear losing the winner, and resent losing what little status they have over him. The winner must choose whether to remain a loser to appease his loser friends, or drop his loser friends. If you're a winner, get around winners. Be of service to winners who are ahead of you, behind you, and at the same level. Winners help w…	/r/askTRP	01/09/19 04:01 AM
52	People having a hard time accepting that you're High SMV now? Crabs in a bucket. These people have a vested interest in maintaining a dynamic where you're beneath them, subservient to them, compliant to them, deferential to them. They aren't moving up. But every time you move up, their relative status goes down. They're not your friends, homie. They're just the NPCs who were around at level 1. The few who are happy for you, who support you moving up, hold those ones dear, and help them advance too. There won't be many. Fuck the rest. If you keep progressin…	/r/askTRP	01/09/19 03:46 AM
6	When girls mention their boyfriend during conversation, are they not interested? "I'm not available to you at this moment."	/r/askTRP	31/08/19 08:15 PM
25	Bad at sex holding me back You're nervous because you're looping negative thought and resisting what may happen. Accepting the moment without resistance is itself a trainable muscle. Treat meditation like lifting and you will cultivate an increasing ability to empty your mind.	/r/askTRP	31/08/19 08:09 PM
21	Q4men : what do you consider "Chad" level of success with the fairer sex? Learn your meme, son. 4Chan's original Chad is that mouth breathing idiot with nothing going for him but raw alpha masculinity vis a vis confidence and muscles. A Dark Triad asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/19 08:51 AM
1	Are heterosexual men being cut off from places to meet women in the West? How did you structure the opportunity to hookup or did you just flirt and she did the pickup on you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 06:46 PM
1	Are heterosexual men being cut off from places to meet women in the West? How did you hookup with your boss? Did she have trepidation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 03:36 PM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? I am not making an argument, just asking you to support yours. I am responding to the argument you put forward--that rising male celibacy increase NEETs, who in turn will collapse the tax base. I am only asking for evidence you're not providing. Provide evidence that male celibacy increases NEET, because that is the sense in which male celibacy matters. Male celibacy isn't causing tax base collapse if male celibacy is only an effect of NEET. I doubt anyone has even studied whether celibacy cause…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 04:33 AM
3	Always go for the kiss on the first date Balancing act. The intense makeout over validates her and removes all mystery about whether or not she has you. The super sexual makeout lets her know sex is happening so she doesn't need to stick around to find out. Also makes you seem thirsty. Too much push, no push. When IOI's come, you can't do nothing, but you can't push too hard either. Leave her wanting more. When you see an IOI, escalate but also be the first to break it off. From open to close, seduction is a series of pushes and pulls.…	/r/seduction	29/08/19 10:21 PM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? I understand what a NEET is. Now that you have reread my comment and can't deny that this is obviously the case, now you're shifting that to I don't understand the "NEET problem" in a broader sense, namely yours, which is that NEET is caused by not getting laid. NEET is a topic of rigorous study economic study, at least as rigorous as social science can be. There are a number of institutions interested in fixing NEET. So handwaving isn't needed here--stats, surveys, and analyses are available. N…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 03:49 PM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? "Maybe unskilled, unproductive men could collapse the tax base by using government programs but not putting money back into them. That's not a vagina deficit problem. Handing omegas a prostitute won't fix their fundamental inability to contribute." Does this statement say that NEETs aren't increasing? Does it say that they pose no threat to the economy? NEET isn't caused by celibacy. Nor is NEET fixed by providing sex. However, you were arguing that undersexed men will collapse the tax base, cit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 08:45 AM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? Exactly, whining about not being able to train skills is bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 03:37 PM
14	She paid for everything on the first date I think you should read the situation with your own judgment. There are a lot of mindless followers on this community that treat Red Pill as an ideology or religion when in fact it is an ongoing field research project subject to revision. Red Pill is just the true nature of gender dynamics including the unpretty parts society doesn't want to acknowledge. If you encounter a reality that doesn't jibe with what people are saying here, reality wins and theory must bow to reality. This community over…	/r/askTRP	28/08/19 03:03 PM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? Undersexed men aren't going to collapse the tax base. Undersexed men are economically productive, generally. In fact, being productive is their sexual strategy. Beta bucks. Maybe unskilled, unproductive men could collapse the tax base by using government programs by not putting money back into them. That's not a vagina deficit problem. Handing omegas a prostitute won't fix their fundamental inability to contribute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 02:31 PM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? You should bootstrap. Less pathetic than "Give me pussy or I'll shoot".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 05:35 AM
10	Akon speaks some redpill truth. Thoughts? I've heard all kinds of women philosophizing about the nature of men. There are forums on the internet dedicated to the female side of dating that engage in the same theorizing (and bitching) that occurs on men's forums. Sometimes I think certain women nail it on the head, other times they don't. Depends on the woman and what she's saying. At the end of the day, people are trying to make sense of their experiences with the other sex. Red Pill wasn't an ideology that told me how to see women. A l…	/r/askTRP	28/08/19 05:09 AM
35	Akon speaks some redpill truth. Thoughts? Not red pill. Red Pill recognizes the hypergamous dual mating strategy of women. Namely, that women's sexual strategy requires procuring the best DNA (alpha male) and long-term provisioning (beta bucks) to assure successful child rearing, even if these must be procured from different men. Cheating with an alpha while receiving beta provisioning is a successful strategy, and but for social taboos trying to limit adultery, adultery exists as a drive in female sexual nature as also for men. Akon's …	/r/askTRP	28/08/19 04:29 AM
0	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? Sorry nature dealt you that hand. Organized rebellion doesn't solve Aspberger's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 04:03 AM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? Against what? Women freely choosing not to fuck them? A loser who rebels against their sexless situation does so by hitting the gym, career climbing, self-improving, building social skills, approaching women and thus becomes Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 02:38 AM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? Birthrate is more important. So long as women reproduce, civilization continues for another generation using the genes of Chad and not the genes of unsexed males.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 11:17 PM
1	I feel like I have the least value in my friend group What would fix this is if you became a stud yourself. You absolutely can. But will you put in work? If you don't work on making yourself outstanding, in at least one or two ways, you're just a schlub. It's just a lifestyle choice.	/r/askTRP	26/08/19 12:59 PM
1	For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men. The cool guy with a small dick case, where you felt like a flesh light because one physical thing was outside your preferences. That basically flipped the dynamic from being a mutual win to a favor, hence feeling like a fleshlight. If he gave you great oral leading up to the sex and made sure you come first, would that have made the encounter feel more like a mutual win e.g. less like you were a fleshlight doing him a favor? Yeah, I fall in the category that doesn't want to hear a girl vent abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 04:00 PM
4	What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with? I understand your mindset because I fall into this when I don't have other women around. You are asking for something you can do that will fix your behavior in your head...without just getting a ton more girls in reality. So long as you aren't swimming in options, then the rejection of one girl will matter and you can't only pretend it doesn't, but the truth will be radiating through all your pretensions in a million little ways. The best autofix for this neediness is get more women. Get enough …	/r/seduction	23/08/19 03:34 PM
1	For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men. OK so you basically never regret any of these, which is awesome. Maybe it's just the specific person and how many repressive hang ups they have or don't have that determines how they feel afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 09:48 AM
1	For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men. Can you illustrate with a story?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 06:50 AM
2	For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men. Haha, drinking raises your inhibitions. Question for you. Looking back over your same-day sex experiences, what are some factors that define an experience that you look back on fondly with appreciation and no regrets? As a dude, I like spontaneous adventures with women, but I don't like when women who enjoyed the act in the moment later feel slutty or regretful of what happened. Because my ideal one night stand is just having a wonderful, hot, sexy memory we'll both cherish and remember fondly a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 06:49 AM
1	Lost in a sea of red pills OK	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/19 07:28 PM
1	Lost in a sea of red pills Of course I think that my belief system reflects reality as it is. That's what a belief system is-- stuff a person believes. Human beings can be good and also bad and this applies to women as well as men. Sometimes women do bad stuff. Saying his has you triggered and on a soapbox about pseudoscience. Do you need a double blind peer reviewed study to discover than men do bad stuff or is that just obvious to anyone that follows human affairs through history, news, culture? Women misbehave too, I d…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/19 03:29 PM
1	“you are talking to many girls” “not worth my time” she says She's just demanding attention. If she's not interested in seeing you again, she would ghost. It's on. Ignore her games. Investing in a witty comeback is too much effort. Tell her she should join you at XYZ at such and such time. Then if she is still making things hard, tell her the truth "I'm tired of this" and drop the thread completely. Otherwise your time is really not valuable and you have no boundaries for bullshit. If and only if she drops the games, starts behaving respectfully and nicel…	/r/askTRP	19/08/19 10:53 PM
2	Lost in a sea of red pills This post leaves me with a lot of questions. Why are you reading about the manosphere? How were you initially drawn into it? Why did you keep consuming this material and get hooked on it? What understanding of your female nature weighs on you in your relationship/job? Do you feel you learned anything of value from this phase of your intellectual life or do you feel like it was entirely a waste? I'm a dude but I basically understand what you're feeling, because I felt a pervading sense of self-ha…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/19 07:02 PM
1	Large social group with regulars (100+). Best strategy from a Redpill perspective? Lead the men. Lead the women. By lead, I don't mean be that insecure guy trying to order people around to see who obeys. That's being a bossy dick, not leading. Everyone sees through that guy and wishes he would leave. Leading is organizing people to help everyone get what they want but can't or won't get themselves. For example, if everyone wants to have a blast on Halloween then you take up the task of planning an event everyone will love, execute on it, and make sure everyone is included and …	/r/askTRP	16/08/19 01:59 PM
2	Girls have no hobbies at all? She clearly has interests in things that aren't totally retarded. Whether she is Maya Lin or not is beside the point. A dude who is an enthusiastic student of architecture has a hobby even if he isn't Frank Lloyd Wright. Learning about and appreciating a subject is a hobby.	/r/askTRP	13/08/19 07:54 AM
6	Girls have no hobbies at all? The distribution of bums vs productive people is a bell curve for both men and women, with most people in the middle doing just enough to exist and not much more. A minority of men and women lead productive and interesting lives. Psychological studies about gender differences between newborn male and female babies have also provided evidence that, based on gaze, males are more predisposed to fixate on things in the environment, whereas females are more likely to fixate on faces. Males are thing-…	/r/askTRP	12/08/19 02:51 PM
2	Those in LTRs, how do you stick to one girl? Screen for a bisexual LTR primary that wants to do threesomes. You bring her new women, she wings for you.	/r/askTRP	12/08/19 05:11 AM
2	How do i stop getting mad at rejection? You violent language is going to mark you as a threat and many people will just tell you to kill yourself because they would rather you disappear than figure out your problems. However, you're being honest about your problem because you know it's wrong and want to fix it. Violent rage is an expression of impotence and pain. Violent rage is an attempt to become powerful when one has experience impotence, and to assuage one's hurt by eradicating what hurt you. They key thing to keep in perspective…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/19 07:32 AM
2	Judging myself after a failure "I've done this a couple times" Fix this. Chad has done this thousands of times since he was a little shit. You don't go out regularly and approach in high volume. Knowing that every day and week through the year there will be another approach makes this one a throwaway. An HB9 in your gym won't matter. If any approach feels like a big deal, it's because approaching is a special event in your life, rather than a regular and frequent occurrence. Your expectations for how good you should be are co…	/r/askTRP	04/08/19 04:34 AM
35	Women Aren’t Men: Healthy Relationships and Solipsism Sticky this. This needs to be said. And while "anger phase" in undoubtedly a transition many men have to go through, it is just another phase of beta-hood because it is a burgeoning awareness of female nature through the distorted lens of male solipsism, and male solipsism is a beta mindset. Male nature and female nature were selected by evolution because they made the species stronger. Yes, women will fuck up your shit, test you, and try to weed you out of the gene pool if you are weak. That is…	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/19 03:07 AM
2	My plates ass stinks horribly when we have sex She doesn't realize. Chances are many of the dudes laughing at her on this thread only use toilet paper and overestimate how clean their shit encrusted smelly asses are. This is common when wiping with toilet paper but not using a bidet to properly rinse your ass after every bowel movement. There are cheap, portable, handheld plastic bidets you can order on Amazon. In your shoes, I would order one, then after our next intimate session, teach her about bidets and how I think they're under-utilize…	/r/askTRP	29/07/19 02:28 AM
1	Female Bartender had me banned from bar for "soliciting prostitution" Change her mood, not her mind. "Why do you not like me?" is an invitation for her to risk pissing you off, a risk she wants no part of due to repercussions. It doesn't matter why she doesn't like you, as it may not be rational in the first place. Maybe you remind her of a Chad she's mad at. Maybe there was a misunderstanding that snowballed but she forgot the original reason. Who knows? Doesn't matter. If you want her to be an ally, drop value and fun on her in little bits over time until you sh…	/r/askTRP	28/07/19 08:21 PM
1	How to make new friends What value do other people get from associating with you? How will your friend's lives be uniquely better for having you in it? What kind of value do you enjoy offering to people?	/r/askTRP	27/07/19 06:12 AM
1	How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame? Sure my man	/r/seduction	27/07/19 05:27 AM
3	How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame? Compliance testing up a ladder of escalation. Back off and slow down whenever you detect any discomfort, flinching, or hesitation. Test escalation on high points in the interaction. Treat escalation not as "scoring" but instead as a ping to test how comfortable and compliant she is with you. Also some discomfort with your advances is inevitable and expected. That doesn't mean plow through with making her uncomfortable. Remember that her rejecting your advances is an opportunity to show that you …	/r/seduction	26/07/19 03:35 PM
2	Types Of Flirting "How did that educated, mature, sophisticated lady with all these amazing options go for that sleaze?" said every bluepill beta ever. This works best on classy "quality" women because they are the ones most yearning to let their hair down and fall into the role of a dorky yet protected/loved little girl with Chad Daddy.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/19 04:13 PM
10	Types Of Flirting This playful playground teasing works on women of any age my dude. Get off the internet and joke like this with elderly women. They'll be tickled. They know what's up.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/19 09:30 AM
40	Types Of Flirting You're like a wise little seduction buddha. Are you trying to make me waste time on reddit? I hate how much I love it. I don't usually upvote posts. Now leave me alone, OP. Wait. Come here. Hold still. There's something in your eye.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/19 09:24 AM
1	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction? It can be.	/r/askTRP	15/07/19 05:58 AM
1	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction? That's a good summary.	/r/askTRP	15/07/19 05:55 AM
1	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction? Thanks. I think all you said is true. My hunch is that fun is a non-specific indicator of survival value, and that the non-specificity is actually a feature. The ideal traits for coping with the environment can be radically different in different situations. Women who are highly attracted to some specific trait will do well when the environment favors men with that trait, until the environment doesn't favor men with that trait. However, whatever traits happen to facilitate survival in the curren…	/r/askTRP	15/07/19 05:53 AM
1	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction? I agree with this idea that fun is a luxury afforded only by a secure and abundant life situation. Therefore women are attracted to fun as a relatively honest signal of abundance. There are some edge cases where fun isn't an honest signal of abundance and security, such as fun losers that fascinate some women. Thanks for your reply!	/r/askTRP	15/07/19 05:48 AM
1	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction? I agree with your answer. Your rudeness is pointless though.	/r/askTRP	15/07/19 05:45 AM
2	How does "fun" fit into the Survival & Replication Value model of attraction? My personal opinion is that "fun" simply indicates your life situation is good enough that you're not stressed about survival, which indicates security in your environment and abundant resources. Therefore if a woman follows someone that's having fun, she's probably entering a situation of security and abundance. Whereas if she follows a stressed and terrified man she's walking into a situation of insecurity and scarcity. These aren't conscious thoughts, of course, so much as the realities that …	/r/askTRP	15/07/19 05:44 AM
1	Am I a new type of "pill"? If you don't think you're understood correctly, then you can just explain yourself i.e. respond substantively to the question "Why?" You decline to present any reasons for your opinion, despite repeated invitation to do so. I don't have a burning need for your opinion if you refuse to explain the reasons for it----why bother telling me my opinion is wrong if you're not prepared to explain why? Reading this thread, looks to me like you were comfortable criticizing my opinion, but couldn't handle …	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/19 03:17 AM
1	Am I a new type of "pill"? I literally asked why and you are pissed about not being asked why, or taking offense to tone or something. Game doesn't work--ok, why? Why would OP's life not improve from learning to engage women romantically/sexually instead of always platonically, which he basically admits is his problem.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/19 01:39 AM
1	Am I a new type of "pill"? I'll engage with reasons for conclusions different from mine but not conclusions if you refuse to articulate the reasons for them. "Terrible advice!" and "game doesn't work" aren't reasons, they're drive by opinions. "Nothing wrong with the word" isn't any more of a reason than your prior responses. Suit yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/19 01:08 AM
0	Am I a new type of "pill"? Ah you heard the word game and don't like it. Gotcha.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/19 02:32 PM
1	Am I a new type of "pill"? Why	/r/ExRedPill	11/07/19 10:04 AM
14	How much does lifting improve SMV? Libetarian	/r/askTRP	08/07/19 12:25 AM
0	Am I a new type of "pill"? That's your choice and your life. Just understand it's a choice. It's not you that is sexually unattractive, it's the weak boyish behavior. Becoming a strong man that can express his sexuality doesn't mean becoming an asshole, though women will choose to fuck a masculine asshole over a weak feminized boy. You are descended from a line of men who contained in their DNA everything needed to survive and ultimately procreate for thousands and thousands of years. You already have inside you everythin…	/r/ExRedPill	04/07/19 07:45 PM
4	Am I a new type of "pill"? You are correct about OP's view being twisted by the limits of his personal experience. In fairness, OP invited people to challenge his view, meaning he wanted to put his hypothesis to the test. For all the people saying he needs to consult an outside opinion instead of being a solipsist, that is exactly what he is doing with this post--putting his view out there for feedback. So it is a bit unfair to OP to say he came to a conclusion in a closed minded way. Rather his life experience has shield…	/r/ExRedPill	04/07/19 06:55 PM
-2	Am I a new type of "pill"? It's your behavior not looks. OP you're just a severely blue pill beta nice guy that women don't see sexually. That doesn't mean you're a bad person just that how you've been conditioned to act isn't sexy. You don't know what's up. Your ideas about what turns women on are probably backwards which is why what you're told will work never works in your experience. If you ask women what to do they will tell you to keep being exactly the same but just look harder...forever. Ignore this and learn game…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/19 04:45 PM
0	Am I a new type of "pill"? He did. Women don't want to fuck him. He hears about their purported sex drive but has never been the object of it. The guy isn't trying to deny your sexuality to hurt you or women. He's honestly trying to make sense of his life experience--women saying they want sex but never demonstrating this directly and enthusiastically to him. If it seems inconceivable to you that this is real, that's because sex on tap is a perk of being female. There would need to be something seriously wrong with a woma…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/19 01:31 PM
3	How do y'all get Blue Pill shit out of your system? However long it to took to condition you to be beta, that's how long it will take to neutralize that conditioning. For some men, that means they don't have enough time left to ever fully recover. But imagine how much better your remaining years can be if you keep stacking one year of improvement on top of the other. Let go of the impatient need to have instant gratification and engage with the process of improvement. That's key to all great growth transformations in life.	/r/askTRP	27/05/19 04:41 PM
1	Agree and amplify: why it is such an important tool Thanks for your analysis.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/19 03:46 PM
2	Need Red Pill Advice in my marriage. Good man. Good luck.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/04/19 12:28 PM
1	Need Red Pill Advice in my marriage. Do you lift? Do you diet? Are you ambitious? Excellent at your hobbies? What is your purpose in life that you hold higher than her, other than kids? Do you tease and game your wife? Do you pass shit tests? Does she believe you have abundant choice in women were she to leave you tomorrow? Does she dread the possibility that you might be cheating even when you're not due to your palpable appeal to other women? Are you without a doubt The Man in your world? Do you know in your bones, preferably sup…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/04/19 12:13 PM
45	How to Structure Your Day to Maximize Productivity You're winning young buck. That's a good balance to strive for.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/19 06:24 PM
3	"I have a boyfriend!" Ignore and proceed with whatever you want to talk about next.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/19 07:44 AM
3	How to stop putting attractive girls on a pedestal? People are crazy. The attractive crazy is more visible.	/r/seduction	24/01/19 11:30 AM
4	The deal with “hot” girls... and why they’re definitely not out of your league. Imagine you put on a magic mask and costume. When you wear this thing outside, everyone wants to be your friend and get in your world. You know they love the mask. You're told how beautiful it is all the time. They can't see you under the mask. But at the end of the day, you see you. If you could go out without this mask and be just as powerful and popular, you would, but you can't. In fact, every time the mask slips you are judged and criticized. It's not easy to keep up the facade. You have to…	/r/seduction	08/01/19 03:34 AM
3	how to game shy/introverted girls? Girls are telling you're a random person. They're not comfortable with you. Maybe they're not attracted in some cases. Shy/introverts will want to see you when all those pieces are in place--attracted, comfortable, you're a memorable person not an unknown quantity. Do you see how this could just be a holistic reflection on multiple aspects of your game? At the very least, sounds like you need to spend more time building connection and interest. Ideally you should be reading signs of interest bef…	/r/seduction	25/12/18 10:45 AM
1	Why seduction is so hard Whining about how life is too easy, making you weak. A privilege of the modern, developed world. If you lived in a harsher place or time, the excuse becomes that life is too hard, making you weak. There is always an excuse. Alphas hogging women and betas scrounging after a few scraps is a condition older than humanity. It exists all over the animal kingdom. Alphas aren't born. They have to throw themselves into contests and win. Boys have always had to go through an ordeal to become men. Manhood…	/r/seduction	22/12/18 03:12 PM
3	I asked a girl out. Get more girls. Seriously. When you are talking to several girls simultaneously, you truly don't need anything from any particular one. Ideally you should be talking to too many girls, to the point where managing starts becoming a burden. Then you're looking for reasons to cut some out. You can go for the kiss hoping she rejects you because then you can cut her loose and focus your time on better prospects. Girls can smell this abundance on you, unspoken. Then just enjoying yourself and not gett…	/r/seduction	18/12/18 02:51 PM
1	Having a really hard time getting second dates/hookups You should update this with a field report of an interaction where you thought the girl was hooked then lost her. You've framed this up in a way where you're listing all the things you're doing right. Somewhere along the line you are doing something you think is right but it's actually wrong. A field report would help expose the blindspot.	/r/seduction	13/12/18 09:33 PM
1	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. Interesting. Have you thought about just dating only women? If you're mainly attracted to the same behaviors regardless of whether they're package in a male vs female body, but women are less scary and untrustworthy plus more considerate in bed, why go through the hassle of filtering through dudes? Threads like this offer a lot of food for thought. Ultimately, I think a lot of men feel that their struggle is invisible and unheard. A part of them is dying from inside out and angry that the world …	/r/seduction	13/12/18 03:35 AM
1	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. Hey, OP. Dude perspective here. Thanks for sharing your perspective and observations from both sides of the fence. You're right. Guys and gals both have it rough, just in different ways. Guy and gals also have it easy, also in different ways. Do men vs women turn you on in the same way, or do you feel you have one attraction pathway for men and another for women? Like, are the men and women that excite you sexually essentially the same being in a differently shaped body, or do masculine vs femin…	/r/seduction	11/12/18 11:42 PM
1	Seduction is making me depressed. You're right but it's besides the point. The value in field reporting is the act of writing the report. Externalize your experience, get perspective on it, get perspective on how you are mis-explaining it to yourself, derive lessons about what worked, didn't work, and how to improve next time. As a bonus, get second opinions from others. 9 may be unhelpful but that tenth one may make you see something huge that you missed on your own. But even if no comments are helpful, the main value was in wr…	/r/seduction	06/12/18 08:04 AM
16	What to do about fake flirts? Girls will entertain getting hit on because it feels good, whether they're single or attached. Compliance to physical escalation will tell you real quick when she's really on or just seeking attention. You're not a special target for this. It's just girls being silly. You're getting bent out of shape about it. Just treat these girls as practice then move on.	/r/seduction	03/12/18 07:36 PM
2	I don’t know how guys handle rejection so easily. I got rejected all night at club and feel like crap. Hey, bud. Glad to hear you had this experience! You need to get reference experiences like these under your belt in order to get good with girls. I hope you go out and have more bad nights like these. They are powerful learning lessons and motivators if you use them as such. You didn't get on top of the club immediately, so the club got on top of you. What happened is called getting shoved into your head. Instead of being in the moment having fun, you got stuck in a negative and self-reinforcing…	/r/seduction	03/12/18 04:27 PM
3	Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing Glad you got something out of it. :)	/r/seduction	28/11/18 07:40 AM
2	Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing Use your powers for good. Good luck, my friend.	/r/seduction	28/11/18 07:40 AM
15	Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing Start with platonic touching that you're comfortable with doing on people you're not attracted to. Shake hands. High five. Elbow nudge. Shoulder pat. A tap on the shoulder to get attention. A light playful push. Fist bump. Sit next to someone barely touching or even not touching but simply in close proximity. A light hug, at most. Don't escalate. Just be conscious of opportunities to practice incorporating these gestures into your communication once in awhile rather than never at all. Practice e…	/r/seduction	28/11/18 07:37 AM
53	Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing It's tricky because women will usually not risk rejection by explicitly saying "I am receptive to being touched now." They also may not explicitly say "I am not receptive to you" because they have had bad experiences with rejected guys getting angry and indignant with them. If a woman actually verbalizes her receptivity or lack thereof then you should listen, of course. That would be so much simpler. But don't count on it being that explicit. You are expected to have the social acuity to read he…	/r/seduction	24/11/18 09:08 AM
2	When did you realise its time to start making moves and asking a girl/guy out? You want to hear that it's one moment of realization that changes everything. Because then you could fix your problem by seeking out a burning bush moment. You have long "realized" what you need to do, though you never do it. It was mostly many little moments, death by a thousand cuts. It was the passage of too much time, because you're comfortable enough being a little unhappy, whereas becoming a bolder person is uncomfortable. You can't think your way out of your situation. You already realize…	/r/seduction	23/11/18 12:54 AM
1	Dead numbers after number closing? You've described yourself as doing all the right things, so no one is going to be able to see where you lost the set. Write a detailed field report of one of your approaches. You'll need to put more effort into describing what you're doing to expose where you're messing up. In the process of writing the report, your mistakes will become clear to you and you won't even need advice from anyone here. Only thing that seems concerning from your description is that you expect results from 2-4 approach…	/r/seduction	17/11/18 07:26 AM