DBerwick Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Assuming attraction sounds crazy to me I'm in pretty good shape, if a little lean (5'10, ~150lbs, 14%bf). People tell me I look like I work out; I hear it a few times a month. Hairline mildly receding at the temples, but I keep it with a cut I really like and style it. I do use a moisturizer/sunscreen, but no retinol. I definitely don't get approached by strangers (though if I'm being honest, lots of people seem receptive to my casual conversation). Do you think you've got an exceptional facecard? Or attribute it to something else? M…	/r/seduction	06/01/25 10:09 PM
2	I've seen people say you make women fall in love with you if you can make her release dopamine and oxytocine. What are example of those? I agree. There's a lot of authenticity behind a 'senseless' action like that. She seemed to understand exactly where your head was at in that moment. I'm starting to think she may have liked that you liked her.	/r/seduction	06/01/25 08:14 PM
1	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. I definitely think we as a sub need to standardize our definition a bit. I couldn't imagine trying to bed someone without the decency of at least talking to them like a person first. I'd consider some mutual vibe- checking to be an essential part of the definition, even for a "cold" open	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 07:24 PM
2	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. Do you consider physical attraction a valid reason to want to get to know a person, or does it sour the whole interaction to believe that's why you were approached? Let's assume an average person -- mildly attractive to you (in any metric), but nothing to write home about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 07:19 PM
1	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. I'm trying to back away from this point of view. Life is a consistently uncomfortable experience, and trying to coddle people away from it is disrespectful to them being adults. Likewise, respecting why fear may be the default response, while maintaining that you haven't done anything to deserve it personally, is a much more healthy balance. I'm not a threat to someone (regardless of their perception), nor is it my aim to pressure them into something they don't want. But if they can't handle a c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 07:12 PM
6	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. Sounds more to me like he's saying it never worked for him and never benefitted him. That's the opposite of pulling the ladder up behind you; he learned the hard way that the ladder is on fire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 06:58 PM
8	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. It's valid to resent being objectified for sex; sounds like you deal with it frequently. Life, however, it's full of uncomfortable experiences. Strangers aren't entitled to your sustained attention nor admiration, but human beings are entitled to attempt to socialize with strangers. You may as well resent a dog for chewing bones otherwise. If you're not a social person, that's fine. But respectfully, the place for such people is at home. Despising people for being outgoing is a major component o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 06:54 PM
1	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. Just so you don't feel crazy, this sounds like a perfectly sane way to express interest in a stranger, and no one griping about cold approaches to people was going to do anything better with 10 minutes of their time anyway. OP is playing with a blackpill mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 06:41 PM
0	MMA boyfriend gets pounded and girlfriend gets disgusted at it. https://www.mentalkfeminism.com/ "The aim of this website is to make male (pro-) feminist voices visible and unite them in one place in order to offer all men a male perspective on feminism. Why is Feminism relevant to men? Feminism is relevant to men because feminism is the only liberating ideology that can free men from the suffering we endure under patriarchy. We think patriarchy benefits us, and it does in some ways, but it also costs us a lot by keeping us trapped away from developing as fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 07:07 PM
-1	MMA boyfriend gets pounded and girlfriend gets disgusted at it. "Know a person isn't an asshole before investing in a LTR" is a much more sensible and agreeable stance than you seem to be presenting in the rest of these comments, which read more as "most women are callous and unempathetic to the point that it qualifies as abuse". Maybe you should lead with the sane version.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 06:56 PM
-3	MMA boyfriend gets pounded and girlfriend gets disgusted at it. Idk man sounds kinda like low-T afraid-of-the-world shit. Life is messy; people can be cruel. You're not wrong, but I'd rather learn the resilience to be bigger than it, than bend your knee and "play the game". If only 1% of the people in the world respect that kind of integrity, then I'd rather sift through the 99% and find the ones who matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 06:52 PM
1	There’s really no point to every man doing self-improvement because women have relativist attraction. There will always be a hierarchy of reshuffling winners and losers even if men have objectively raised the floor. Based.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 07:12 AM
1	Women can always secure a High Value Man if she's willing to date 5-15 years older However there are ways that men and women can vet these losers out of their dating pool, thankfully. I'll bite. What are they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 08:18 PM
1	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Don’t insult people like that. This is what is so offensive about PUA. I didn't insult anyone, and I'm not a supporter of PUA. You're projecting a lot onto me right now. The guy in front of me in line who comments about the band on my shirt? That’s organic and natural. Which is why I suggested we were approaching different hypotheticals. Wracking my brain to figure why you assume I live and work in the suburbs. Again, not something I insinuated. Please read comments before responding to them in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:03 AM
3	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? I'm inclined to say we should take a descriptive approach to human socializing in an age when our social spheres are shrinking. You're right, it's not impossible to maintain them, but I hope we can agree they're less available overall. It might also be fair to surmise we're envisioning slightly different hypothetical scenarios. I assume these interactions are happening in public/recreational spaces -- coffee shops, parks and such. It sounds like you're seeing objective-oriented spaces, grocery s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 03:46 PM
2	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? I'm not convinced you read her comment. She made a point to say that she doesn't get attention unless she's getting scammed or someone has desperately low standards, which is a bit of a blackpill take. I'm having trouble deciphering if we're claiming at this point that it's more shallow to just hit on someone because they're hot, or because they're not. If someone hit on me, I'd sure as shit think they wanted to get to know me personally because they're definitely not getting conventional attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 03:00 PM
6	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? You rated highest of anyone in this thread (at the time I commented), for the dude who cold approached you because you were cute. In other words, you're the only one who actually responds positively (romantically) to behavior everyone else here regards as desperate. So it seemed quippy to rope your flair into it. Hope I didn't offend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 06:35 AM
0	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Flair checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 05:09 AM
8	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? I mean... is it possible he wants to get to know you? You're within your rights not to follow up, or to be a bit suspect, but the whole point of a date is to get to know somebody. Besides, hot or not, maybe you caught his eye. Maybe he found something especially charming about your laugh or smile? Emotions aren't rational, and are rarely predictable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 05:08 AM
–	Do you consider it a red flag when a woman is a feminist? Only if she's insufferable about it. As I imagine any dude who goes full incel over mens' issues would be. How we all just have a personality not based on how unlucky the circumstances of our birth were.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 03:44 AM
1	Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilities Insisting that something is common knowledge doesn't make your whackjob take actually real. Promiscuity tends to arise out of a need for externalized validation, usually because self-est3em was damaged at a critical age (this is why "daddy issues" is synonymous with "easy"). Having two people fighting over you is also very validating. These are not gender-specific, and the sex is the cause and not the result. "broken pair-bonding"... boy do you have rocks in your skull?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 06:58 AM
2	Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup. Not to whatabout, but this is also my default reaction when women say they like a "dad bod". No you don't. You're into mid-bulk weightlifters and athletes. those dudes and 150lbs of muscle wrapped in a bit of pudge. The average american dad is just fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/24 06:46 AM
0	Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypes My legitimate question for you: what's your long term plan if you contort yourself into something you're not and she falls for you? Do you just have to keep up the act forever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 06:17 AM
1	Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypes To actually answer this question, sex is a shorthand for intimacy, which gives a sense of purpose and belonging. Humans are social; feeling ostracized is damaging to us. Society has stifled a generation of men to percieve sex as the only significant form of intimacy (it's not), which is why they lionize it. That it comes coupled with euphoria and a biological imperative only intensifies this longing. so tl;dr, feeling disconnected and isolated is painful, our individualist/consumeristic society …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 06:16 AM
2	Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypes And this dismissive attitude is exactly what drives people to RP. The dilemma these people are facing is "give a shit" vs "look out for yourself", and now you're telling them their happiness is no one else's problem.... so of course they're going to look out for themselves. In your words, "that's just nature". People who aren't getting their psycho-social needs met (affection, validation, belonging) start checking out of the social contract and turning into manipulators and narcissists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 06:09 AM
10	Flirting is a learned skill by men. I've seen 3 people disagreeing with your definition. Have you considered that you might not know what it means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 05:54 PM
6	Flirting is a learned skill by men. You can absolutely flirt without any objective other than mild, mutual validation. We aren't puritans after all. And you can still absolutely do that in the context of a comitted relationship unless, again, both of you are puritans who think sex/romance is a god-given obligation and not fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 05:53 PM
8	Flirting is a learned skill by men. We learn most social behaviors by watching our parents, especially around age 7. How they interact with each other heavily shapes our understanding odf gender dynamics. Interestingly, some research is starting to show how detrimental COVID was, because children whose parents had neuroses were basically locked in a building with them during that critical period with no outside influences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 03:11 PM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” Face it, we were gonna Brave New World ourselves anyway. It was pretty much certain once the internet was invented.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 02:01 AM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” Ew. Have you MET people? Hard pass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:54 AM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” Wait, are you telling me I can steal other peoples' grandmas the way Chad steals girlfriends? Just have an entire list of little old ladies who do nothing but bake me cookies and tell me what a handsome young man I am? This is the pill I need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:52 AM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” Nope too late you sold me I'm gonna go get jacked and arthritic. Enjoy having that on your conscience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:44 AM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” Lift heavy thing make mean voice in head quiet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:29 AM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” I would be just tickled if we could never ever evaluate Vladimir Putin as an example of masculine fitness on this sub or reddit ever again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:29 AM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” feel happy, stable and content in your general life. Best I can do is joint pain and body dysmorphia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 06:51 PM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” I can't advise having a bear just to get womens' interest. Most of them will choose the bear over you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 06:49 PM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” It's true. Can't treat some things as invalid just because it's a means to an end. But that should be a small percentage of your hobbies or else you're just... fake. Phony. Dull and empty. Gotta be a (complete) person to connect with a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 06:47 PM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” Pfp checks out. 💪	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 06:45 PM
–	It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors” And what would you know about what women are into? /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 06:39 PM
0	A lot of the discussions here are trash because people can't differentiate between the pills "See how I have portrayed my opponent as the soyjack and myself as the Chad, thus making me the victor."	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 09:59 PM
1	What exactly is the "blue pill" solution to solving a deadbedroom? The redpill solution here isn't the worst, but it's shortsighted and doesn't actually address the issues. it succeeds by fluke. First, address hormonal issues. Increase in stress csn tank libido, job burnout, sleep deprivation, diet or new medications. Unless it's specifically a coping strategy, most individuals don't get aroused under stress, and the experiencing is rarely fulfilling when it is. If the above factors aren't playing a role, it has more to do with the relationship. Loss of respect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 09:28 PM
2	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. I'm getting in the conga-line too. It sounds like you were willing to do what it took despite being severely disadvantaged. That's admirable! I hope the woman who appreciates it isn't far away!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 12:06 AM
1	Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. There's a fine line between doing it to impress others (desperate) vs doing it as a form of self respect (while still acknowledging its value derives from the social impact). For example, would you totally stop putting in that effort once you got married? You're certainly not trying to pull anyone after that point. But on the whole, I agree that saying you "do it for yourself" is misleading at best. We do it for our status, but we can maintain our social status as an end within itself and not ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 12:02 AM
2	Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman? It's so vague, it could range anywhere from "never disagree" to "approach me in a calm way so we can have a respectful discussion."	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 09:50 PM
1	Facts About Blacks in America What's edgy about it? We are in a thread where the head mod is going on about how the "purpose of the sub" has changed to embody tenets of white nationalism.	/r/PussyPass	06/03/17 05:00 AM
1	Facts About Blacks in America Come on, the sub is named pussy pass. It's right there in the name. Do I have to spell it out for you?	/r/PussyPass	05/03/17 10:14 PM
10	The Red Pill Right I won't censor anybody from saying so, but I prefer a reasoned argument. You have no idea how much I appreciate this. I'm not a subscriber here; I usually bounce from sub to sub (often following comment links), bringing both agreement and disagreement wherever I go. The notion of safe spaces (in my opinion) is becoming increasingly common, and more and more I find myself banned for having an opinion that offends the community I'm in. No room to grow, no mutual learning (I never presume I'm "educ…	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/17 02:32 PM
5	Retraction of the doxxing and firing. Christ, you're obnoxious	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/02/17 09:02 AM
2	Retraction of the doxxing and firing. Seriously. Rabbit hole goes too deep.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/02/17 08:59 AM
6	Retraction of the doxxing and firing. This thread in a nutshell	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/02/17 08:56 AM
3	Retraction of the doxxing and firing. Occam's razor doesn't work well with stupidity and outrage, it seems.	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/02/17 08:54 AM