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| 5 | I Made Dark Triad Video Breakdown (Narcissism, Psychopathy, Machiavellianism)Sounds interesting but before going in, I'd like to know where you got the material from? Written it all on your own or compiled it from a few sources? Would give the whole thing more credibility if you can mention a few sources. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 14 | Oneitis from an evolutionary perspectiveEvolution has designed us to bang as many times as possible, to make more and more humans. When you are in a LTR with a woman, your entire biology associates that woman as the source of making these many, many humans. In a way, she becomes the entire point of your evolutionary existence, as you have accepted her as your only sexual outlet. So when you break up, it means you can no longer fulfill your evolutionary purpose. Evolutionary speaking, it means you are not performing as per plan. Hence … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How to forget about herWell you are mad and beating yourself over water being wet. Recognize that, it's in women's nature to give up their pussy easily to get commitment from high value men. That's her only option, so let her do that. What you need to do is create a separation in your own head between feelings, hormonal reactions & the truth that you know. From then on you can see the feelings and thoughts come over, but can still be separated from them, and keep them separated from your identity. Eventually these fee… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 06:44 AM |
| 0 | “Why didn’t you ask for her number?” Shit testI already have too many bitches. Haha did you like my answer or did i fail your shit test? Feel inside yourself for a sec and let me know how you feel about me now compared to before I gave the answer. Or wait, forget it, you probably don't know how you feel anyway. Wait, let me take my phone out and post this question on asktrp forum at reddit. Nice rack, BTW. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?I have encountered it once and got success from just treating it like a shit test. Girl was super flirty, touchy-feely whenever we met, then got cold all of a sudden. I gave it no thought and treated her exactly the same as I was doing earlier. Showed no overt hurt or any emotion at all, even though she was deliberately being cold to me. I didn't address her being cold/distant to me at all. Took her about three days to come back even stronger than before. Fuck me eyes every second, super girly b… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Female Validation and how to stop needing it?It's hard but personally for me, I have observed that these "pains" stop mattering the more I am focused towards the bigger goal - which is improving my own life in general. When I have a few good weeks/months of building momentum towards working on my profession, health, etc. then girls stop mattering that much. It's easier to move on because they are no longer my primary focus. In the same way, if I have been neglecting myself, my job, diet etc. and have a lot of time to mope around alone, the… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Girls staring at me in the gym. Lots of eye contact.Don't worry about your canted smile. Learn to own it instead. Only models have perfect everything. All of us other mortals have a couple of flaws, or a dozen. All your other physical stats sound good enough. Unless it's something extremely bad, we can use our physical flaws as ammo for banter/jokes to raise the overall mood of any interaction, or initiate flirting etc. Girls making eye contact is generally a positive, in the sense that you can at least begin interactions with them. But that's re… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Has a female friendship ever fizzled out because you opened up about problems?This was brilliant story telling. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Tinder dates - good place for a 1st meet up?Any coffee shop, cafe, bar etc. that is near your place. They feel like sluts coming straight to your place. So you spend half an hour at a spot near your place, then once they see you are cool, bring them over to your place with an execuse like let's smoke weed, let me show you my book collection, etc. Escalate, bang. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Seducing narcissit LTR?Please don't LTR a narcissist, even if there's a small chance she might be one. Being a recovering incel is still more pleasant than recovering from narcissistic abuse. Any children you two have will also be damaged beyond repair in many ways. Just gtfo. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.You don't know what to say anymore because you can't. Great job on that vulgar display of power as well. I am done with this, going to listen to some Pantera now and lift. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.My frame here was, "let's talk and see what's up " and I held it to the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.It didn't help you in particular so you are upset about it. The subreddit is not for you, and your personal interpretation of the rules. Even if a few others find meaning from it, it is doing some good. Why are you trying to hold everyone to your standards? Let people progress at their own pace. Ignore and move on if you don't find it meaningful instead of crying like a banshee. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.Yeah man I am not trying to pick up chicks here. In a discussion you don't do frame control, you do informations exchange. The point is to learn something, or convey your learnings to others. About the tirade, I apologise if it happened that way. I was in a heated discussion, hope you understand. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.If you have significant concern for the community, and then, you also know that the noobs haven't been reading the sidebar, for years, then you should actually welcome noob advice posts on the main page. At least the good ones will help them. Its just an outburst, man. Move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 09:14 PM |
| 0 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.Very funny joke, man. I'd love to hear your actual thoughts on the matter as well. Always looking to improve . | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.Well its sad that you have 3 points to your profile. I feel compelled to reply to all of your brain-dead questions. Even a newbie with common sense will answer those. Newbie advice means advice for newbies, not advice by newbies. By inspire others to post, I meant inspire others with experiences they feel can be shared, to share the insights they have come across. If you had even a fraction of positivity in your attitude towards the community in general, you could have considered that for a seco… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 08:51 PM |
| 3 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.Well I never expounded on the quality or flavour of the vibe. There just has to be a vibe, which within a frame is stronger than hers. The whole point of the OP is that words don't matter, the vibe does. Flavour of vibe is never told to be important. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.Great addition to the heated discussion, friend. Next time consider maybe to be on topic and send comments like these on PM to the user. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.Vibe has to be there, and has to be stronger than hers. Honesty means greater display of congruency, that's it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The words don't matter. The subcommunications do.You just misinterpreted it all and posted some hate. Expand your perspective. All of your contextual interpretation is wrong. I am concerned about how much hate is there inside you, so good luck with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.Not the words, the vibe is what makes any difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to do pick up. The real answer.Exactly. Have your own goals. The first step to that is what I recommend in the Op. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 06:11 PM |
| – | How to do pick up. The real answer.Look, I agree. It would come of better with an AA directed title. But my point is, you are still better off doing what I adviced over the long term. As you get stuck on these plateus, you will yourself come up with goals and solutions, that are relevant to your specific issue. Rather than being bogged down by goals set by others in their journey, you will formulate goals of your own. There is a lot more to the issue of, "I can't get girls on dates" apart from the usual advice of "approach more, … | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How to do pick up. The real answer.Glad I could help you! | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.The incel bit will be conveyed anyway regardless of the line you use. Chads can literally say, "Did you poop in your panties?" and close. It's all in the vibe and subcommunication. Lines and words don't mean shit for the most part. The advice is geared at making newbies more relaxed and give out a more attractive vibe. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.Yes AA probably never goes. I do find that it becomes almost background static once you have done a few approaches on any given day. After 3 or 4 approaches it's almost completely gone, on a good day. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.You already approach. This advice is for people suffering from crippling AA. The idea is to remove the pressure of achieving a goal, which is an added stress that exacerbates AA even more. Just start a conversation. Then if you feel comfortable doing it, transition or talk about whatever you feel like. Start enough conversations and soon you will find your groove and start having longer ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 10:26 AM |
| – | How to do pick up. The real answer.I wanted to kiss, cuddle, fuck, get my dick sucked by, hang out with, laugh with, and do whatever other stuff with women. I am sure you must like one or more of that as well. Sure you don't need any of that to live, you can just jack off every now and then. But I personally thought there is one life I have here, let's try to experience all the pleasures I can. If it works out good, if not I can always jack off anyway. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 04:52 AM |
| 12 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.True. Definitely helps. I remember the first time I ever went out to do this, was with two other guys who knew about pick up in my city. We met for the first time that day. The three of us n00bs made shit even tougher for each other somehow, by regurgitating the different theories we had read about pick up. Hardly any approach was made. But they pushed me in set once, as I was annoying them with theory, and I had a 5 minute conversation with two girls. They were sweet and happy to talk to about … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.Start small and simple. Just make a point of saying literally one line to any girl that comes near you. Could even be simple as asking for the time. Make just that your goal. If you feel like saying something more after the opener, do it. Or don't. No pressure. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.Some might say the line works even better in that case. But the point is, you can literally say anything. Whatever you feel you can say at first, just start with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 04:20 AM |
| 2 | How to do pick up. The real answer.Keep bitching out every day. Bitch out with every girl you see for 7 days. More if necessary. You will break that plateu. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 11:25 PM |
| 10 | How to kill approach anxiety. The real answer.Thats just an example. You can say whatever you feel is safe for a start. Just any line you can say to a stranger on the street. Do this enough times and you will begin to start conversations yourself. Vibing, push pull, negs, dhv etc. all these will come naturally. The community did not invent these things, they are observations of what works by guys like us. They eventually develop naturally in anyone who is willing to put themselves out there enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/18 11:23 PM |
| 4 | How to develop a personality that people like to be around?I was thinking about this today. And I reached a conclusion. People who end up thinking of themselves as "spergy" or similar, don't realise that their sperginess also gives them certain qualities and tools against the problems said sperginess causes. First realise that while these forums will give you a lot of great advice, it will still be stuff that applies to the general population, and does not consider many other variables that affect a human being, like early childhood experiences, family … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayBoy doesn't it look like a mammoth task, but every successful day gamer has had that very thought at the beginning. The key is to break down the task into smaller steps and, then only think of doing the next step. If you have never done day game ever before, just go and do one approach. Even if it just lasts for 10 seconds like a, "Hey do you know if there is a vegetable stand nearby?", to some girl who crosses you on the street. Just make that your aim. And when that is done, make your next aim… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Crash course in how to sellUsually while hiring for a sales job, the interviewer reviews you on the following: How much time/money the company will need to spend in bringing you up to speed and have you performing? So for this you can cite past selling experiences, or you can display a general know how of sales + your enthusiasm for sales + how you were able to learn stuff quickly in the past. Do you already have some contacts in the industry? Good if you have them. If not, you will have to convince them in some way that … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 12:11 PM |
| 2 | How to last longer in bed?Make it about you while you are at it. You want to last long? Do what it takes to last long for you. Try different things. Laugh when they don't work. Try again. Find the right rhythm for you. Don't give a shit about the girl. It all ties down to having an abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Discipline for what?It takes time to be frustrated enough. I know I have been there. Wait till you want to kill yourself. Maybe then it will force you to take some action. In the meantime, keep feeding yourself red pill and other good info. Maybe something will click. Or maybe it's not meant to be for you in this birth. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:20 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck should I do to get better grades and improve at school,learn how to study?Dman son u crackde the red plii codd. Just be on ur paht. Fprfet spelling and stuff. Focus on othre thigns | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I fucking approach a girl i like and i suspect she likes me in high school?By not making it about her, but instead looking at your best interest. Any thought that does not support your goal should be discarded. So go and ask her out. See what she has to say. Escalate some more till she leaves or gives a clear no. Then go on a date or whatever you want to take her out to. Or next. And move to other things. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to cut off an old friend I still have to see basically every day?I have been the other dude. He needs to straight up hear it from you. Me and my friend's situation was pretty much same as you. We were best buddies in college for 4 years. Then got jobs in different cities and trades. Didn't get to meet for almost 3 years. Then joined the same business school for our post grad. He was one year senior to me there. We were both super stoked about this situation. But I had demons at the time. Over the course of 3 months he realized that I had learned zero social s… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 10:23 AM |
| 2 | what do you do if a girl locks eyes and smiles at you?I think you know the answer to your question. Just fucking talk. Don't make a big deal. Don't expect a lot. Just talk. Smile, say hi, and say, great weather for a run, isn't it? I'd say your next victory is over over-thinking. Just do stuff you feel like rather than making it a big deal in your head. Just talk to people who seem like they want to as well. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 01:00 PM |
| 5 | How to handle depression?Motion creates emotions is true. Change your habits, the daily activities you take part in. I found personally getting busy in life to be the best medicine for depression. Pack your day with activities that are relevant to your future plan for yourself. Lift, cook, clean, take care of business, socialize. If you make these an indispensable part of your life for the next 3 weeks, I assure you that you will be amazed that you don't even have the time to be depressed anymore. This worked for me in … | /r/askTRP | 04/07/17 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Low SMV women who are extremely picky.That guy can't get with the hottest girls unless he also has the naturally congruent attractive guy personality aswell. Sure he will bang plenty 7s, 8s who will come to him and basically offer themselves to him. But 9s and 10s will be rare. Bagging them requires strong frame. I am sure you know at least some good looking fellas who are also frustrated with their sex lives. So yeah he is attractive on the outside but that just opens doors for him. He still needs to be able to walk through them, a… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Low SMV women who are extremely picky.Increase your self worth. Go monk mode and do stuff to increase your smv if necessary. While approaching, approach them all. Especially the pretty ones. This is important to raise your self worth, and correct your wrong perception that you only deserve fat hags. Girls will run with it if you really at the core of your being feel that you are worth her pussy. Not all will, but many will. The caveman alpha wasn't a pretty boy. He was tough, dominant and socially savvy. He was confident. All chicks… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact from randoms - what's happening here ??She's considering having your babies. But that means absolutely nothing unless you are willing to do something about it. Next time, stop them as soon as they get close/are about to pass you by. Say something like, "Hey is that a good bag/purse/shoe?". Start a convo. Maybe how it's your best female friend's bday coming soon and you want to buy her a gift. Or whatever. See if she opens up. Take it from there. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | how to handle a purposefully difficult conversationalistShe most likely will not fuck you. Girls text guys they are never going to fuck, for validation all the time. If she is in your extended social circle or something, just treat her like a guy. Ghost, or double down on insulting back, if you enjoy that type of thing. Just go ahead and treat her like dirt, if you can congruently do that and also enjoy it, without being butthurt with what she says back to you. And then if you can use what she says to give insulting comebacks back to her. I doubt you… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls when you're young?Cold approach is awesome. Do it outside of your school campus though. It's fun and builds incredible self confidence. For campus/school life, focus on building your social skills. Interact with boys, girls everyone. Be the guy who talks to every one. If you are bold, you can then invite the people you talk to for parties. You know them all but they only meet each other through you for the first time. This way you will become the "alpha" of your social circle. In any case it builds massive value.… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/17 01:30 PM |
| 1 | "The Girl Who Can’t Do Her Job". Corporate Land question: who can I deal with this type of woman?I went through a similar thing. It was an internship and the incompetent bitch was one level above me in hierarchy. It was a similar office structure like you said - bosses plus 12-15 other people working, complete with beta orbiters and spineless beta programmers. What I did differently and which worked for me was that I sarcastically put her in her place the first opening she gave me. And it was on a Skype chat. The situation was that, I was given a task to do which I promptly completed. After… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 12:47 PM |
| 0 | I'm doing something very wrong with my body language when I greet girls. Need tips.Why are you so sure its something to do with body language? Do you have a hunch what it could be? Spell it out, it'll be easier that way. You can't expect people to think and write up a whole list of possible body language issues that someone could have. Give us something to work with here. Also, search "seduction body language", or something similar, to get some ideas. In general, you can't really go hug a bunch of random women without being a somewhat smooth, attractive man. Do you have these … | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | AWALT: I've witnessed it first handI know a guy who is a winner in his career, has social status etc. but who is "in love" with this 5/10. One time he found raunchy texts with Chads in her phone and broke up with her in rage. Less than an hour after their break-up fight she began hitting on anything in sight with muscles. It was flattering when she came to me and gave me the fuck me eyes, lingering touches etc., but that's when I saw AWALT in action myself. I'd have smashed but I knew my beta acquaintance would still have emotion… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What to do in my situation with this guy making a mockery of me?Look dude, anyone who randomly starts calling people ugly for no reason probably has problems of their own. If something like this happened to me, I'd probably consider them way beneath me and have pity for them more than anything. Fuck those losers, man. Get on with your goals. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What to do in my situation with this guy making a mockery of me?Become conscious first. What do you really want from these people, if anything? First define that. Maybe you'd like some company and a social circle. Are there people other than these losers who can fulfill that need? I am sure there are. So fuck these guys. Don't give a shit about useless shit like that. Define your needs and fulfill them. Secondly, your "friend" sounds like an undependable little bitch. He has shown his true colours now, which is good. Imagine if he had done something shitty l… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 08:12 PM |
| 18 | A note on India: Crazy self entitled bitches meets pro-women sexual harassment lawsIndian living in India here. Cold approaching women in India does work. It's just different from what works in the west. There are dudes who regularly get laid from cold approach, and have been doing it for years without any repercussions. I know a guy who found his wife from cold approach, after banging several other women. I even know of a few guys who have been approaching like crazy everyday for years with no lays to show for it, but have never gotten beaten up etc. either. So first of all: … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution Lowers the Value of Pussy: Why You Should Visit Tijuana's Red Light DistrictNo that is not meditation. You are not training yourself to be present, and not think. On the contrary, you are training your mind to run wild with thoughts for hours. This is a quick recipe for depression, anxiety and all sorts of troubles, unless you know what you are specifically doing. You could be letting your mind run but observing it at the same time, to observe your thinking patterns and see what afflictions your thought processes suffer from. But I doubt you are doing that. In these thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/16 03:07 PM |
| 5 | I didn't get any responses at r/suicidewatch I'm 19 and need helpWow, you are a total brat. You can't scroll up and read it in my comment? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 05:27 AM |
| 2 | I didn't get any responses at r/suicidewatch I'm 19 and need helpOK so you definitely need to read that book I mentioned. If I took up explaining and expanding on every nuance here I'd be spending hours. Better to just read the book. I don't recommend it at all but if you have trouble reading or something, search for Eckhart Toelle movie (it's about an hour and a half long) on YouTube and watch it with an open mind. But read the book too! How you frame the question itself reveals that you are looking at the external world to complete and fulfill you as a pers… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I didn't get any responses at r/suicidewatch I'm 19 and need helpFirst of all, I am not sure you fully understand the idea that I presented to you. Therefore I think you are not fully equipped to make a judgement like the one you made here. Explore the idea a bit before making any judgements. Also, why do you think being present to the moment, and taking responsibility and control of your life will hinder you from paying your bills? On the contrary, it has the potential to make every living moment light and easy. Imagine how it'd be to feel perfectly at ease … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 05:24 PM |
| 14 | I didn't get any responses at r/suicidewatch I'm 19 and need helpYou are taking life way too seriously. So what all those things happened to you? None of that shit matters. This is the world where millions of people die of fucking hunger every year. Don't get all butthurt and mushy about how you can't make any friends. What matters is how you deal with it. You want to think of how it has been all miserable and shit? You want those sad feelings to consume your thoughts and kill you from the inside? Be my (suicidal) guest. The only way to be consistently happy … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Moved to a new city how to meet people?It's a skill that needs to be developed. It's a road paved with rejections and turmoil but the results are oh so worth it. I believe the lessons learned are so deep and profound that they can change your life forever. That's why you see a lot of men with just great social skills build awesome businesses at really young ages. They all go through the process at some point through one journey or the other. But it's better to start on this path proactively rather than being forced by some unfortunat… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Moved to a new city how to meet people?Cold approach people everywhere. It's fun and will get you the results you want. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you act around your ex gf?You are not clear on what you want to achieve from your interaction with her. Personally, with my ex, if and when I do come across her, I will give her a full taste of my personality. I am sure she is pretty much the same basic bitch since we last met, but I have grown in leaps and bounds. There's a pretty good chance she will want to fuck me. Maybe she will want me back too. But what she will get is pump&dump.jpg. I will come on her face and then say 'kthxbye". It will be hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 02:51 PM |
| 2 | I get nervous and overthink girlsTons of things to work on here. TRP does not give strategies to get that one girl. In fact it tells you to fuck many different girls to get over this sniper mentality. It is much more effecient and you will find that that one girl will want to be your bitch if you fully learn the concepts people talk about here. There is a probability that the one girl you like won't like you back. If you focus only on her, you will get butthurt and sad when she rejects you. This is not fun, neither productive. … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | How do I un-'Nice Guy' myself?It will be a journey. You are raised to be a nice guy and have been one all your life. It's not going to be reversed in a couple of months. It can take years. The most important tool is introspection. Do one thing to accelerate progress - at the end of every day, introspect and think of the things you did throughout the day. Try to spot signs of nice guy behaviour. Write them down. Then write down what you need to do differently if such a situation were to arise again. This one exercise helps tr… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Game advice"Hopefully I will go from 188 to 156 by next September (my last year of highschool) but who knows." That "who knows" bothers me. Why the fuck is it a who knows? Just fucking drop the calories you need to drop and it gets done. That's it. Just do that. Look at this as an opportunity to cultivate your willpower and just fucking do it. Game is a hard thing to learn because everyone is at different stages in the game. People have different sticking points. As much as it is about reading theory, FRs … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 08:32 AM |
| 3 | My Experience With Prostitution (Obese Virgin)Your post got me thinking. Is it possible to train men to exercise their willpower and just fucking start losing weight? I remember I was fat for a long time but there was a moment where I just went, "this is it, I am going to seriously attempt this and lose all this fucking fat!", went to the gym and paid a costly one year membership uptop just so that I had the greatest leverage I could have to go. What is that emotional event that gives lazy asses like the past me and the present OP that kick… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/16 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Gaming the classy chick.This is like the movie Don Jon. Scarlett is the hottest piece of ass he ever saw, goes all beta for her, she drops him as soon as she finds out he was not obeying her every order to the tee. Girls like these know they are hot shit. They want a obedient BB who will worship her. She will probably keep getting some strange on the side as long as she fancies it. Don's sister spots it and says it, "She has her own agenda. She doesn't care about Jonny. She just wants a guy who will do whatever she tel… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/16 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Panic of socializingYou are entering social situations with a taking frame, which means you are looking to be more social, have more friends etc - attached to a outcome from the act of being social. A by product of this is that you are being paralyzed by fear and anxiety - over failing to accomplish these goals. You have to do it and enjoy it for the act itself. Being social is enjoyable if you have positive frames about it. How I got over this myself was by: Approach social situations with a giving frame. You are … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 03:23 PM |
| 5 | [News] From a small town in India, hypergamous sister-in-law (on the verge of divorce) hits on brother-in-law, who develops oneitis and commits suicide. AWALTMaybe the society will suffer for a while when it changes, but overall I believe it will change for the better. When the influence of masculinity is back in the mix, rather than being dumbed down like it is right now, maybe men and their families will be happier. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/16 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Apparently me being ugly with glasses = everyone is trying to use me at school, it gets tiring.Too bad but you will have to spend energy on this. That's just how it is. You tried your way and it didn't work, maybe try mine and see how it goes. Why are you so paranoid about "spending energy" by the way? Are you old? Spend that energy on the real life stuff around you bro. That's what it is for! | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 09:13 PM |
| 8 | [News] From a small town in India, hypergamous sister-in-law (on the verge of divorce) hits on brother-in-law, who develops oneitis and commits suicide. AWALTThey literally need to start assembling hordes of men and teach them the nature of women, "love" etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/16 07:46 AM |
| 4 | New here and am finding myself obsessed with a girl.Judge by actions, not words. If all you want are smileys and cute texts, cool you are getting what you want. But if you want to fuck the girl, go ahead and ask her out. See if she comes. Actions not words. If she comes, do the usual and go for the kiss. See if she reciprocates. Actions not words. Go for what you want and see if she reciprocates. If she does, cool. If she does not, next. Don't waste your time. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Apparently me being ugly with glasses = everyone is trying to use me at school, it gets tiring.Don't tell anyone a straight "fuck off". Tell them you are busy. Every time. Help them only when you want to, rest of the time do your own thing and tell them you are busy. As for your buddies who ask for answers in tests, tell them beforehand that you will first do your own paper, and only then help them. Also when you give them the answers, act like you are not sure if it's the right answer or not. Slowly dial down the helping part and ramp up the not sure part. When you get good grades/marks,… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/16 06:49 AM |
| 2 | I'm really fucked up right now I need some solid adviceFor the exam - dont study alone. Go ask your friend or friends if you can sit in their company to study. Just being in the same room with someone else seriously preparing for the exam could be enough for you to push through. Once the exam is dealt with, read on how woman work. Read it again if you have read about it already a hundred times. Remind yourself of how pointless and fragile a LTR really is. In the coming weeks, ramp up on the good, positive habits. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Is 'spinning plates' viable for low SMV men?I have seen some short ugly looking guys hooking up with attractive females in the 7-8 range. They have unbreakable self-confidence, and game. They embrace their sexuality and go for the girls they want, and are rewarded for it. A lot of times, not so good looking guys have the emotional leverage to really work on their confidence and game, and so they end up developing god level in these things. Then there are the losers who never know that it's not their looks holding them back, but their lack… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Went through GFs phone, found something I didn't want to see.Stop thinking of being with her as a LTR. Think of her more like a fuck toy. Disassociate from how anything you do makes her feel anymore. Stop caring. Go and actively look for and fuck other girls. If she confronts you about it, tell her you decided it's what's best for you at this stage of your life. Don't try to shame or guilt her about the ex shit. Tell her she can either be part of your life this way or she can go. Fuck her if she decides to stick and you want to, or let her go and keep doi… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I begin lifting and improving myself physically?I found r/fitness much before I found r/trp. I suggest you go read their sidebar. It has all the info you need. Participate in the sub, ask questions etc. there. A lot more people there to answer all your newbie questions. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 04:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm good looking but I've become a lazy, procrasting bum. What to do?Look bro, you are in what is called a rut. I was there too until recently. You are relying on your feels to decide about your reals way too much. You were/are big into music too. Music encourages the tendency to get lost in emotions too, so that might have contributed. You, inadvertently, slowly condition yourself to identify with your feels as your reals all the time after a long time of being a dedicated music listener. You need to realise and experience the truth that you can control your fee… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How to make this married woman at work I foolishly gamed earlier lose interest in meSo what do you suggest? Maybe I continue flirting with her and everybody else like normal, stop finding the time to engage her all the time at work, one letter/word response to texts etc, then slowly move to more friends like banter. Just slowly suck out the sexual attraction maybe? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How to make this married woman at work I foolishly gamed earlier lose interest in meYeah that's true. I just went for the easy pickings when I should have gone for one of the single ones first. I am still new to this game stuff and I am learning new lessons all the time. The thing was this one showed attraction first and really engaged me while sitting next to me and I just thought, this one gets my dick hard alright, why the fuck not? Didn't realise what kind of a pickle I have gotten myself into. Now I probably won't be able to take my flirting with the single ones to the nex… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How to make this married woman at work I foolishly gamed earlier lose interest in meIts an internship, which is part of my MBA. It lasts four more months and it's absolutely necessary that I finish all four of them. She tried to get me to say stupid beta shit to her about "liking her" or "loving her" etc. I didn't give in but I said, "I like that you have enough confidence to assume I am going to fall for you but I know you are married, so don't worry about that". Then I again started having fun sexualised convo with her. I was trying to convey to her that I am not one to fall … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with blue pill close family membersThanks for replying. That gave me direction, hope and positivity. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with blue pill close family membersI know that. Maybe I should accept that completely now and get rid of the subconscious digust I feel towards his lifestyle and by association him aswell. Maybe then I will act with more consciousness and purpose, and do the things that keep us close by myself, and thus salvaging this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with blue pill close family membersI don't want to red pill him. I realise it can only come after a man has gone through certain emotional experiences in his life that make him ready to receive this information. I'd like to be close to him, that's all. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys ever banged someone you were not attracted(not attractive at all) just to get out of the dumps?There are girls who most people including you won't say are attractive if you were to look at them from a distance. But these girls can get feel attractive once you start interacting with them. There is a 'chemistry', for a lack of better word, between you two. You feel like you could have amazing sex with this person. In these cases, there is no reason not to fuck these girls and have a great time because you are feeling the animalistic pull between the two of you despite her not being a tradit… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Gonna get lucky in two days. I'm rusty and in need of help.Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Gonna get lucky in two days. I'm rusty and in need of help.Look man you are in the stage when you have started to appear high smv to other people and girls, but deep within yourself you have still not acknowledged yourself as being high smv. You are basically saying you are scared to lose this girl, and then you are hamstering it with the reason - because you want to practice sex on her. This is basically hamstering. You are within yourself still in scarcity mode, even though you have readied yourself to finally experience abundance. I guess a lot of pe… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Gonna get lucky in two days. I'm rusty and in need of help.What's probably gonna happen is you will cum really fast. If it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen. Don't fight it. Remember it's not over till you say it's over. Wait a bit, do some foreplay and then fuck her the second, third, fourth and fifth time if time allows. You are getting laid after a long time so enjoy it and ravish her. Please yourself good and you please her invariably. For your inner game - remember she is just a girl, and they are dime a dozen. Don't fetishize her or pedestalize he… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 04:33 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with girlfriend trying to make you jealous and mentioning other guys texting her.Give a small chuckle and then continue doing whatever you were doing anyway. I mean that's what I'd naturally do. Are you worried women are going to be women? Yes, of course they are going to be women! Stop trying to fight it. Remember: she was never yours, it was just your turn. Fuck her good till it's fun for both of you. If she does the things you like then that's great. Reward her for that. If she does stuff you don't like, show her you won't mind dropping her in an instant. She's like a kid… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | New to TRP. Wife treats me like garbage, what do?I want to comment because I have seen my own father live the lives you guys are describing. We are a Hindu family in India and divorce is huge no-no in the community my parents grew up in and spent the majority of their lives in. So all through the time they have been living this horrible existence together, my father could never even think of the idea of divorce. I feel massive pity for him. I remember when I was quite a lot younger he used to have a lot more enthusiasm towards life but over th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 07:01 PM |
| 2 | I am 27, still Virgin, Chennai, India. Is there a hope?You might get laid here and there if you try really hard, but to be successful with girls on a more consistent way, to have fun in life in general with girls and to have some semblance of abundance in your life, you have to look at this as a long term thing. The things you need to do to be moderately successful with women are not really all that hard, but they take time if you are basically starting from scratch. Plus they will appear hard in the beginning basically because you are not used to d… | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 04:40 PM |
| 49 | A Sensible Beginner Guide to Getting in Shape for SummerTo those having trouble with form on the compound movements - squat, deadlift, bench press, barbell rows etc., look for Alan Thrall's channel on YouTube. He has by far the best form videos I have ever seen, and I have seen loads. Check out his How To Squat video for starters. I would link it but I am on mobile and it's a pain. Also, it is very important to learn form on these lifts since you will eventually want to be moving massive weights on them. On those weights bad form can badly injure you… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Porn AddictionI experienced the harmful effects of porn recently. Wanked a whole lot to porn during a slow week. Two-three times a day for 5-6 days. Then fucked a chick on the seventh day. Had major troubles keeping it up. Couldn't cum even after a long session. Didn't enjoy it at all. Was using a rubber but I always use on so that couldn't be the issue. The only thing that was different was the jerking off to porn marathon I had through the week. Have decided to get rid of the porn habit now. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 04:18 PM |
| 1 | The ChameleonGreat post. But how does the chameleon change his ways? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you can't accept things as they are?Can you elaborate on this a bit more, please? I seem to have similar issues myself. I feel fearful of expressing myself fully around people. I constantly second guess myself and when I do manage to speak my mind, it comes out in a weak tone and fails to make the impact it logically should. Even though I know that the fear and anxiety I feel around people is a construct of my mind/ego and I should 100% be true to myself and not worry about being right or wrong so much, I fail to actually do it wh… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Will take care of that in future posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Exactly. It is nice to see that you could derive the actual message that I was trying to convey here. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Fair enough I guess. I hope my reply to your earlier post clears things up a bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.The human being, as a social animal, has different urges than other, lets say, wild animals. If you accept your own urges and see them clearly, you will find that they are not exactly 'rape' or 'smack that random chick's butt' or 'kill your boss'; or even when these thoughts do come into our minds, they are at the same time accompanied by the thought that these things will get you in real trouble and hence should not be done. Human urges will be like, 'get with this girl she is hot' - approach, … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Taken on the formatting and constructing part. But fuck you for trying to limit this subreddit to your personal definition of it. If a fellow man needs support from other men, then why can he not get it if there is even one person willing to give it? Not that it even applies in this case as I clearly did not ask for any support in any form. But I disagree with your statement on principle. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:08 AM |
| 0 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Yes, and as a man you are expected to contribute to the forum instead of making vague statements like this one here. What is your specific problem? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Yes, maybe it won't be valuable to everyone who reads it. Depends on stuff like where you are on your journey of being comfortable with yourself. That being said, I'd just say that try to check that you are not merely dissuaded by the fact that I was high when I wrote it and therefore did not read it completely objectively. Not saying that that is the case, but it could be, and there might indeed be something of value in the post for you if you read it objectively. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Sounds interesting, can you elaborate this a bit more, please? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.I got the feeling from your earlier post that you were interpreting it wrong. The reply in my explanation to you is just a part of the original message. I can elaborate more on other parts if you want. It's seriously unfortunate that people in general get so distracted by the formatting of the message that they stop trying to extract anything of value from in it. There can be value in "rambling monologues" too. That being said, this subreddit can rest assured I won't post anything else here till… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.This is really true, practical advice. I guess I still have this naive belief somewhere that if I could unabashedly share where I am coming from in all situations, then there's no reason people will not accept and relate to what I present. I felt if not for women, then this should at least be true for men, and especially fellow self-aware men trying to improve themselves. I guess posting this here and all the replies are also a lesson. Thanks for the post! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Taken, man. Will definitely take care of this if I attempt something like this again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Okay, since so many people are pointing it out, I guess I regret not formatting it and making it more structured now. But man I'd really appreciate if you guys could just get over the fact that I was high while I wrote the post. Please comment on the actual content and maybe we can discuss the problems you may have with the message itself. I didn't feel like waiting till the next day to post this realization because I was worried I wouldn't feel so strongly about it the next day, get busy with s… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.I have had experiences with weed over the years myself and I agree and disagree with you on the potato part. If you smoke weed all the time and make it a part of your routine, then you really cannot use it for anything else apart from its relaxing qualities, and of course to feed your psychological addiction in some cases. This habit of constantly being in an altered state does affect your handle on reality and you do tend to get potato level thoughts. But if used sparingly and properly, marijua… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:34 AM |
| -2 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.Why do you say that? What makes you think you can decide what is and is not appropriate and within the scope of this subreddit? Are you the ultimate theredpill master who just knows it all? Is theredpill even a finite topic with no need of new and different perspectives? Also, does mankind even know everything there is to know about weed? Has the final judgement been passed on that and, as a result all new research been halted because there is no further need? An open and less judgemental mind c… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Accept nature's design of you as an animal and feel chronic dissatisfaction vanish from your life.It kind of makes me feel pity towards you for interpreting it the way you interpreted it. You missed the overarching message. Try and work on being more intuitive if you can. Probably I could have also written it in a way that would make it more understandable for people with a wider range of cognitive skills, but I am typing on mobile and that would have been just too much work. Oh shit, we all have flaws. Guess I will just accept my share and move on with the actual fucking message which is ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How much does your looks affect your game?It matters. But you can make it not matter all that much by developing killer social skills and confidence. Develop your self esteem. Believe that you are enough. At a visceral level, you really are by the virtue.of being a man. Top it off with a good physique and dress really well, and you can roll with the best of them. A great bodybuilder physique and designer clothing is not required. Just be in decent shape and be bold enough to wear the clothes you really like. I personally have the opposi… | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Social Anxiety Holding Me BackI have been facing this issue too but its been a lot easier since I have tried to internalize a few things: You don't need validation from people in your social circle. They are humans like you and therefore are not in the position to pass judgements on whatever you say or do. They might pass judgements but they should not affect you since these judgements are coming from a place of very limited experience and are meaningless in the grand scheme of things. You are allowed to make mistakes. You a… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/15 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Need help assessing situation with this girl in grad schoolMakes sense, will keep that in mind. Really appreciate your taking the time to reply! Also, will let you know at what point I get the LJBF reply, hehe.. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Need help assessing situation with this girl in grad schoolSucks that there are none in my campus. It's just a 1000 grad students, that's it. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Need help assessing situation with this girl in grad schoolThanks for saying that. I probably knew that somewhere in the back of my head but needed to hear it like that from someone else. But before I NEXT her one last time, I'd like to test the whole situation one more time to mainly learn more about myself. There are some looks that she gives me, body language cues etc. that I want to verify whether I am reading them right or not. She is a like a natural seductress in general but I want to check how good/bad I am in reading these covert signals; if sh… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Grad school, 1000 odd people, 250 odd girls. How do I get the most out of this situation?I needed to hear the "treat grad school like a job part". Unfortunately there are no undergrads here, just the 1000 odd grad student population. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/15 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Grad school, 1000 odd people, 250 odd girls. How do I get the most out of this situation?Unfortunately there are no undergrads. The 1000 odd grad population is all there is. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/15 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Day 2 of Rejection Therapy/DaygameKeep them coming, man! | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | On what kind of girls you focused when you started your seduction journey?Looks wise you have zero problems. I think you may have problems with body language and/or gauging interest from girls. Practice holding eye contact and smiling with anyone you meet. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Day 1 of the Rejection Therapy ChallengeYes share the link, please! | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Day 1 of the Rejection Therapy ChallengeI like this. I will try to vicariously live through this experience of yours and hopefully get a lesson out of it. Thanks, keep us updated! | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Recommend this book for inner gameThanks a lot for sharing this. As the author says in the first line of the book, I too feel jolted when I realize it has been shame all along that has been holding me back. This revelation has the potential to drastically change my whole being. Recommended to everyone who feel uncomfortable in their own skin. I love this community for posts like this which prove that its not all and only about picking up woman but mostly about bettering your self. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 05:39 AM |
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