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| 2 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meI'm like you, I can start and keep a conversation that leaves women putting me in either of 2 boxes: (1) friend zone if they're not attracted to me or otherwise not interested, which is most, or (2) potential boyfriend, which is a few. "Bad boy" means you want women's raw sexual interest. I've never been good at that, because it's outside my comfort zone, because I grew up absorbing, for a variety of reasons, more puritanical sexual behavior. Note I'm 53 and long divorced with 3 kids I'm still r… | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Is driving an hour to meet up with a woman doing to much?There's no "too much," it's purely a personal choice, unless you're spending so much time pursuing sex that it's damaging other areas of your life. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else actually have a great childhood with loving parents but still struggle with dating and relationships?You're just scared of rejection and there's nothing more to it than that. That's the answer for every guy's struggles, including my own in my youth (I'm now 53 and have a 3-year girlfriend while raising 3 kids as a divorced dad). You need to just ask girls out and escalate gradually on dates with sexual flirting and touching and kissing and, most importantly, accept a fair amountbof rejection along the way and don't let it stop you with the next girl and the next after that, and so on. It's the … | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…The response asking if you have depression or other possible clinical issues is a question you need to answer, for yourself, not for us on this forum. If there's no mental health issue, and it's just the frustration so many young men share, then you need to absorb what I wrote about shutting out negative noise, including in your own head. Just take action, talk and flirt with women. Escalate. Back off when signaled it's unwelcome, and don't let it discourage you with the next girl because even t… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Having been in the poster's shoes, and being where I am now, I gotta disagree. Sex is a big part of young life, and both gratifying and fulfilling. I was far too insecure and remained a virgin for far too long into adulthood. Now at 53 and having had girls before marriage (not many) and then marriage and 3 kids and divorce and several girlfriends since, including a current 3-year relationship, I still have regrets. Long-term celibacy through youth, except as a self-assured choice, is damaging in… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 03:28 AM |
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