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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Men should just pay for submission Oof. That’s a weird take. The women I know who want to be submissive in bed seek out their matches through the BDSM community and no money exchange of any kind is involved. One was gifted a custom flogger by her Dom but each just liked the other and what the other had to offer. If you’re being paid to be submissive that makes you a sex worker. Nothing wrong if that dynamic is consensual but it’s not a boyfriend. And I don’t think “they should just pay for it” is compatible with “that will make t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 03:48 PM
1	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women Then look for intelligent women with unconventional careers. They exist too. And unintelligent men bore them. It’s not about status for everyone. You do need to go out and meet them. And you need to be able to hold a conversation. An ex of mine is a self taught programmer who dropped out of college. He’s adorable but probably wouldn’t count as “conventionally attractive” and he meets a lot of women, dates them too. He’s enthusiastic and interested in a variety of things and always willing to lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 06:28 PM
1	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women You’re fishing in the wrong pool. The academics, doctors, etc are all dating intellectual equals. I’m not saying that there aren’t women out there to whom the ability to hold a conversation is unimportant but I doubt that’s the majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 06:03 PM
1	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women What that tells me is that you want to be a hookup. Yes there are men and women are just looking for random sex. I misunderstood what your complaint was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 05:46 PM
1	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women That was both simplistic and untrue. Intelligent women are bored by unintelligent men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 04:28 PM
1	If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction… You’re fine. You just need a person not looking for “a partner in crime”. Different people seek different things. Some people won’t be a good match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:43 AM
3	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women Date equally smart women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:18 AM
1	James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys" Not sure I would take JK Rowling’s outlook as a valid life lesson.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 02:57 AM
1	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? Not unattractive but I need to actually like someone to be attracted to them. So seeing a model wouldn’t do it for me no matter how hot many people think he is. Also someone needs to smell right or at least neutral. And it’s not about how sweaty they are. Average looks are fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 02:48 AM
1	Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man? Of all the women and girls I’ve met only one “needed” wealth to seriously date or be involved with a man. She had a weird family dynamic growing up in her rich family that created it. But she still wanted a guy who was attractive to her in other ways too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 08:29 PM
–	WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEX “Hints”? That kind of suggestion generally does not go hand in hand with women taking charge of their own pleasure. You did seem to suggest that it’s the woman’s responsibility. I’m surprised you didn’t say “be direct”. But being direct also offends people. Unfortunately a lot of guys don’t know or forget that the same nerves in the penis are also in the clit. So for many women ignoring the clitoris is like suggesting that a guy orgasm solely by having his thighs or pubic mound massaged. Yes the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 06:11 PM
–	WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEX YES! Men who don’t want to touch your clit usually are insulted and angry if you do yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 05:30 PM
6	Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHING Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 04:54 AM
30	Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHING I’d prefer to enlist and defend my country myself than to support a society based on your views. It would be unfair to any woman forced to marry you. It would be terrible for a child brought into that situation. You do not sound like someone who wants to connect with and love a human you sound like someone who wants to own people. And that’s scary for women nor would I wish it onto children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 03:47 AM
1	Guys are not unattractive because they're insecure, they are insecure because they're unattractive. I feel like this is a common misconception. You gave Chad two good qualities. Handsomeness and being socially adept. Being socially adept can often be as or more important than looks. Adeptness/social ease often go hand in hand with quiet confidence. If you are citing “attractiveness” meaning looks as the most crucial factor then you either need to give Billy social adeptness too or neither gets it. But anyway since the most people are average if you take two twins one with more social adeptness than the other it’s likely that he or she w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 03:39 AM
0	Low inhibition is the most important trait a man can have. Read the top post and immediately thought “rapist” so no matter what someone looks like a person who takes what they want is kind of scary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/23 03:31 AM
3	An interesting observation about marriage I read on the askmen subreddit I believe it. My sister’s husband is like that and I know of another too. My dad who is certainly not pre-Millennial was a very involved father. But they also wouldn’t be the men complaining in that Reddit thread about their wives. A majority of those particular guys probably aren’t particularly helpful with the home or kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 06:51 PM
2	Cardinal sin with women --am I wrong? You are right but it goes for both genders and all sexual orientations. People who love you should have your back snd be thinking of a future with you since being with you is a goal of theirs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:14 AM
24	An interesting observation about marriage I read on the askmen subreddit Or the husbands aren’t helping very much. So many of the descriptions of these women are of women who are tired, resentful and sexually turned off because of that. They hang out with mommy’s because other moms can relate. They judge their husbands “parenting as they see fit”. The father may be doI something that is too casual to be safe or too harsh for a small child. Or be ignorant because he is not the one taking his child to the doctor. Yes there are batshit crazy, controlling parents out the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 01:54 AM
1	Guys here fixating too much (here's what they could be doing) Laughed out loud at “ fruity colored tattoos”. Men don’t need tattoos to date unless they specifically want to date women into tattoos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 01:33 AM
1	Sometimes I wonder “just who the hell are these women holding out for??” Has it occurred to you that your friend is choosing these women? Some people have self esteem issues or specific preferences or quirks that make them pair up with a certain type of partner. Those guys at the gym like their “bland” girlfriends. There are guys who choose that because really the people they prefer to talk to are their own gender. Those attractive girls are doing what they want to do. Frankly they may not want to share their personal life with gym employees or the people that work o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 12:47 AM
3	Cuddling is more intimate than sex? Blame it on porn Cuddling is more intimate than most of the sexual positions commonly used in porn. Porn makers like distance between the bodies so that the camera can easily film the penetration. Sometimes the guy even has one hand on his hip or behind his back. There is no contact between the actors just a lot of thrusting. But sex can be cuddly and that is amazing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 12:37 AM
17	Are ugly/fat couples really attracted to each other? "Does that make you more attracted to ugly people?" No. But what I've observed is that beyond what people think of as beauty comfort and "this is my home" is also important to many kinds of attraction. My best friend who is pretty was dating and very into a guy that I thought looked like a gargoyle. He did but he also vaguely looked like her dad. She was drawn to that. I also have seen couples gay or straight, of same or different races and they all seem to somehow have matched each other in fac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/21 04:16 PM
2	What is social media and dating apps doing to young women? I assume you're talking about heterosexual cis men and women. It's always going to be easy to find a "partner" if you have a bunch of holes you're willing to let someone stick their penis into. Try it, go some place where someone might prefer your gender and ask. You will get interest. Those girls you spend time around probably both like and are annoyed by constantly being hit on. You like it when someone you think is cool seems to like you too and the timing is right. You don't like it when you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 03:13 AM
2	Do relationships automatically make a man a beta/betabuxx? If there's any way of learning how to change that then that would be an excellent tool for you to have. Unless someone is a user type of person they tend to seek mental and emotional connection from a parter or even most friends. So if you can connect with women you are 100 times more likely to get a second date than if you had to buy the first one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:34 PM
2	Do relationships automatically make a man a beta/betabuxx? That's your weakness and something to work on. The kind of woman you want can probably support herself and isn't looking for a mealticket. She will want a man she can talk to and enjoy doing things with. Someone interesting who can hold a give-and-take conversation. The men I've met who are most successful with (intelligent) women are verbal and can hold a conversation. That's worth more than a lot of other things. It's a very valuable trait to nurture in yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:09 AM
2	Attraction to females Yeah those books are bullshit. You sound like a great mate for someone else, just not her. For what it's worth there are men and women who assume that their mate is perfectly capable of deciding small details and find it a chore to make those decisions. My guy sometimes would rather I just did something than ask his opinion. But we're not dumping each other over that. And your girlfriend certainly could have told you "you don't have to ask my opinion about something like that. I trust your judge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/20 03:15 AM
2	A very common female fantasy is to have sex with a man who is dominant in bed (hairpulling, spanking, choking) what is the equivalent male fantasy? There are plenty of male submissives out there who want a dominant woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/20 04:21 PM
1	What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ? Yes. But "attractive" as an adjective is often used when talking about looks. Chemistry is more than how handsome you are.	/r/seduction	05/04/17 07:30 PM
0	What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ? Ehhhh, kinda maybe but maybe not. What is attractive to my best friend isn't to me or my other friend. It's chemistry. What makes that chemistry varies a lot from person to person. There was only once that three of us agreed on a guy.	/r/seduction	05/04/17 04:04 PM