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I dont agree on your ideas of "society". "Society: the aggregate of people living together in a more or less ordered community." Western society for example, pertains to those in Euro-centric nations. Being a socialist, in my opinion is a subgroup - a part of society but not removed from the wider implications of the American society, so you are still affected by the beliefs ideas and behaviours of your society. In terms of universal vs objective, you'll be hard pressed to map out a methodology …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 11:45 PM
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Yes I did mistake you for OP. So, Im just wondering, by what value system are men measured by, if not by those formed by society? Btw I didnt say "objective". I said "universal". In your comment, you've accused me of calling you a liar, an Incel, a redpiller and being under handed. Non of which I have done. This is a friendly discussion in which the only insults that have been thrown at you were self inflicted. Would you like to continue the conversation about male emotionality and societal valu…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/20 10:45 PM
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But your question isnt a semantic one. Your arguing the existence of hypergamy, rather than the meaning, however there have been semantic-based responses to your question; ie widening or challenging the definition of hypergamy as adopted by the redpill community. If you would like to have this conversation instead then I'd happily engage. Really, this whole exercise has been quite a let down. I totally understand why some men could feel like they can't talk about their feelings in a productive m…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/20 02:01 AM
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Well in a capitalistic society, you could argue the "value" of a person could correlate with net worth. In a collectivistic society it could correlate with a agreeableness, or in an individualistic society it could correlate with uniqueness and extroversion. These all cant neccessarily be judged "objectively" but perhaps could be judged by consensus, by a subgroup, and therefore had an element of universality. So again; what do you mean by "value"? How is that determined? Is it a universal conce…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/20 01:35 AM
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But that's correlation not causation. There are many other factors that your probably missing ie - do men and women all earn the same, are they in the workforce to the same degree, are they responsible for childcare to the same degree, what are the social ideologies regarding income and gender in that culture? Its not a sound argument.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 02:55 AM
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But dont you think that would be really disruptive to relationships? How would our society even exist amongst this contant making, breaking and searching for the next relationship. I just dont see that in the dating world. In my experience people ultimately just want to settle down and have a happy life.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 02:50 AM
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What do you mean by "value"? How is that determined? Is it a universal concept or unique to each individual?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 02:45 AM
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I feel like most people want to find their equal in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 02:44 AM
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I think from a biological perspective the concept doesn't seem to make much sense. As a generality lets say that many womens' goals are to get married and have kids. It takes relationship stability for that to happen which hypergamy would disrupt. I think in this era, where many people have tonnes of student debt, can barely afford a car let alone a house, and earn minimum wage, I just think its an outdated concept. The fact is people settle down and have kids with those they are around, whether…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/20 02:43 AM
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Brilliant.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:08 PM
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Ok, so let me talk about the things women do to their appearance before even stepping outside; -shave most body hair (every 2 to 3 days) -pluck/ wax eyebrows (bi monthly) -exfoliate and moisturise (daily) -fake tans / tanning beds (weekly) -hair cuts, blow dries, wigs weaves/ hair extensions (daily/weekly) -make up costing hundreds (daily) -control pants and push up bras (depends) -fake nails and manicures (weekly) -sexy outfits (mostly on occassions) -heels (mostly on occassions) -expensive jew…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 05:22 PM
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Being dirty is not the same as having acne. Acne is a medical condition and most people are aware of that. Good luck with your treatment btw, hopefully what ever is causing your acne will settle down soon.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 05:06 PM
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Very entertaining story there.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 05:02 PM
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What was the "sign on weakness" you showed after 7 months. Can you elaborate? Also, what makes you a "failed male"?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 04:55 PM
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I dont think its about preserving sekf respect, I think its about vetting. At least if she gets a feel of you first she can decide if you're good fb material.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 04:50 PM
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In that case I think you need to understand that everyone is different. The way they engage in sex is different and thats ok. Seeing sex as a reward or some type of measure of your own desirability is really unhealthy and can only lead to low self worth. If this girl is talking to you every chance she gets, loves seeing you, and in general in excite about you, take that as your cue that she likes you.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 04:45 PM
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Not really. Women want sex as much as men do but there are a million things both parties can do that can turn that yes into a hard no. Also, no ones a mind reader, if she says no then how would you determine if its really a no or not. Quite frankly having sexual partners that run hot and cold aren't worth the effort. Could it be that you've read a yes ("let chillout at my place") where there wasn't one ("I meant just as friends")? Id advise you to read up on coersion in cases of rape and thread …
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 04:42 PM
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Do you like yourself? Do you want to enjoy the experience of dating because you deserve to have fun?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:50 AM
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I think that women deal with the loss of their relationship during the rocky stages before a break up. So by the time it finally ends they gave some closure and acceptance. I also feel that men struggle to analyse the relationship after; in every relationships both parties mess up, have regrets abd accomplishments. Being able to take stock and accept these things is an important part of moving on instead of being perpetually angry. I feel men sometimes struggle with this. I think it has to do wi…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:47 AM
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Please dont get married if you dont want to. Just explain to her that your so excited to be a father, and that your committed to both her and your baby, but right now its just not the right time for marriage for you. Tell her that you would really appreciate it if she respected your wishes and if your going to get married then you want to do it right. She might be feeling insecure that you might leave her, but assure her in your actions and words that you arent going anywhere, and be consistent.…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:41 AM
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There is no magic answer for this I guess. You just have to get to know people for who they are. If you can only have surface level conversations with people, and if they never ask you about your thoughts, beliefs and ideas, then maybe they aren't the person your looking for. Also, I would recommend limiting how much you talk about your work outs diet etc. Or, instead talk about it in a way that enphasiszes your well being ie "I love how it makes me feel, I like respecting/looking after my templ…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:21 AM
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There are some people that are unable to say what they want and arent very assertive. If you dont like these people, avoid them. But also I think theres a huge problem in being able to hear or read what a person is saying. For example, soft no's. But the more socially and emotionally intellgient you become, the more socially literate you become too.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:16 AM
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Believing that women have value as people is putting them on a pedestal?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:10 AM
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Tbh, befriending and flirting can look really similar in the beginning. If you begin all relationships being funny and friendly until you get the green light, then the options are usually still there later on. Just watch out for the signs that shes into you and respond appropriately.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:06 AM
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Just wanted to add my 2 cents. So you spent the night looking at old photos of you with your gf, but when it comes to looking at her past you dont care? Seems a little selfish. Maybe be a bit more reciprical. Be interested in her like she's interested in you. Those images probably have a lot of memories attached to them, a lot of good times she might want to share with you. If you care about her then you care about all of who she is, including her past and hopefully her future too.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 07:02 AM
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