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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | instead of a real man...?No... this seems potentially quite dangerous for ones mental health long term. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:04 PM |
| 3 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Fair enough. If it's been working so far. Do you use other apps to supplement? | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 11:41 AM |
| 1 | First kind of One Night Stand?Might try giving her a call Monday after work or something. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | First kind of One Night Stand?I'd say so yeah, I guess i like having more of an emotional connection. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 12:00 AM |
| 5 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?Coffee dates are really good for if you approach someone in person and invite them for like a quick spontaneous date st least. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Guys diagnosed with depression did it affect your seduction skills?Can be 100%. But it also seems like there are some people that do genuinely just have a disconnect or chemical imbalance, and no amount of exercise, therapy, positive thinking, purpose or love can cure it. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What to talk about with girls at a party???You don't have to have long conversations with people. If you find yourself struggling to find things to say, it might be better to just chat, have a bit of fun, ask name, what they're doing there, some high energy convo about whatever (maybe flirt a bit) and bid them farewell and go talk to other people. You'll see them again if it's a house party anyway. Then later on in the night it's easy to talk to them again. And if the combo went well they might even associate you with fun and be extra st… | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Girl calls me bro after the night we had sexOverthinking. Why do you feel like you're doing that? | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 09:52 AM |
| 12 | Girl doesn't remember me after night, because she was too drunkDon't go for drunk girls ig. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Girl doesn't remember me after night, because she was too drunkEither way, she doesn't sound interested tbf. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 07:53 PM |
| 6 | How not to cold approach from a woman’s perspectiveGreat post. Rejection is a big problem for a lot of guys but if they just handle it with a little grace, it pretty much turns into a non issue. Many men don't realize how much of threat they pose to the average woman as well. Rejecting guys can be a really slippery slope. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 12:32 PM |
| 5 | How can I have sex with this person??Yeah but you've given 0 insight that is remotely intrested. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 05:44 PM |
| 7 | How can I have sex with this person??A woman that's friends with his mom at that. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do people use dating apps and not instagram?Not everyone wants to use standard social media. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 03:27 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?That's not really true though is lol. There's a large number of girls that are "young" that like older guys and some that only date older guys. Doesn't mean don't try get better as soon as possible but it really doesnt seem that its true that it's harder. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Girls trolling on dating appsMen and women are bored and go to dating apps. It's just not a consistent experience. You might find something worthwhile, you might totally waste your time. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here been approached by an older woman/milf?Kinda. She just grabbed me as I walked past in a club. I recall her asking if I could wing man for her. I invited her over to near my group, and we messed about for a bit. I took her number and were going to meet up soon. I'm actually properly busy but might meet up next weekend. She kept giving me the "you're too young" "I'm too old" blah blah. I just kept being non reactive and she kept feeling me up and kissing me. I will say older women seem better at picking up on guys bullshit. So, don't p… | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 09:59 PM |
| 20 | The main thing that drives sexual attraction in women is leadershipIts a good point but damn that's a lot to read. Consicse is good lol. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Someone who doesn’t have a social circle or many friends for that matter. How can one meet women outside of online means?People ain't talking to women in a school you wacko 🤣. What you on about? The worst thing about cold approach for most people is being rejected or wasting. | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 5 | How do you text with girls on insta?Good point about girls that are taken responding. If it's about attention and promotion, there's a faid number of people that have no problem flirting and leading people on even if they're in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Laughter being anti-seductiveClowns aren't generally sexy but laughter makes people feel good. I reckon you're probably smiling more than you think tbf. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 09:26 PM |
| 10 | If you forget everything else about seduction, remember this one thingSo, is the post about how we as men should frame our interactions with women as testing them? What can she offer for me? Do I like her? Is she worth my time? Is it more about collaboration and being outright with your intentions and desires to a almost flawed extent? | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Feelijg jealous of friend getting instagramsIt's possibly because you seem needy and outcome dependant. Women supposedly are good at discerning those traits in guys and generally they're turn offs. Getting instagrams is only something to do if you actually build rapport and intrest. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have experience with women having extremely high expectations of them?Great answer! OP definitely sounds like he falls into traps of neediness and outcome dependence. Very common things though tbf. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Are "leagues" a thing?I think most people agree that celebrities are a bit of different story. Less about their appearance. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | A Philosophical Perspective That Might Help You Get ChicksIntresting way to look at, I suppose. If you don't approach a woman specifically because you feel like you're not worthy, then this is absolutely a problem that you should address. That's fair enough. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭200 on a date seems pretty mad tbf. Definitely possible to do things that bleed you to that extent. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with womenWithout knowing where you moved from to, it's kind of hard to visualize how this works. What do you propose you do now? Night game doesn't allow for all that much talking, so if you're finding your vibe and physical appearance isn't doing what you'd like, are you going to try something else? Different style? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce someone out of your league without showing needyThe first thing to so logically is to stop thinking of people as "out of your league". Super attractive women are just people lol. Even celebrities. Naturlaly, the average guy doesn't have access to spend anytime with celebrities but there are plenty of very attractive women all over the place. Stop shooting yourself I'm the foot before you've even started. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | How do I accept that I'm not cut out for this?Being so outcome dependant can be counterproductive. This seems like a common trap for people to fall into, trying too hard, being too needy etc. You really ought te to be comfortable with yourself and being alone. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 11:35 AM |
| 7 | WWYD - she wants me to pay half of a hotel she paid forYou can just get "next one" or something. You shouldn't have to pay for something that you haven't signed off on beforehand. Simple enough I reckon. It's up to you though of course. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 11:07 AM |
| 5 | Are girls turned on when they see you with other girls?It just helps cement the idea that you have social skills and you're not a weirdo. Sometimes people will give you a weird amount of props becuase they see you talking/hanging out with an attractive girl. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How to make my GF more Horny?This ain't the attitude to have. If you're just with her because you're scared of being alone, don't think you can do better or you feel responsible for ber, you're just shooting yourself in the foot. Never understood how people can be in relationships with people they don't have that spark with. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How to make my GF more Horny?Yeah, you don't need to do all that. It's normal to talk to women and have female friends. If the only women you talk to is her she might think there's something wrong with you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to make my GF more Horny?"Make her more horny at me"? Improving your communication skills would bs be a good start. Charismatic and communication go hand in hand, and the more charismatic you are, the more (hopefully) desirable you are. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 5 ft 5 obese janitor with moderate autism. What's the best way for me to find a girlfriend and get laid?Work on your social skills and do some exercise. Even if your confident, statistically speaking there will be less girls that would fuck with you now vs if you got in better shape and improved your socil...intelligence. Plus, being "obese" is just going to wreak havic or your health man. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Former insecure people when /how did you accept you are attractive?I'm not sure what I am, but I have healthy self esteem (despite struggling with depression and anxiety). Just understand that everyone is different and they bring various things to the table helps. Don't prescribe to things like not being attractive enough to talk to certain people or something like that. My last..gf, was apparently attractive enough that, 4 friends didn't even believe I was dating her😔. I enjoy talking to all people and have sufficient confidence to talk to beautiful women like… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How to stop nerves when i'm talking to a beautifull lady?I don't have this issue because I've talked with attractive girls in a platonic sense through work and social circles. Rmeebr that they're just people like you and me. Most attractive girls don't even want guys to pit them on a pedestal, and they just want to be treated like an individual with their own thoughts and feelings. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Beginner tips for someone introverted going solo to the night life?Work up to it. Talk to men and women. Talk to people at the grocery store, gym, while you're walking. Probably Dont go from talking to people, to trying to chat up girls in a loud nightclub on a solo night out. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 12:16 PM |
| 4 | If you go to bars solo, should you lie about why you're there alone?Not really lol. It's fine to say you're just there to have fun and enjoy yourself. Anybody that's not a socially inept weirdo or an asshole won't care if you're out by yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 09:33 PM |
| 19 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.So many guys go out with a needy or desperate frame of mind, and it totally stops them from having success but more importantly than that, it stops them having fun and a good time. It's a talent to be able to just chill out and have a good without putting pressure on yourself. If more guys could do this, there would be a lot less frustration. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 14 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedWell summarized. I've never heard anyone just ask for sex but I'm sure it's actually worked at some point tbf 😅. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Why would a woman be mean to the guy they like?To see if he's a pussy 🤷♂️. Women don't like weak guys generally speaking, so it's a decent way to see if a guy is over reactive and emotional. For example if If she made a comment about you being short or skinny and you reacted by crying, getting angry, slut shaming etc, she'd write you off. If you didn't care, you can probably do something. | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 04:47 PM |
| 5 | I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window.You're depressed because "less attractive" guys get women. It seems likely you have some hefty self esteem issues. Ego is good but not if you're insecure, which you sound close enough to for it be a negative spiral of self doubt, neediness and lack of action. I'd say you should look into building more genuine confidence and self worth through exercise, maybe even therapy. Seen some "good looking" guys turn themselves into simps and incels. Slippery slope. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 08:52 PM |
| 4 | How to follow up after getting girls insta on a nightout?I tell her my insta, she adds me and then I add them. Sometimes my excuse is we get a picture and I what her to send me it. My account is private too | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How to ask a girl out over text?Someone you meet through social media, dating apps | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Appreciate you sharing, that sounds really horrible. That's sounding like a pretty bad work environment and I'd defo recommend trying to find a decent replacement elsewhere if possible. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Describing it as garbadge feels like an emotional reaction that invalidates the experience of a great many men. I can't count the number of times a woman has said she wants an emotional guy etc only to show attraction to or pursue someone thats cold and stoic. This is but a hypothesis, you obviously disagree but statically you're in the minority based on the responses | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Not being afraid of rejection, being affronted by people's negative views of you, not being unmotivated or overly emotional. Guys that complain endlessly about their appearance or how hard they have it and/refusing to help themselves. You may seen guys thst think becuase they're short or ethnic, or not handsome complain endlessly about wmhow women are wholesale, shallow blah blah, nothing you say can shift thst mindset in them because...they're weak, and not "masculine". Not so much what I think… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Meaning the post is of low value...or wmsomething else? | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 10:56 PM |
| 10 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Tbf regardless of the cause, it can be deep rooted, in a woman that otherwise is cmquite compassionate. Another example could be short guys, I've seen some of the sweetest, most normal ass women turn into passionate anti-manlet activists in a few seconds😅 | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Maybe sarcasm but this seems like an important subject for men to consider and pontificate on. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.I don't disagree with what you're saying and I like this goes against my post, I like debating. But the logic I suppose is there's a time and a place to be emotionally vulnerable and it ain't when you meet a girl for the first or at early stage in that relationship or any point until she is proven to be, on thst level. If you're an average dude, one of the biggest killers to building attraction with a woman is being too emotional, vulnerable etc. If women want to be led, protected, how can they … | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 10:46 PM |
| 0 | I feel nothing, anyone else?Altruism doesn't have to have much to with money if anything at all in fairness. Some of the best freinds and people in life offer little momentary value but administer value through their intellect, advice, support, empathy, wisdom, etc | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 12:04 PM |
| 0 | I feel nothing, anyone else?The statistical probability that you are either of those things is very slim. Some people are just apathetic. You could be a high fucntioning depressed person. Who knows, all we can do is try find meaning. Have you ever tried being altruistic? You know, helping people and all that shit? Maybe there's something in life that would elevate your sense of being. Also, try training in martial arts, sparring, maybe even try gettinit into it at an amateur level. Seems unlikely that fighting aand ompetin… | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?Call them... | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way?Why would they? I suppose The point is, picking fights and being physically aggressive doesn't net positive results with 'pulling" women. Also ethics legality etc. Again, if you've been in or seen an actual street fight, there are rarely any winners, just someone thats slightly less fucked up than the other one. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 11:25 PM |
| 0 | I Always Assume All Women Find me HideousWell you can still be unhealthy, muscular/ripped victim with a lackluster diet. Go to therapy. Ditch the ego. Mens mental health blah blah. Just do something else | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way?Can you really infer you know what "works", when you think that physically threating other men in public, is conducive to turning women on? | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 0 | I Always Assume All Women Find me HideousPlenty of things could be said but (based on your history and comment chain) most likely, you're one of these unfortunate people that doesn't actually want to help themselves. Maybe you like victimising yourself, who knows. Regardless, therapy, exercise and a better diet are the only things you should concern yourself with at the moment. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 07:43 PM |
| 3 | What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way?Being physically powerful and a capable fighter is enough. Starting and getting into fights is stupid and liable to get you in legal trouble, especially to impress women. You've defintley never been in a street fight or seen a street fight if you'd give this advice out 🤣 | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way?...literally never seen or heard of a woman that was "turned on" by street violence in front of her | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I've used AI to help me with cold approaching. Is it ethical?Begone bot | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women in public... and asking for a selfie?I dont know if fuckboy is the right word. Disillusioned, bored, empty are good words here. Its a flaw. Maybe I need a break. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women in public... and asking for a selfie?Ypu can still get someones number and irls number have a chuckle. The exchange only lasted a few minutes. I think this is the kind of shit that pays off becuse it makes the whole dating thing less boring. Maybe I'm less intrested in dating than I thought. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?There's nothing needy about bring attracted to a woman. I cant say for sure because I dont know your dynamic but I'd recommend less banter, more flirting, eye contact, touching etc. I'd reckon you should invite out for a 20 30 min drink (coffee, whatever) to get to know more about her and understand her...situation. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:45 AM |
| 10 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?I've fallen into such a trap before. Ni matters who she is, no woman wants to be treated exactly like "one of the guys". I've called a girl every name under the sun, including "mate", "lad", "geezer" (I'm British 😅) and even though no girls like being called this, my eye contact and the subtext was that I was sexually attracted to her made all the difference. I made a joke about putting her over my knee and spanking her and the look in her eyes, she was definitely into it. If I ever wanted an ex… | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:19 AM |
| 3 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?Bloody good stuff 👌 | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.I'm just going to pretend in this case these working girls are actually interested in yall outisde of "work". She's exposing herself to you physically and presumably emotionally, and you're looking at your phone... if you were having a normal conversation with a woman and you started looking at your phone it would turn her off, doing this whilst she's naked (vulnerable) is about the most offensive thing you could do tbf, outwide of insulting her and telling her she doesn't look good. I imagine s… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:41 PM |
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