DDSwift Archive

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266	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How.	Fundamentals	DDSwift	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:47 AM

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1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I appreciate you standing up for me and my family. I'm challenging some of these people's way of life, do it's only natural for them to lash out 😂	/r/seduction	10/07/22 10:43 AM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. You claim I've never struggled dating as if you know me. I used to lurk on here trying to find advice, just like everyone else here, because I also struggled. I see all lot of people getting frustrated and discouraged because they try to play a huge numbers game, and I'm trying to remind them that there's another way. My advice isn't for everyone, but there's no need to be insulting. Regardless, I'm happy what you're doing is working out for you 🙏🏾🙏🏾	/r/seduction	08/07/22 01:41 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. In the beginning, sometimes yeah, but as soon as I realize she doesn't want me like that, I wouldn't want sex down the line. I pretty much stop thinking about sex altogether	/r/seduction	04/07/22 03:26 AM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Hmm idk man, it's honestly hard to say because I don't know your situation like that, but I feel like 9 million is a lot of people	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:26 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. That's pretty dope. I'm surprised there aren't more women into botany. Yeah you might have a smaller dating pool for sure, but I'm sure there are like gene splicer conventions or something like that	/r/seduction	03/07/22 10:09 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Nice!!!	/r/seduction	03/07/22 10:07 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. AYYYYEE CONGRATS 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 That's beautiful. Yeah tinder was a shit show before I met my wife. I honestly got lucky AF. That being said, I also pretty much used tinder while doing things like taking a shit or queuing up for whatever game	/r/seduction	03/07/22 09:53 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. From my understanding, it's working on yourself in whatever way you need. Working out, hygiene, public speech, things like that	/r/seduction	03/07/22 09:48 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Nah you don't. It's ok if you have a smaller pool based on your interests. If you meet people that don't share common interests with you, you'll probably have a bad time. If you're comfortable sharing, what do you do in your spare time?	/r/seduction	03/07/22 09:38 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yep! That's why focusing on inner game works so well. You're focused on yourself, so you stop obsessing about others	/r/seduction	03/07/22 08:51 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yeah I definitely agree with you. At the end of the day, people have to do what works for them. I think what made me make this post is that I saw a lot of people who were trying to play a numbers game and getting discouraged by the constant rejection. There have been times where night game was fun for me, and times when it wasn't. I also fell into the trap of having chronic oneitis. I used to obsess very hard about individual women. In fact, if you look at one of my previous posts in r/relations…	/r/seduction	03/07/22 08:50 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Nice. Those are some dope ass hobbies. I think if you just go to the park and fly your drone around, you might meet people because drones are cool	/r/seduction	03/07/22 07:47 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Back in the day there was this event for gamers where they would rent out the bar, set up a bunch of video games, and have happy hour specials. I made many friends	/r/seduction	03/07/22 06:37 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Damn, man I'm sorry to hear that. I think that if the struggle is even finding women to hang out with, you may want to work on inner game, but that's a whole different thread. I'm no expert, but I'm always happy to help in any way I can	/r/seduction	03/07/22 06:08 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Ahhh ok gotcha	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:50 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. As I've said multiple times, do whatever works for you. I'm just suggesting people maybe not go for the whole "cast a wide net" strategy. The goal is not to fuck your friends or try to fuck your friends. The idea is that you intiate the relationship however the hell you choose to, and if she doesn't sleep with you, just accept that she doesn't want you in that way. I do NOT advise sticking around someone who doesn't want you in hopes of them eventually wanting you. Stick around because y'all enj…	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:38 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yeah I guess that's all I'm trying to do. If what you're doing works for you, that's great, but there are other ways. These dudes are beating themselves up because they're losing at a game they don't have to play	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:29 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. It's only a loss if you let it be 😉	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:13 PM
3	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. There you go. You out here winning 💪🏾💪🏾	/r/seduction	03/07/22 04:57 PM
0	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. That's what I'm saying... people be overthinking it so hard. Just show up and be a regular person, instead of looking at everyone as an NPC in your own little game	/r/seduction	03/07/22 04:32 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. What do you do in your spare time?	/r/seduction	03/07/22 04:30 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yeah man. We get into our heads so often. It throws us off in ways we don't even notice... Plus, when you think of it as a game, you open up the idea of "losing" and it could feel bad. Also, you don't need to be a big extrovert to get laid. Introverts tend to like the company of other introverts, so when you find a kindred spirit, sparks can really fly. Or not. Either way it's ok, and that's the point	/r/seduction	03/07/22 04:29 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. It really is that simple	/r/seduction	03/07/22 04:11 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Somewhere around 15 or 16. I stopped counting after 13ish. I honestly don't know if that's high or low, but like I said, it was often with very little effort	/r/seduction	03/07/22 03:49 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. My wife is beautiful, but she doesn't like anime 😢😢	/r/seduction	03/07/22 02:14 PM
0	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. That's fine	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:46 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Call it what you want 🙏🏾	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:46 PM
8	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Exactly. When you look at every interaction with attractive women as "success" or "not success", you end up on a slippery slope to feeling like a failure. Once you understand that not having sex is just as good, if not better, you can stop worrying about what people think about you and it helps you gain confidence	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:40 PM
3	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. It does seem like a fine line. I think it may be helpful to imagine the same scenario with a person you aren't attracted to. Think about people you've hung out with a couple times but just never really hung out that much because y'all don't have much in common. The same exact thing can happen to someone you are attracted to. I think severing a relationship would be actively avoiding the person	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:27 PM
3	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yeah man. Once it clicked for me, life became much less lonely. I'm happy I was able to help🙏🏾	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:17 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I appreciate that. I've been doing sales for about 13 years, and it is incredibly similar to dating haha.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:15 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I know why you feel the way you do, and it gets really deep, but dark skin brothas be winning too	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:13 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I wouldn't hang out with them anymore	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:12 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Think about it 😉	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:42 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. If they're rude, racist, mean, etc right off the bat. Most of us can identify red flags within minutes of meeting someone	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:42 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yeah you're right - there's no one size fits all advice on anything. This is all based on my own personal experiences. I should have put that in the beginning. I think if your demeanor and looks make you that unattractive, then inner game is probably the focus here like working out, hygiene stuff like that. That's totally a prerequisite, but I found that even when I was at my most attractive, trying to play some numbers game was exhausting. Typically, if I'm hanging out with someone I have a cru…	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:41 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I agree with everything you are saying here. I'm definitely not trying to advise people use others to find sex. Sometimes friends happen to be wingmen, but it's not expected	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:31 PM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I try to be friends with every person I talk to, unless I don't like them	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:29 PM
3	Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day? I think you're right 😂	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:28 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I think that's an inner game thing. If people don't hear you, you gotta be louder. If they don't see you, make yourself more visible, etc.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:25 PM
0	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Excellent question. We probably won't hang out that much haha. And that's ok too. Growing apart is a form of the relationship developing organically as opposed to severing a relationship	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:24 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I'm always high	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:16 PM
0	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Abso-fuckin-lutely would and I do. Shit I play her wingman. If she's not into me I don't care because there are plenty of other women in the world. I'll be ok without sexing this one. There are a lot of attractive people in the world. You don't have to stop hanging out with some just because you think they're attractive, but they don't want to have sex with you	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:15 PM
5	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. The point in trying to make us to stop being so obsessed with results. If you never ever have sex with her, that's ok because there are a plenty of fish in the sea. What I'm saying is, don't be so quick to ditch her just because she doesn't wanna have sex. A legit friendship is better than sex, and will lead to more sex with other women with wayyyyyy less effort than the whole numbers game	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:10 PM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. The point is that you aren't her friend for the opportunity. You're just her friend to be her friend. Here's what's happened for me. Met a girl, tried to bag her. She didn't really seem interested, but she was a cool person so we just hung out. Now, 5 years, later, we're still tight, do business together, she's met my wife and kid, I've met her boyfriend, and she's a legit positive addition to my life. Met a girl early in college. She's super hot, so of course I shot my shot early. I realized I …	/r/seduction	03/07/22 12:07 PM
0	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. My point is, if she wants to have sex with you, she'll make it clear. If she doesn't wanna have sex with her, then don't try to have sex with her. It's not a matter if waiting for her to want you. It's a matter of accepting that maybe she's hanging out with you and talk to you because you're a legit cool person she just wants to hang out with. If you look at it as a "friend zone" then you have the wrong mindset	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:53 AM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:24 AM
6	Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day? She was cute, but that our personal opinions about her looks don't really matter	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:23 AM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Like I said, what works for you, works for you and that's great. I've pulled women from clubs with very clear intentions. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't, but after a while, it feels like a waste of time and isn't much fun. For me at least. All I'm saying is you don't HAVE to do that, and if you don't bother playing the game that way, it'll be way easier for you	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:22 AM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Lmaoooo hey it's there on the internet, so if he wants to go looking, that's none of my business 🤣🤣🤣	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:20 AM
2	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Lmao I didn't wanna say it	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:18 AM
8	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Hey man, if you wanna be a pick-up artist and just go fishing for women, that's fine. If that's your strat, and you have a whole bunch of success, good for you. I see a bunch of dudes on here that are super frustrated and discouraged because they talk to 100 women trying to get to a specific goal, dealing with all that rejection. That shit sucks and gives most people self confidence issues. I'm just trying to tell people that if you just chill instead of acting like a dog with his balls hanging …	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:17 AM
4	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Nah that's not what I'm trying to say at all. I think the point may have gone over your head, my friend. My point is to stop thinking about it like a game. There is no "approach phase". There are no prospects. Just people. It is NOT a mistake to hang out with women who don't want to sleep with you. Just don't try to sleep with her. Just be a friend for the sake of being a friend. If you stop talking to a woman, just because she doesn't wanna have sex, that is the true failure	/r/seduction	03/07/22 11:06 AM
7	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I mean, I get it though. I don't wanna call dudes pathetic. I've been there before, and made all the mistakes. I think after a while, I got rejected enough times to not even want to try anymore, and then things changed for the better.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:40 AM
15	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:36 AM
4	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I met my wife on tinder lol. Now before this, I've had several tinder dates, and they resulted in various outcomes, all positive. Sometimes sex, sometimes just a nice meal, sometimes the date is boring as shit and we never talk to each other, but at least I didn't push her away by having an ulterior motives. The first time we hung out, it was me her, and a friend of hers. I was the one who suggested she bring a friend so that she would feel safe. I literally told her I was broke so all we could …	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:35 AM
1	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. I'm curious though, why do you ask?	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:29 AM
3	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. There are pictures of me in some of my old posts if you want to see, but I warn you, they are nudes	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:27 AM
5	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Exactamundo What's funny is that I realized this after making that same exact mistake. I got laid and tried to just replicate a formula. Obviously didn't work at all, and I faced a lot of rejection. Eventually I ended up chickening out every time I had alone time with a woman and refused to make the first move. It started happening so often, that I just decided if she didn't make the first move, I would assume she didn't wanna have sex, and I would just make a friend. I ended up making a lot of …	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:26 AM
5	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Nope. I'm black	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:17 AM
4	I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How. Yeah. I think the key is making sure to have real substance. If all you're tryna do is get your weewee wet, the other person will notice, and then you're just left feeling either rejected or fulfilled, depending on the outcome. It's pretty much a diceroll, but not in your favor. Genuinity (yes I made the word up) is attractive, and increases chances of sex, and also makes non-sex a positive outcome. Be genuine, and stop thinking about sex y'all	/r/seduction	03/07/22 02:01 AM
34	Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day? Yes. I was out of town, and I went to a girl who was a cashier at a local chicken joint. I gave her my number, and told her I'll only be in town for one day. She called that night and boom	/r/seduction	03/07/22 01:28 AM
0	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. Oh yeah both my wife and I agree we were straight up thots before we met 😂	/r/seduction	26/12/21 01:11 AM
1	Im not great with women, but I'm growing a pair and getting it done. The way I like to think about rejection is that it's like getting stung by a bee. It hurts for like 2 minutes, but then you realize it's not so bad	/r/seduction	02/12/12 08:32 PM