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| 1 | Flirting calibrationYea ik it’s not all one sentence …. You:”wanna come back to my place “ Girl: “gets noticeably shy/quiet” You: oh I’m just kidding ……… ————————————————- You’re only saying it’s a joke if you make her uncomfortable. If it was actually a joke the convo would be like this 👇👇👇 You: “wanna come back to my place” Girl: “yea that sounds fun” You: “ oh I’m just kidding “ ———————————————— | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Flirting calibrationSo the sexual suggestions are only jokes because she gets uncomfortable? If the sexual suggestion got you laid you wouldnt call them jokes? you wouldn’t be here asking for advice on how to escalate into sex/intimacy if your just joking around | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.Also don’t understand how you can be so unconfident in yourself/ability……but then confidently say you see unattractive dudes with hot women ……….you see “unattractive” dudes with pretty girls ……. So your insinuating your more attractive than the ugly dudes with hot gfs . So you’re confident you’re more attractive than a few ugly dudes you’ve seen who have a hot gf. How is it that somehow you have proof there’s dudes uglier than you that have hot gfs and you still doubt yourself ? …. If an ugly du… | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.You gotta Lay off the porn buddy 😭. Help me comprehend how you became so infatuated with this girl on the train described and everything you liked about her and you couldn’t even ask her name ? ……”hey I think your glasses are really nice , what brand are they “? (Keep eye contact) ………”their (brand)”……”oh my sister has the same brand“ ( or some bs abt the brand of glasses) ……then just ask…..”my bad I’m (you’re name here) what was your name again” ? And easily continue it with “well (her name) you… | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 11:14 AM |
| 1 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachMy usual response to “Hang out as friends” to decline to hangout while also alluding sex ….…”I’m sorry but we can’t hangout as friends. A Friend wouldn’t want to hear you moan their name all night”……use as a smooth closer ……..you can easily end the conversation here because you’re not interested in being friends…..the response will be a definite statement insinuating if shes down or not | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 07:14 AM |
| -3 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?I only said crushs because the other guy said it…..but I mean he really liked the girl alot I don’t imagine he’d be completely fine just ruining any chance he had by fumbling in a conversation | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:30 AM |
| -4 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?I’m not saying to 100 fake a whole conversation ! Obviously every conversation should predominantly be “winged” but if something said or asked to you , you have the choice of plainly responding like you’re in an interview or you can respond with a flirtatious/intrested response thats previously had a positive impact and still answers the question | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Alright ……Game A = desired woman…….Game B =undesired woman…. Say The reward for completing “Game A” is 1 million dollars but you only are given one chance to complete it…….. Game B is exactly the same as Game A. There’s no reward for completing Game B and you get unlimited attempts to complete Game B………. If you’re able to continuously practice Game B wouldn’t you practice till you’ve mastered it…..and you’ll have a greater chance of successfully beating Game A since you’ve mastered Game B that’s… | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Get rid of the idea that one’s easier than the other……practice with women that you don’t actually want and then apply that learned knowledge when pursuing a girl you actually like…..it doesn’t make it easier to seduce the girl you want ……..all it doesn’t is maximize your chances to seduce the woman you want…..there’s definitely still a decent chance of messing up with the girl you actually like but if you just winged an entire convo the chances of failure is significantly greater….if you could i… | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?I’m already talking about 2 identical tests? Idk what made you think , 1 was easier than the other ? | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 05:01 AM |
| -1 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?I don’t think he’s seducing for relations….why would anyone totally “wing” a conversation especially if they’re a crush…it’s like shooting fish in a barrel……if it goes well then good….but if it goes bad you’ve just completely fucked up a chance with your crush? So why wouldn’t you wanna learn how to effectively seduce and converse with other women to help your chances of your desired outcome with your crush | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?For example……..if you take a practice test and fail it …..are you gonna make the same mistakes on the real test and hope to pass it? or will you adjust your answers on the real test to give yourself better odds of passing ? | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?I literally said the 2nd half of this comment. So yes it’ll 100% make it easier for him to pursue women he’s actually into in the future…… i said exactly that …….so the answer to the top paragraph is NO because I never said any of that lol. He doesn’t need to prefer practicing on women he has no interest in. He can practice on any woman he wants lmao…but theres no risk factor of the outcome of interactions with women he doesn’t find attractive | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Yes. I think that ? In what world would anyone approach a girl he actually wants and risk ruining his chances cause he unintentionally said something wrong ?…..so approach women you don’t really care for and learn what works …..so you have a better chance at not ruining a chance with a women you actually want. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | This will be my first date in this country, help me outDinner is fine but it shouldnt be the main focus of the date ………do some kind of fun activity like mini golf or an arcade first to get rid of the nervousness …..and finish off with dinner , more often than not you should pay the whole bill.the only exception is if the women is taking advantage by ordering the most expensive foods on purpose and you can’t afford it ,otherwise if you can afford it then still pay | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:08 AM |
| 0 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Wait who? | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?If you would’ve said “no why mess with someone’s feelings” you’d be cooked | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:59 AM |
| 9 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Being able to learn how to navigate conversations or specific topics without the fear of “ruining” a chance….he can say whatever and fuck up the whole conversation and not care because he didn’t even like the girl in the first place…but he’ll still learn something | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:55 AM |
| 7 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?You gotta learn a sport b4 you play it professionally…….if he can actively and effectively pursue and seduce the women he’s not even into …..it’s like studying for a test……he’s using his current interactions to find out what does and doesn’t work and then can use that knowledge to better his chances with his desired women…. I don’t see an issue with what he’s doing unless he’s pillow talking/teasing about a future with them etc ,but it doesn’t sound like he’s looking for a relationship anyway | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:47 AM |
| 4 | What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys)Is this from personal experience or what? If you have to flaunt or show any of those things to get laid you don't even know what seduction is 😂 | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:59 AM |
| 3 | What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys)Quit making excuses for yourself it's not gonna help......your very confident that your ugly ? Why don't you put that confidence and passion you have towards seeing everything else ? A narrow mouth and thin lips isn't what's holding you back it's your mentality and u needa fix it cause your making yourself depressed for no reason. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy"Do u have certain sentences you always hear and don't know how to reply ? Hard to give an example outta thin air | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 04:48 PM |
| 2 | I can’t get over a girl, is there anyway to regain her interest?Also sounds like you hyper fixated on her heavily and disregarded your own sense of self. In a since the pedestal you put her on is taller than the one you made for yourself. It's giving the vibes like she's a God and your the peasant kneeling and kissing her toes and doing anything they ask. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | I can’t get over a girl, is there anyway to regain her interest?Hit her with the "hey I have something to tell you " and then never respond from then on .. make her wait till she asks in person what you were gonna say and just say you don't remember 😂 she'll always be thinking about what you were gonna say | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | A little push to start approaching?Walk away compliments are probably your best bet if your too nervous. Best used at a bar or club where they will continuely see you walking around. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 11:23 AM |
| 3 | How to be less intimidating to women?Women have told me I'm intimidating I never thought I was perceived that way till i met a 3-4 group of females one night and started continously getting invited by them to clubs or bars. And the free drinks and shots they were getting the night I met them from random guys , instantly stopped the first night they invited me to go with them as part of their little group and they literally told me I was scaring the hoes (the guys that usually buy a girl a drink in hopes of something). And sure enou… | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice, still attracted to girls that are bad for meSounds like "it's her world and everyone else is living in it" just talk to her and mabye she'll not be that way or you'll see a different side of her. People's opinions about you shouldn't matter, you know yourself best . One person might think your a dick another would say your the coolest person they've ever met. Everyone has different opinions on everybody. There's not one person in this world that all 7 billion peoples opinions would the same. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 05:43 AM |
| -10 | I picked up the wrong girlIt's not his job to care about what happens to the girls friendship. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 05:35 AM |
| 5 | I picked up the wrong girlSeems like your sarcasm is more funny than dickish. Which is a good trait. Try to deliver sarcasm with no giveaway that is sarcasm. "Deadpan sarcasm" is more dickish but also humorous when they realize in their own that you weren't serious. Also being friendly towards women is completely fine but don't make yourself so available anytime they want you even if your available say your busy or something every once Inna while. If you're less available they view the times you do spend with them higher… | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 05:32 AM |
| 8 | I picked up the wrong girlYou need to reject the girl who has feelings for you that you don't want to be with. It's not your job to care whatll happen between their friendship with one another. The girl you actually are interested in seems on the fence about it just to prevent losing a friend of hers but if she truly cared about her friendship there shouldn't be any thought of you in her mind anyway or entertainingyou in any way. Does that make sense? Best advice I can give is don't get to attached to either of them, you… | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Dating 20s vs 30sWhat dances are offered to learn? When you say dance classes I'm thinking classical styles like ballroom and others like that. I've never taken classes I learned Country dancing as a young kid . The Latin styles I learned were mostly at nightclubs by just putting myself out there and asking women to dance was awkward at first but once I relaxed it was easy to follow or feel the next move without looking at my partner was doing. If you find a person who knows how to dance you'll know the danceste… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating 20s vs 30sPick a type of dance that the women you'd consider your "type" dance to | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Dating 20s vs 30sI'm currently 22M ... was never interested in going to party's or interacting with people outside my social circle in high-school I'd rather drink and smoke at home with friends this continued until after my 21st birthday. Mabye 4 months after I let someone convince me to go to a bar and It drastically changed me. Getting attention or approached by women when I was just there to drink and play pool with the homies .I was a lover boy or (nice guy) got crushed by one girl I actually found interest… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls?The initial girl friend you invited is probably attracted to you otherwise there'd be no reason to not atleast message her friends.i have an old FWB female friend we still mess around here and there but it's only ever been platonic feelings and we regularly wingman/wingwomen for one another . It's possible don't give up won't work with your friend unfortunately | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowThe last paragraph is pretty spot on | /r/seduction | 23/01/24 05:13 AM |
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