DF-RP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Dealing with plates that are friends?		DF-RP	/r/askTRP	09/12/15 06:28 PM
0	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke?		DF-RP	/r/askTRP	06/03/19 01:52 AM

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1	The promise of algorithmic dating Fat people want to be fat because they eat to like crap. Porn addicts want to continue fapping home alone instead of banging hot girls because that's what they keep doing. People in general want to be poor because they spend their monthly paycheck instead of investing large part of it. Sometimes people do things that are rewarding (dopamine release) in short term even though they don't like the long term results. No doubt that many women enjoy having their flavor of the week guy, but that's not …	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/21 09:52 PM
7	Young women makes tinder profile as a male and is extremely disappointed. Redpill on the Front Page. The more pictures & info you add, the likelier you are to fuck yourself over. You are only as good as your worst picture / least attractive part of bio. One picture looks bad? "Oh he actually is kinda ugle in real life, the other pictures were just 'lucky'". Long bio? More ideas where she can disagree / think you are beta. Put enough to showcase high SMV and stop there. Let her imagination fill in the rest. If you look high SMV, she will assume that and fill in rest accordingly.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/20 10:24 PM
3	Tinder is still tough even for a 6'4" white guy at 19. Any advice? Here's the thing, despite what some incels would make you believe, height is not a golden ticket to pussyland. It's one (albeit important) factor out of many. And the thing is, Tinder puts all the tall guys in your 100 mile vicinity at the fingertips of the girls. Just being tall is not going to cut it. Tinder is all about visual presentation first and foremost, so not being ugly and getting pics right makes all the difference between matches and no matches. You can be 6'4" and get fuck all whil…	/r/askTRP	25/05/20 12:20 AM
1	Tinder Gold It does what it says on the tin. Just good to remember that girls have super inflated egos on Tinder and only swip on guys above their SMV. Realistically in that 37, you have 20+ fatties, few trannies and maaaaybe few regular girls of which 1 or 2 might even be hot. And then when you match them, 1 in 6 will reply you back. If you are hot and rolling in matches, it'll let you pick the best easily. If you aren't hot... Let's just say that tinder is brutal for guys who are not hot, the girls won't …	/r/askTRP	23/05/20 10:18 AM
1	Outside their prime age, the situation does not look good for women ... Honestly, there's nothing to gain from the comeuppance. You have shot-lived glee at them going splat and ... then what? If anything, it's very bad for our overall society. We'll have both broken young males and older females, single-moms, increasing welfare costs and general unhappiness. It's a direct result of their choices, so I don't feel sad for them, but I am worried about the trend for our society.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/20 08:37 PM
2	Outside their prime age, the situation does not look good for women ... Unhappy relationship. Thinking that grass is greener. Feels good for a while since you don't have to look at your alcoholic deadbeat husbad... and then you realise you have no one in your life. When you reach 50s in a shitty relationship that you stuck together "for the kids" or something like that, you are left with only bad options. Easy to imagine that life would be better without your partner, but reality will soon kick you down.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/20 08:31 PM
1	How old were you when banging different chicks became your ordinary life? Around 24. I was constantly moving between countries, so I couldn't really have a girlfriend. I was still trying to get regular sex which really led me to just waste shitload of times gaming girls in different environments. I was horrible at it, but every now and then I would get lucky. Especially in the beginning, I feel a lot of the girls were doing more work for the lay than I was, since I was thick as fuck and couldn't read the social clues right. Getting 5-10 women a year for ~2 years gave …	/r/askTRP	01/05/20 02:52 PM
1	Good idea to eventually leave this sub? You are still in anger phase. For me, I've come to accept the world order. Ignoring red pill is not going to change how women or men are, that's just burying your head in sand. When you know how women are, you know how to play the game to get the results you want. With some limited effort and RP you can get laid just as much as women. I also don't see any particular reason to get angry at women's behavior. Considering the female-male dynamics, their behavior is completely understandable. Like th…	/r/askTRP	01/05/20 02:31 PM
2	Ex-LTR of 8 months is constantly stalking me. So much this. The guy's actions are explained by her whipping up stories that have no grounds in reality. Dragging a guy along is trying to instigate shit coming down between the two of you. This is also why you don't stick your dick in crazy. Unfortunately the cray-cray isn't always visible on the surface...	/r/askTRP	01/05/20 02:22 PM
2	Ex plate blocked me after saying this. Was I actually wrong? Wtf You are antagonising her. Being abundant and not caring about a girl is not the same as being an asshole. Telling a girl that you don't care about them is not going to get them to lick your balls. You imply it through your actions. Agree and amplify like /u/QueenSlapFight suggested would work here. Your reply got you blocked and at least temporarily cut off the poon.	/r/askTRP	01/05/20 02:14 PM
3	How to be Alpha AND likeable? Disagree about the solution. High quality men are not high quality naturally. They've intentionally worked towards it. There's a VERY high proportion of extremely competitive men within the overall group of succesfull guys. They will try to dominate you. It's endless AMOGing. In that sense, American Psycho is a perfect movie example - people consistently trying to one-up each other. That's not to say it's a bad environment, it pushes you further. But it's not an environment that will just look a…	/r/askTRP	01/05/20 12:31 PM
2	What can I do to increase my exposure to women? People can't do it because it puts them out of their comfort zone. They have to do things they have little experience in. They have to face rejection. It is not instantly rewarding. It doesn't come naturally. But it is a skill you can train. Just like riding bicycle, or escalating on a date for more apt comparison. It'll be crude for a long while. It'll be awkward. But you will get better at the more you do it. It's just up to you to go out and do it. It will take hundreds of attempts. But hones…	/r/askTRP	25/04/20 07:53 PM
1	Does not having social media makes you look like a loser? Read Dataclysm. It has data mined from multiple dating services (mostly from OKcupid where the author worked). Basically number 1 factor in matches is attractiveness. And for female to male, the effect is extreme with few top % of most attractive guys getting nearly all the action. Funnily enough they also find out that attractiveness does not matter all that much after you get on a date succesfully, at least for date satisfaction. They found that "Blind date" matches with SMV disparity, regardl…	/r/askTRP	12/04/20 10:48 PM
3	Does not having social media makes you look like a loser? Actually it'd be great to have examples of high quality man accounts for "regular men". Something that can be run with good effort-results ratio by nearly anyone who respects basic tenents of TRP. You are spot on with the marketing comparison and it'd be great to share your efforts with others, if you've already done the analysis.	/r/askTRP	12/04/20 10:45 PM
1	What to do when cold approach is not an option in your country? Online dating is one stream of meeting all types of women, however unless you are very attractive you won't get any results. I would also focus on improving your social circles. I find social circles to be key to advancement in life in general, and very important for cracking new girls and keeping them around. Associating with cool and succesful people both boosts your social status and lets you meet new girls. Girls in high quality circles also tend to be hot. Finally, I would reconsider whethe…	/r/askTRP	12/04/20 10:40 PM
3	Is a long distance relationship possible? I've lived in 5 cities in 4 countries and due to that, have seen a large variety of LDRs (other people and myself). In general, LDRs fail. There's maybe 1 succesful LDR for every 10-20 failed ones. Typically within 3-6 months you'll see breakups. And in general, I tend to see girls jump into new bed within a month of getting into new city. Not to say that guys don't do it as well, but I doubt you are concerned of that. Cases where LDRs work are typically cases where there are concrete plans to r…	/r/askTRP	12/04/20 10:32 PM
1	My ltr randomly dyed her hair pink and I hate it Girls know hairstyles matter a lot to how attractive they are. They spend hours and hours thinking about changing them. If they are into a guy, particularly if it's a sexual relationship, they tend to consult the guy if he likes idea X or Y. Your girl didn't care about your opinion, or assumed you'd like her decision. Either way, there's either a big disconnect or more than likely, she doesn't really care to please you with appearances. That's getting into breakup territory. If you want to recov…	/r/askTRP	23/03/20 05:34 PM
1	Whenever a girl approaches/initiates me first, I get laid. But whenever I approach/initiate, I never get anywhere. Yeah, ad hominen is the way to go and gain credibility. Why not just discuss this calmly? Since you want to make this about results and numbers and arguing from point of authority, let me put my “credentials” up front. My current tally of lays is at 68. I currently have 3 on-going plates, down from 5 at year end. Most of my lays come from indirect approaches and social circles. I’m 30+ yo, and these are all in the 19-25 range outside of ~5 exceptions. I'm below average height for women in my cou…	/r/askTRP	22/03/20 05:10 PM
1	How can I maintain my gains during the quarantine? He says he is eating 1000 (k)cals a day, that's a huge cut for any guy.	/r/askTRP	22/03/20 05:09 AM
1	too short to get a gf As another short dude (below average female height in my home country): Suck it up´and work on your game. Your defeatist attitude is what is ruining your chances. Also, why are you inflating your numbers here? You say you are 5'3 and then comment you are 5'3 "in shoes". So what are you really, 5'1? 4'8? Lying here isn't going to get you any helpful comments. Your height is obviously a huge handicap, but not an impossible one. I'm just a tiny bit taller and I haven't had any problems, so I really…	/r/askTRP	22/03/20 04:29 AM
1	Whenever a girl approaches/initiates me first, I get laid. But whenever I approach/initiate, I never get anywhere. I'll just say that there are million examples of people doing exact opposite of what you preach. Plenty of day gamers open with indirect openers that can be even asking for fucking directions and building the convo from there. Direct is not the only way. EDIT: to just build on this a bit. If you go direct, you are 100% relying that your looks and "CONFIDENCE" is enough for her to take the bait. That works if you are few notches above her in SMV. However, by going indirect you have the chance to …	/r/askTRP	22/03/20 03:51 AM
4	Whenever a girl approaches/initiates me first, I get laid. But whenever I approach/initiate, I never get anywhere. You have to go direct. Please. There are many schools to cold approach, and shitload of them preach indirect openers. Even the ages old mystery method was that - open indrectly, put a false time constraint, get a hook in the conversation, have them chase you. Direct game can and does work, particularly if your SMV is leagues above your target, but lets not pretend that it's the only or 100% the best way to go at all times.	/r/askTRP	22/03/20 01:42 AM
4	Men who can get sex super easy, what do you think is the main reason you can get sex so easy? If you are top 0.0001% A-lister hitting max on all stats, of course you get sex on the tap from perfect 10s. But is that a reasonable standard to compare to? That is not a realistic goal for pretty much anyone. Nor is it something that's required to pull girls with ease. Just go create a tinder profile with pictures from a random but very handsome model from Europe or something and watch the matches and thrist from women roll in. That's not effect of fame or money - it's looks, and looks alone. …	/r/askTRP	18/03/20 01:57 AM
1	Do lower SMV girls know that they don’t got any chance with higher SMV guys? If we are talking about relationships, yes, they are aware, particularly when the gap in SMV is massive. They do care about the bragging rights though, which is why you'll have shit like girls taking a pictures in bed with famous sports star/a-lister after the guy has gone sleep.	/r/askTRP	16/03/20 11:45 PM
-1	How much for cash? Funny how the sidebar reads: Welcome to The Red Pill The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Someone should let the mods know that the sidebar has been hacked.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/20 08:41 PM
3	How does celebrities spin plates without attracting controversy or getting labeled as creep/abuser? Probably many approaches. Some hide it via different ways, for others it's part of their public persona. Also most girls realise they don't have a chance with actual A-lister and are happy to have a night to brag about to their circle. Some prefer pay-to-play - for celebrities, you pay escorts to go away quietly Some have NDAs For some, being a playboy is part of their character and people accept it - see e.g. Jagr blackmail incident (https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3245282/Jaromir-Jagr…	/r/askTRP	15/03/20 01:46 AM
3	Examples of asshole things you’ve done to women You sound bitter, angry and like you are looking for some revenge porn stories. Why would you be intentionally asshole to girls? That doesn't accomplish anything. Just prioritise yourself. Your examples also aren't really examples of asshole behavior - except the last one, and I guess we both know how well that went for "hooking her up to you" since it's an ex-gf.	/r/askTRP	14/03/20 06:01 AM
1	Derren browns netflix on social conditioning Without having seen this particular episode, yes, concept of small asks to big asks works in game. When you meet a girl at the club you don't instantly ask if she wants to come to the bathroom so you can fuck her in the ass. Instead you ask for her hand non-verbally and do a spin, ask her out to the smoking area to chat, tell her to bounce with you for a drink to another bar, ask her over to your place to see/do XYZ and so on. Escalation, both physical and verbal needs to be happen step at a tim…	/r/askTRP	14/03/20 05:51 AM
1	Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamy Yeah, definitely can agree with that.	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/20 05:42 AM
1	If I’m really just interested in sex, not interested in dating and spending time together, should I just see sex workers? Sure, women are lagging indicator of success. But directly from TRP sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Don't try to spin redpill to be of some self improvement bullshit, it's first and foremost sexual strategy, meaning how to get laid.	/r/askTRP	14/03/20 05:35 AM
2	If I’m really just interested in sex, not interested in dating and spending time together, should I just see sex workers? If you have the money to blow on it and it works for you, why not. It's certainly the fastest and most guaranteed way to get pussy from hot girls for almost all dudes. Doesn't work for me since I actually enjoy the chase and knowing the girl is fucking me for me, not for the dollars going to her bank account. That being said, you can get "just sex" from girls also by applying trp. It also teaches you useful social skills and equips you to be more succesful in life. However, it also requires sign…	/r/askTRP	14/03/20 05:32 AM
0	Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamy Fair enough. I personally do care a great deal about the girls personality, drive to acchieve, status and other things beyond just her looks. For example, I had a girl who in addition to being a stunner, had similar ideological views with me, enjoyed same hobbies and was super competitive like me and very succesful, as far as fresh uni grad can go. Because of very similar interests and drives we had very nice and in depth conversations and enjoyed each others company beyond just sex. I feel this…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/20 10:45 PM
-6	Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamy While that is sound and applies in this case, having accomplishments doesn't mean that they are opinionated based on said accomplishments, nor that any opinions they have are stupid. That requires case by case analysis as there is at best a correlation. You could argue for it to be a good proxy that saves you time - and that'd be fair call, although one that I wouldn't agree with. Similar to top firms only recruiting from specific universities, because diamonds in the rough from elsewhere are no…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/20 10:34 PM
1	Is porn okay every once in a while? Yet 99.99% of the male population uses it. I guess pretty much the total male population has lost it all. Look, I know some researchers say it is linked brain changes, constant dopamine reactions eventually weaken your response, that it can make you slowly drift to more extreme shit slowly etc.. Yet, these same researchers typically always admit they have difficulty of finding a control population that doesn't watch porn. At the same time I haven't seen much scientific peer reviewed research tha…	/r/askTRP	13/03/20 10:20 PM
0	Is porn okay every once in a while? Honestly, this no-fap bullshit is going way too far. For your average dude? No harm in watching porn. Pretty much everyone does, chad thundercocks and billy betabux alike. I personally watch porn near daily. Hasn't stopped me from bagging 50+ girls. Not watching porn isn't going to give you some superpowers that makes or breaks your approaches with girls, or lets you become the godemperor of mankind. Just make sure your porn addiction isn't controlling you instead of the other way around. Howeve…	/r/askTRP	13/03/20 08:10 AM
1	My mom: "As you grow older, you'll eventually fall head over heels for a girl and try to bring her home". Is there truth to this statement? "I can't wait for when you come home when you're older running and begging to set up a marriage quickly" She is literally describing what she wants to see, not what is likely to happen. Don't take female advice or opinions on dating. They come from a very different perspective and they do not understand us. That being said, you'll likely catch oneitis sooner or later, but just like Corona, it'll pass.	/r/askTRP	12/03/20 09:56 PM
1	FWB wants me to do all the chasing and i hate that, should i soft next ? She is constantly texting you which means she enjoys your attention in addition to controlling you - it's also checking up on what you are up to (e.g. are you with other girls). At the same time she enjoys being on the pedestial that you clearly are placing her on, since she feels entitled to always reject your approaches on the first attempt. You are rewarding bad behavior here. You are giving her attention for free and letting her control you by replying all day long. That's the job of her gir…	/r/askTRP	10/03/20 06:38 PM
1	What benefits did you discover after adopting an abundance mindset? I don't care about the outcome with any girl which makes dealing with girls much easier. Approach and get blown out? Who cares, there's plenty other fish taking the bait. Plate starts to give me shit and demanding things? Who cares, either she plays by rules or I'll next her. I don't worry about what Anna or Bethany or Chloe might think about me and what the best pattern of action is, because at the end of the day there's nothing that makes them special and they are all replaceable within the we…	/r/askTRP	10/03/20 06:27 PM
3	Do girls can live periods of months without sex? Of course girls can go without sex for months. Do you think that if you dropped a girl on deserted island with food and shelter available she'd die from lack of sex in few months? Girls have a sex drive just like guys. They get horny, particularly when ovulating. They also can get sex at a snap of their fingers, from a guy they find attractive (unless they are literal 2/10s or worse). This leads to situation where most women have no idea what a "dry spell" is like for men, many consider few week…	/r/askTRP	10/03/20 04:50 AM
2	What is my ideal BF%? Mistake the post you replied to?	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 07:06 PM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? You are indeed correct that clauses about severability are not in all contracts. You are missing the point though. Stating a violation of a single term of any contract (as long as there's no specific clause for that violation) is immediate grounds is for complete termination in all cases is downright wrong. Feel free to run to your hole while stuffing your ears if admitting that you are wrong is too big of a task for you.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/20 07:04 PM
1	Why arent you married questions Social context is important. You do not want to become the outsider in groups that you are associated with.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 04:17 PM
2	What is my ideal BF%? Okay so. 29.5% BF is fat. Like, really fat. But you come from much higher bodyfat % so you do not realise that. After few years at a medium to low bodyfat % your self image will change and you will come to realise it. But lets not worry about that right now. First of all, you've been losing shitload of weight if your numbers are right. Honestly, the rate sounds pretty implausibly high for me, but just for the sake of argument I'll take it. That rate does not sound healthy, and it will fuck you o…	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 04:09 PM
2	Girl blocked me on social media after soft nexting her for 3 weeks Either she's mad at you (i.e. "It's not my fault") or looking at you is painful for her and she's distancing herself. However, why does that matter? You soft nexted her, that implies that you are ready to move on unless she steps up. She didn't, now you move on.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 04:01 PM
2	My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do? Interesting theory, but ultimately wrong I believe. It's extermely hard to find males who do not watch porn, yet I have hard time believe that close to 100% of the guys in the society are voyeur cucks.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 03:58 PM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? You don't want to cheat - that's okay. I don't want and do not cheat either. Easier for me since I don't go exclusive. But at the end of the day, that's a personal decision. However, in the world there are many people who cheat. I have been cheated on. Most people will be cheated on at some point in their lives. And most people will also cheat themselves. I think it's just rational to consider why someone would cheat, what are the associated risk/gains and when it makes sense for them to cheat. …	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/20 03:53 PM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Thank you, exactly my point. Personally I am against cheating - because of self conscience and reputation reasons. However, it's very commonplace and think everyone should properly consider when and why people cheat, and does it make sense. Helps you to be prepared for the inevitable situation where you get cheated on and also helps you to react to situations where there's an opportunity/threat to end up cheating yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/20 03:51 PM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? You are absolutely right that no one forces anyone to cheat. Yet it's very widespread phenomenon in the society by all accounts, so I think it merits a closer look at why or when it makes sense. Reciprocity is a good point. However declaring that you will not cheat and expect same from your partner will not prevent them from actually cheating on you. Any statistics on cheating in marriage will show that it actually still happens quite often. Because of this, I don't really buy the argument of "d…	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/20 03:42 PM
1	Only Enjoy First Time Sex Honestly, I feel social circles are the easiest place to catch girls. Just got to control the downsides. Personally, I cast my net far wide and shallow (many circles, but none super critical for me. In general, networking is good for you anyway) and fish where it's not a critical environment for me. Makes plates easier to control when they are not from the same circle and never meet each other - they don't feel the need to act as super protective of their catch. They still get jealous of my phon…	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 03:27 PM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? If you have 25 years of experience with contracts you'll know of severability of clauses and that violation of a single term in a limited amount does not typically give a right to full and instant termination of a contract.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/20 03:13 PM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Actually, no it doesn't. If you are late on monthly instalment by 1 day, does that terminate the financing contract? If you have renovators over to your house doing a complete makeover, and one of the doorknobs they install is the wrong type, does that terminate the contract? It depends on the severity of the violation to the content of the whole contract, and often you have to give the other party a chance to fix their mistake.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/20 01:03 PM
-2	My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do? Dude has multiple girls going since then. Clearly not a problem of abudance. He also dropped the girl himself - does that sound like oneitis for you? Problem of girls being absolute stunners and superb in the sack but absolutely full of red flags otherwise to the point you don't want to deal with them clearly isn't familiar to you.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 12:59 PM
1	Once you're an orbiter (LJBF/Friendzone), is there a way out? Don't think you played anything wrong here in the big picture. You established the man-woman dynamic, took lead, pushed for progress and she rejected it. Wouldn't say you got friendzoned, this is more or less just case of no attraction. Obviously adjustments can be made in content of your dates etc. to make it more smooth and improve close rate, but overall if they aren't willing to kiss at end of date 2, they simply aren't that into you. My approach would be to stop dumping energy on this girl …	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 05:08 AM
1	My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do? Completely missing the point. Just because you don't get good pussy doesn't mean you need to be bitch online trying to drag others down.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 04:51 AM
2	I seem to be attracting post wall women exclusively Echo some of the other guys - it's more of the women's strategy than you. Post wall take what they can get, have to play more aggressive and also have more experience of being aggressive. Young HBs can just wait for the hottest chad to come for them, but that doesn't work post wall. They need to hunt themselves.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 04:47 AM
2	I seem to be attracting post wall women exclusively Be careful that you don't fall into the excuse of "it was them, not me". Girls tend to just reflect back your attractiveness. If you are attrative to them, they will do everything they can to entertain you, but if you are not on their radar they'll be disinterested and bored. But yeah, some girls obviously are just not interesting to shoot shit with.	/r/askTRP	07/03/20 04:42 AM
3	If you're an older guy that looks young, should you play up your youthful looks to get younger women? Personal experience is that the number doesn't matter, but how things "feel" and "look". As such, I think it's advantage up to around the age you look. As background, I'm in my early thirties, and regularly get ID'd for 18+ venues and get numbers in 20-24 range when I tease people to make a guess. My plates are mainly in range of 19-24. Talking to girls, I can clearly tell that majority of them prefer older guys. A lot of potential girls disregard me for being too young on the outset, but when w…	/r/askTRP	02/03/20 03:38 AM
1	If you're an older guy that looks young, should you play up your youthful looks to get younger women? I'd say it all depends on the delivery. I never volunteer my age or my relationship status and joke around them always - and that's hardly ever what blows up the set. Many of these are ones that I have used or something very similar.	/r/askTRP	02/03/20 03:12 AM
5	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Applaud, extremely well thought out answer. And thank you for separating the "for me" part and giving proper argument for it. Under my circumstances, I would 100% agree with this analysis. Cheating can mess your life up in many ways. Lose your girl, reputation, friends, job, even go to jail or get violently attacked. The risks are extremely high and reward is usually very low. This begs the question of why do so many people cheat? Poor impulse control is certainly one good explanation. Overconfi…	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:47 AM
2	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? This is bullshit. Either they think they are exclusive or they don't. You don't get it both ways. If they think they are in an exclusive relationship with you then your actions led them to believe that. Absolutely incorrect. People misread situations and intents of others, all the time. That's the entire reason for "nice guys" existence. Covert contracts. Just cause you "assume" someone else meant something, doesn't mean they are at fault when you were wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:33 AM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? I would say you are significantly underestimating the level of SMV you need to prevent cheating. Women are connected to 100s of guys on social media on a level where they know the person, and get fleeting connections with thousands more. Even day to day live they interact with probably 50+ males. That's your competition.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:26 AM
4	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Sun Tzu disagrees.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:23 AM
3	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Red pill is a tool box. Why is there a necessity of deciding what ideologues are allowed for the guy using the hammer and wrench?	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:16 AM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? One party's contract terms violation doesn't typically automatically terminate a contract - although it would often be grounds for withholding from completing your own obligations in part or full. Would depend on the severity I assume. If both parties start ignoring the contract even though it still exist formally, you could say it is de facto terminated.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:12 AM
1	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Refreshing viewpoint. In a similar way, you could say relationships are contracts valid for indefinite term that can be terminated at either party's request. And if either party feels like they want to renegotiate the contract from non-exclusive to exclusive, failed negotiations are reason for them to terminate the contract. You could also analyse covert contracts (for exclusivity from women's side, or for sexual availability from Nice guy(tm) viewpoint) with similar approach. Misunderstanding o…	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:07 AM
3	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? "Man should stick to his word" is a values based argument, which goes to same category with "women need to wear burkhas". I would love for you to include actual arguments for why.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 03:00 AM
3	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Good take on causes of female cheating. And gratz for not getting into value argument. How about your views on cheating as a guy?	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 02:57 AM
5	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? It's cool that you have values. It's cool that you think you are superior to some people because of your "standards". Similarly some people think it's better way to live without eating meat, drinking alcohol, or having women wear burkhas. I respectively note that values are all subjective. You might think some lying cheating bastard is a horrible person. However, that person might still be enjoying his life just fine, and would enjoy it a lot less if he lived by your standards. He might also hav…	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 02:54 AM
3	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? And I doubt most people here equate it with lying by omission. Everything can have consequences. However, covert contracts are nice guy bullshit. "I've been nice to you all this time, now you owe me pussy" is in the exact same chapter of the book as "Hey we have been hitting the bar and hooking up afterwards 4 times now - that means you can't fuck other girls, but I'm free to jump on a new Chad cock whenever one appears". If there's no agreement of exclusivity, there's no agreement of exclusivit…	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 02:48 AM
12	Q4RP: Cheating. Relationship imperative, inevitable moral hazard, or completely out-of-bounds? Depends on your SMV. If you are high SMV, girls are okay getting a shot with you - or even bragging rights of "Hey, I caught Brad Pitt once". The higher SMV you are, the hotter girls you can pull this off with.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/20 02:36 AM
1	Those of you with 2,3 or 4 plates, do you still expend thought and energy to approach girls or to get more girls? I significantly reduce the effort to pull more, but I do generate leads while going about my life. Like others side, you can always upgrade plates.	/r/askTRP	10/02/20 02:07 AM
4	How to deal with high smv parties & bad game snowballing On point. Being the non-thirsty, socially adjusted guy who is just enjoying himself and providing value to people around him in such an environment is a huge plus. Also building up status doesn't happen overnight, it'll take many events with same crowd so taking it slow and letting it snowball is a good idea. Just remember that you still have to go for the kill - the girls won't drag you with them even if you are the most suave fucker in the room. When you are high enough in the social hierarchy…	/r/askTRP	10/02/20 02:04 AM
5	How to deal with high smv parties & bad game snowballing He is 18 and hanging out with other people around his age. Of course they don't have university degrees. Also since when does TRP care about girl's education? If they are hot they have high SMV, end of story.	/r/askTRP	10/02/20 01:58 AM
1	Plausible deniability under 21? Drinks is an activity, that can under some scenarios works as plausible deniability. It's bad for that purpose though. Plausible deniability can be anything that they can say to their friends that they came to do with you to the sex location. The key is to give them a "logical" reason to come to a private location where you can escalate to sex. Some ridiculous and not so ridiculou ones I have used succesfully with different girls the first time we had sex -I have an extra melon in my fridge, com…	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 04:24 AM
1	Got caught texting "flirty messages" with a friend. To piggyback off his comment. implying you are exclusive and then cheating or attempting to makes you the a-hole in vast majority of peoples' minds. If you break up, which is a high likelihood event after being caught, you can bet everyone will hear about it. Additionally, most people have a similar moral compass. I would bet you know instinctually whether or not the texts cross lines. In business they say, don't do anything you wouldn't want to read on the frontpage of new york times. Here the …	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 04:11 AM
1	Ghosted ex fwb. Feel bad Out of personal interest - what country are you gaming at?	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 04:01 AM
2	Only Enjoy First Time Sex Downsides and upsides to working girls from same social circle. Upside is the social proof. Girls get super competitive, especially queen bees. Some who were interested and in the running will drop out when they think another girl has "won" (typically, having sex). Some will attempt to steal you away. Above example was the case of latter. Girls also talk a lot about sex. Assuming you are good in bed, that info WILL spread and be of interest to other girls. One key thing is that you DO NOT talk a…	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 03:55 AM
2	What is this behaviour? Girl is trying now to shame me because I did not contact her. I would agree with your analysis - you basically want them to like you as a human. Sometimes and with some girls, you can shoot for straight hookup (usually more promiscuous girls with high N-counts). However, your average girl is still thinking from the romance standpoint even though she'll go with the flow all the way to the hookup. In OPs situation, it all depends on his goals. If he still wants to tap it, either disengange and suggest again something on a later date, or go for a smaller ask.…	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 03:23 AM
2	What is this behaviour? Girl is trying now to shame me because I did not contact her. Overall I agree with your assessment - sex only comes after girl accepts you as worthy, and usually they are available for repeats (and will eventually try to lock you down). The rare exceptions deal with their image of you going down or their circumstances, like them having a significant other they are cheating on. In this particular case, I think it was clear cut ASD. The next day she threw up a wall of text of how she never does this, how she wants to go on more dates with me, how she doesn't…	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 03:12 AM
2	Only Enjoy First Time Sex Oh and this particular instance - I met the girl in a meetup where I'm a regular participant, well liked and one of the more social dudes. Acted like a leader (creating activities for the group), displayed high value (obvious, with age difference to rest of the people) and flirted openly with her and other girls in the group from the start with sexual undertone without taking it too seriously. Also fucked her best friend for 6 months before she jumped into my bed. AWALT and age is just a number.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 03:02 AM
2	Only Enjoy First Time Sex Just like you attract any other girl. There's no magic at 30 that stops girls being attracted to you. You just need to go out and meet these girls, then game just like normal. I would even go as far as to say that at 30, you likely seem more mature, more together, and more masculine than the early 20s manchildren around her, and thus more attractive. Women like authority figures. My only advice is to not reject yourself for her, let her do that decision. Which means not volunteering negatives ab…	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 02:53 AM
4	Girl got std - need help If she has not cheated, wouldn't the default thought progress for her be that she must have gotten it from you, which means you must have cheated, which again would launch her blaming you? This sounds like a case of her cheating. Even her thinking of taking STD tests when youh are in a relationship and she suddenly gets a boo-boo in her vagina points towards that.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 02:06 AM
1	Girl got std - need help While logically correct, chlamydia is highly infectuous so if they've had sex multiple times the likelihood of this helping OP is miniscule. Should still get tested though and see the results.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 02:03 AM
1	Got exclusive with a girl who admitted to cheating on her ex, don’t believe a word she says to me Yes, she'll eventually cheat on you. Silver lining here is that so would likely any other girl, you'd just expect it less. Either enjoy your turn while it lasts, or if the trust issues are getting in your head too much, break it off. You seem fairly into her though, so should work on fixing that first... she's no unicorn.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 02:01 AM
1	Better to hit the gym tired than not at all? IIRC there are studies on people doing e.g. shift work or very high working hours, which forced them to sleep less hours on average. Findings included lower average lifespan. But don't take my word on it, look around for the actual studies. As someone who regularly works 9am-2am, and tackles the same problem, I would heavily recommend prioritizing sleep over workout where possible. Sucks to be able to hit gym only 3-4 times a week, but it is what it is.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 01:57 AM
2	Ghosted ex fwb. Feel bad This reminds me way too much of a half-korean half-japanese bi-polar girl I had the misfortune of banging off tinder. Girl be crazy. In any case, just stick with it. It won't get any better if you relapse. You'll forget about it soon enough´if you stop seeing her messages. You are not a captain save-a-hoe that needs to rescue her, her life is her responsibility.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 01:53 AM
2	Women not giving out # on tinder due to safety. What to do about it? Anecdotes, exceptions, not the rule. I have also walked a 21 yo virgin home to have sex from a bar within 15 minutes of meeting, but I wouldn't assume that's the standard case. Some girls simply are not that naturally trusting of people and require more work. Particularly if they are fairly inexperienced. Others, like you very correctly note, are just not that into you. What one can assume is that the girl requires a lot more effort if she is hesitant about giving her number out. Additionally, h…	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 01:41 AM
2	Fiancee threw a butter knife at me Mostly agree with this approach, but I would not put a strict deadline for it, but instead attempt to put the whole wedding temporarily on hold. I don't see how you get a good outcome from a week's deadline. Considering her previous "I will change" lines, I would expect her to do the same again here. Perhaps she's more shocked now and will actually take more action. I do not expect her to, under any conditions, say "okay I guess we are done". So the next problem is, after she pleads that she wil…	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 01:28 AM
16	What is this behaviour? Girl is trying now to shame me because I did not contact her. Basically she likes you, she is not used to putting her neck out there and getting rejected AND you communicated quite clearly that you would like use her just for sex, by ignoring comfort texts and going ultimatum on "come over [to have sex] or I won't see you". Her suggestion to go over to cinema first was a comfort building move as she was not ready to come to your house yet (ASD or lack of sufficient comfort). You could have sidestepped this by agreeing to a low hurdle activity (e.g. drinks …	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 01:18 AM
3	Why do girls ask for snap? 1 stalking - they can check you out at a distance (verifying looks, verifying your "character", sense of humour, frame etc.) 2 getting followers 3 showing off, getting orbiters 4 discrete media to share nudes, conversations you don't want leaked etc.. Not perfect but much better than e.g. whatsapp or messenger where messages can bust her for cheating or be used as revenge porn weeks or even years down the line. 5 major media for them, easy converation starter when you reply to random snaps	/r/askTRP	30/01/20 03:47 AM
3	Do pua artists exit the game to the age? It's not due to them aging, certainly not at their age. If you are good with ladies in your 20s you'll still pick them up in your 30s... and 40s... and so on. When you are aware that you can generate a new attractive girlfriend whenever within days if needed, chasing tail becomes much less focus for most people. I'd expect it to be part of wanting stability, part of wanting children, part not discovering new things and seducing women being same old all the time.	/r/askTRP	30/01/20 03:42 AM
1	I Don't Have Sexual Attraction Towards A Potential LTR Woman What /u/fereallyred said. I find it often that when guys start to become popular, they lose sexual interest in a girl after few times. You can be very aware that she is a quality specimen, but the sex... is... just... boring. And the only reason for that is that you've already had her. All my gaming friends became like that, and it also goes for me. I've been in objectively amazing relationships, to lose interest in sex in 4 months and end up giving "duty fucks" to my girls. Try to not meet so o…	/r/askTRP	24/01/20 01:47 AM
2	How many dates with no sex until you stop taking them on dates? Completely case by case, but typically I don't bother after 2nd date. In my experience, circumstances allowing, they'll be in your bed the 2nd time you meet alone or it won't happen. However, plenty of times there are reasons why there's simply no opportunity to have sex, or the girl isn't ready to have sex that early. If I like the interaction, I can and will give it more time. Often the case with virgins and unexperienced girls, or when you have to schedule middle of day dates with a hardstop …	/r/askTRP	24/01/20 01:29 AM
1	I asked out my coworker, she said no. Am I screwed? You learned a good lesson, at the cost of slight embarrasment and handing your co-worker power over you at a silver platter. 1) sounds like a very temporary job. Who cares. Just don't fuck up again in a more serious environment 2) asking someone out =/= rape. It's normal human interaction. I doubt anyone gives a shit about coworkers dating in a place like that where turnover is super high. Even if your boss were to fire you, you can get hired in another place soon. 3) most annoying part here is …	/r/askTRP	23/01/20 01:51 AM
5	I mate-guarded. How do I recover? Like others mentioned, girls know how to be good girlfriends and what is acceptable and what is not acceptable in a relationship. This obviously crosses many lines. She went on a long date with another guy and rubbed it into your face, intentionally. There's no way she didn't realise what she was doing. Also arguing with her about this is not going to make her admit it, so don't even try. I see 2 possibilities. Either she is considering branch swinging (likely) or she simply wanted to piss you o…	/r/askTRP	23/01/20 01:44 AM
1	How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side? Thanks for the quick reply. So you only mention being non-monogamous if explictly asked about and let them piece it together for the most part? I guess with the age and status difference you usually have going on, it might also be instrinctly assumed from the start without any explict aknowledgement. This also appears to be approach of vast majority of the most succesful gamers and it certainly feels like it's the one that gets best results. Pre-qualifying for bi(-curious) girls is a damn good p…	/r/askTRP	30/12/19 03:38 AM
6	Only Enjoy First Time Sex Might be highly individual, might be age related, heck if I know. Personally, I'm in my 30s and I hardly ever get a oneitis anymore. They are multiple years apart and over real fast, while in my early 20s I would be getting them all the time and crying after the girls sometimes for years. 95% of the time, yeah I will be spending time with a main girl that I really enjoy and find beautiful, but there's no particular spark, no particular draw. I know that if she were to cheat on me the next day I …	/r/askTRP	30/12/19 02:48 AM
1	How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side? Hey Vasiliy, wanted to say that there's so much wisdom in your posts. I'm in my 30s with a count somewhere in the 50s, but I feel like I always keep learning more from you. While this comment might seem like "duh" to some, particularly the last paragraph resonated with me. I wanted to ask you how exactly you go about brining up the non monogamous part to new encounters and at what point? Obviously, saying that you are non-monogamous before you have sexual relations greatly reduces the likelihood…	/r/askTRP	30/12/19 01:41 AM
5	Only Enjoy First Time Sex As someone complete opposite to you, I would say your analysis is spot on, at least in my case. It's the thrill, the adrenaline rush you get while navigating the mating ritual. After you get them once, the game is already won - the sex itself might get tiny bit better, but the challenge is already surprassed and the girl has surrendered herself to you, so there's nothing more to chase there really. Also by the time I hit double digits, I also had pretty much complete lack of pair bonding. Sex wa…	/r/askTRP	30/12/19 12:11 AM
2	Only Enjoy First Time Sex I would say it's less about being bored or boring or even searching for "happiness" than simply the rush you get from new conquests. At least for me personally, I enjoy the hunt, the challenge of talking myself into new pair of pants. From evolutionary perspective it also makes perfect sense to want to bang as many girls as you possibly can.	/r/askTRP	30/12/19 12:02 AM
2	Can't actually get laid First, don't get stuck in theory. You need to put yourself out there. Just like you need to apply for jobs, you need to put yourself out to get women. Experience in the field can never be replaced by reading theory on the net. Theory should supplement your experiements, not the other way around. Keep yourself accountable. You just like you would log your lifting and get progressive overload, you want to record your approaches and the sticking points you are getting so you can adress them. Stop w…	/r/askTRP	29/12/19 09:31 AM
2	Can't actually get laid Prime example of Dunning–Kruger effect. You've got laid twice, mostly due to luck as you yourself put it, and you think you have better game than most people? Not to be snarky but take a step back and reanalyse the situation. If you have better game than most people, you should be getting better results than most people, yet that doesn't seem to be the case here. Don't get stuck in analysis paralysis. You are spending too much time theorycrafting, too little taking action. 10 approaches are wort…	/r/askTRP	29/12/19 09:05 AM
26	I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over it HR is there to protect the company, not you. Speaking to HR will just get you in trouble in most cases.	/r/askTRP	28/12/19 02:59 PM
1	What’s your average lifespan for a plate? Why is that?	/r/askTRP	28/12/19 02:54 PM
2	Sex & City author, and divorcee at 50, regrets not having children. (obligatory) LOLMAO :P The woman in your example is not too different from the average RP guy with little success who wants to have tons of plates but also find his unicorn, be career rocket, have time for lifting and hobbies etc. Also I doubt the guy is the goal of people here, or most people in general. If you can get laid easily, you want to get laid a lot by different people. Unfortunately, that also typically means not holding a family and often disproportionate amount of time spent on chasing tail. I just recomm…	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/19 06:21 AM
3	She says she feels like crap for sending me a "sexy pic", what should I do? Not a single girl worth having is on the market. They are all branch swinging. Also, girls in long relationships are the easiest plates you'll ever get. They know what they are getting into and they have good motivations to keep it simple and private.	/r/askTRP	28/12/19 04:28 AM
10	What’s your average lifespan for a plate? I think median would be more useful number here, as there is huge variation. I have many plates that lasted few weeks at best, some are going strong 5+ years down the road, even with them getting married. Most start pushing for exclusive status after 1-2 months, depending on how much time you spend together. That's usually the countdown to losing the plate. If they are already in existing relationship, you got good chances of holding them longer.	/r/askTRP	28/12/19 04:24 AM
5	Beta orbiters I think you are missing the emphasis on LTR here. It's by definition, Long Term Relationship. I would wager that for most people, there is fundamental difference between LTR and a plate that you keep banging for extended time periods. If she's just another girl that you are sleeping with, who cares? However, I would assume that for many, an LTR is an exclusive thing. Even if it isn't, if she is something "special" to you, signified by the different term and recognition of the relationship status…	/r/askTRP	28/12/19 04:15 AM
5	Japanese women categorize male friends by levels of intimacy, from hugging to bathing They are not some mystical creatures, they enjoy sex just like all other women. Japanese living abroad are typically even more westernized and open to stuff like random hookups without pretenses, so that's probably your best shot. Also, being jacked isn't the best strategy in Japan, they like the otter look much much more.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/19 05:18 AM
2	Japanese women categorize male friends by levels of intimacy, from hugging to bathing You'll adjust with more time. This sounds like you are having difficulties reading the subtle signs Japanese give, in addition to suffering from language barrier. Just know that JP girls are not stupid. They know what is up when you try to set 1on1 setting. They just play it dumb. The country is full of this pretense where they know that you know that they know. And you have to navigate it right. "Work is busy" is an excuse in West and East alike, although super common and well used in Japan wit…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/19 05:10 AM
2	Japanese women categorize male friends by levels of intimacy, from hugging to bathing Considering "bathing" is what you do before having sex in Japan, yeah, pretty heavy 'doubt' on that bath friend thing. It's just another meaningless level of deniability and an euphenism. It goes right there with "accidentally" missing your last train home at midnight (which leaves at same time week in, week out that the girl conveniently forgot) and "having" to go to "rest for few hours before the morning train" to a love hotel with your completely platonic drinking buddy.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/19 04:59 AM
2	Japanese women categorize male friends by levels of intimacy, from hugging to bathing Yup, that's the traditional model.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/19 04:52 AM
2	Japanese women categorize male friends by levels of intimacy, from hugging to bathing It's not on the table up front. If you are "meshi" or "ashi" for a girl, you won't know it. She and her friends sure will though. Just like in the West.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/19 04:49 AM
3	Sex & City author, and divorcee at 50, regrets not having children. (obligatory) LOLMAO :P This is more human thing in general than something particular to women. You always dream of what you don't or can't have, guys or girls alike.	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/19 01:25 AM
3	FR Club Hookup You did nothing wrong in your clubbing night. Perhaps you could have gotten a hotter one, but that's splitting hairs. Don't look the gift horse in the mouth etc.. As a story of your experience on going out, what field reports mostly are, it's good. But /u/failingtheturingtest 's point applies. There's not much to learn here outside of "if they are asking to fuck you, don't give them reasons why they should change their mind". You got picked up, not the other way around. There's nothing really re…	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/19 02:00 AM
1	5 years post pill; the ups and downs As someone who went from kissless virgin to sleeping with 16 girls over a 6 week period, I'd say it's part building foundation, part practice makes perfect and part just putting the effort in. The more you flirt with girls, the better you get at reading them. When you can recognize who is into you and who isn't after a 5 minute conversation (be that regular social setting or just cold approach), it's much easier to proceed. You also get better in charming ladies quite fast, especially when you c…	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/19 08:46 PM
1	Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this? Nearly anyone can easily work themselves to top10% if they set that as their goal. And improving your SMV should definitely be a goal, if women are of any importance to your happiness. It is incredibly easy to reach top10% as a "regular dude" with no hideous deformities. Getting top 5% body is doable over few years for anyone that has money for gym membership, time, and commitment. Good career and social standing is also something you can work and build if you just put the effort into it. Fashio…	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/19 10:16 PM
1	How to Get Laid on Tinder: How I Banged 17 New Girls in 5 Weeks My lays are almost completely in the 18-24 range, and yeah they do almost always come from cold approach/social circles. Much easier to create attraction in person than over text. However, I still don't see any reason to remove Tinder as a sales channel - think it's better to just keep it as low effort downtime activity.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/19 12:10 AM
2	How to Get Laid on Tinder: How I Banged 17 New Girls in 5 Weeks 30 yo. here with baby face (get carded in every bar etc.) - do you think I should just change my age on Tinder to avoid hitting filters? Also, any tips particularly for short dudes? More good pic examples for ideas is also always appreciated. Do you find that selfies work when you have project the IGAF attitude combined with SML?	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/19 03:01 AM
2	Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating show Have you actually done this or are you just guessing? Come across as needy? By walking away? You don't get angry about it and make passive aggressive comments, you just blow it off. Super passive agressive. You have been having fun with them, getting along well, got them over to your place / went over to theirs... start making out... and then when she says "We should stop" or "No..." when you touch her breast you go "Okay, cool. Uhh, would you mind ordering an Uber and going home?". Yeah, I'm su…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/19 09:25 PM
5	Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating show Honestly, I think that's a VERY bad responce to any soft no / last minute resistance. You are completely breaking rapport with her and seem super needy ("Oh you are not going to have sex with me? Fuck you then"). They will think that you are a total asshole (dragged them back just for sex, no respect for them at all) and it will make them feel bad about their own decisions ("How did I ever go along with a dude like this"). If it feels like a real no, de-escalate, be friendly, treat it like it's …	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/19 01:38 PM
6	Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating show Quite often women will say something along the lines of "we shouldn't do this..." "I'm not ready to have sex" or other "soft no"s in middle of making out with you in your bed when you try to escalate. If that's not combined with them obviously de-escalating/going cold, it's usually going to be one of those nos that mean you just need to slow down a bit, take your hand out of her pants and make out for few minutes longer and they'll practically be tearing your pants off. Obviously though, if they…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/19 01:30 PM
1	Basic question: Why do you guys have (or want to have) LTR/marriage? Companionship, kids in future and stability mostly. I'm 30, have had over 40 girls and only few LTRs. My last LTR lasted about 6 months (or 1.5 years if you count the plate phase), and while I can say I was bored of fucking her about 2 months into the relationship, the time I spent with them has been some of the best I've ever had. Having someone who cares for you wait at home when you come from work, who shares your world view and values, who will travel with you, but also give you space when y…	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 03:13 AM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? Thank you so much for your comment and your care. You are absolutely right, I shouldn't off myself. I keep going between staring down from my 8th floor balcony to not caring too much, but deep inside I know that given time, this will pass as long as I survive until that time. Based on my history of oneitis(3x), it might take as much as 2 years from when I stop seeing her in my daily life... hopefully this won't be that long. I looked up some potential (professional) lifelines to reach out to if …	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 03:00 AM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? Just getting back to you again to give thanks for the comments. Definitely haven't internalized all things yet. I ended up talking with my male friend who I thought was fucking her, and hopefully he has the decency to tune that shit down to 0 in front me. Claims to not have actually done anything with her, and I hope it's true but believe it to be false. In any case he was supportive and my bro and this might just save my sanity in the group if they tune it down enough. I'll see tomorrow when me…	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 02:24 AM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? Did this with another TRP'd friend. Helped a lot. He said a lot of the things straight to my face that I'd hear here, and the things I really need to hear and just roll with. This shit just isn't getting out of my system though... I keep going back to my friends with exact same shit, which is going to grind this down. Need to build my tolerance.	/r/askTRP	11/03/19 02:11 AM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? Thanks for the strong words, I needed them. You are absolutely correct on this not having been a good relationship due number of issues and on logical level I'm completely fine with it ending - but emotionally, I'm too weak to yet watch her make out with people I consider my friends while hiding the fact that I'm being very hurt by it. I think I gave a wrong impression on the "nuclear" option. Honestly, she can date whoever she wants. However, I would like the decency from my circle, my friend (…	/r/askTRP	07/03/19 06:11 AM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? Just a quick update, I hit up bunch of people I only semi randomly associate with and arranged few meets in the next days to hang out. Definitely made me feel a bit better while talking with them, but cutting this circle is still not an option for me.	/r/askTRP	07/03/19 06:08 AM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? You are correct that I really do like her - and what you say makes sense if she still had some semblance of care for me. Unfortunately, that ship has sailed and is not recoverable. Through her best friend who actually rooted for me throughout past few months, it's been made abudantly clear that she is completely done with me on all levels and that any interaction will just worsen the relationship. At the end of the day, attraction is non-negotiable and she has already lost what she had for me - …	/r/askTRP	06/03/19 11:59 PM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? That's very true. Unfortunately, I have very few options that don't overlap with this circle. I will do my best.	/r/askTRP	06/03/19 11:36 PM
1	Handling common friends circle after secret oneitis-plate broke? Thanks for the suggestion. Cultivating new friends circles is definitely something I need to do, and what I'm trying to do. Shit just gets hard at this age. I'm in this group due to it being the only significantly sized group that shares cultural background with me in this boondock town that I'm stuck in for few years. Cutting the group would would basically deny any connection to my home and would make me extremely miserable so that's last resort option. As a bonus, it also has bunch of alpha m…	/r/askTRP	06/03/19 02:48 AM
6	Basic Finances for The Young Man Tons of financial academic literature shows that retail investors make lower returns the more they trade. Trading as a retail investor loses to market and the more you trade the more you lose, especially due to fees and taxes you pay. Additionally, your analysis is worth nothing - you are competing against banks that have billions to invest and who have full time analysts with best resources available doing the same thing, in addition to algorithmic trading that reads all news in split second, d…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/18 06:49 PM
2	" But Muh Genetics! :'( " High intelligence doesn't make one a good communicator, and I'd venture a guess that high iq even weakly correlates with bad communication skills. My anecdotal observations from hanging around a bunch with 130+ iq people.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/18 11:51 AM
8	The founding post No offense, but you are inserting shit into the situation that he never mentioned anything about. Psycho girls do shit like that and I've had very similar scenarios. Literally tell a woman to her face I'm not interested in them, would never in million years date them and have my sights on another person. Acts understanding on surface, but behind closed doors goes telling every girl around me that I asked her to be my girlfriend, fucked her once and then next morning dumped her. All the while sta…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/18 09:05 PM
5	5 Tips To Improve Your Sex Game You definitely haven't fucked 500 girls. It'll be rare to find one that vocalized the want for a choke, but I've done it (without explict permission) to 10 ish girls last year and not one of them complained or brought it ever up, they came for repeats after the initial lay and seemed to enjoy it in the moment. Of course you don't choke them double handed with your knuckles white, but some amount of pressure is applied.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/18 03:41 PM
3	Be EXCELLENT Sounds accurate. Unless you are truly standout level and communicate it, it doesn't matter. Being ripped doesn't matter if you wear clothes where they can't see it, earning much doesn't matter if they can't tell it. Additionally, having a balanced packet is less valuable than excelling a category (looks, status in some circle, money - whatever) that they prioritize.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/17 12:07 PM
6	To those nervous about going to a gym: once you step foot in the door, nobody gives a fuck about you. People definitely care and people definitely judge. They might not be open about it, but you can be damn sure it happens. Just like people here circlejerk over how much superior they are to bp cucks, many senior gymgoers do the same thing about newbies. I have personally witnessed the judging at all 4 gyms in 3 different countries I've gone to, I doubt it's much different elsewhere. I've been judged and I've seen others be judged and I'll freely admit to thinking "what the fuck is this guy doing…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/17 05:05 PM
1	You have no idea what's possible unless you've put in the work Having lived in the country for a while, I have no doubt that similar things have happened. Whether the particular instance of OP is true, I do not care, but I've experienced things on similar level and witnessed even crazier things.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/17 09:43 AM
1	About age gaps 2 year age difference is nothing. Look up some of the older players here who frequently date as much as 20+ years younger girls. 17 year olds also date 19 year olds all the time. Do be careful about relevant laws. Also, if she is a total airhead and you were few years older, people might look down at you for "using" the girl.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/17 06:16 AM
5	Walking with a girl in public While I agree with the gist of your post, I disagree with the blanket advice of not appearing cute at 5'5". I'm 5'5" and while I lift, I'll never look like Chad Thundercock. I'm not going to be the manly guy ever, but my face allows me to play the cute/pretty boy aspect and I damn well do it. Has found me into beds of 11 girls this year as well. Know what archetype you fit and play it. But yeah, you shouldn't act like a child even if you go for the cute angle, they won't take you as their superi…	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/17 02:55 AM
0	PUA approached me and HB7 - I couldnt maintain frame You are starting physical fights at public places like bars or subways over someone talking to a girl with you, without them ever direct ly provoking you? Behavior like that ends up with you in jail and/or thrown out and barred from the venue in many places and in most cases, without the girl. Have you actually ever started a fight for that reason or is this just internet though talk? I've seen this scenario (and been on the receiving end of the violent party) and it hasn't worked out even once …	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 05:59 PM
5	What Japanese Think of Herbivore Men People in cities are used to foreigners, in the boondocks we are still like the pandas - something rare and exotic. It's crazy how few Japanese have ever traveled abroad.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/17 11:14 PM
9	What Japanese Think of Herbivore Men I really doubt that. Japan is a very uniform country with very few foreigners - listening to someone speak the language with heavy accent is not something they are used to and can be straining. I personally very much agree with the statement about it giving a headache. I guess if you are from the states and used to hearing your native language spoken with variety of accents it might be difficult to understand this. Just try imagine speaking to someone with a very heavy Indian accent for extended…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/17 11:12 PM
9	What Japanese Think of Herbivore Men Have lived, worked, studied and partied there. I also speak the language relatively fluently. It won't rain pussy on you just for being white. You are not perceived wealthy. Your selling point is being exotic - just like someone from say France would be in the states. It's a fetish like Yomo said and there's large demand for it, but in no way will it be easy just because of that. Particularly in cities like Tokyo and Osaka they are quite used to foreigners already. You are going to need cultural…	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/17 11:09 PM
3	Your height/looks aren't everything... Comparison of my two sisters' boyfriends Some people here love going around saying girls education or success has no meaning for guys. That's just untrue. Example: I do give a shit. For a 1 night stand, sure, whatever. For girlfriend? I would never date a girl that's of average or worse level of intelligence. And I've banged an underwear model who was so stupid I couldn't bear to listen to her for more than 30 minutes and turned her down when she doubled down on commitment, so I'm saying this from experience. Also, for sister 2's react…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/17 04:36 PM
2	There's more to SMV than height (looks/race/hair). Learning to build a captive audience. There might truly be some people that are unfuckable outside of nastiest prostitutes. But those guys are a tiny ass anomaly in the number of guys around. The top post is spot on. Deal with the cards you've been dealt and work on yourself, get that edge in some other area. If you are short but still taller than significant fraction of the girls around like your 5'3" example, that's definitely not an excuse to fucking give up. Sure you are playing on hard mode, but it's more than doable. I'm 5'5" …	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/17 10:45 AM
0	Wear nice clothes whenever you leave the house. Period. No, you are missing the joke, dear uneducated bellend. He is saying that at 85 degrees celcius, it's not hot enough to be called a real sauna. Which is true. For example, the world sauna championship used starting temperature of 110 celsius.	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/17 08:09 PM
1	How I Moved Mountains of LMR and Closed on the First Night [Long Post] I can see that working, there's a subset of girls specifically into foreigners. They also seem to be easier to bed, but that might be just my imagination. Personally I feel that using English limits your target pool too much, since 99% of the girls can't speak enough to actually have any meaningful communication. You end up attracting few girls at the bar for the novelty of being foreign and they'll try their best to converse with you, but it's really hard to actually lead that into anything whe…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/16 12:37 AM
5	How I Moved Mountains of LMR and Closed on the First Night [Long Post] Out of interest, why do you game girls in English if your Japanese is fluent? I always default to Japanese - the amount of doors it opens when they realize that you are fluent is pretty damn high. Are you targeting girls that specifically want to live abroad? Or is that with your height/weight, you are already far removed from regular jp guys and it's better to separate yourself even more?	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/16 10:18 PM
1	Girls will protect their own image above all else Yeah, they'll definitely lie to cover their asses. I got blindsided by that just a while ago. During the summer I took a trip with 3 friends - 2 guys and a girl. 1 of the guys is married (wife not on the trip) and he just happens to have lovey-dovey date feeling with the girl for the whole trip. Definitely fucking, but none of my business right? Wrong. Several months later I find out that I was apparently sexually harassing this girl for the whole trip, so the married guy had to protect her from…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/15 09:55 PM
2	You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide. What do you do for apps like whatsapp/snapchat etc.? Apps that you'd use to communicate with both your regular friends and the 'strangers' you meet. Can you have multiple active accounts on the same phone or do you basically strictly use sms and phonecalls only with randoms?	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/15 01:51 PM
3	people mocking me everyday for my height. what now? I doubt people are mocking you for your height. Very few people openly make fun of someone for features like height during normal day to day interactions AND you aren't even that short. If (multiple) people actually are making fun of you daily, you need to associate with different people. I'm 5'5" and I haven't got a single mean comment about my height, EVER. Honestly, it's probably in your head. Your post reeks of insecurity, which is something you won't be able to change overnight but you got …	/r/askTRP	30/11/15 01:50 PM