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I have had a vasectomy.. wonder how they will rule
/r/MensRights09/08/25 09:10 AM
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support them financially after they are 30+
/r/MensRights08/08/25 08:32 AM
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thats 500k USD. rofl.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 08:02 AM
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A lot of universities even have their own networks to cross the firewall... Its not something China cares about. You can talk about it openly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:54 PM
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women still get offended over age and body count. However, most of my encounters/dates have been with women with body count less than 5. Some were virgins. But I have never fucked a virgin as taking someone's virginity isnt a goal. There definitely is.. some animosity between men and women just like in the west. The phrase "fuckboy"/渣男 is pretty popular in China. As well as "nice guy". Marriage rates falling, divorce rates rising, etc. Same as korea/japan. It is sad really. I grew up quite tradi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:50 PM
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every well educated person jumps over the great firewall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:18 PM
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not for me hh. I make about 160k USD per year in China. Life is good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:37 AM
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Dating/sex in college is pretty open in China now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:36 AM
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I am in China ( I am Chinese) Women here prefer 6'1 160 lb, light skinned, handsome, highly educated (from top colleges), high income, and a good family background. At least people here don't delude themselves.. Its well accepted that women like "tall, rich, handsome". Priorities change as people get older. In marriage markets (for people around 28), the two most important criteria for men are 责任感 and 上进行 which means "takes responsibility" and "strives to earn money". Yeah... Its pretty blatant …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:50 AM
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Modern female sexuality ... Basically find hot tall guys to fuck/play around when they are young and then settle for stability when older.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 08:58 AM
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She has a history of cheating. Stop treating other girls as angels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:01 PM
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I am dating a pretty girl atm, but for some reason, I prefer fucking 100 average girls once over fucking the same pretty girl 100 times... and yeah I fucked ugly girls before. Still great experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:36 AM
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they dont want to be considered not as attractive. simply this
/r/MensRights25/06/25 07:38 AM
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live for yourself. Enjoy yourself. Hedonistic, but hey, at least enjoy it
/r/MensRights05/06/25 10:09 AM
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nah, the really handsome ones get invited on dates/paid for lol. It happens, at least in Asia. called 小白脸
/r/MensRights05/06/25 06:09 AM
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this is only because you are not tall and handsome
/r/MensRights05/06/25 05:03 AM
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There are more females than males in cities. Most men are invisible.
/r/MensRights20/05/25 05:09 AM
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There is. Also very low salary for most jobs. Buying an apartment in Beijing? Tough luck.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 11:19 AM
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Agree with you, but men dont lie about what kind of women they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:47 PM
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no way I am asking someone to do that with me
/r/MensRights13/03/25 09:29 AM
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Is redpill in essence just AFBB?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:51 AM
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I do have relationships. I don't love the other person. I am not an asshole and I have good relations with my exes. Has roots in childhood trauma, but I don't think its misplaced with the failure rate of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:46 AM
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Try it ? This is fear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:57 PM
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The photos are not normal, but they turn out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:55 PM
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O, these were not the 4-5 I met with. I only met with two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:53 PM
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I fucked a 2 or 3 from tinder today and it was awful. I thought she was a 4-5 but those pics were filtered. After meeting at her place, it was too late. fuck tinder, so much catfish. Im gonna stick to social events. matches from this week. They do not look like their photos... : https://imgur.com/a/zyVsvnP edit: the ones in those pics isn't the one I met with today. I met with two of them and I'm prob done for the rest of the month
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:33 PM
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Men are hornier. I guess yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:26 PM
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I'm attractive and dated average women before. It was fun and they treat me well (too well). I never could fall in love. I didn't like kissing/hugging. There is this girl. Zhang Zetian. Very attractive, young, from the top university in China, and marries a billionaire. Girls can date and fuck out of their league. There is competition and I am not interested in being sincere in a relationship where I can be replaced. I am not saying its girls' fault. Modern relationships are fickle and I am part…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:28 AM
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I being feeling defeated lately in my view of relationships. Young objectively attractive girls are always in relationships. I am only one person in her life. If someday I no longer serve any purpose, I will be become replaceable Maybe, its jarring to see the amount of some girls have. It is not only me approaching her, but others. At work, in class, in the mall, on apps. How many relationships they have been in. How fickle it all is. Its meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:40 AM
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Its being years since I felt my heart felt excited for a girl. What is lost can never return. I watch this video when I feel melodramatic: https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1v4411D7NE/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:21 AM
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what jobs you go into with a degree in stats? Or do you plan on going to grad school
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:18 AM
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these are not chads except that pro atheletes
/r/MensRights17/04/24 04:13 PM
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i am scared of commitment on the third ._.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:00 PM
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When I didn't have money and had 0 experience in dating, I truly did believe in it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:59 AM
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I found that as I self improved, girls liked me more. It doesn't matter if I am a fuckboy or someone who is no longer romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:42 AM
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If no sex on second date, Im gone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:25 AM
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I have avoidant attachment ._..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:02 AM
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why? China is great
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:56 AM
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Her: Age: 18-24, Chinese. Personality: Reserved or outgoing are both fine. I am an introvert but nobody thinks that when first meeting me. Background: Great academically. Student. Attends a good university. Non-rich parents. From an average or below average household. Interests: No social media. Someone who likes to think, whether it be in sports, video games, card games, or mahjong. Values: Prefer a virgin. Aspires to be an academic. Intellectually curious. Body: 18-21 BMI Appearance: Pale. 1.5…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:45 AM
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I realized I am banned from a lot of subs by posting here and mensrights
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:02 AM
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Its pretty accepted nowadays to have flings/short relationships in China, maybe not ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:31 AM
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There is more vitriol in Asian communities towards women than what we see in west. Hence the left-over women, slut shaming, and other insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:30 AM
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They don't get sex. A lot of Chinese men don't get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:34 AM
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Yeah, from vietnam/laos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:28 AM
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Talking with my grandparents puts things in perspective. I was talking with my cousin about my recent breakup. My grandma asks, you are not marrying her? Why would I marry her? I answered Because you had sex with her. She replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:28 AM
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well-off Chinese girls who want romance have higher standards for looks (especially), gifts, and dates in my experience. They tell me they find the male suitors ugly during matchmaking or the ones their parents introduce them to. Often, they have high standards for gifts. For ex: wanting SKI II, don't want a Haba. A rich girl bought me expensive shoes 3 dates in, then she wanted a 3x more expensive gift in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:22 AM
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I browse Chinese forums sometimes and the dating topics often revolve around: High standards. Settling. Height. PUA. Spinning plates. King of the sea (multiple partners). same thing I see on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:00 AM
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are you a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:15 AM
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Cold approached 2nd time. Got her contact... and she has photos of her bf. Attractive single girls are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:47 PM
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I don't want to think of people as replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:11 AM
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Have lots of hookups and then fall in true love that lasts a lifetime. This is often shown in media and I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:05 AM
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When we were young, we used to believe. Those in love, will forever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:49 PM
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Percentile wise, that is. Out of 100 people, only 20 can be in the top 20 percent. If younger women are disproportionately taking up that share, it would leave older women with lower percentiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:05 AM
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We can say the average 20 YO female is higher value than the average 20 YO male. Does that the average 40 YO male is higher value than the average 40 YO female?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:58 AM
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Cold approached first time yesterday. She had bf (I might have seen her bf tbh). Great feeling, will try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:49 AM
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I dont like the nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:59 PM
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why is it "taken advantage of"? Some male friends I know barely dated/had sex less than 5 times and now approaching 30. Most of them will not find girls as sexually inexperienced as them. One was a software engineer at Google and never had a gf as a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:56 PM
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if you don't commit and date around for fun, it works pretty well in current environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:35 PM
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My childhood song: The dark sky hangs low, Bright stars in tow, Insects fly, insects soar, Whom are you longing for? Stars in the heavens shed tears, Roses on earth wither away, Cold winds blow, cold winds sway, As long as you're with me, I have no fears. Insects fly, flowers rest, Pairs together look the best, Not afraid of the dark night, Only fear a heartbreak's bite. No matter if it's tiring or dire, Nor the direction of our aspire, East or west, south or north, Our bond holds forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:23 AM
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Relationships feel so empty after dating different people. People become replaceable N count matters for relationships if you want to be special in his/her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:06 AM
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No, its mostly their parents and societal pressure. A decent home in Beijing costs $1 mil and the median salary is 1.4k USD per month. Impossible to buy apartment without parental help. You say where you are from when dating seriously, what your parents do, how many siblings you have... Realistic. Lots of young people opting out. A "lying flat" movement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:55 AM
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Losing weight as a male made me more attractive. And I wasn't overweight to begin with. 5'11, 185 lbs -> 168 lbs. Huge gain in face
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:18 PM
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For the real world, I think there is a growing trend though ( not gonna call it a problem since its subjective) where relationships have become more casual and short term. Marriage rate is declining: https://www.statista.com/statistics/195951/marriage-rate-in-the-united-states-since-1990/ I am talking about women who are below average female height, percentiles within their own gender. Lets say a women has a graduate degree, earns 120k, average height, and is in decent shape. She wants the equiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:55 AM
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RFK Jr's VP pick jumped pretty well tbh. She is less attractive, less educated, and less moral(cheating) than some of the girls I have dated and I am no Sergey Brin. I think going for successful/nerdy men often end up fine. Its the fuckbois that end up hurting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:16 AM
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The car/house/family/income matters a lot more when looking for marriage. There are different standards being applied in dating/marriage. Some men feel used in that their financial status is what ends up mattering for them. I am considered attractive/noticed by women. I have a great job/education, but my parents dont have money. Paid off my student loans and helped pay off my parents mortgage. It takes so much money to buy a good house in SF/LA/Beijing and then raise a child that it would be eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:09 AM
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Can/would society adjust its expectations to create a higher functioning(relationship wise) and competitive society? Or would we delve further into situationships/fwbs/polygamy? Thinking about: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:34 AM
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too many guys interested in them. Date older women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:44 AM
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If she is fucking someone else while we are dating, its an instant no. Its heavily frowned upon here for both men and women. Dating someone tuesday and someone else thursday isn't acceptable. I did that and got grilled hard. You are not supposed to kiss unless in a committed relationship ( I don't think like this since I grew up in US) Fucking someone in ONS/Fwb isn't for most people. Divorce is just as prevalent as the US in major cities though. My grandma was saying the other day, if you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:40 PM
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Last gf. Including occasional gifts, travel, and if seeing each other nearly daily, prob $700-$1000 per month tbh. She looked like a kpop star and was superficial as fuck. It is different than the girls that study in the states ( who come from educated/well-off families) Its worth it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:31 PM
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height matters. Girls prefer 1.8m and up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:17 PM
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Not sure why you are making assumptions about Chinese men. I don't plan on marrying and want to retire at 40. Most Chinese men have no choice. I spend money on dates/girls, but I make over 15 times the average salary in China (I work remote for a unicorn company..). I spend money on my family too (currently fully supporting my grandpa).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:15 PM
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the age gaps often spouted by redpill are 10+.. to attractive young women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:42 PM
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Does this graph show 5'10/5'11 men are shown to only 30 percent of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:24 PM
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They don't struggle. Makes them more favorable Feminism isn't well defined. If feminism is for rights(voting, work, equal pay for equal labor), I think most of us would agree. Most feminists today are not about true equality. Most still rather the man pay for dates/presents/don't want to work as plumbers etc.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 06:45 PM
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Girls I have dated discuss with me about accidently getting pregnant -> should get married etc. Scares the shit out of me. I am getting a vasecotomy this month
/r/MensRights09/01/24 09:13 AM
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