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I knew it!
/r/seduction15/02/12 03:15 PM
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just have fun(outcome independent) That's honestly all you need. If you're having fun, girls will want to be around you. And if they don't, you wont care because your still having fun. It's a win win.
/r/seduction30/01/12 04:24 AM
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Whatever.
/r/seduction24/10/11 01:28 PM
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Oh wait, thats how it normally is.
/r/seduction06/10/11 10:45 PM
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http://www.clinical-depression.co.uk/depression-faq/is-depression-caused-by-chemical-imbalance/ Also, if it as strictly chemical how would CBT have a success rate equal to that of SSRI's? I was depressed for a year and took zoloft and went to therapy an nothing helped until I found "Feeling Good" which is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:40 AM
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Actually the only evidence that it was a chemical imbalance was put forth by pharmaceuticals so then doctors could prescribe their SSRI's. There is actually little to no evidence supporting this, and its the reason why CBT/DBT/ACT has been shown as effective if not more so than SSRI's for treating depression.
/r/seduction07/09/11 11:53 PM
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After day one I just feel like I do when I start to pursue a goal, driven, determined, self-controlled. By day three I actually felt like I had more energy and I definitely had more motivation. There is the drive theory of motivation where everything we do is to satisfy drives, like hunger, sex, achievement, etc. Pretty much all of those drives are easily taken care of in the modern day except sex, unless of course you fap everyday to porn. After stopping fapping/porn for a week I felt a lot mor…
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:46 PM
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I still don't see the difference. You feel more confident wearing better clothes vs looking like a slob right? Isn't that just a placebo, there's nothing physiologically different in you. But you feel better right? So why not do it? Have you tried it? Just try it for a week. If its not for you its not for you, but its really not something you can judge before trying.
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:40 PM
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But if its a placebo that works, why not use it to your advantage?
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:54 AM
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Well in my personal experience as a man, cutting out porn made me feel better. Real women looked better. I felt like I had more self-control/discipline which increased my confidence. My sex drive went up (though its lower than most guys so this might not be a problem for others). I felt more manly. I felt a lot more sociable and less socially anxious. Perhaps I'm asexual though because when I watch porn and jerk off everyday I don't even see a reason to approach a women or to pursue a relationsh…
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:52 AM
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I forgot, xxxday is before or after monday?
/r/seduction10/08/11 06:54 AM
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Adderall part is too true too lol. Hyper focus + longer time to orgasm + hypersexuality = W#!@ORJW
/r/seduction28/07/11 04:53 AM
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Also don't drink too heavily on it, uppers+downers isn't great on the heart. But your right, shit turns you into fuckin superman.
/r/seduction28/07/11 04:53 AM
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Ok, you are better than everyone else in the area of being cool. That is one thing. You are not a better person though.
/r/seduction06/06/11 03:00 PM
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Nope. I can be cool, but being cool doesn't make me better or worth more than anyone else. Neither does any talent, good look, or bank account. I can have any of them but I still would not be any better than anyone. People with real solid authentic self esteem know this, where as with fake confidence you can normally see through as they normally try to put down others to make themselves feel above something.
/r/seduction06/06/11 03:54 AM
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Chris Farely was the fucking man. A celebrity death that actually made me sad.
/r/seduction29/05/11 01:33 AM
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Yup. It pretty much says everything PUA books say in a more straight forward and applicable way with a step by step process. Seriously, anyone on this subreddit who hasn't read it, please do.
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:46 AM
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Also Intimate Connection by Dave Burns. It's great.
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:38 AM
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Were a generation of men raised by women.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:47 AM
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If you like Feeling Good, check out Intimate Connections. It's by the same author, its CBT based and generally agrees with what seddit has to say (being non-needy, having your own life first, ways to overcome AA etc.). This book is great and I cannot recommend it highly enough.
/r/seduction09/05/11 04:56 PM
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Normally it seems, and it was for me as someone who went from socially awkward loner to a guy whos happy with his social life and is in a relationship now - Lonely -> Male Friends -> Female Friends (Guys complaining of getting friendzoned only have one female friend who gets all their focus) -> Girlfriend/Relationship/Hooking up. It is important to have female friends who are and will just be your friends. They can be good to talk to and give you social proof so that you aren't a creepy guy, gir…
/r/seduction12/04/11 11:11 PM
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This advice can be applied anywhere, just fyi.
/r/seduction22/03/11 11:22 AM
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Well maybe not him but definitely better than people who are on the opposite extreme and not doing anything.
/r/seduction13/03/11 04:15 PM
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Oh, the Brett Farve strategy.
/r/seduction11/03/11 03:03 AM
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Atta boy.
/r/seduction08/03/11 10:49 PM
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Read the CBT book Intimate Connections.
/r/seduction25/02/11 06:04 AM
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I came to the same realization. I remember waving a cute girl my friends pointed out while we were driving and they were flabbergasted that I waved to her. It's fun and old people usually wave back.
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:10 AM
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Ok don't do it. The worse thing that could happen is nothing and then after two weeks you can go back to fapping. But doing the same thing and expecting different results is insanity.
/r/seduction10/02/11 03:13 PM
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I think everyone who is having serious depression/anxiety problems should read Feeling Good by Dave Burns. He also has a book about panic attacks if you have a serious anxiety issue like that.
/r/seduction27/12/10 03:27 AM
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I tried shrooms. Same thing? I really want to try LSD.
/r/seduction14/06/10 09:49 PM
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Wow I needed to read that. Thank you.
/r/seduction29/05/10 03:40 PM
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I am no expert, but if your going to do something, go do it in person, not on facebook.
/r/seduction29/05/10 04:13 AM
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Do not talk about weed all the time. Even when your smoking it. It's just a bad habit in general to have, not only is it unattractive to women (to talk about it all the time), it is unattractive to everyone.
/r/seduction26/05/10 02:30 AM
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It's sniff sniff good god. It's marijuana cigarettes.
/r/seduction23/05/10 03:57 AM
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I'd say be your best self. You know how you are when your just shooting the shit with your friends and not a care in the world? You feel confident and just say whats on your mind. That's the self you want to be. An uninhibited version of yourself, which I guess alcohol helped you achieve lol. But yea I totally agree, at least for me I noticed when I am not restricting my personality because I am afraid of how she'll react to it, I do much better.
/r/seduction16/05/10 04:19 PM
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“Think about the rhetorical difference between asking: ‘Can you recommend a good book to me?’ versus ‘What’s a good book you could recommend?’” (Juggler) Which one is better I am confused? And thanks, some of those inner game ones were exactly what I needed to hear tonight.
/r/seduction10/05/10 03:32 AM
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I think legally they are not allowed to date there patients 7 years after there last visit. I'm sorry. I don't think its going to work out.
/r/seduction09/05/10 09:39 PM
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This inspires me. Congrats.
/r/seduction09/05/10 01:20 AM
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Hey man look, I have gotten many a number online from girls on aim or facebook. But my real life skills still suck. Don't bother with it until you fix your real skills first.
/r/seduction29/04/10 02:11 PM
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I guess actually approaching. Approach enough and you'll find a girl that will want to have sex with you. Right now, thats my problem. I do not approach at all.
/r/seduction23/04/10 09:26 PM
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"If you want my attention you can just say something."
/r/seduction19/04/10 11:19 PM
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Even if you fall on your face, your still moving forward.
/r/seduction18/04/10 06:16 AM
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How much did it cost you?
/r/seduction16/04/10 05:09 AM
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Holy shit are you me.
/r/seduction10/04/10 07:44 PM
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I learned about this in 2006. Admittedly in high school its not exactly set up for the game. But I am in college in my second semester of college and still haven't done really anything with this either. I think we have the same problem.
/r/seduction31/03/10 10:58 PM
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Just like you learned anything in school. Reading it and taking note of the important parts. Also putting it into practice is probably the best way.
/r/seduction24/03/10 04:52 AM
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Nah its not lying. If you feel uncomfortable saying it though then stop.
/r/seduction22/03/10 06:42 PM
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Well if you really didn't have game in high school and you do know and that's what your saying, how is that lying?
/r/seduction22/03/10 04:43 PM
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Excellent analysis.
/r/seduction19/03/10 04:14 AM
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Good job bro. I too am in University but I think I am a year below you. I feel like I am slowly getting over the very same problem. Keep it up, you'll be slaying bitches in no time.
/r/seduction13/03/10 07:43 AM
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Fuck man. I don't know. Hardcore AA. I know once I take the dive in it'll be easier, but I am having a hard time getting on the diving board you know. Thanks for reminding me though, I am being serious. I just find it so hard to do in college.
/r/seduction02/03/10 08:35 PM
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Why am I now fully committed to my mission? – No better time than now. Seriously. Only 50 more years alive, better get to it. I like that. I am going to college too. How do you go about making small talk with people I sometimes feel like everyone is always in a rush.
/r/seduction25/02/10 03:43 AM
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This post inspired me to get off my ass. Tomorrow I will approach and I'll update this.
/r/seduction17/02/10 02:33 AM
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It looks like someone has been watching the Blueprint Decoded haha. I am in the middle of it. It seems to be about way more than pick up and is a very good watch even if your not into PUA stuff, just for social tips.
/r/seduction15/02/10 12:30 AM
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Thanks for trying. You're the only person who did ;_;
/r/seduction10/02/10 01:50 AM
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The make-out was four days ago.
/r/seduction19/01/10 05:23 AM
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The make-out session was 4 days ago.
/r/seduction19/01/10 05:20 AM
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How is "The Now Habit"? Has it helped you?
/r/seduction16/11/09 11:34 PM
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Yea man I took lessons since from May to August, but I wasn't really consistent. Now I am in college and play about an hour a day and I am improving much fast. It is now one of my favorite hobbies, maybe THE favorite haha.
/r/seduction16/11/09 11:32 PM
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I am trying to improve my appearance by getting rid of my acne. Also I have been doing a lot of soul searching recently. Some of my internal beliefs have shifted because I have just thought about them deeply. Also I am looking for someone to go on this PUA journey with me, but so far no luck. I am kind of nervous and don't want to ask someone who doesn't want to, since for some reason this community is sometimes looked down upon. Edit: Also, I am getting beast at guitar. The confidence I am gett…
/r/seduction14/11/09 09:14 PM
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