DJWG Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it?		DJWG	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/20 03:18 AM
2	Divorce notification preparation		DJWG	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/20 03:29 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Divorce Lawyer recommendations? Sell the house or she will stay in it until your legally done and she can control the speed of that. My stbx is freeloading now and it’s been 18 months. Should hav3 sold instead of trying to buy her out. It also Creates physical separation so you can have some freedom and peace of mind.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/23 08:36 PM
1	Are there any men in Australia like me going through financial separation Don’t keep the house and pay her out. She won’t leave easily. She gets free accommodation is what she’s looking at while saving as much as she can. Physical separation is the key or your gonna hate each other soon enough if it’s still friendly now.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/23 08:28 PM
2	Shame and death Mate. Stop. Dont be that guy. https://alphacodetraining.com/landing This will turn you around brother. I was were you are and I'm now I'm helping men like you see the value and esteem they really do have.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 10:37 PM
1	Moving past the hurt I went through this course that i heard about in a divorsed mens FB group (linked below) that got me back on track. Its called the Alpha Code Academy. Check it out on Insta or Facebook to see if it looks like a fit for you. Us men have a lot of low self worth when this happens to us and feel there's no way back. Could be an option for you brother. If you do follow up and join tell them Dave linked you to the course for me. Thanks https://www.facebook.com/thealphacodeacademy instagram - thealphac…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/22 10:40 PM
2	Pre divorce filing phase - any gotchas ? I’d tell your stbx that your friend has requested full payment buy the end of a given month and pay it from the joint account. It’s in the open and she knows it needs to be paid. All above board then. Pay the debt before you split.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/21 08:42 AM
2	a moment of reflection Sure, about to head to work so in a break I sure will...cheers.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/20 07:37 PM
3	a moment of reflection Yep.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/20 07:34 PM
6	Waiting until my kid turn 18 or 19 I’m there now. All my boys are adults. I was planning on leaving after Easter. One last hooray with the boys waterskiing at our holiday caravan park...then COVID hit. I’ve since found someone else fulfilling my needs my SO doesn’t so for now I’ll be staying until COVID is delt with. Fucking Chinese bat eating motherfuckers!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/20 10:53 AM
12	Draining myself in jack daniels has been my excitement lately Give yourself some time to feel shit mate. Having a few or drowning your sorrows a bit is ok imho as long as you realise you will get have to get over this and get yourself back on track. For fucks sake, don’t try get her back, you didn’t own her, it was just your turn, you have a sever case of oneitis......another will come along but only if you start living and working for your own self worth. Chin up mate. Start living your life your way....	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/20 08:19 AM
2	How Long Did You Guys Wait To Get Serious Again? Quote of the day. Thanks you sir!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/20 02:46 AM
1	Red Flags This...is so true.😂😂😂	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/20 10:40 AM
1	I am young, and having doubts about getting married. Is it worth it? Listen to this guy👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 He is spot on...live your life more. Build your wealth and experiences. Visit Richard Cooper and Rollo Tomossi on Youtube and take in there wisdom.... I’ve told my sons to live life and not get tied up until there in there 30’s. Plus I don’t want to be a grand parent just yet...I’m only 47....	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/20 10:17 AM
1	Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it? I have been 100%of the marriage and she has worked probably 50-60% of the time. She is currently working now. I don’t think Alimony will be a problem for me. My children are adults. No support needed now, we’ve done well with them all and they are great people.... I won’t be paying here until I’m 70, it’ll be a split of assets and if she wants to fight hard she will get a little more than I will. I can’t stay in an unhappy marriage just because we get together as a whole family from now. My elde…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/20 09:35 AM
1	Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it? Thanks warrior_up. Whilst thats be great i need to leave first haha. And we will need to communicate because of our sons requirements. I like the idea though as i could easily shut the door now...but i wont be sending or listening to any emotional pussy comments. She’s never been like that ever and i doubt she will lower her flags and start, nor will I now. I’m becoming red pilled my man.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/20 12:12 AM
1	Here is it... I could say it now...but I won’t. Doesn’t feel right. Why can’t I do it? Yer your onto me. I’m lost and i need to find myself. The thing is i don’t know if she wants out.... she wont tell me. Shes a smart girl....	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/20 11:03 AM
2	Did anyone here divorce over a sexless marriage? You won’t be alone my friend.... it’s amazing who’s out there...just be careful and take your time....	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/19 10:58 AM
3	Lost my temper and son overheard It sounds like your kids been brainwashed just a little.... my sons know exactly what my wife is doing as I’ve been honest with them about her behaviour (but mine hasn’t had an affair that I’m aware about ).... they know I struggle with her and that I’m there for them u til it’s time... which is soon I think...	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/19 05:51 AM