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That is not the implication of my argument. I read through most of the study you linked and I do find those results surprising. I would be interested in seeing a similar study done on heterosexual women. I have had many of those same strategies used on me by different women throughout my life, but I wouldn't say that all of those women raped me. I wish the study had asked participants at the end of they felt they had raped or sexually assaulted the women they were referring to in the survey, and…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/26 04:29 PM
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I was telling you what other women have told me about the men in their lives, not my perception of those men, many of whom I had never met. I've been in women majority industries for the entirety of my career and most of my friends are women. I don't think having anxiety or fear around men based on 1/10 or even 1/5 of them being monsters is unreasonable at all. I'm saying that even 1/5 men being monsters means 4/5 are just normal people. It still makes sense to be on guard for the minority of me…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/26 05:07 PM
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You're 33. You should be old enough to know that r/ AMITHEASSHOLE is not where you find normal people discussing normal relationships. If you're posting your relationship issues for internet strangers to weigh in on, your relationship is already in a worse spot than normal.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:46 PM
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Do you think the majority of men are nasty, abusive, and sexually aggressive towards women? I'm not defending OP's view but I would agree that at least more than half of men are normal (aka not nasty, abusive, and sexually aggressive) people. It's easy for a small minority of really shitty men who are serial abusers/manipulators to give all the normal men a bad reputation. I've never met a woman who hasn't had at least a very bad experience with a man in their life, but most of the men in their …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:44 PM
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I'm short and unattractive and socially awkward and was poor until recently. You don't need some crazy pick up ability. You just sound like you have a warped view of what ou think goes on inside women's minds or you're delusional about how good your socials skills are. Not counting crazy places like some of the misandrist subreddits, I've never seen anyone shunned or excommunicated from a friend group or workplace who didn't actually do something clearly awful. I've been in minority male spaces …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 10:30 PM
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Well, asuch as it's frowned upon in online discourse, a lot of people date their friends and coworkers. I would bet that if a couple didn't meet online or at a bar/club, they probably were friends or coworkers first. Every single person who I've dated/ has been my girlfriend has first been a fried or coworker. If you're as socially adept as you claim to be, your single female friends and coworkers may like you. You can pick up on that, and if you like them back ask them out for drinks or somethi…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 09:33 PM
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Did you ever ask out any coworkers or female friends?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 07:14 PM
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Elsewhere in this thread someone asked if you had female friends, but you didn't answer that question. Do you have any platonic relationships with women besides clients?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 07:07 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way, but it's hard to believe someone who's whole job is socializing and networking is unable to speak to a woman before she speaks to you? How do you network with women professionally? Are they always the one speaking to you first?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/26 06:57 PM
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I would think a lot of ex-redpill people are leftists.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/26 01:20 PM
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If something is explicitly "for women" and is helping women more than men, do those men have a right to complain that they are getting less help than the women? I'm all for increasing social programs and support for everyone and I have no problem with programs like WIC or food stamps, but you said it yourself, most permanently impoverished single people are men. Some men on the right correctly assess that social support resources (that are usually funded by taxes from all people) disproportionat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:01 PM
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You're correct on the modern progressive left being more supportive of young men. The mainstream centrist/corporate neoliberal left, (think Chuck schumer, Hillary Clinton,Joe Biden, Kamala Harris) was more focused on identity politics 5-15 years ago and far less accepting of actual progressive left policies that would help young men. It was the era where corporate feminism/activism exploded. After the BLM movement sort of died down in 2022 or so, most people really started to see through the bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:50 PM
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Try to encourage him to develop platonic relationships with female friends and family if possible. If you have sisters or female cousins, that's a great place to start. If he can get a job working side by side with women, that can also help. Most importantly, encourage him to go to college, ideally in a different city than he currently lives. I know there are many factors to consider in the decision to go to college, but it's probably the best way to expand a person's world view and learn about …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/26 04:25 PM
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There are all kinds of different people out there. This is something that you're worried about now, but it seems like you've got a good head on your shoulders. It's cliche to say but as you get older you will learn more about yourself and who you are. Most people become less insecure as they age. The girls your age are just as insecure as you are, but like you, they are all unique individuals who have their own life experiences, beliefs, and expectations. Most women aren't thinking, "Hmmm, I don…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/26 12:10 PM
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I guess maybe this might make sense if the only thing in life that ever matters to you is getting short term attention from women. Maybe this is true for some people, but most people at some point probably want to have a woman who they can build a life and a future with. If just having lots of shallow attention from women is the best thing for your ego, you probably have a pretty fragile ego and are not truly confident in yourself. Commitment isn't a bad thing, it's a two way street where you co…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 04:29 PM
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Thank you for your response. Why are women justified in "punching back" but men are not? If women are justified in punching back when men are punching at them, are men not justified in doing the same? I think most men just want to work a decent job, have community, and people who love them. The same things that women want. There have always been and will always be lazy people, or shitty people in any group. I think seeing men "falling behind" women in significant numbers is indicative of a socie…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/26 01:14 AM
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While I agree with your sentiment and I fully agree that it is older and mostly just the very wealthy who have screwed young men, I think it's interesting that you point out young women as being viewed as "below" young men in society. I think part of the problem is that many young women feel as if they should be "punching up" as you say, at young men. But in reality, young men generally face a very similar level of oppression from society. So those young men may just feel like "punching" young w…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/26 10:28 PM
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