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14

A month is too soon to send nudes. You're not a replacement for his ex so he cant just jump to that level with you. Honeslty, I wouldn't throw out the whole man just yet but I'd tell him I wasn't comfortable doing that and seeing how he reacts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:48 PM
97

Just what every girl wants. Anal and a sarcastic twit 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:00 PM
64

We have a limited window of fertility. That time spent and invested is a huge gamble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:10 PM
59

This is why you should never date below your looks match. On even footing it has to be about something other than looks. If you date down your looks overshadow compatibility and men will fall over themselves trying to justify it. If you're having this problem consistently you should aim for more attractive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:38 AM
132

Who on earth would want unfinished bad art of their own ass. Like ive painted my own nudes and if he was an artist sure why not but they're not even shaded or coloured. What is she supposed to do with it? Put it on the fridge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:48 AM
99

Self employed production company He grows weed in his moms basement. Bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:29 PM
7

She's not crazy. She's not mentally ill. She's not even desperately in love. She wants his reasources and uses him as a back up plan for when things are rough. It's calculated and not someone who has been driven to the brink. What he did was exist with little self esteem for a long while. This coming back and forth did work up until his relationship before mine when his circle started chasing her off. She expects it to work because it has worked. He is very easy to manipulate when he's inlove wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:03 PM
5

Honestly it doesn't really bother me, she's not violent just persistent. I know for a fact he is repulsed by her and she's not a threat to my relationship. Whenever she pops up i act kindly but frim. Being sweet, rational and able to stand my ground has given him and his family / friends a good impression of me and when I'm stood infront of her I always come off looking better. I wouldn't recomend how i do it if he was actively talking to her, if that was the case I'd walk away but in this case …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:39 PM
23

She's convinced the pull she had over him 15+ years ago will carry on through the rest of his life, that shes the only one who'll ever understand him or be his equal uwu. She's not mentally ill, quite the opposite. She's smart and very cunning and its very obvious she assumes he'll always be there as a back up. Love that for her just not with my guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:47 AM
28

The lass wanted to move in. I shit you not, suit cases and everything. She does this everytime there's a problem, like I respect the dedication to nabbing his resources bbuuutttt....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:56 AM
39

I love my sisters, but they really are out in force rn. My fiance had had one pop up at our house lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:44 AM
19

I think a lvf is someone who is doing nothing (work study) and isn't looking after themselves (beauty mentally) and, for me personally, someone who engages in excessive vices (hook up, drink and drugs ect). Someone with absolutely no female relationships is pretty lv imo. Id say you're not high value (very few are) but you're high average. Ps. It might just be my opinion but I dont think piercings or other aesthetic choices equal lv. Having flattering piercings effects value but 🤷‍♀️ value is pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:08 PM
34

Ft while playing with the boys. Like I want to sit there for an hour while he yells at his friends for being noobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:51 AM
70

The drunk self is the true self. Men are terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:56 AM
23

A crack down on people who leak paid "content" probably in the early 20s. But it'll be non consensual sexual violence that'll be the big fight. And policing porn websites as a result to end the decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:28 AM
129

Yeah you just have to clean the entire house, do all the child rearing AND pay half the bills while he plays video games and watches porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:11 AM
107

And we're supposed to be the most liberated and advanced generations.... Everything is still the same, everytime we actually take a positive step the rules change to give men the advantage and what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:06 AM
18

They dont even have enough shame to buy the pills online. They know they want to rape their partners and don't even have the decency of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:57 AM
21

Imagine being fine with the risk of your children begging homeless bc you don't want to leave mommy. Weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:40 AM
5

This post is sus af lol But also once a week is about my average and im not on anything. I dont mind having more sex as relationship maintenance but naturally my sex drive isnt high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:17 AM
102

Yeah it's hard to be aroused when most husbands try to work their wives to death between a career, children and keeping house. The pressure on the average wife to be everything and still be a sex pot is ridiculous and a massive turn off when it comes to marriage. But hey, you don't want to end up on r/ dead bedrooms or have your husband put his resources into another woman and her family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:54 AM
2

Its on the rules for men not to post here tho
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 09:21 AM
10

This isnt a sub for men's advice
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 08:24 AM
80

There's a ton of low cost dates, museums, garden picnics, local concerts, artsy classes (pottery, poetry ect). Recently I went a saw a hypnotist show with a date, random but interesting and didn't cost a fortune. Pretty much all places will have something on thats reasonably priced. Tbh tho in the current dating culture finding someone interesting enough who thinks to do something interesting is rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:40 PM
1

I don't want to shame her for parting simps with their money but honestly i dont get how men fall for this kind of thing. She'll never sleep with you. There's free porn on the internet. So litterally why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:51 AM
46

Llllllooooooolllll I'm like a nonsexual feeder. Need em to be able to put it away, no obese guys either only powerlifters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:08 PM
128

My fool proof (/s) method of knowing if a guy will be good in bed is if they can eat an entire rotisserie chicken. No fucking lie my top three lays have done this. Disgusting but also really impressive. Also this post is great, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:02 AM
15

Sounds like a pick me cool girl type. There can be a speration between church and state so really if your man has a problem with a friend he can just not interact with that friend. The thing to be worried about ending a friendship for a man is that it could be an abuse tactic meant to start isolating you. If he's seeing a problem that you can't logically see its probably time to bounce or reevaluate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:24 PM
8

I'd love to be a stay at home mother, the benifits to the child would be my primary concern and not the ease of getting back into the work force. Luckily, my feild of career is always desperate for people so there wouldn't be an issue coming back anyway. My fiance and I've spoke at length about it and id still have my own money and would be paid an equal amount of "fun" money as him and also have half of the savings made in a private account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:13 AM
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Nah first youve got to make him put down non refundable deposits for the wedding. #makehispocketshurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:30 AM
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Yeah tbh i do believe marrying for love is for the poor. If you're well off and not acting strategically you deserved to be fucked over by divorce lawyers. Poorer people don't have as much to lose tying themselves to someone based on a statically fleeting emotion. It's not to say rich people can't or don't love each other, they just can't marry someone exclusively for love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:04 AM
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👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:40 PM
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Just because they've been conditioned into pickmes doesn't mean its ok to actively want to benefit from their suffering. Just because you are fine being used as a stepping stone doesn't mean other women are ok with you using their trauma. Pickmes need to be lifted up not used and ridiculed even further. This post will not wake anyone up, the only thing posts like this do is create an us vs them mean girl "i get mine" mentality. It's toxic and you should think it through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:59 AM
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Our 👏 strategies 👏 do 👏 not 👏 come 👏 at 👏 the 👏 expense 👏 other 👏 women 👏 No woman deserves to be taken advantage of by a man. Pickmes are a product of the patriarchy, not an enemy and not a stepping stone for your future man. Sacrificing other women for your benifit and reveling in it is shameful. If this is you mind set go sit with the rpw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:23 AM
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I don't think hvm are aiming for hyper sexual dressing women for serious relationships tbh. That advice seems out dated and writen by lower middle aiming women. If you want to follow fashion advice school of affluence on YouTube has a lot of good videos about keeping it classy and sophisticated. But honestly the tastes of men are so varried that any advice other than don't stink and be a complete slob is somewhat useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:31 PM
61

It's banter but honestly its gross and vulgar. He should have never spoken to her like that and she shouldn't be entertaining it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:12 AM
22

I don't think realistically they'd be able to ban porn, the internet is too vast. But i think violent porn should be forced behind a pay wall like it used to be before the internet and porn companies should be more strictly monitored on content. A clip showing consent being given by both parties, the check ins not being cut and if an actor safe words that should be left in as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:19 PM
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They promote it but offten it isn't done well enough or frequently enough, especially in private sessions among new couples. In the last decade I've seen kink trend towards fast and loose pratices, new people come in and don't know how to negotiate and have these conversations they're just looking to orgasm and aren't interested in learning how to do things properly. Even if they have those conversations they generally don't have the skill set to pull things off safely and are guessing and mimic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:23 AM
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The booths made of cum crusted curtains with a weird smell and an inattentive seller are mad that the nice smelling booths with a better products and charismatic seller is getting more sales and interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:10 AM
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I'm honestly so worried for the next generation of women, it's one third of is now but for them it will likely be a lot higher. Pornography has been allowed to run wild far too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:06 AM
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I always thought of it as more like a flea market. Lots of different things at different prices. Some of it worthless junk and others being sold by people who don't know the actual value. I think it works as a metaphor, and it's kinda fun to imagine people setting out their skills and what they offer on a cute little table in a stall decorated to represent them, people haggling and stuff even though the price should be set. But like i have too much imagination and I totally get your professional…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:57 AM
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Lmao just asked for a sign and this was the first thing on my feed. Thank you! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:31 PM
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I would drop him for the sex worker thing. But if you don't want to then dtr with him and be straight up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:28 PM
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Why can't these men engage in a normal intelligent conversation? Acting like that isn't alluring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:42 PM
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He says she threatened to shoot him ... yeah just man up and take it at that point, nothing lethal but if she wants to shoot you let her ffs. You ruined her whole face. The least you can do is be shot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:05 AM
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Im calling hella bullshit. We talk at length about what it is to be a HVW and what we bring to the table. Also coffee, park walking isn't a date it's a casual meet up. How hard is it to think of something to do, go to a theme park or an art event. Do something more than just hanging out in different locations. Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:45 AM
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I wish there was a way to have it both ways, but if it came to women like you and their discomfort or education for women interested in going into kink, I'd choose you tbh. It's just the values of fds would be useful to kinky women and nowhere is really promoting women first kink stragites. But we're not the majority and I understand that. I'm sorry about your traumas and I agree porn is a massive problem and kink shouldn't be normalised, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:42 AM
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Everyone looking to go into a dynamic, sub or dom, should be testing their potential partners knowledge and asking for references. It's a shame fds is firm against kink because a lot of it's principles would be useful applied for women who are interested in kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:04 AM
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He's clearly looking for a newbie which is scary, i bet if you tested his knowledge or asked for references he would unmatch immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:18 AM
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He might have standards in what he's looking for? Is he a date for marriage type of guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:37 AM
65

The father in law is a real one tho. Can't believe he left her and her 4 children with $300 and nowhere to go. What a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:41 AM
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The comments on that frustrated pickme in there are ridiculous. They're expecting us to give for nothing in return, again, like always. Date beneath your worth, have your achievements belittled, expect to cook clean and still be sexually available on demand, never have an attitude or complain. And maybe just maybe after you give all of yourself, your youth, your money, your time then a porn sick under achiever will marry you so you're stuck in a life of quiet desperation. A man who asks you to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:47 AM
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He wasn't even trying to go Dutch. Weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:03 AM
19

Yeeesssss, my ex is a fucking scumbag Sweet little 18 year old me supported this 26 year old man who had a child to another woman for a year. He used my phone, took my money, was excited that his bm gave him money to feed his daughter when he watched her (I was so embarrassed I made him give it back an apologise, he didn't pay anything for his child). Anyway my dumb ass gets pregnant, my lucky ass miscarries but gets stuck in bed for a while with a god awful fever / cold just after. He gets anno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:37 AM
7

Maybe but my chances are slim. Men my age all seem to be fake woke porn sick poly stoner libfems or porn sick conservatives who want a mommy bang maid with a silence button. I want to look after my home and family but be valued and loved while I do it. Ive even tried dating below my looks match and while he behaved for longer he eventually showed the same colors as every other man. You think it might be easier to find a nice butch lesbian with an extensive collection of strap ons who wants a rad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:10 AM
71

Oh that poor stupid girl. I just want to hug her dumb ass. Fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:26 AM
77

I'd put money on them breaking up in six months. He's cheated, left for the other woman who isn't a broken door mat and she still wants him back. She needs some help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:58 AM
11

I'm going through the exact same thing right now. I always dreamed of being a housewife, having a garden and chickens, a whole bunch of kids, always looking after my family. That is my dream job and what i always saw as my best future. I'm 24 and just realising it's not going to happen. It's depressing. I dont really have any useful answers or advice. But I know how you feel and I'm here with you on it, a lot of us here probably went through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:58 PM
90

Sis, she's got to go. Idk if you fucked her dad or whatever but posting that publicly is bold. Has anyone else called her out? it's hurting your feelings, you're not overreacting, go with your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:07 PM
7

Men don't care what job you have most of the time, to rich men it really doesn't matter as long as their time isn't interrupted. They probably orient towards artists because they don't see it as work / competition, those women are more available and other artist stereotypes. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be educated but it doesn't really matter what in. It's more a game of luck and being where they are in general. Horse events, upscale bars, business events, charity dinners. Knowing the right …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 01:06 AM
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Men dont care if you get assulted unless they have to deal with it. A mildly broken girl is easier to manipulate and if she has a "reputation" easier to target for more shit. They understand consent and what is and isnt ok. They just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:46 AM
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100% ... i also challenged myself to no fap 2020 (no limp clits? Lmao). It's good for your mental health to take a break every now and then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:43 AM
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They drug them pretty heavy to keep them calm its really sad honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:37 AM
4

Im Australian your choices are booze head bogans or soyboi porn addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:24 AM
4

I get the "I can corrupt you into my naughty world" often, i am a grown woman not a high schooler the only thing naughty about grown stoners is their appalling diets and hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:20 AM
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Sssooooooooo sick of stoners honestly. Spending half your pay on a drug to sit around and watch spongebob is so fucking lame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:33 AM
81

What bugs me the most is pictures with animals they've hunted all bloody and proud. You shot a pig from like fifty feet away or sent your abused dogs to go hunt it for you, why are you so proud of yourself? Also one guy I spoke to didnt even eat the fish he caught, whats even the point then? And the stupid sexual things in their bios on guys who are 4 - 5 / 10 one guy litterally "i drive a beat up ute so your mum will know that I'm CUMMING" what does that even mean? I had to explain to a cis man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 09:20 AM
14

You dont. It is rude and is asking a regular woman to change herself and submit to you not because she chooses to but because that's what you're dangling in order for her to get commitment. You should vet before you date and find a woman whos values already align with yours.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/20 11:50 PM
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That is an awful idea. Sugaring isn't a magic get rich quick scheme . The men will want sex and they'll want it on their time. There is no magical sugar daddy that will just give you thousands and not want anything in return. A man paying for the company of a woman isn't looking for love. Find another hustle before you get hurt. I recommend tutoring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:10 PM
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Yes, money does not equate to morals. Expecting to find someone loaded and otherwise high value will drastically narrow your dating pool. Money can be made over time. As long as he is supporting himself fully and isnt in massive debt then his income shouldn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:47 PM
116

Dick is low value and abundant tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:03 AM
20

Sssiiiisss i needed this reminder today. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:18 PM
15

Yeah zen companies are a massive red flag. In my experience it always means that the company is poorly run and there are two or three work horses barely keeping the place afloat. It's fine to have the zen public face but if a company isn't running with military precision behind the scenes its just going to be trouble. Thats how they make money it's not a place to play sloppy cool guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:41 PM
39

What an unprofessional interview.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:55 PM
12

You can 100% be covered and feminine. But in your case putting safety first and avoiding anything that could possibly cause attention would be the move.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 08:32 AM
8

Probably not an idea to dress feminine at your work, maybe some cute silky lacy pjs too change into when you get home and do your morning stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 08:23 AM
64

Who is fucking that man? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:55 PM
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I fucking hate this too, other women are my sisters I love them I'm not better or different from other women. I am great, but so is everyone else. These "compliments" are low key so dangerous because they divide women and promote that we're all somehow competing with each other. And allow men to coner us with "oh I thought you were different / cool" when we have an emotion or do something they dont like. Also "cute little girl heart" tf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:47 AM
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Men do it all the time knowing we wouldn't be ok with it, why shouldn't we bring the same energy. Go look at r/whereareallthegoodmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:57 PM
6

The absolute state of men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:48 PM
51

No. Never give it up for a low value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:22 AM
128

Lol honestly when will these men learn that asking for an open relationship is basically asking to be a cu*k. Litterally the lowest value woman will still be swamped with options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:26 PM
48

How old is he? In his 20s I'd say go for it honestly, if you live in the city it makes even more sense why he doesn't have a car. Not many people start out with trust funds or can even get great paying jobs right out of school, it takes time to build and life isnt always linear. Money can be made but moral men are near impossible to find tbh. When I started dating my husband he washed cars for a living (he was 30 when we got together), now he has three phds and is looking at retiring in the near…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:18 AM
13

Nah, men should still pay and drinks is a bad idea for a first date (depending on how you do it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:25 AM
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It's like they dont realise that they're responsible for half of the bills and time needed for the child regardless of if you're dating the mother. Single mothers wouldn't have to rely on the state if their deadbeat sperm donors stepped up and took 50% of the costs. Nobody chooses to be in poverty, nobody wants that. If these single mother think the fathers are so unsuitable that they're picking welfare en mass then the problem is with men. Its like they can't think beyond muh money and muh dick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:04 AM
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Seriously, men will never get rid of your nudes ever. I had a male friend and one day we were on his computer and it was litterally files and files neatly organised of ex girlfrends, friends, hookups, and other people we knew irl. Once it's out there its out there forever. Weird, sick and depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:35 PM
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Why wasn't he "radically honest" before he had sex with her 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:44 PM
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Thank the gods she's still young enough to enjoy her 20s and rebuild. A waste of her youth honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:16 AM
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HAVE YOU SEEN THEM BITCH ABOUT MUH TAXES AND WELFARE Wild. Honestly. The only reason single mothers have to be on welfare is their sperm donors have abandoned them and someone needs to help support the children so they dont starve or end up homeless. Child rearing is a two person job, women aren't magic money machines. I swear they want women in a corner either way, there's no winning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:14 AM
15

Yeah I really don't get men on that. Vasectomys are cheap, reversible, dont have as many bad side effects as womens birth control and they can nut worry free after that. Just get crimped, problem solved. These men need to get it together about their half of the responsibility of birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:06 AM
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I don't think anyone would disagree that children need both their parents. In almost every way having two parents who aren't abusive is a massive advantage. Men will never step up, it's easier to sit around in a sad appartment swiping tinder and getting cheeto dust all over their xbox controllers than to actually raise kids. I would argue the cause of most regular divorces can be routed but to men not wanting to pull their weight and commit to their family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:18 AM
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Then. Dont. Overwhelmingly. Abandon. Your. Children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:16 PM
10

I do kink stuff and honestly sometimes it's necessary to kink shame. Having kinks can be fine but when they're born out of pornography addiction they're often insanely dangerous, like anything its a skill that needs to be studied and learnt and porn never shows men that. Kink shaming and shaming in general is important beacuse it can get someone to slow down and think about what they're doing or put it back in the box. Also imo because he choked you without warning or consent that would fall int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:53 PM
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Don't ever put down money on a man who isn't your ltr or husband. Love, these men are hustlers. If they can get a free meal / activity AND pussy they're going to jump at the chance. In all honesty you're acting dick dumb. He makes you pay, he doesn't drive, he misleads you, he ditches you to hang with friends after you make plans and you still think you're over reacting for not wanting to go. He's making zero actual effort. Stop talking to him. Eta: go to your hobby things by yourself and make f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:26 AM
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Obviously run. But also post poems lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:13 AM
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Pornography is not a replacement for human connection, these men are sick. Go fucking hold hands with Agnes from the nursing home, the women his age are just as lonely. Also I'd put money down that he's not watching granny porn, but women the age of his grand kids. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:36 PM
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Wall of text hands power over to the other party. Hit him with a k And bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:57 PM
22

Physical attraction matters. If he's paying your bills, I'd suggest you stop that now so he has to straighten up and lose the weight without him being able to pay his way out of it with money. He's only getting away with manipulating you with money because you let him. Men are smart and have a billion ways to back you into a corner, the best way to dodge it is to be able to support yourself. If you want an equal relationship you need to be on even ground first and then let him pay for extras.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:56 AM
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Could it be that he's too passive and not masculine enough? Has he stopped looking after himself? What are the guys you fantasize about like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:50 AM
5

Nah you're good to go imo. Don't act on it or like become reliant on masturbation alone but otherwise what you get off to is your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:16 AM
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Ok so as I understand it: Blue pill is mainstream ideas on dating (appeals to libfems, normal non internet people) Red pill is more conservative traditional ideas on dating that center on putting men first (appeals to lvm, mgtow, incels, conservatives and a small group of female pick mes known as rpw) Black pill is all hope is lost in the dating realm, "lay down and rot" also male centered (appeals to incels and mgtow) Pink pill is a woman first version of the red pill, it doesn't focus on tradi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:15 AM
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Men are only comfortable with 40% because it means they can still expect the women to do most of the house chores and child rearing. If they could live off you for free with no give back they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 11:54 AM
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Imagine thinking that you're the problem and you need to make the effort to spice things up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:17 AM
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That's like not funny tho? Its a really lame gift / joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:15 AM
38

Keep a planner? Limiting your phone time helps to
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 09:35 PM
72

Translation: Contender 1: I have a ton of bagage from my recent divorce and you're going to have to make all the effort to give me a reason to get off tinder (just like my wife had to do all through our marriage) which I'm definitely using to attempt to hook up with mean "hoes" who won't swipe right on me. Contender 2: I don't have a job hueehuee I wanna bang girls straight out of high school but they aren't interested because I haven't showered in a week and my mom won't let me have girls over,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:36 AM
72

Or just like let her know. How hard is a "sorry for the sporadic texting, I'm playing video games with my friends" text. Grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:30 PM
27

Classic trap. He'll either stand you up or "forget" his wallet. Don't pay for or book anything ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:01 AM
2

Depends if you're being used as a fetish doll or if you're genuinely in control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:50 PM
37

Who does that honestly work on. I'm drier than the middle of Australia rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:47 PM
20

Beholdthegoodmen made me chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 08:50 AM
1

Male littles are cringer than furriers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 07:53 AM
47

I wish we had a sub to reverse r/whereareallthegoodmen tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:46 AM
5

Its about time tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:20 AM
7

Is your name going to be on the deed ect? If not and you break up he'll keep the house no matter how much youd paid on the mortgage. Wouldnt recommend. Also do you really want to marry and have children with a man that cant support himself? Plus if you divorce you'll be up for alimony. Never marry down financially its not worth the risk. Save up and buy your own place, something that is yours and only yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:28 PM
2

You cant force traditional ideals on someone, read the side bar and this isn't a useful perspective for women so im pretty sure you shouldn't have posted it here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/19 11:19 PM
38

The "don't tell me how to do my job" is really troubling. Just ghost him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:54 PM
34

They have their own platforms but surprise surprise its just filled with other couples and no single women lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:49 PM
16

Good! Too many young women fall for that kind of nonsense. its good to say something every time it comes up, stay safe ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:48 PM
45

The entitlement of couples online bitching about not getting laid makes me gag with joy tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:46 PM
50

Yeah and they tend to have very loose understandings of consent. They'll always try to justify things by having the woman co sign it, avoid them at all costs. Its not even worth keeping these couples as friends. This is coming from someone bisexual and into kink. These couples are the biggest predators and imo the most dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:15 PM
124

Pro tip from a bisexual: always dodge couples. They're always looking for an organic sex toy not a real human. Its always drama city. The women in these situations are either doormats or insane and are usually as predatory as their male counterpart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:06 PM
1

I'm not shaming her, I just think you're delusional and aren't giving her anything of value in return for her efforts. If you really like her why would the relationship be limited to fwb and not something serious, or is it not you making that call lol.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 07:49 AM
1

You're a divorced older man who doesn't want to commit or invest. Youre offering nothing in return aside from diminishing looks. She doesn't tell her friends about you and doesn't care who you fuck ... did you read your own writings? You seriously don't offer anything in return and sound low value dispite career success.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 07:30 AM
1

You're a man, your looks have little value. You being good looking does not offer her something of value in return. Ps. Nor does your dick, tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:37 AM
2

Sounds kinda like a shitty deal to put that much work into a fwb
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:30 AM
1

Ok but she's spending money on you, so are you paying for anything or are you just taking up a good woman with no intent on giving something of value back.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:29 AM
2

Ok but what are you doing for her in return?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 06:10 AM
5

I think if you're bith in your late 30s - 40s it should pretty much be a given but if your early to mid 20s its a massive waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 07:58 AM
46

Jesus Christ, being forced to include trans women in litterally every female space is exhausting. I don't care if im a terf, I just want spaces that can actually focus on the experiences and needs of biological women. Trans women have completely different dating strategies, they should organise around their specific needs instead of butting in here. Ffs I'm so over 2019. Also nobody here is like fuck his feelings, it's mostly about making sure you're not being walked over . Is that not what femi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:20 PM
52

Honestly if i was a man larping as a woman on the internet why would i choose to be here instead of selling stolen feet pics on Twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:43 PM
44

He looks like a cannibal ngl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 08:42 AM
17

He's an ex for a reason. Seems a little demeaning and suspect but its your life if you want to. I would be mad as hell tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:24 PM
70

He's not dating her, just fucking. They're not even really hanging out if its like an hour of tv and then straight to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:23 PM
21

Older women don't need men. Its pretty much that simple. He seems nice enough but you know whats nicer? doing whatever you want and not answering to anyone else 🤷‍♀️ if you aren't valuable it's time to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:35 PM
18

My boyfriend belittles me, calls me names and makes me pay to cook and clean for him :( Whatever shall I do? UwU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:53 AM
1

THEIR OWN MOTHERS TF IS WRONG WITH MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:56 AM
7

You gotta disengage, dont even bother with revenge, block him. Period. Dont give him any more of your time. He won't care that he shoved you. At all. He'll pretend to care if it gets him pussy but i doubt he'll lose a second of sleep over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:08 PM
20

DICK IS LOW VALUE AND ABUNDANT. NEVER CHASE YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Sis, best tip i can give to is dont bother trying to fix it, when its done its done, walk away, let him be hurt. Moids are seriously crazy and you're lucky it was a shove and not being beaten to death. Don't put yourself in that position, be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:03 PM
35

With my ex bf I would just straight up remind him he hadn't asked me about my day, it worked maybe 25% of the time before he'd go back to talking about himself. It wasn't like he was speaking about anything important or urgent either. It was like he'd never had an opportunity to speak before. And moids wonder how we know when they're lying, they litterally can't keep their mouths shut and will talk themselves into suspicion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 01:57 PM
4

Honestly, id probably cheat on him to. He sounds so emotionally draining. Hes weilding big bags of trauma, but you cant leave him beacuse child and school and he'll threaten to kill himself. So you're just stuck with this man who has you trapped, financially and mentally with him throwing this back in your face. You can only live in that state for so long before you need a drop of happiness, just an out for a few hours / minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:32 AM
31

Whereareallthegoodmen is a dumpster fire honestly. They're all low value men who are upset real women aren't as convenient as their anime wifus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:58 AM
48

Hear hear! You getting your dick touched is not more important than the safety ans wellbeing of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:58 PM
6

These beta buxs really out here like this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:53 AM
16

Ok so, it sounds like you're really in your head when it comes to sex stuff, I had a similar problem when I was younger and it helped to distract my brain to let my body do its thing, I mostly sung songs in my head and actively focused on relaxing my muscles. Otherwise, you might need to see a doctor if your vagina is having problems streching, assuming appropriate size and wettness, it's not supposed to hurt even if you're going to pound town (cervix slamming is exempt from this statement). Its…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:29 AM
21

Seems like the fastest way to lose half your paycheck in alimony. Women don't need men, unless she's a rpw this tactic will have a judge laughing at him and you day drinking on a beach with a 20 something up and coming model. The best way to win with rp men is to let their own foolishness defeat them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:30 PM
15

Its about the same but different if that makes sense. Both genders come to the table with baggage it's just different types. It's person to person on trustworthiness ect. I've dated pretty evenly between both genders and honestly most people suck but thats just how it be. Tbf tho I'm never worried about being murdered or being decimated by domestic violence (it still happens in same sex relationships but you're normally around the same power level) by women, so there's that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:11 PM
7

You should make some platonic friends anyway. Having strong social ties is a sign of high value and its just good for your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:43 AM
21

Few options You're ugly in the face (unlikely, but easily fixed) You're socially awkward (unlikely) You're aiming too low and intimidating your matches (more likely, negging you to other people so they dont see your value as high and you end up with less options for partners) You're meeting trash guys because you're hunting in the worst places. Bars and OLD isn't ideal for a high quality partner. Try being set up with friends of friends or meeting men at work conventions or high end events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 07:39 AM
12

This guy is really weird overall. What guy wants to take 50 photos of his girlfriend and her friends and then cares what happens to the photos. Like that in itself is so weird. And then the 50 virgin slave thing is kinda amalt. Dominating and oppressing women plus fetishizing virgins is just bread an butter for the average male fantasy. But like you don't say that in front of your partner. The thing about keeping you as a slave is a massive red flag if you've shown no indicators into kink and in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 07:21 AM
25

I've always brought it up by mentioning a documentary I've watched "recently" and that I want a mans opinion. Start off kind of cute, playful / flirty and nonjudgemental to figure out how much porn he watches and what kind (they all lie about this just assume what he says is lower than how much it actually is). Then start asking questions about what he thinks of the pornography industry, how it treats women and how it effects men. Men love to talk, act interested enough and they'll tell you anyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:20 AM
22

My skin is breaking out even looking at that dirty ass pillow omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:09 AM
15

Dead beat dads who leave their pregnant gf/wife are the lowest quality male. I hope his wife enjoys her child support and alimony :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:52 AM
9

Goldie wouldn't give him the time of day now at 75 lol she'd still only be dating high quality men who aren't insecure tossers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:37 AM
22

AMALT. Their monkey brains fetishize youth. Youd be pressed to find a man who wouldn't date an 18 year old if given the chance. If older guys is what you're into go for it, just don't be naive, when you age they will replace you if they can. Its not permanent so make sure you're you're maxing your profit in return, if they're broke it's not worth dealing with their toxic sack of baggage. If you're average or even not "typically attractive" you should still be coming out with no student debt or a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:13 AM
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